Receiving & Responding To WP Communication TTLM 3
Receiving & Responding To WP Communication TTLM 3
OF
2015 GC
Dire Dawa
What is communication?
Communication is not just about talking to someone.
Identify the items in the list below that you think are examples of communication.
Talking Listening
Communication
. . . Is an active process in which information (including ideas, specifications, goals, feelings, work orders,
and so on) is exchanged among two or more people.
. . . Is any verbal or non-verbal behavior which gives people an opportunity to send their thoughts and
feelings, and to have these thoughts and feelings received by someone else.
Elements of Communication
• listening
• seeking clarification
• body language
• general attitude
• Communication needs to be clear and effective in order to achieve its aim. When it is not, all
kinds of problems can result.
Ineffective Communication
• If people working together are not able to communicate well, it can lead to confusion,
unhappiness, frustration and annoyance. It can also mean that an organization’s goals will not
be met.
• accidents
• wastage
• Effective communication is achieved when the message received is close in meaning to the
message sent
EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION
At any workplace where people are able to communicate clearly tends to be a more efficient working
environment.
• sit or stand so that you directly face the person who you are talking or listening to
• be patient
• show interest
• use the words that the people you are talking to can understand
• listen carefully to the conversation so that you get the right message
COMMUNICATION STYLES
Communication style – means overall approach to sending and answering messages
* Eye Contact
* Aggressive
* Passive
* Assertive
3. Characteristics and Behaviors – Achieve goals at others’ expenses, puts others down, bossy type,
know-it-all-attitude, doesn’t show appreciation, impatience & anger
5. Effects – Provokes counter aggression, ill health, wastes time and energy over supervising
others, pay high price in human relationships, fosters resistance, defiance, sabotaging,
striking back, and lying.
1. Beliefs – “Don’t express true feelings”, “ Others have more rights than I do”
3. Characteristics and Behaviors – Apologetic, self-conscious, trust others, doesn’t express own
wants and feelings, tries to sit on both sides to avoid conflict, asks permission unnecessarily,
complains instead of taking actions.
5. Effects – Gives up being him/her, builds dependency relationships, doesn’t know where he/she
stands, slowly loses self esteem, is not well liked.
1. Beliefs – “Believes self and others are valuable”, “ I have rights and so do others”
2. Communication Style – Effective, active listener, states limits, expectations, express self directly,
honestly, checks on others feelings.
3. Characteristics and Behaviors – trusts self and others, confident, consistent, open flexible,
versatile, operates from choice action, oriented, firm, fair, just.
• People who belong outside your organization and wish to do business with you.
You communicate with people at work for several reasons, example to:
• take a part in friendly conversations
• assist customers
• discuss problems
• get help
• Feedback passed from the receiver to the sender showing that the message has been received
and understood.
3. Use of slang
4. Ambiguity.
7. Poor expression
Listening
Many people think that being a good communicator means being a good talker. In order to
communicate well, a person does need to be able to speak clearly and present ideas in a logical, well
ordered manner. However, another factor is also extremely important if communication is to be
effective.
A good communicator is a good listener. Unless a person listens to what is being said, no communication
actually takes place.
• promote good listening in others (if you are prepared to listen to others, they will be prepared
to listen to you)
• People are not often aware that there is a difference between listening and hearing. It is
commonly assumed that because people can hear they can also listen.
• Unless people have a physical disability they are able to hear. At any one time, a person is able
to hear many different sounds. Hearing is something which just happens.
Processing Sounds
• Listening involves far more than hearing all these sounds. It requires you to translate them, to
make sense out of them, to sort out what is important from what is irrelevant.
• Closeness - when a speaker is too close to you, your mind may be on the invasion of your space
rather than what is being said.
• Time - When people are tired or hurried they are less able to fully concentrate on what is
being said
• Impatience - if you are feeling impatient and want to get away to do other things your mind will
not be concentrating on the speaker.
• Attitude - if you do not like a speaker or do not like what they are saying you may quickly tune
out.
• Lack of interest - when you are not interested in a topic it is difficult to pay full attention.
• Personal Perception - often people think they already know what is about to be said and so they
don’t bother to listen.
› sitting up straight
• don’t think about what you want to say while the speaker is speaking – listen first
• try not to interrupt the speaker and start talking yourself - concentrate on listening
› give the speaker feedback so they know that you are listening, for example: you may ask
questions to get more information
• you may repeat back what the speaker has been saying, e.g. “So what you’re
saying is ……”
› Keep an open mind about what the speaker is saying – you do not need to agree with
everything but it is important to listen first and then make decisions.
› Empathize with the speaker – this means trying to see the situation from their point of
view.
Questioning
At work we need to ask questions for many reasons like:
• closed questions
• open questions
Closed Questions
Closed questions are used to find out quite particular information. They are questions which can be
answered with a simple yes, no or one word. Such questions do not need a long and detailed response.
They are very useful if you need to find out simple information or need to check specific details.
Open Questions
Open questions are used to find out detailed information. These questions encourage the receiver to
explain a longer answer. Open questions start with words like “What, When, Where, Why, and How”.
They are used to open up a discussion or conversation. You cannot give one word answer to these
questions.
• What did you mean when you asked me to check the supplies?
You will always need to ask questions to clarify information and check instructions. Remember you have
a responsibility to make sure you have understood the information correctly.
It is much better to ask questions to make sure you are doing the job right than to muddle on and make
a mistake. You will feel upset if you make a mistake, especially if it could have been avoided by asking a
simple question.
• have not planned the instructions or thought about how to give you the information or
instructions
• are too rushed or hurried, they may leave out important pieces of detail
If a person is giving you information or instructions and you are not clear what they mean, always ask
questions:
When you ask a question, it is often a good idea to repeat back the answer to make sure you have
heard it correctly.
To check that you have heard and interpreted the message properly, put the message into your own
words and ask whether that is what they meant.
For example:
Sometimes the instructions you are being given are quite long. In this situation you might need to
interrupt to seek clarification before the speaker moves onto the next instruction. For example:
Sometimes people give vague instructions that you may want to clarify:
When you are receiving instructions from someone else, especially if they are speaking to you:
when the person has finished, tell them what you understood from their instructions to
make sure you have understood them correctly
Receiving Instructions
the person not speaking loudly or clearly enough – ask them to speak up
ask for more information – don’t assume you know what they mean
repeat back what you have heard and understood to check that it is correct.
letters
memos
informal notes
faxes
emails
text messages
workplace signs
instruction manuals
The following points should help you to follow written instructions in a more effective way.
Read through all the instructions or steps before beginning the task. This will give a clear picture
of what the whole tasks involves
If diagrams are provided take the time to look at them carefully. As you work through the task
check the diagrams to make sure that your work matches the example given.
If you are not sure of the meaning of any words or terms take the time to find out the correct
meaning. Ask your workplace supervisor if you guess correctly you may find that you cannot
complete the task or that the finished task is not done properly.
Avoid the temptation to try to complete the task before reading all the instructions. Although
the job may take a little longer, it will save time in the long run as you may avoid mistakes.
Spoken instructions are generally received face to face or via the telephone. The following
points should help you follow spoken instructions in a more effective way.
When following spoken instructions, it is absolutely essential that you listen. Avoid jumping to
conclusions or assuming that you know how to complete the task. Use all your listening skills to
ensure that you receive the message accurately.
Ask questions if you are uncertain about particular steps. Sometimes people are afraid to ask
questions because they think they will look stupid. Remember questioning shows that you are
keen and interested and it is always better to ask questions rather than make a mistake.
If you are receiving instructions over the telephone, always write down the information
accurately.
Repeat the instructions back to the instructor to be sure that you have fully understood all the
details.
It often helps if you can complete the task once with the instructor. This will give you a chance
to ask questions and check other things as you work through the job.
THE END!