30 Journal Prompts For Self-Discovery
30 Journal Prompts For Self-Discovery
5. Was there a "black sheep" in your family? If yes, who was it and why?
6. Who were the most influential people in your childhood? What did you learn from
them? Where does what you learned still show in your life?
7. What did your upbringing teach you about "the world out there"?
8. Whose love and approval did you crave more: mum's or dad's?
9. How did you gain safety, love, and significance in your life?
10. What parts of you do you deem the most inferior, shameful, dirty, deficient, ugly?
Tell their story.
11. What words do you most long to hear? And from whom?
12. What is the difference between who you are and who you want to be?
15. Are you more scared to lose yourself in a relationship or to lose the other person?
16. How did you navigate big transitions in your life? (Entering kindergarten, high
school, moving out from home, college, starting a new job, breakup)
17. What has your relationship to authorities been like in your life?
22. When was the first and the last time you felt inferior?
23. How frequently do you compare yourself to others? What are the metrics you put up
for comparison? Success, beauty, intelligence, kindness...?
24. How much are you still competing to be your mum’s or dad’s favorite?
25. How does it make you feel if others are attracted to you?