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Blue Valentine

This document provides a film analysis of the movie Blue Valentine which depicts the dysfunctional marriage of Dean and Cindy as it fails over time. It discusses theories of love, attachment styles, equity in relationships, and models of relationship dissolution. Key points analyzed include Dean and Cindy's fearful-avoidant and dismissing attachment styles, inequities that develop over time, and the intrapsychic, dyadic, social, and grave dressing phases of their relationship dissolution.

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Blue Valentine

This document provides a film analysis of the movie Blue Valentine which depicts the dysfunctional marriage of Dean and Cindy as it fails over time. It discusses theories of love, attachment styles, equity in relationships, and models of relationship dissolution. Key points analyzed include Dean and Cindy's fearful-avoidant and dismissing attachment styles, inequities that develop over time, and the intrapsychic, dyadic, social, and grave dressing phases of their relationship dissolution.

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WHERE DID

THE LOVE
GO?
BLUE VALENTINE
A ROMANCE: RAW & UNHINGED

FILM ANALYSIS BY:


NATRI BAID
YASHIKA YADAV
HIMANSHI
APEKSHA SUKHEJA
BRIEF
PAST
LOVE & ILLUSION
ATTACHMENT STYLE
NEED TO AFFILIATE
Table of IDEAL PARTNER
DIMENSION
Contents EQUITY THEORY
STERNBERGS TRIANGLE
OF LOVE
WHEEL THEORY OF LOVE
RELATIONSHIP
DISSOLUTION MODEL
BRIEF

DEAN AND CINDY'S


DYSFUNCTIONAL MARRIAGE
FAILS TO STAND THE TEST OF
TIME AS THEY TRY TO RAISE
THEIR YOUNG DAUGHTER
AND REKINDLE THEIR
RELATIONSHIP.
HURT PEOPLE, HURT PEOPLE.
HOW PARENT'S RELATIONSHIP NAVIGATE RELATIONSHIPS.

CINDY
ABB U S IV E DA D DEAN
ABSENT DAD
PA SS IV E M O M ABANDONMENT
TOXIC R O M AN TIC ISSUES
RE L AT I O NS H IP MAN CHILD
LOVE &
ILLUSION
WERE THEY MEANT TO BE?
The 3 factor theory stresses that
love depends on past learning of
the concept of love, the presence of
someone to love, and arousal. Even
if these components are necessary,
they are not sufficient for love to
occur.
ATTACHMENT STYLES

DEAN CINDY
FEARFUL AVOIDANT DISMISSING
NEED TO AFFILIATE
EMOTIONAL
VULNERABILITY
UNPLANNED
PREGNANCY
UNPROMPTED
ROMANCE
THE GIANT PROPOSAL
IDEAL PARTNER DIMENSION

WARMTH & VITALITY & STATUS &


TRUSTWORTHYNESS ATTRACTIVENESS RESOURCES
IS LOVE ENOUGH?
SOCIAL SUPPORT SOCIAL EXCHANGE SOCIAL NORMS LAW OF
NETWORK ATTRACTION
ISOLATION & COST REWARD MUTUAL ATTITUDE DIS-
ANXIETY RATIO OBLIGATION SIMILARITY
SOCIAL COMPARISON COGNITIVE
DEPREVATION LEVEL DISSONANCE
THEORY
EQUITY
CINDY'S COST
10% THEORY
DEAN'S BENEFIT
25%
BY J. STACY ADAMS (1965)

DEAN'S BENEFIT CINDY'S COST


DEAN'S COST CINDY'S BENEFIT
CINDY'S BENEFIT
40%

DEAN'S COST
25%
STERNBERG'S
TRIANGLE OF PASSION

LOVE
ROMANTIC LOVE
COMMITMENT INTIMACY

EMPTY LOVE
WHEEL THEORY
OF LOVE
IRA REISS
RAPPORT
SELF RELEVATION
MUTUAL DEPENDENCY
PERSONALITY NEED FULFILLMENT
RELATIONSHIP
DISSOLUTION INTRA PSYCHIC PHASE
"OH COME ON DEAN, I DONT NEED TO CLEAN
MODEL UP AFTER TWO KIDS."
DYADIC PHASE
BY STEVE DUCK "I GOT SO OUT OF LOVE WITH YOU. I FEEL
NOTHING. NOTHING."
(1982) SOCIAL PHASE
"OH MY GOD! WHAT DID YOU DO?"
GRAVE DRESSING PHASE
"GO BACK TO YOUR MOM."
THE (UN)FATHERING
OF A MAN CHILD

THE CHARACTER MIGHT HAVE BECOME


A DISSAPOINTMENT AS A HUSBAND
BUT HIS SCREEN PLAY AS A FATHER IS
HEART WARMING. DEAN EMBRACING
FRANKIE AS HIS OWN IS A SUBTLE
REFLECTION OF THE CHARACTER.
Thank you!
RAWNESS OF A TRULY
MEAN SPIRITED MARRAIGE

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