Module 2 Knowing Oneself
Module 2 Knowing Oneself
TABLE OF CONTENTS
UNIT 1:
SELF DEVELOPMENT
2: KNOWING ONESELF
INTRODUCTION
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Have you ever asked yourself this question: Who am I? If you have, you are not alone.
Adolescence is the time when young people start to ask questions about themselves, about
their future, and even about their religious and political beliefs. During the adolescent stage
of development, the young person grapples with his or her identity. This may seem very
philosophical to some, but to know oneself is the first step in personal development.
LEARNING OUTCOMES
It is believed that the words “Know Thyself,” which were written at the entry of the
oracle at Delphi by seven Greek philosophers, statesmen, and lawgivers, became the
cornerstone of Western philosophy. Socrates, who came decades after two words were
scripted at Delphi, said that it for him to investigate other unimportant things when he has
not known his self yet. For Socrates, the most important to pursue was self-knowledge, and
admitting one's ignorance is the beginning of true knowledge.
Before we discuss how to know one’s self, we have to define first Knowing
the concept of the “Self.” In philosophical terms, it is the being, which is the others is
source of a person's consciousness. It is the agent responsible for an individual's intelligence;
thoughts and actions. Based on this definition, the “Self” is an intangible knowing
entity that directs a person's thoughts and actions. It is outside the physical yourself is
realm of the person. true wisdom.
Mastering
The “Self” is identified in various contexts, such as in psychology, others is
sociology, or religion. The “Self” is the essence of a person: his thoughts, strength,
feelings and actions, experiences, beliefs, values, principles, and mastering
relationships. The “Self” includes a person’s life purpose, meaning, and yourself is
aspirations. true power.
Since our approach to personal development is holistic, we will integrate the various
definitions of “Self” from the philosophical, spiritual, and psychological realms, but we will
focus and give more emphasis on its psychological definition.
If the “Self” is defined as the cognitive and affective representation of one’s identity, it
is then defined in terms of human characteristics such as behavior and thought.
II. Personality
There is an abundant definition of what personality is. In Module 1, we defined it
based on a common definition provided by dictionary. This time, we will define personality
in the same way psychologists define it.
For example, a person who is considered as “friendly” would, at any given situation,
be outgoing and easily liked by others or is someone who is not perceived as threatening or
aggressive. This person’s uniqueness is manifested in his own brand of showing friendliness:
a sunny disposition, a readiness to give advice when needed, and generosity to those in need.
The uniqueness is shown by how a person’s physical and behavioral traits are combined to
depict friendliness. In terms of being consistent, as an adolescent, this friendly individual
develops friendships among his peers. Upon entering adulthood, this same friendly
individual is perceived by co-workers and peers to still be his old friendly self as when he was
in high school. This consistency through time and the unique manner by which thoughts,
feelings, and behavior are expressed, defines personality. However, there will always be
exceptions to these two components. Consistency is more likely to mean most of the time but
not all the time. A friendly person can get nasty or aggressive when provoked or cornered.
Sickness can oftentimes change the consistency of an individual’s personality. An example of
this is Alzheimer's disease. Studies have shown that Alzheimer's disease changes three of the
Big Five dimensions of personality (anxiety, extraversion, and openness) (Costa and McRae
1992).
Gordon Allport defines personality as “a pattern of habits, attitudes, and traits that
determine an individual's characteristics, behavior, and traits” (Sanchez, Abad, and Jao 2012). This
definition does not emphasize uniqueness and consistency, but nevertheless still captures
aspects of personality.
Psychologists Costa and McRae (1992) developed a categorized scheme that described
personality. Based on their research, they discovered the existence of five universal and
widely agreed upon dimensions of personality. They called it the Big Five or Five-Factor Model.
These dimensions or tendencies are: openness to experience, conscientiousness, extraversion,
agreeableness, and neuroticism. For it to be easily remembered, it uses the acronym OCEAN.
These dimensions may be described using its most positive traits:
The Big Five Traits Taxonomy The Five Factor Model by Costa
by D.W. Fiske (199) and McRae (1992)
V. Measuring Personality
There are different ways to measure personality. One is by observing people's
behavior. This is quite limited as other people may not be able to observe all aspects of
personality such as loneliness, which is internal and is observed by others very subjectively.
Personality can be measured using different kinds of tests like the Rorschach Inkblot
Test, the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI), and the Keirsey Temperament Sorter. Many
online tests are provided for free, particularly for those who seek to find out their personality
to establish their career paths. One example of this is the Alberta Learning Information Service
of the Government of Alberta in Canada.
Are you ready to test what you have learned? It’s simple. Just discuss each question below
with an honest answer. LET’S DO THIS!
ELABORATE. (5 points)
3. Of the Big Five dimensions or tendencies of personality, which ones are you most
inclined to have? Give some real-life situations that you went through to affirm these
choices.
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4. Explain the quotation by Oscar Wilde: “To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong
romance.”
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5. How does knowing oneself better make a person accept his strengths and limitations,
and improve the way he deals with others?
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6. Write down how you define yourself in terms of philosophy, psychology, and
spirituality. What are the differences among the three?
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REFLECTION PAPER #2
Write on your journal your what you have discovered and understood about your
“Self,” your personality and personality traits, and your reflection regarding the question,
“Who am I??” (10 points)
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SUMMARY
1. The "Self” can be defined in different ways: philosophically, psychologically,
spiritually, and also in thoughts, actions, or behavior.
2. Personality is the unique and enduring set of behaviors, feelings, thoughts,
motives, and attitudes that characterize a person.
3. Both nature (heredity or genetic) and nurture (environment) influence the
development of one's personality.
4. There are different personality theories and one of them is the Big Five or Five-
Factor Model by Costa and McRae, which defines five dimensions of personality:
Openness to experience, Conscientiousness, Extraversion, Agreeableness, and
Neuroticism.
5. Personality traits can be measured using different personality tests such as the
Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI).
REFERENCES
Books:
Santos, Ricardo Rubio. Personal Development. First Edition. Rex Printing Company. Quezon
City. February 2016.
Feist, Gregory J. and Erika L. Rosenberg. 2012. Psychology: Perspective and Connections, 2nd
Edition, International Edition. New York, NY, USA: McGraw-Hill.
McCrae, R. R., & Costa, P. T.-, Jr. 1996. Toward a New Generation of Personality Theories:
Theoretical Contexts for the Five-Factor Model. In J. S. Wiggins (Ed.), The five-factor Model of
Personality: Theoretical Perspectives (pp. 51-87). New York: Guilford.
Sanchez, Custodiosa A., Paz F. Abad, and Loreto V. Jao. 2002, 1998, 1989, 1982. Genera!
Psychology, 4th Edition. Manila, Philippines: Rex Book Store, Inc.
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