Ethics
Ethics
KAPUWA
The culture of loob, hiya and daya is always geared
towards others or “kapuwa”. Derived from the Spanish term
“capoua” which means “equal” and “both” usually used for humans
(Reyes, 2013).
We usually translate it in English as “others” but it is utterly
insufficient. “Kapuwa” is a “recognition of shared identity, an inner
self shared with others” while “other” is an individuated self who is
different from the “self”.
Thus, kapuwa is “another self” (p.97) or the “shared self”
(p.98). Now since “loob” equals “self”, kapuwa, therefore, is
“another loob”. Potentially, everyone is kapuwa as we are
interconnected by our humanity, particularly as Filipinos.
But the genuine actualization of relationship with kapuwa
or “another loob” is when the kagandahang loob is reciprocated by
“utang na loob” or “depth of gratitude” or “indebtedness” (p.100).
The reciprocal relationship of kagandahang-loob and utang na loob
constitutes a dynamic relationship of the self and the “another self”
which is expressed in ethical and moral ways. If every Filipino
possesses kagandahang- loob, then, s/he will be ashamed of
deceiving his/her “kapuwa”. And as a kapuwa who is at the receiving
end of kagandahang-loob we should be ashamed of “pandaraya” or
else, we will be marked as “walang utang na loob”, another way of
saying walang hiya ka! So it is implied that both kagandahang-loob
and utang na loob should be possessed by every honorable and
dignified (may kahihiyan) Filipino to be truly ethical without any
“daya”.
But no matter how beautiful our culture is, there is a
danger when we make it the ultimate standard of morality as it could
go either in the right direction or otherwise. Hiya and utang na loob
are the two of the most compelling Filipino cultural concepts that
could make or break the ethical Pinoy. As such, the need for a more
solid grounding of ethical theories and principles could complement
and supplement these cultural values to attain what is truly ethical
and be aware of what is truly unethical. This will be our task on our
next course packet.