Why Hasn
Why Hasn
The legacy of Getting to Yes operates on several different levels. It functions on the ideational or
theoretical level; that is, what ideas did it give us? It also functions on the practical level: do we achieve
more consensual and better-executed settlements than we used to? Is this a good model of negotiation
to teach people? Finally, the book’s legacy has a moral dimension: should we continue to try to “get to
yes” with those whom we have profound disagreements with or whom we are trying to make something
new with?
At the level of ideas, Getting to Yes was nothing short of a plea for a major cultural change. To focus on
underlying interests and to approach another party in a negotiation with the idea of forging a joint
agreement that would meet the needs of both parties was — and, I am afraid, still is —countercultural
to the way in which most parties approach negotiations.
Rather than thinking of the other side as someone to be bested, Getting to Yes asks us to think about
seeing the other party as a partner in creating new entities, new or better relationships, or new
resources, even if we are in disagreement (or worse, engaged in litigation or war) with the other
party.
In the context of a negotiation, there is often little objective about the choice of a particular referent
point, although the point that we choose can significantly influence the attractiveness of various
outcomes.
Simply posing problems as choices among potential gains rather than choices among potential losses
can significantly influence the negotiator’s preferences for specific outcomes
The framing effect suggests that to induce concessionary behavior from an opponent, a negotiator
should always create anchors or emphasize referents that lead the opposition to a positive frame and
couch the negotiation in terms of what the other side has to gain
Chapter 3: the third foundation: authoritative standards and norms
The first duty of a wise advocate is to convince his opponent that he understands their arguments
Persuasive arguments about standards, norms, positioning themes and authority are the bread and
butter of negotiation. They illustrate the fairness and consistency matter.
When stakes are high enough, people do not make a concession just because they are caught making an
inconsistent statement or realize that the other side has a good argument. They make it because they
decide, after careful consideration, that it is within their reach and helps them advance towards their
goal.
A reasoned argument supporting your position is an admission ticket that establishes your request as
legitimate and gets the other side’s attention. But argument alone is not always sufficient to achieve
bargaining success. Your request should also be within the zone of other party’s interests and your
manner of communicating the standard must be persuasive
The problem is that women earn on average, around 80 cents to a man’s dollar
The legislation: at least 5 states and a growing number of jurisdictions have enacted laws prohibiting
employers from asking job candidates about their past salaries
Penalties: Fines for violations vary. Delaware’s law imposes civil penalties of up to $ 10,000 for each
violation; infractions of New York City’s law could result in penalties of up to $250,000.
The reaction: Nearly two-thirds of chief human resource officers and other corporate executives
surveyed believe the bans will do little to improve pay equity.
Instead of looking at what an applicant is earning, it is important to pay attention to the skill set the
person has and how relevant it is to the job being filled.
When implementing a ban on asking job candidates about their salaries, it is important to: