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36 Openers + Dating Guide

This document provides pickup lines and strategies for approaching women in different situations, such as at a bar, party, gym, or park. It encourages the reader to make direct, confident approaches within 3 seconds of seeing an attractive woman. The lines emphasize introducing yourself and giving compliments on her looks. The document also stresses maintaining eye contact, strong body language, and an attitude that you are a fun, attractive person there to have a good time.

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36 Openers + Dating Guide

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36

OPENERS
FOR ANY
SITUATION
STREET | BAR/LOUNGE | PARTY | NIGHTCLUB | CAFE
+MORE

YOU GET ONE OPPORTUNITY TO APPROACH THAT GIRL

AND OPEN HER. THE BEST CHANCE OF GAINING HER
NUMBER IS TO USE THESE TRIED AND TESTED LINES.

@TINDERPLATINUM
MUST READ
When approaching any woman, here's what you need to
know:

Don't think twice about going up to a beautiful woman

as soon as you see her. Go up to her and introduce
yourself, even if she is talking, running, sitting, or even
with a friend.

Trust yourself; your mind will generate the appropriate

phrases to use at that precise moment.

Here are some essential guidelines you need to be

aware of before I tell you exactly what to say during the
open:

maintain strong eye contact but avoid staring

Maintaining confident body language
Project a firm, strong voice from your chest.
Assume attraction

What you say matters much less than you might think if
you master the three abovementioned points.

Even if you say some of the most ridiculous things

possible, she will still laugh with you and start to like
you.

@TINDERPLATINUM
Looks
Looks are the first step. If you're truly clapped (super
fat as in above 25% bodyfat with no muscle), then you
need to amp them up. This is because you have to meet
a minimum attractiveness threshold for a girl to find you
attractive (usually not that high, around a year of
consistent lifting for most women including hot girls).
Therefore, you will get instantly destroyed a lot if your
looks are trash.

Don't focus on stuff you can't feasibly change (These

factors matter too much anyway e.g face shape, height,
race) and focus instead on shit that you can change, like
muscle mass + style.

The hotter you are, the easier the approach will be

however your mindset still needs to be in the right place.
As I said, looks are getting the interview. If your looks
are trash (below her attractiveness threshold), you're
fighting an extremely uphill battle.

Mindset
Your mindset should be that you are a fun and attractive
guy and that you're here to have fun and screen for
interested girls. Your mindset shouldn't be "Let me use
my silver tongue to manipulate this girl into sleeping
with me so I can get more lays". That's needy and
pathetic and girls can sense that shit.

In other words, you're the prize

@TINDERPLATINUM
Approach anxiety
Approach anxiety is a real thing. You just have to put in
the reps and understand that nothing bad will happen
from rejection.

The people judging you from the sidelines? They don't

have the strength and balls that you do, and they'll
probably forget you in 2 hours.

Girls also won't #Metoo you if you just go up and give

them a genuine compliment because girls get cold
approached super often, especially if they're hot, so
they'll let you down easy.

I've done over 7,000 approaches, and the worst thing

that ever happened was a girl telling me to "fuck off" my
brother told me this as a child on the daily

a quick tip, when you see her approach her immediately

within 3 seconds. That's the 3 second rule, so you don't
let the anxiety and fear build-up

As promised, here are the lines; pronounce them firmly

while sounding conversational and natural.

@TINDERPLATINUM
Street (Daytime)
Direct: “Hey, I saw you standing over here and I had to come say hi.
You're really cute. What’s your name?”

Indirect: “Excuse me, can you tell me how to get to Panera from here?”

Observational: (to a woman sitting on a bench listening to her MP3 Player)

“Hey, what’s up? What you listening to? Anything good?”

Street (Nighttime)
Direct: “Hey, sweetheart! You look absolutely sexy tonight! Where are you
heading? You should come to the bar with me and my friends.”

Indirect: “Excuse me, do you know where there's a good bar around here?
I’m meeting up with my friend in a little while, and I want to go
somewhere good.”

Observational: “Hey, where are you heading to all dolled up like that? Is
there a good lounge or club around here I don’t know about?”

Bar/Lounge
Direct: “Hey sweetheart, what’s your name? You look absolutely beautiful
tonight, I’m Justin .”

Indirect: “Hey, do you know what time this place closes?”

Observational: “Hey, that drink looks really good. What is it, Vodka or
Rum?”

Supermarket
Direct: “Hey, I know this is random but I just saw you picking out veggies’
over here and I had to come introduce myself. You’re really cute!”

Indirect: “Excuse me, do you know where the cereal aisle is in here?”

Observational: (looking at her basket/carriage) “Hey, is that organic stuff

any good? I know it’s supposed to be much healthier, but I’m a little
hesitant to try it (smile ).”

@TINDERPLATINUM
Nightclub
Direct: “Hey, sweetheart! You look absolutely sexy tonight! What’s your
name?”

Indirect: “Hey, what kind of music do they play here? It’s my first time in
this place.”

Observational: “Was that you tearing it up on the dance-floor a minute

ago? You definitely have some good moves (smile ). I guess I’m gonna
have to show you mine in a few (smile ).”

Gym
Direct: “Hey, what’s up? I’ve seen you in here a few times, what’s your
name?”

Indirect: “Hey, do you know any other good biceps exercises? I’m getting
sick of doing curls every week, and you seem like you know all kinds of
crazy exercises?”

Observational: “Wow, you train pretty hard! I thought I was a nut (smile).
What, do you have the Olympics coming up soon?”

Coffee Shop
Direct: “Hey, do you mind if I sit next to you? I love having a chat with my
coffee.”

Indirect: “Excuse me, is this seat right next to you taken?”

Observational: “What is that you’re drinking? It looks amazing . . . Ten

times better than what I got!”

Mall
Direct: “Hi, I don’t mean to bug you, but I just saw you walking by and had
to come tell you how cute you are! What’s your name?”

Indirect: “Excuse me, do you know where the food court is?”

Observational: (smiling) “Hey, how do you do it? (She looks at you and
asks, ‘What?’) How do you carry so many bags all at once? You're
probably getting a better workout than when I go to the gym!”

@TINDERPLATINUM
Beach
Direct: “What’s up, sweetheart? You look absolutely sexy! What’s your
name? I’m Justin (smile! ).”

Indirect: “Hey, have you been in the water yet? I’m wondering if it’s cold
or not?”