Introduction

to Effective Communication

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 Objectives

 To consider verbal and non-verbal communication

methods
 To understand and practise effective listening skills
 To communicate in clear, respectful and non-
judgemental ways
 To know when to seek advice

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 What is Communication?

What does it mean to you?

The process of communication is what allows us

to interact with other people; without it, we would
be unable to share knowledge or experiences
with anything outside of ourselves. Common
forms of communication include speaking,
writing, gestures, touch and broadcasting.
Wikipedia definition

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 Verbal vs Non Verbal
Can we communicate without words?

Voice attributes
What are they and how do they affect communication?

Physical attributes
What could be considered here and how do they affect
communication?

The power of touch

What and when is OK?

Which is better, verbal or non verbal?

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 Personal Presentation

Does personal presentation make a difference to

the way we are perceived?
Does it matter?
What can we do about it - do we have to look
bland and boring?
What if our organisation has a dress code?

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 The Communication Equation
What you hear
Tone of voice
Vocal clarity
Verbal expressiveness 40% of the message

What you see or feel

Facial expression
Dress and grooming
Posture
Eye contact
Touch
Gesture 50% of the message

WORDS … 10% of the message!

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Understanding Communication

We are going to consider:

The 2-Way communication process

Effective communication skills
Barriers to effective communication

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 Communication is a 2-way process
Communication skills involve: sender
Listening to others (Receiving) message
Asserting/ Expressing (Sending) receiver
Barriers to communication can lead to misunderstanding and confusion

values and attitudes

“generation gap”
sender
language

Cultural differences

noise

hearing
receiver

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 Effective Communication Skills

Eye contact & visible mouth

Some questions Body language

Encouragement Effective
Communication skills Silence
to continue

Smiling face

Summarising Checking
what has been said for understanding

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 Barriers to Effective Communication

Language
Time Noise

Other people Distractions

Barriers to
effective
communication
Too many questions Put downs

Distance Lack of interest

Discomfort Disability

with
the topic
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 The Art of Listening

“If we were supposed to talk more than

listen, we would have been given two
mouths and one ear.”
Mark Twain

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 Listening Skills

Active Listening
Responding
Paraphrasing
Asking questions for clarification
Mirroring the other person’s language

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 Responding

Responses to check that your perceptions are

correct
Responses to encourage further communication

See handout for further ideas

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 Questioning Techniques

Open ended and Closed questions

Diverse Questioning techniques

Participants to practise
Then try the Questioning Quiz.

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 Individual Differences

What individual factors could affect the way a

person “sends” or “receives” a message?

Is gender/ age a factor?

How can we adapt if :-

we have a problem ourselves or
the other person seems to have a problem?

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 Cultural Diversity

What do we know about the communication styles

of different cultures?

Consider verbal and non verbal, including dress

constraints, language difficulties, taboos.

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 Group Processes
In groups there are obviously more people, so good
communication skills are paramount.
Be mindful to practise:
Observing non verbal cues
Listening, responding, clarifying, paraphrasing and
summarising
Identifying barriers to communication
Remember, silence is golden
AND
No one is perfect!
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Constraints on Communication

Legal Obligations
Anti Discrimination
Privacy Laws
Code of Conduct of Organisation
Confidentiality and Gossip
Seeking Advice

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 Objectives

 To consider verbal and non-verbal communication

methods
 To understand and practise effective listening skills
 To communicate in clear, respectful and non-
judgemental ways
 To know when to seek advice

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 Evaluation

Please complete an evaluation form and leave

it with the trainer before you leave
 THANK YOU 

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