CH1 Introduction COM100 in The Real World
CH1 Introduction COM100 in The Real World
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3: VERBAL COMMUNICATION
3.1 : LANGUAGE AND MEANING
3.2 : FUNCTIONS OF LANGUAGE
3.3 : USING WORDS WELL
3.4 : LANGUAGE, SOCIETY, AND CULTURE
4: NONVERBAL COMMUNICATION
4.1 : PRINCIPLES AND FUNCTIONS OF NONVERBAL COMMUNICATION
4.2 : TYPES OF NONVERBAL COMMUNICATION
4.3 : NONVERBAL COMMUNICATION COMPETENCE
4.4 : NONVERBAL COMMUNICATION IN CONTEXT
5: LISTENING
5.1 : UNDERSTANDING HOW AND WHY WE LISTEN
5.2 : BARRIERS TO EFFECTIVE LISTENING
5.3 : IMPROVING LISTENING COMPETENCE
5.4 : LISTENABLE MESSAGES AND EFFECTIVE FEEDBACK
7: COMMUNICATION IN RELATIONSHIPS
7.1 : FOUNDATIONS OF RELATIONSHIPS
7.2 : COMMUNICATION AND FRIENDS
7.3 : COMMUNICATION AND FAMILIES
7.4 : ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS
7.5 : RELATIONSHIPS AT WORK
7.6 : THE DARK SIDE OF RELATIONSHIPS
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8: CULTURE AND COMMUNICATION
8.1 : FOUNDATIONS OF CULTURE AND IDENTITY
8.2 : EXPLORING SPECIFIC CULTURAL IDENTITIES
8.3 : INTERCULTURAL COMMUNICATION
8.4 : INTERCULTURAL COMMUNICATION COMPETENCE
9: PREPARING A SPEECH
9.1 : SELECTING AND NARROWING A TOPIC
9.2 : RESEARCHING AND SUPPORTING YOUR SPEECH
9.3 : ORGANIZING
9.4 : OUTLINING
9.5 : INFORMATIVE SPEECHES
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CHAPTER OVERVIEW
1: INTRODUCTION TO COMMUNICATION STUDIES
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1.1 : Communication - History and Forms
Learning Objectives
Define communication.
Discuss the history of communication from ancient to modern times.
List the five forms of communication.
Distinguish among the five forms of communication.
Review the various career options for students who study communication.
Before we dive into the history of communication, it is important that we have a shared understanding of what we mean by the
word communication. For our purposes in this book, we will define communication as the process of generating meaning by
sending and receiving verbal and nonverbal symbols and signs that are influenced by multiple contexts. This definition builds
on other definitions of communication that have been rephrased and refined over many years. In fact, since the systematic
study of communication began in colleges and universities a little over one hundred years ago, there have been more than 126
published definitions of communication (Dance & Larson, 1976). In order to get a context for how communication has been
conceptualized and studied, let’s look at a history of the field.
Much of the public speaking in ancient Greece took place in courtrooms or in political contexts.
Ancient Greek rhetoricians like Aristotle were followed by Roman orators like Cicero. Cicero contributed to the field of
rhetoric by expanding theories regarding the five canons of rhetoric, which include invention, arrangement, style, delivery, and
memory. Invention refers to the use of evidence and arguments to think about things in new ways and is the most studied of the
five canons. Arrangement refers to the organization of speech, style refers to the use of language, and delivery refers to the
vocal and physical characteristics of a speaker. Memory is the least studied of the five canons and refers to the techniques
employed by speakers of that era to retain and then repeat large amounts of information. The Age of Enlightenment in the
Forms of Communication
Forms of communication vary in terms of participants, channels used, and contexts. The five main forms of communication,
all of which will be explored in much more detail in this book, are intrapersonal, interpersonal, group, public, and mass
communication. This book is designed to introduce you to all these forms of communication. If you find one of these forms
particularly interesting, you may be able to take additional courses that focus specifically on it. You may even be able to devise
a course of study around one of these forms as a communication major. In the following we will discuss the similarities and
differences among each form of communication, including its definition, level of intentionality, goals, and contexts.
Intrapersonal Communication
Intrapersonal communication is communication with oneself using internal vocalization or reflective thinking. Like other
forms of communication, intrapersonal communication is triggered by some internal or external stimulus. We may, for example,
communicate with our self about what we want to eat due to the internal stimulus of hunger, or we may react intrapersonally to
an event we witness. Unlike other forms of communication, intrapersonal communication takes place only inside our heads. The
other forms of communication must be perceived by someone else to count as communication. So what is the point of
intrapersonal communication if no one else even sees it?
Interpersonal Communication
Interpersonal communication is communication between people whose lives mutually influence one another. Interpersonal
communication builds, maintains, and ends our relationships, and we spend more time engaged in interpersonal communication
than the other forms of communication. Interpersonal communication occurs in various contexts and is addressed in subfields of
study within communication studies such as intercultural communication, organizational communication, health
communication, and computer-mediated communication. After all, interpersonal relationships exist in all those contexts.
Interpersonal communication can be planned or unplanned, but since it is interactive, it is usually more structured and
influenced by social expectations than intrapersonal communication. Interpersonal communication is also more goal oriented
than intrapersonal communication and fulfills instrumental and relational needs. In terms of instrumental needs, the goal may
be as minor as greeting someone to fulfill a morning ritual or as major as conveying your desire to be in a committed
relationship with someone. Interpersonal communication meets relational needs by communicating the uniqueness of a specific
relationship. Since this form of communication deals so directly with our personal relationships and is the most common form
of communication, instances of miscommunication and communication conflict most frequently occur here (Dance & Larson,
1972). Couples, bosses and employees, and family members all have to engage in complex interpersonal communication, and it
doesn’t always go well. In order to be a competent interpersonal communicator, you need conflict management skills and
listening skills, among others, to maintain positive relationships.
Group Communication
Group communication is communication among three or more people interacting to achieve a shared goal. You have likely
worked in groups in high school and college, and if you’re like most students, you didn’t enjoy it. Even though it can be
frustrating, group work in an academic setting provides useful experience and preparation for group work in professional
settings. Organizations have been moving toward more team-based work models, and whether we like it or not, groups are an
integral part of people’s lives. Therefore the study of group communication is valuable in many contexts.
Public Communication
Public communication is a sender-focused form of communication in which one person is typically responsible for conveying
information to an audience. Public speaking is something that many people fear, or at least don’t enjoy. But, just like group
communication, public speaking is an important part of our academic, professional, and civic lives. When compared to
interpersonal and group communication, public communication is the most consistently intentional, formal, and goal-oriented
form of communication we have discussed so far.
Public communication, at least in Western societies, is also more sender focused than interpersonal or group communication. It
is precisely this formality and focus on the sender that makes many new and experienced public speakers anxious at the
thought of facing an audience. One way to begin to manage anxiety toward public speaking is to begin to see connections
between public speaking and other forms of communication with which we are more familiar and comfortable. Despite being
formal, public speaking is very similar to the conversations that we have in our daily interactions. For example, although
public speakers don’t necessarily develop individual relationships with audience members, they still have the benefit of being
Mass Communication
Public communication becomes mass communication when it is transmitted to many people through print or electronic media.
Print media such as newspapers and magazines continue to be an important channel for mass communication, although they
have suffered much in the past decade due in part to the rise of electronic media. Television, websites, blogs, and social media
are mass communication channels that you probably engage with regularly. Radio, podcasts, and books are other examples of
mass media. The technology required to send mass communication messages distinguishes it from the other forms of
communication. A certain amount of intentionality goes into transmitting a mass communication message since it usually
requires one or more extra steps to convey the message. This may involve pressing “Enter” to send a Facebook message or
involve an entire crew of camera people, sound engineers, and production assistants to produce a television show. Even though
the messages must be intentionally transmitted through technology, the intentionality and goals of the person actually creating
the message, such as the writer, television host, or talk show guest, vary greatly. The president’s State of the Union address is a
mass communication message that is very formal, goal oriented, and intentional, but a president’s verbal gaffe during a news
interview is not.
Figure: Technological advances such as the printing press, television, and the more recent digital revolution have made mass
communication a prominent feature of our daily lives.. Savannah River Site – Atmospheric Technology – CC BY 2.0.
Mass communication differs from other forms of communication in terms of the personal connection between participants.
Even though creating the illusion of a personal connection is often a goal of those who create mass communication messages,
the relational aspect of interpersonal and group communication isn’t inherent within this form of communication. Unlike
interpersonal, group, and public communication, there is no immediate verbal and nonverbal feedback loop in mass
communication. Of course you could write a letter to the editor of a newspaper or send an e-mail to a television or radio
broadcaster in response to a story, but the immediate feedback available in face-to-face interactions is not present. With new
media technologies like Twitter, blogs, and Facebook, feedback is becoming more immediate. Individuals can now tweet
directly “at” (@) someone and use hashtags (#) to direct feedback to mass communication sources. Many radio and television
hosts and news organizations specifically invite feedback from viewers/listeners via social media and may even share the
feedback on the air.
The technology to mass-produce and distribute communication messages brings with it the power for one voice or a series of
voices to reach and affect many people. This power makes mass communication different from the other levels of
communication. While there is potential for unethical communication at all the other levels, the potential consequences of
“Getting Real”
Key Takeaways
Getting integrated: Communication is a broad field that draws from many academic disciplines. This interdisciplinary
perspective provides useful training and experience for students that can translate into many career fields.
Communication is the process of generating meaning by sending and receiving symbolic cues that are influenced by
multiple contexts.
References
Dance, F. E. X. and Carl E. Larson, The Functions of Human Communication: A Theoretical Approach (New York, NY: Holt,
Reinhart, and Winston, 1976), 23.
Keith, W., “On the Origins of Speech as a Discipline: James A. Winans and Public Speaking as Practical Democracy,”
Rhetoric Society Quarterly 38, no. 3 (2008): 239–58.
McCroskey, J. C., “Communication Competence: The Elusive Construct,” in Competence in Communication: A
Multidisciplinary Approach, ed. Robert N. Bostrom (Beverly Hills, CA: Sage, 1984), 260.
Poe, M. T., A History of Communications: Media and Society from the Evolution of Speech to the Internet (New York, NY:
Cambridge University Press, 2011), 27.
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Communication is a complex process, and it is difficult to determine where or with whom a communication encounter starts
and ends. Models of communication simplify the process by providing a visual representation of the various aspects of a
communication encounter. Some models explain communication in more detail than others, but even the most complex model
still doesn’t recreate what we experience in even a moment of a communication encounter. Models still serve a valuable
purpose for students of communication because they allow us to see specific concepts and steps within the process of
communication, define communication, and apply communication concepts. When you become aware of how communication
functions, you can think more deliberately through your communication encounters, which can help you better prepare for
future communication and learn from your previous communication. The three models of communication we will discuss are
the transmission, interaction, and transaction models.
Although these models of communication differ, they contain some common elements. The first two models we will discuss,
the transmission model and the interaction model, include the following parts: participants, messages, encoding, decoding, and
channels. In communication models, the participants are the senders and/or receivers of messages in a communication
encounter. The message is the verbal or nonverbal content being conveyed from sender to receiver. For example, when you say
“Hello!” to your friend, you are sending a message of greeting that will be received by your friend.
Although models of communication provide a useful blueprint to see how the communication process works, they are not
complex enough to capture what communication is like as it is experienced.
Chris Searle – Blueprint – CC BY-NC-ND 2.0.
Since this model is sender and message focused, responsibility is put on the sender to help ensure the message is successfully
conveyed. This model emphasizes clarity and effectiveness, but it also acknowledges that there are barriers to effective
communication. Noise is anything that interferes with a message being sent between participants in a communication encounter.
Even if a speaker sends a clear message, noise may interfere with a message being accurately received and decoded. The
transmission model of communication accounts for environmental and semantic noise. Environmental noise is any physical
noise present in a communication encounter. Other people talking in a crowded diner could interfere with your ability to
transmit a message and have it successfully decoded. While environmental noise interferes with the transmission of the
message, semantic noise refers to noise that occurs in the encoding and decoding process when participants do not understand
a symbol. To use a technical example, FM antennae can’t decode AM radio signals and vice versa. Likewise, most French
Computer-Mediated Communication
When the first computers were created around World War II and the first e-mails exchanged in the early 1960s, we took the
first steps toward a future filled with computer-mediated communication (CMC) (Thurlow, Lengel, & Tomic, 2004). Those
early steps turned into huge strides in the late 1980s and early 1990s when personal computers started becoming regular
features in offices, classrooms, and homes. I remember getting our first home computer, a Tandy from Radio Shack, in the
early 1990s and then getting our first Internet connection at home in about 1995. I set up my first e-mail account in 1996 and
remember how novel and exciting it was to send and receive e-mails. I wasn’t imagining a time when I would get dozens of
e-mails a day, much less be able to check them on my cell phone! Many of you reading this book probably can’t remember a
time without CMC. If that’s the case, then you’re what some scholars have called “digital natives.” When you take a moment
to think about how, over the past twenty years, CMC has changed the way we teach and learn, communicate at work, stay in
touch with friends, initiate romantic relationships, search for jobs, manage our money, get our news, and participate in our
democracy, it really is amazing to think that all that used to take place without computers. But the increasing use of CMC has
also raised some questions and concerns, even among those of you who are digital natives. Almost half of the students in my
latest communication research class wanted to do their final research projects on something related to social media. Many of
them were interested in studying the effects of CMC on our personal lives and relationships. This desire to study and
question CMC may stem from an anxiety that people have about the seeming loss or devaluing of face-to-face (FtF)
communication. Aside from concerns about the digital cocoons that many of us find ourselves in, CMC has also raised
concerns about privacy, cyberbullying, and lack of civility in online interactions. We will continue to explore many of these
issues in the “Getting Plugged In” feature box included in each chapter, but the following questions will help you begin to
see the influence that CMC has in your daily communication.
1. In a typical day, what types of CMC do you use?
2. What are some ways that CMC reduces stress in your life? What are some ways that CMC increases stress in your life?
Overall, do you think CMC adds to or reduces your stress more?
3. Do you think we, as a society, have less value for FtF communication than we used to? Why or why not?
The interaction model takes physical and psychological context into account. Physical context includes the environmental
factors in a communication encounter. The size, layout, temperature, and lighting of a space influence our communication.
Imagine the different physical contexts in which job interviews take place and how that may affect your communication. I
have had job interviews on a sofa in a comfortable office, sitting around a large conference table, and even once in an
auditorium where I was positioned on the stage facing about twenty potential colleagues seated in the audience. I’ve also been
walked around campus to interview with various people in temperatures below zero degrees. Although I was a little chilly when
I got to each separate interview, it wasn’t too difficult to warm up and go on with the interview. During a job interview in Puerto
Rico, however, walking around outside wearing a suit in near 90-degree temperatures created a sweating situation that wasn’t
pleasant to try to communicate through. Whether it’s the size of the room, the temperature, or other environmental factors, it’s
important to consider the role that physical context plays in our communication.
Psychological context includes the mental and emotional factors in a communication encounter. Stress, anxiety, and emotions
are just some examples of psychological influences that can affect our communication. I recently found out some troubling
news a few hours before a big public presentation. It was challenging to try to communicate because the psychological noise
triggered by the stressful news kept intruding into my other thoughts. Seemingly positive psychological states, like experiencing
the emotion of love, can also affect communication. During the initial stages of a romantic relationship individuals may be so
“love struck” that they don’t see incompatible personality traits or don’t negatively evaluate behaviors they might otherwise
find off-putting. Feedback and context help make the interaction model a more useful illustration of the
The transaction model also includes a more complex understanding of context. The interaction model portrays context as
physical and psychological influences that enhance or impede communication. While these contexts are important, they focus
on message transmission and reception. Since the transaction model of communication views communication as a force that
shapes our realities before and after specific interactions occur, it must account for contextual influences outside of a single
interaction. To do this, the transaction model considers how social, relational, and cultural contexts frame and influence our
communication encounters.
Social context refers to the stated rules or unstated norms that guide communication. As we are socialized into our various
communities, we learn rules and implicitly pick up on norms for communicating. Some common rules that influence social
Key Takeaways
Communication models are not complex enough to truly capture all that takes place in a communication encounter, but
they can help us examine the various steps in the process in order to better understand our communication and the
communication of others.
The transmission model of communication describes communication as a one-way, linear process in which a sender encodes
a message and transmits it through a channel to a receiver who decodes it. The transmission of the message many
Exercises
1. Getting integrated: How might knowing the various components of the communication process help you in your academic
life, your professional life, and your civic life?
2. What communication situations does the transmission model best represent? The interaction model? The transaction
model?
3. Use the transaction model of communication to analyze a recent communication encounter you had. Sketch out the
communication encounter and make sure to label each part of the model (communicators; message; channel; feedback; and
physical, psychological, social, relational, and cultural contexts).
References
Barnlund, D. C., “A Transactional Model of Communication,” in Foundations of Communication Theory, eds. Kenneth K.
Sereno and C. David Mortensen (New York, NY: Harper and Row, 1970), 83–92.
Ellis, R. and Ann McClintock, You Take My Meaning: Theory into Practice in Human Communication (London: Edward
Arnold, 1990), 71.
Schramm, W., The Beginnings of Communication Study in America (Thousand Oaks, CA: Sage, 1997).
Shannon, C. and Warren Weaver, The Mathematical Theory of Communication (Urbana, IL: University of Illinois Press,
1949), 16.
Thurlow, C., Laura Lengel, and Alice Tomic, Computer Mediated Communication: Social Interaction and the Internet
(London: Sage, 2004), 14.
Taking this course will change how you view communication. Most people admit that communication is important, but it’s
often in the back of our minds or viewed as something that “just happens.” Putting communication at the front of your mind
and becoming more aware of how you communicate can be informative and have many positive effects. When I first started
studying communication as an undergraduate, I began seeing the concepts we learned in class in my everyday life. When I
worked in groups, I was able to apply what I had learned about group communication to improve my performance and overall
experience. I also noticed interpersonal concepts and theories as I communicated within various relationships. Whether I was
analyzing mediated messages or considering the ethical implications of a decision before I made it, studying communication
allowed me to see more of what was going on around me, which allowed me to more actively and competently participate in
various communication contexts. In this section, as we learn the principles of communication, I encourage you to take note of
aspects of communication that you haven’t thought about before and begin to apply the principles of communication to various
parts of your life.
Academic
It’s probably not difficult to get you, as students in a communication class, to see the relevance of communication to your
academic lives. At least during this semester, studying communication is important to earn a good grade in the class, right?
Beyond the relevance to your grade in this class, I challenge you to try to make explicit connections between this course and
courses you have taken before and are currently taking. Then, when you leave this class, I want you to connect the content in
future classes back to what you learned here. If you can begin to see these connections now, you can build on the foundational
communication skills you learn in here to become a more competent communicator, which will undoubtedly also benefit you
as a student.
Aside from wanting to earn a good grade in this class, you may also be genuinely interested in becoming a better communicator.
If that’s the case, you are in luck because research shows that even people who have poor communication skills can improve a
wide range of verbal, nonverbal, and interpersonal communication skills by taking introductory communication courses
(Zabava & Wolvin, 1993). Communication skills are also tied to academic success. Poor listening skills were shown to
contribute significantly to failure in a person’s first year of college. Also, students who take a communication course report
more confidence in their communication abilities, and these students have higher grade point averages and are less likely to
drop out of school. Much of what we do in a classroom—whether it is the interpersonal interactions with our classmates and
professor, individual or group presentations, or listening—is discussed in this textbook and can be used to build or add to a
foundation of good communication skills and knowledge that can carry through to other contexts.
Professional
The National Association of Colleges and Employers has found that employers most desire good communication skills in the
college graduates they may hire (National Association of Colleges and Employers, 2010). Desired communication skills vary
from career to career, but again, this textbook provides a foundation onto which you can build communication skills specific to
your major or field of study. Research has shown that introductory communication courses provide important skills necessary
for functioning in entry-level jobs, including listening, writing, motivating/persuading, interpersonal skills, informational
interviewing, and small-group problem solving (DiSalvo, 1980). Interpersonal communication skills are also highly sought after
by potential employers, consistently ranking in the top ten in national surveys (National Association of Colleges and Employers,
2010). Poor listening skills, lack of conciseness, and inability to give constructive feedback have been identified as potential
communication challenges in professional contexts. Employers appreciate good listening skills and the ability to communicate
concisely because efficiency and clarity are often directly tied to productivity and success in terms of profit or task/project
completion. Despite the well-documented need for communication skills in the professional world, many students still resist
taking communication classes. Perhaps people think they already have good communication skills or can improve their skills on
their own. While either of these may be true for some, studying communication can only help. In such a competitive job market,
being able to document that you have received communication instruction and training from communication professionals (the
faculty in your communication department) can give you the edge needed to stand out from other applicants or employees.
Personal
While many students know from personal experience and from the prevalence of communication counseling on television talk
shows and in self-help books that communication forms, maintains, and ends our interpersonal relationships, they do not know
the extent to which that occurs. I am certain that when we get to the interpersonal communication chapters in this textbook that
you will be intrigued and maybe even excited by the relevance and practicality of the concepts and theories discussed there.
My students often remark that they already know from experience much of what’s discussed in the interpersonal unit of the
Civic
The connection between communication and our civic lives is a little more abstract and difficult for students to understand.
Many younger people don’t yet have a conception of a “civic” part of their lives because the academic, professional, and
personal parts of their lives have so much more daily relevance. Civic engagement refers to working to make a difference in our
communities by improving the quality of life of community members; raising awareness about social, cultural, or political
issues; or participating in a wide variety of political and nonpolitical processes (Ehrlich, 2000). The civic part of our lives is
developed through engagement with the decision making that goes on in our society at the small-group, local, state, regional,
national, or international level. Such involvement ranges from serving on a neighborhood advisory board to sending an e-mail
to a US senator. Discussions and decisions that affect our communities happen around us all the time, but it takes time and effort
to become a part of that process. Doing so, however, allows us to become a part of groups or causes that are meaningful to us,
which enables us to work for the common good. This type of civic engagement is crucial to the functioning of a democratic
society.
Voting is one way to stay civically engaged, but you can also participate in decision making in nonpolitical contexts.
Physical Needs
Physical needs include needs that keep our bodies and minds functioning. Communication, which we most often associate
with our brain, mouth, eyes, and ears, actually has many more connections to and effects on our physical body and well-being.
At the most basic level, communication can alert others that our physical needs are not being met. Even babies cry when they
are hungry or sick to alert their caregiver of these physical needs. Asking a friend if you can stay at their house because you
got evicted or kicked out of your own place will help you meet your physical need for shelter. There are also strong ties between
the social function of communication and our physical and psychological health. Human beings are social creatures, which
makes communication important for our survival. In fact, prolonged isolation has been shown to severely damage a human
(Williams & Zadro, 2001). Aside from surviving, communication skills can also help us thrive. People with good interpersonal
communication skills are better able to adapt to stress and have less depression and anxiety (Hargie, 2011). Communication can
also be therapeutic, which can lessen or prevent physical problems. A research study found that spouses of suicide or
accidental death victims who did not communicate about the death with their friends were more likely to have health problems
such as weight change and headaches than those who did talk with friends (Greene, Derlega, & Mathews, 2006). Satisfying
physical needs is essential for our physical functioning and survival. But, in order to socially function and thrive, we must also
meet instrumental, relational, and identity needs.
Instrumental Needs
Instrumental needs include needs that help us get things done in our day-to-day lives and achieve short- and long-term goals.
We all have short- and long-term goals that we work on every day. Fulfilling these goals is an ongoing communicative task,
which means we spend much of our time communicating for instrumental needs. Some common instrumental needs include
influencing others, getting information we need, or getting support (Burleson, Metts, & Kirch, 2000). In short, communication
that meets our instrumental needs helps us “get things done.”
Communicating for instrumental needs helps us get things done. Think about how much instrumental communication is
required to build a house.
Sandia Labs – Habitat for Humanity Build-A-Thon – CC BY-NC-ND 2.0.
Relational Needs
Relational needs include needs that help us maintain social bonds and interpersonal relationships. Communicating to fill our
instrumental needs helps us function on many levels, but communicating for relational needs helps us achieve the social relating
that is an essential part of being human. Communication meets our relational needs by giving us a tool through which to
develop, maintain, and end relationships. In order to develop a relationship, we may use nonverbal communication to assess
whether someone is interested in talking to us or not, then use verbal communication to strike up a conversation. Then, through
the mutual process of self-disclosure, a relationship forms over time. Once formed, we need to maintain a relationship, so we
use communication to express our continued liking of someone. We can verbally say things like “You’re such a great friend” or
engage in behaviors that communicate our investment in the relationship, like organizing a birthday party. Although our
relationships vary in terms of closeness and intimacy, all individuals have relational needs and all relationships require
maintenance. Finally, communication or the lack of it helps us end relationships. We may communicate our deteriorating
commitment to a relationship by avoiding communication with someone, verbally criticizing him or her, or explicitly ending a
relationship. From spending time together, to checking in with relational partners by text, social media, or face-to-face, to
celebrating accomplishments, to providing support during difficult times, communication forms the building blocks of our
relationships. Communicating for relational needs isn’t always positive though. Some people’s “relational needs” are negative,
unethical, or even illegal. Although we may feel the “need” to be passive aggressive or controlling, these communicative
patterns are not positive and can hurt our relationships. In Chapter 6 “Interpersonal Communication Processes” and Chapter 7
“Communication in Relationships”, we will explore the “dark side” of communication in more detail.
Identity Needs
Identity needs include our need to present ourselves to others and be thought of in particular and desired ways. What adjectives
would you use to describe yourself? Are you funny, smart, loyal, or quirky? Your answer isn’t just based on who you think you
are, since much of how we think of ourselves is based on our communication with other people. Our identity changes as we
progress through life, but communication is the primary means of establishing our identity and fulfilling our identity needs.
Communication allows us to present ourselves to others in particular ways. Just as many companies, celebrities,
Communication Is a Process
Communication is a process that involves an interchange of verbal and/or nonverbal messages within a continuous and dynamic
sequence of events (Hargie, 2011). When we refer to communication as a process, we imply that it doesn’t have a distinct
beginning and end or follow a predetermined sequence of events. It can be difficult to trace the origin of a communication
encounter, since communication doesn’t always follow a neat and discernible format, which makes studying communication
interactions or phenomena difficult. Any time we pull one part of the process out for study or closer examination, we artificially
“freeze” the process in order to examine it, which is not something that is possible when communicating in real life. But
sometimes scholars want to isolate a particular stage in the process in order to gain insight by studying, for example, feedback
or eye contact. Doing that changes the very process itself, and by the time you have examined a particular stage or component
of the process, the entire process may have changed. These snapshots are useful for scholarly interrogation of the
communication process, and they can also help us evaluate our own communication practices, troubleshoot a problematic
encounter we had, or slow things down to account for various contexts before we engage in communication (Dance & Larson,
1976).
We have already learned, in the transaction model of communication, that we communicate using multiple channels and send
and receive messages simultaneously. There are also messages and other stimuli around us that we never actually perceive
because we can only attend to so much information at one time. The dynamic nature of communication allows us to examine
some principles of communication that are related to its processual nature. Next, we will learn that communication messages
vary in terms of their level of conscious thought and intention, communication is irreversible, and communication is
unrepeatable.
Since communication is such a dynamic process, it is difficult to determine where communication begins and ends.
Mathieu Plourde – Instructor to Groups – CC BY 2.0.
Some scholars have put forth definitions of communication stating that messages must be intended for others to perceive them
in order for a message to “count” as communication. This narrow definition only includes messages that are tailored or at least
targeted to a particular person or group and excludes any communication that is involuntary (Dance & Larson, 1976). Since
intrapersonal communication happens in our heads and isn’t intended for others to perceive, it wouldn’t be considered
communication. But imagine the following scenario: You and I are riding on a bus and you are sitting across from me. As I sit
Rules and norms guide much of our communication. Think of all the unspoken norms for behavior in a crowded elevator.
Dangerismycat – crowded elevator – CC BY-NC-ND 2.0.
The term phatic communion derives from the Greek word phatos, which means “spoken,” and the word communion, which
means “connection or bond.” As we discussed earlier, communication helps us meet our relational needs. In addition to finding
communion through food or religion, we also find communion through our words. But the degree to which and in what
circumstances we engage in phatic communion is also influenced by norms and rules. Generally, US Americans find silence in
social interactions awkward, which is one sociocultural norm that leads to phatic communion, because we fill the silence with
pointless words to meet the social norm. It is also a norm to greet people when you encounter them, especially if you know
them. We all know not to unload our physical and mental burdens on the person who asks, “How are you?” or go through our
“to do” list with the person who asks, “What’s up?” Instead, we conform to social norms through this routine type of verbal
exchange.
Phatic communion, like most aspects of communication we will learn about, is culturally relative as well. While most cultures
engage in phatic communion, the topics of and occasions for phatic communion vary. Scripts for greetings in the United States
are common, but scripts for leaving may be more common in another culture. Asking about someone’s well-being may be
acceptable phatic communion in one culture, and asking about the health of someone’s family may be more common in another.
Key Takeaways
Getting integrated: Increasing your knowledge of communication and improving your communication skills can positively
affect your academic, professional, personal, and civic lives.
In terms of academics, research shows that students who study communication and improve their communication skills are
less likely to drop out of school and are more likely to have high grade point averages.
Professionally, employers desire employees with good communication skills, and employees who have good listening skills
are more likely to get promoted.
Personally, communication skills help us maintain satisfying relationships.
Communication helps us with civic engagement and allows us to participate in and contribute to our communities.
Communication meets our physical needs by helping us maintain physical and psychological well-being; our instrumental
needs by helping us achieve short- and long-term goals; our relational needs by helping us initiate, maintain, and terminate
relationships; and our identity needs by allowing us to present ourselves to others in particular ways.
Communication is a process that includes messages that vary in terms of conscious thought and intention. Communication
is also irreversible and unrepeatable.
Communication is guided by culture and context.
We learn to communicate using systems that vary based on culture and language.
Rules and norms influence the routines and rituals within our communication.
Communication ethics varies by culture and context and involves the negotiation of and reflection on our actions regarding
what we think is right and wrong.
Exercises
1. Getting integrated: The concepts of integrative learning and communication ethics are introduced in this section. How do
you see communication ethics playing a role in academic, professional, personal, and civic aspects of your life?
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Communication competence has become a focus in higher education over the past couple of decades as educational policy
makers and advocates have stressed a “back to basics” mentality (McCroskey, 1984). The ability to communicate effectively is
often included as a primary undergraduate learning goal along with other key skills like writing, critical thinking, and problem
solving. You likely haven’t heard professors or university administrators use the term communication competence, but as we
learn more about it in this section, I am sure you will see how communication competence can benefit you in many aspects of
your life. Since this book focuses on communication in the real world, strategies for developing communication competence are
not only limited to this section. A “Getting Competent” feature box is included in each chapter, specifically to help you develop
communication competence.
Defining Competence
We have already defined communication, and you probably know that to be competent at something means you know what
you’re doing. When we combine these terms, we get the following definition: communication competence refers to the
knowledge of effective and appropriate communication patterns and the ability to use and adapt that knowledge in various
contexts (Cooley & Roach, 1984). To better understand this definition, let’s break apart its components.
Developing communication competence can bring many rewards, but it also requires time and effort.
The first part of the definition we will unpack deals with knowledge. The cognitive elements of competence include knowing
how to do something and understanding why things are done the way they are (Hargie, 2011). People can develop cognitive
competence by observing and evaluating the actions of others. Cognitive competence can also be developed through instruction.
Since you are currently taking a communication class, I encourage you to try to observe the communication concepts you are
learning in the communication practices of others and yourself. This will help bring the concepts to life and also help you
evaluate how communication in the real world matches up with communication concepts. As you build a repertoire of
communication knowledge based on your experiential and classroom knowledge, you will also be developing behavioral
competence.
The second part of the definition of communication competence that we will unpack is the ability to use. Individual factors
affect our ability to do anything. Not everyone has the same athletic, musical, or intellectual ability. At the individual level, a
person’s physiological and psychological characteristics affect competence. In terms of physiology, age, maturity, and ability
Developing Competence
Knowing the dimensions of competence is an important first step toward developing competence. Everyone reading this book
already has some experience with and knowledge about communication. After all, you’ve spent many years explicitly and
implicitly learning to communicate. For example, we are explicitly taught the verbal codes we use to communicate. On the
other hand, although there are numerous rules and norms associated with nonverbal communication, we rarely receive explicit
instruction on how to do it. Instead, we learn by observing others and through trial and error with our own nonverbal
communication. Competence obviously involves verbal and nonverbal elements, but it also applies to many situations and
contexts. Communication competence is needed in order to understand communication ethics, to develop cultural awareness, to
use computer-mediated communication, and to think critically. Competence involves knowledge, motivation, and skills. It’s not
enough to know what good communication consists of; you must also have the motivation to reflect on and better your
communication and the skills needed to do so.
In regards to competence, we all have areas where we are skilled and areas where we have deficiencies. In most cases, we can
consciously decide to work on our deficiencies, which may take considerable effort. There are multiple stages of competence
that I challenge you to assess as you communicate in your daily life: unconscious incompetence, conscious incompetence,
Becoming more mindful of your communication and the communication of others can contribute to your communication
competence.
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“Getting Competent”
Figure: Communication apprehension and public speaking anxiety are common but can be managed productively.
Ana C. – day 339 butterflies – CC BY-NC-ND 2.0.
Decades of research conducted by communication scholars shows that communication apprehension is common among college
students (Priem & Solomon, 2009). Communication apprehension (CA) is fear or anxiety experienced by a person due to actual
or imagined communication with another person or persons. CA includes multiple forms of communication, not just public
speaking. Of college students, 15 to 20 percent experience high trait CA, meaning they are generally anxious about
communication. Furthermore, 70 percent of college students experience some trait CA, which means that addressing
communication anxiety in a class like the one you’re taking now stands to benefit the majority of students (Priem & Solomon,
2009). Public speaking anxiety is type of CA that produces physiological, cognitive, and behavioral reactions in people when
faced with a real or imagined presentation (Bodie, 2010). Research on public speaking anxiety has focused on three key ways to
address this common issue: systematic desensitization, cognitive restructuring, and skills training (Bodie, 2010).
Communication departments are typically the only departments that address communication apprehension explicitly, which is
important as CA is “related to negative academic consequences such as negative attitudes toward school, lower over-all
classroom achievement, lower final course grades, and higher college attrition rates” (Allen, Hunter, & Donohue, 2009).
Additionally, CA can lead others to make assumptions about your communication competence that may be unfavorable. Even
if you are intelligent, prepared, and motivated, CA and public speaking anxiety can detract from your communication and lead
others to perceive you in ways you did not intend. CA is a common issue faced by many people, so you are not alone. We will
learn more about speaking anxiety in Chapter 12 “Public Speaking in Various Contexts”. While you should feel free to read
ahead to that chapter, you can also manage your anxiety by following some of the following tips.
Top Ten Ways to Reduce Speaking Anxiety
1. Remember, you are not alone. Public speaking anxiety is common, so don’t ignore it—confront it.
2. You can’t literally “die of embarrassment.” Audiences are forgiving and understanding.
3. It always feels worse than it looks.
4. Take deep breaths. It releases endorphins, which naturally fight the adrenaline that causes anxiety.
5. Look the part. Dress professionally to enhance confidence.
6. Channel your nervousness into positive energy and motivation.
7. Start your outline and research early. Better information = higher confidence.
8. Practice and get feedback from a trusted source. (Don’t just practice for your cat.)
9. Visualize success through positive thinking.
10. Prepare, prepare, prepare! Practice is a speaker’s best friend.
Exercises
1. Getting integrated: Evaluate your speaking and listening competencies based on the list generated by the NCA. Out of the
skills listed, which ones are you more competent in and less competent in? Which skill will be most useful for you in
academic contexts? Professional contexts? Personal contexts? Civic contexts?
2. Think of a person you know who you think possesses a high level of communication competence. What makes you think
this? What communication characteristics do they have that you might want to have yourself?
3. What anxieties do you have regarding communication and/or public speaking? Since communication and speaking are a
necessary part of life, identify some strategies you can use to manage those anxieties.
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