Fractionationʼs Role in Hooking

Up with Chicks
Welcome back,

If you remember our last post, I covered an evening out in Bulgaria

where I totally failed – the failure was due to what we labelled as
“inflation”. Now the principle of inflation can be defined as follows:
when you deliver too much of the same seduction material (humor,
sex talk, language patterns, cocky lines, etc.) it loses its impact.
There are numerous reasons for that:

It loses its value; women and humans in general do not value

things they can easily get. If you give her a lot of, say, “funny
lines”, then she will not value them as much anymore.

It can in worst case scenarios make you come across as

needy/“trying too hard” and ruin all her attraction for you.
Now this is just a quick recap of my last post. The theory of inflation
is explained in-depth there. At the end of that post I shared a
number of ways we could avoid having to deal with such situations
in the first place.

After that, I mentioned “fractionation”, a technique commonly used

by psychotherapists and NLP-practitioners. “Fractionation” will be
the main topic of this post. Now, just so you know, although
fractionation will help us avoid issues such as “inflation”, it also has
a lot of other benefits that are equally if not more valuable
(depending on the situation):

Fractionation:

Generates compliance

Reduces/bypasses her resistance

Enhances the effects of your material (i.e., makes EVERYTHING

 you do MORE powerful)

Reduces the chances of you inflating your material

So here is what we are going to do in this post:

1. Introduce a real life seduction where I am dealing with a

Swedish girl. I will share some small details around the meeting
process.

2. Explain in further depth what fractionation is (last time we just

briefly mentioned it).

3. Use my real life story as an example on how fractionation is

applied.

Here is a secret: Every good seducer that I have met (I will even go
as far as saying that “all great seducers I know of”) uses
fractionation, at least to a certain extent. This is an important topic.
Now fractionation is a broad topic. You can discuss it for ages as so
many seduction techniques are more or less based on this concept,
both simple and advanced techniques. However, consider this post
an introduction that will give you some ideas on how this works and
how to apply the concept in real life. Sounds good?

A Night Out

This night also takes place at Sunny Beach, Bulgaria in a club with
Halvor Jannike. Obviously I went for the smoking/lounge area
because that is the only place I can use verbals. The dance floor is
just way too noisy for such kind of game. Now why didnʼt I just go on
the dance floor and meet women there? Well thatʼs because I was
still low energy. My throat was still hurting a bit and I was still on
antibiotics.
Anyway, I spot two Swedish girls I have met twice already – once in a
club where I tried to pick them both up for a threesome. Some basic
sex talk related to sex surely amped them both up at first, but one
of the girls backed off, ruining it all. I also met them with Halvor
Jannike during the daytime, in the streets of Sunny Beach when we
were on our way to buy some goofy tank tops.

The blonde girl was actually not my cup of tea looks-wise, and I
probably wasnʼt her ideal man either. She was aloof and not overly
excited compared to the red haired girl (who was NOT a natural
redhead) who seemed to be more interested. I decided to abort the
idea of a threesome and rather go for the redhead. However, there
was one issue; the problem that comes with all 2-sets: who will
entertain her friend?

I decided to just build some more rapport and fluff talk for a bit. My
hope was that Halvor Jannike would show up. He would eventually,
because he also liked to pick up women in the smoking area.

Minutes later there he was – so I introduced him. He saw that I was

more interested in the redheaded girl and decided to sit down and
go for the blonde Swede.

Now although this story is focused on me and my girl, keep in mind

that Halvor was the one with the hardest task: he had to be a bro
and go for the friend of my girl in order to help me out and
“distract her”. The issue was, the girl wasnʼt all that attracted to
Halvor compared to the level of interest my girl had for me, making
it harder for him to get anywhere. Now he knew all that, but he was
cool with it, because he knows that next time it would be MY turn to
help him out. Fact is, the next night we went out, I was the one
helping out Halvor.

Setting a Sexual Frame

As Halvor was interacting with the blonde girl, doing his thing,
fluffing and build rapport while escalating physically, I decided to
set a sexual frame.

I am about to share a very simple technique that you can feel free to
steal. Many men struggle with getting sexual with women, and
hopefully this technique will simplify the process.

Alek: “You know, I really like your hair!” (I actually really liked her
hair)

Linn: “Thank you!”

Now this looks like a cheesy compliment. And usually it is not well
advised to give away compliment to women like this, as it you can
come off as needy and as you are putting her on pedestal. However,
given with a rather aloof tonality you can get away with it. But still,
why am I giving this compliment in the first place?

Well, I do it because I use it as a means to an end – I use it as a way

to transition and frame the interaction as sexual.

Alek: “Yes I really like it; itʼs hot. I have heard that women who
have red hair like you are strong, sexual beings – which I think is
rather hot. I am sure you are a sexual being.”

Linn: “Depends on the guy.” (mixed signals)

Now you see how I used the compliment to set a sexual frame? The
compliment is a tool for increasing compliance – i.e., increasing the
odds of her accepting my frames with little to no resistance.

Here is why:

Nobody will feel offended by my statement when I have given

 them a compliment.

As I connect my [sexual] assumption about her with a

compliment, she is willing to accept the frame I am setting
because I frame her as being a sexual being as a good thing. I
motivate her to accept my frame with the compliment.

For pedagogical reasons, I will give you the model this technique is
based on:

Give her a compliment

Relate that compliment to something sexual about her.

Frame that relation as something positive – something you find

attractive (i.e., “I think girls who are strong, sexual being are
hot.”)

Feel free to test it out for yourself. From there, getting into sex talk
or anything sexual should be easier.

I will now show you a quick example on how you can transition into
some sex talk from this point. There are no fixed rules on how you
transition. All I can say is that you should try out different ways. It is
not that hard to do when you have properly pulled off the technique
I just gave you.

Building Up Attraction

Warning: This section of this article will be covering some VERY

advanced stuff. However, the rest of this article will be fit for most
readers.

Some guys have asked me to share more sex talk ideas. Even
though I will not focus all that much on everything that I said to my
girl in this report, I will still share some samples that I think are very
powerful. And do not worry, I will keep writing reports and some will
contain detailed sex talk conversations. Stay tuned.

Either way, I will now show you how I transition into sex talk and
share with you a REALLY POWERFUL sex talk routine that is pretty
simple to pull off even though it is NLP based. Chase has seen me
pulling this routine off live in front of him and was amazed by the
results.

Let us continue from where we just left it:

Linn: “Depends on the guy.”

Alek: “I am sure it also depends on the context…”

Linn: “Yeah…”

Alek: “Talking about context, I have a very cool experiment that I

 would love to try on you. Itʼs just a thought experiment, so
nothing harmful. You in?”

Linn: “Sure!”

Most girls will say yes, because they will be curious about what this
thought experiment really is all about. And as it is just a thought
experiment, you remove her potential resistance because after all…
itʼs just a thought experiment; nothing harmful. This is a great way
of introducing topics that might trigger some resistance.

Now, throughout this I will give her a lot of commands. A command

is not defined as in me TOTALLY controlling her, but can be simply
defined as words that can trigger certain emotional reactions in her,
for example: “Feel AROUSED”. Whether or not she accepts the
commands I am giving her depends on whether she wants to be led
emotionally by me (compliance).

Alek: “Let us say that you are in a house, a room, a red, sensual,
warm room (creating the context) where you see both men and
women... PASSIONATELY… INTENSIVELY… and SEXUALLY…
ENJOYING… each other…” (The words in big letters are words
that I put some extra emphasis on – the idea is that these exact
words will trigger certain emotional reactions in her).

Linn: “Mhm?”

Alek: “In that room... everything that happens will stay secret...
NOBODY from outside will know or have any ideas about what
has taken place in that room. You feel totally SAFE (command)
about RELEASING yourself (command) and let your AROUSAL
take over (command).”

Linn: (her eyes locked into mine, while her breath is increasing)
 Alek: “One hot guy comes over to you... and starts TOUCHING
you PASSIONATLY... and the MORE he touches you... the MORE
aroused you feel... and the MORE aroused you feel, the MORE
you want him to touch you (command loop... enhanced with
“more and more” language – by doing so you enhance the state
you are bringing her into).

Linn: “Hot…”

Alek: “NOW… it doesnʼt matter… (Removes resistance, opens for

commands), because you have a choice … what would you do in
such situations?”

Linn: “Fuck him of course!”

Whenever a girl admits out loud that she either loves sex, is
horny, or wants to fuck someone, then you are in a very good
position – you are making her think about sex. As she is
interacting with you, she will associate those thoughts with you. Do
you see where I am going with this?

Let us take a look at what I really did here:

I used the idea of a “thought experiment” to introduce the topic

of sex – this removes a lot of the potential anti-slut defense
she might have, because, after all, it is just an experiment.

I create a context in her mind that is sexually liberated. She

associates that context with me.

I use a lot of commands – describing in depth with emotionally

strong words the effect of being sexually aroused. She will also
link those emotions with me.

I make her admit that she is a sexual being – this is called force
 framing, where I force her to frame herself as such.

This is all very positive stuff. I was going to extract her right away
because it was clear to me that she was aroused enough. However, I
saw that her friend was trying to get her attention. I then thought it
was better that I break the bubble (i.e., that I take her out of the
trance) than if she did it, because that will give me the power to
bring her back in with more ease.

Alek: “By the way, have you tried the pizza at the corner? It
tastes just amazing!”

Linn: “No?”

So I bring her into this horny state, as seen above, and I boldly pull
her right out by talking about the local pizzeria, which will put her in
another state, but leaves her wanting more of the juicy stuff. This,
my friends, is FRACTIONATION. Let us discuss what fractionation is
in more depth now.

Fractionation

Fractionation is a commonly used technique in seduction. It

originally comes from NLP (which again has been inspired by
psychotherapists). Fractionation is a state enhancer. If we look at
seduction as an art of setting women in a particular state – a state
of arousal, a state of desire, a state of attraction – then fractionation
is a tool that enhances those feelings.

So what does this mean? This means that anything you do,
whatever type of game you like to use, can be enhanced with the
use of fractionation. It just makes your material more powerful. For
example, if your game is based on physical escalation, you can
make its effect more powerful by implementing fractionation. Same
things go with sex talk (my style), chase frames (obviously Chaseʼs
style), and so on.

So how does it work? Well in simple terms, fractionation is simply

pulling a girl out of her current state, bringing her back in again,
and then pulling her out again before dragging her in once
more. Rinse and repeat!

For example, if we take physical escalation – by adding fractionation

into the mix, it implies that you escalate heavily on her before you
suddenly stop and just do something else for a while, like stop
touching her or talk about the weather. Later you bring her back in
by escalating again.

You basically “split” things up. Instead of escalating in a normal

linear fashion – as from social to sexual, which does work, adding in
some fractionation entails that you still escalate in a linear fashion
but instead, take some small steps back by creating her state by
changing the frame of interaction for a bit. Now, implementing
fractionation makes things harder to pull off, but it just makes
everything so much more powerful.

Another example would be when one is using humor. You might

crack some nice cocky sexually loaded jokes for a bit, but before
she knows it, you change the topic into a dead serious one, before
you get back to your sexual jokes. I will share more insights on
fractionation as I proceed with the report so that you can relate the
concept to real life scenarios.

Note: Concepts like push-pull are based on fractionation, as you

go from showing interest to disinterest; you swap between two
vibes and you pull her in and out of different states. But just to
clarify, fractionation is not push-pull. Push-pull is BASED on
fractionation.
Fractionation Against Resistance

As you remember, I just delivered some hot sex talk to my girl. She
was obviously attracted – so I decided to go for the kill and try to
extract her:

Alek: “I am feeling like drinking a real drink…”

Linn: “Yeah?”

Alek: “Why donʼt you join me, I live right over there.” (pointing at
my hotel)

Linn: (talks to friend)

Alek: “You can join us too, Halvor will join us too if youʼd like to.”
(Halvor had just started making out with her).

Emma: “No sorry I have to wait for Greg.” (Greg was the
manager of the club…)

Linn: “Yeah we have to wait for Greg!”

Alek: Alright then, by the way it is sick how cheap cigarettes are
in this country.” (Bulgaria)

Girls: “Yeah!”

This is the point of the interaction where I have to decide whether I

would like to move on or deal with her shit. I decided to stick
because I knew that once I get her back to my place, the deal would
be sealed. In addition to that I really like her red hair. If she werenʼt
that sexually attracted to me, I most likely would have moved on.

So what I did here, was to change the topic from “showing

interest” – as I invited her back to my place – to showing a bit of
disinterest when she doesnʼt comply. The subject has been
changed as has the vibe of the interaction, which again affects her
state. Now later I plan on attempting to extract again – fractionation
in practice.

Whenever you face resistance, you would do well to use

fractionation: take a huge step back and start all over again. This is
the sexy way of persisting.

For example, if you start escalating on her and she puts your hand
away, just calmly take a huge step back – for example pulling your
hands away for a few seconds and just start escalating all the way
from beginning again (for example touching her shoulders). Any
type of resistance you might get, fractionation can bail you out,
whether it is resistance during:

An isolation attempt

An extraction attempt

An escalation attempt (no matter where in the process you are)

Now how does this work – how does fractionation help you against
potential resistance?

Here is what happens when you do so:

As you take a step back, you do not come across as needy –

you do not pass over the control of the frame to her, which we
all know can kill ALL her attraction to you.

By taking a step back, you take something pleasurable away

from her – you touching her, which will leave her wanting more,
which will increase her compliance, making her more open to
your advances. Remember that a woman does not resist
 because she doesnʼt like what you do but because she doesnʼt
feel allowed to accept your moves, either as a result of her
biology (i.e., “being careful”) or due to social conditioning
(avoiding the slut label).

When you re-engage your move will be “more powerful” and

will have have more effect on her because you have left her
wanting more – youʼve left her “begging”. Now that youʼve re-
engaged, she is more receptive, hence making it all the more
powerful.

Fractionation to Trigger Attraction

I re-engage my girl into sex talk. She mentions to me that she is

dominant. I challenge her about it “Yeah sure you are…” resulting in
her grabbing my neck and tonguing me down. Challenging a
woman is a powerful attraction trigger.

We kept talking about dominant sex:

Alek: “I usually like to feel that the girl is being so attractive that
she makes me feel like I am LOSING CONTROL…. Donʼt you like
to lose control yourself?”

Linn: “Absolutely.”

Alek: “So you do like when an attractive male makes you feel like
you are losing control?”

Linn: “Thatʼs hot…” (Not so dominant after all???)

Alek: “I personally like to grab their hair (grabbing her hair) and
pull them into me and…” (Kissing her passionately)
Now I will fractionate things a bit….

Alek: “By the way the DJ here is really good…”

We start fluffing about DJs and club music for a bit, before I re-
engage her into kissing and dominant physical escalation. It is on so
I try to extract again – no chance, her friend really wanted to wait for
Greg and my girl didnʼt want to leave her friend. I really hate those
young girls sometimes (we are talking 19 years old here).

Now, why am I fractionating the delivery of my sexual intent (being

sex talk or physical escalation?). Because as mentioned above, it
enhances its effect.

Here is why:

By putting her in a sexual state (or any desired state) then

pulling her out of it, you allow her unconscious to suck it in – to
digest it and let it really sink in. This way you get maximal
 effect.

As mentioned earlier, you leave her wanting more of the good

stuff as you constantly keep giving her bits of it before taking it
away from her again, making her more and more receptive to
your material. Every time you fractionate, she will be more
receptive to your material and the effects will grow each time
you re-introduce the hot stuff (hot topics, physical touch, etc.).

By pulling her in an out of a trance, you make her trance

stronger. In other words, you confuse her, and confusion opens
her up even more to your commands.

Fractionation as a Tool for Stamina Game (As a Tool

against Inflation)

I tried to extract her three times without success. My only option

was to wait for this Greg guy to show up so that I could finally leave
with my girl. Hopefully Halvor Jannike will have enough compliance
with his girl (Emma) to out-game this Greg guy. Battling the club
manager who has a lot of social status as a result of his position will
not be an easy game. The fact that this girl was not Halvorʼs type,
and he was not her type either, didnʼt make the task easier. Halvor
had pretty much given up at that point. He decided to stick with her
in order to help me. Now, Halvor and I work great together, because
we are both willing to go really far to help each other out. This night
it was him helping me. The next night it was me helping him.

Either way, I found out that Greg was available near closing time (4
oʼ clock). This means that I have to keep my girl hot for one more
hour. This is what I call the “stamina game”. The idea behind this
concept is that, as I canʼt extract her for logistical reasons, I have to
keep her hot till the time is right to pull the trigger. The key factor
here is to drag things out for as long as you can while keeping
her hot: it is a game of stamina.

Such situations are hard to deal with and VERY frustrating. You are
not moving forward. Itʼs static – you have to keep the interaction
where it is till the time is right. I hate such situations. Gladly these
scenarios rarely occur, but usually, unless my girl is really into me, I
will just move on.

These situations are tricky and hard to handle for a few reasons:

You might risk being out of material to run (which can happen
since you have to keep her hot for longer periods of time) – for
example you have nothing else (nothing juicy) to say… and you
just end up fluffing with her for an hour which will result in her
getting bored and losing her attraction for you.

Or you might inflate your material by constantly pulling out the

same material (such as for example touching her and kissing
for one hour). It will lose its impact and she will grow tired of it,
resulting in her getting bored and losing her attraction for you.

So the solution is, obviously, fractionation. By fractionating, you

avoid using up all your material at once, as you will take some
“breaks” and transition into fluff (or social vibe). In addition to all the
positive effects covered above, fractionation allows you to really
drag things out to the extreme.

For example, let us look at the following two models covering the
progression of a seduction in such a “stamina based” situation.

Model 1

Sexual intent*=> sexual intent => sexual intent …. Mostly likely

leading to… “fluff talk” => “fluff talk”=> “fluff talk” … or worse…
 => AWKWARD SILENCES (as you run out of material – things to
say).

Model 2

Sexual intent => fluff talk (social talk)** => sexual intent=> fluff
talk => sexual intent => fluff talk

*By “sexual intent”, I mean everything that can affect her arousal
and sexual attraction toward you – such as sex talk, physical
escalation or sexual humor (I donʼt really use the latter)

**By “fluff talk/social talk, I am referring to any topic that is not

related to seducing her – just random chitchat, everything from
music, to fashion, food… anything goes

We can easily note that:

Model 1: Has a high risk of inflating the material – i.e., the

sexual intent (let us say “sex talk”) will lose its impact after a
while. She will not value it as much as you keep giving her the
goodies. You donʼt value things that are easily available to you,
especially when delivered in a large scale. Secondly, you will
very soo run out of material, leading to either awkward silences
(nothing to say) or you just fluffing about uninteresting topics
(“Oh btw… nice weather today”). Secondly, you wonʼt be able
to drag the interaction out and keep her warm as you will either
run out of material or overuse your material – inflating it.

Model 2: Is just way better – here you use fractionation. By

doing so you can smoothly drag things out for longer without
you risking inflating it – because as you fractionate you
constantly leave her wanting more. You avoid the risk of giving
her too much of the good stuff. By regularly switching from
 social to sexual you make sure the interaction stays hot for
longer. Every time you sense she is losing her “state” (or
attraction for you) you can easily switch back to some juicy
material and amp her back up. This is a great way to keep her
warm.

So this is what I did with my girl. I talked with her about dirty stuff,
dirty sexual things, and then moved straight into social talk for a bit.
Now how long do I stay in the “social vibe” and how long do I stay in
the “sexual vibe”? Well it depends, but usually 5-15 minutes before
switching is ideal. You can intensify it by switching faster, but that
requires additional brainpower, which most of us donʼt have at 3 oʼ
clock in the morning.

When it was nearing closing time, I started getting more physical

rather than verbal. Not only did I feel that it was more suited to the
situation, but also because I started getting bored of talking about
dirty things – and I was afraid she might start feeling the same.
When I physically escalated hereʼs what I did:

“Sexual touch*” => “No touch/social touch**” => “Sexual Touch”

=> “No touch/ sexual touch” => “Sexual touch”

*By “sexual touch”, I am here talking about physical escalation,

where to goal is to lead her state into one of arousal. I want to make
her horny.

**By “No touch/social touch” you just touch her in a socially

acceptable way, such as touching her shoulder or holding her hand.
You can also just stop touching her in order to create some intrigue.
Feel free to fluff talk while doing this.

In addition to all this, I also did a few things to just drag things out
even more.
Here are some of the things I did:

Go to the bathroom and make sure you take your time.

Order a drink, and obviously you are not in a hurry. The more
time you waste, the better.

Greg finally popped up. It was about time.

End Game

Greg was a VERY handsome

Bulgarian guy with an exotic
touch. Typical good looking guy
women dream of. His social
value was really high due to his
position. He was a cool guy.

Emma, my girlʼs friend, hugged

him and seemed to hook up with
this Greg guy. Halvor had left by
that time. He did an amazing job
keeping her busy for so long.
Right there I felt bad for him, but
he got laid the next day, so who
cares really. Sometimes you
have to take one for the team.
Thatʼs what a good wingman is for. The next day it will be my turn to
take one for the team.

Finally I managed to get my girl to leave. I simply told her: “Now I am

tired… I really feel like having a drink. Letʼs go”. She complied and we
left. Her friend Emma left with Greg back to his place.
Now here is a fun fact. Greg was a VERY good looking guy, his facial
structure was perfect. He was fit and had a very high social value. I
met him the next day and asked him about his night with Emma. Do
you think the guy got laid? Haha, yes you guessed right, he didnʼt.
Point is, looks and status help, but good game trumps it all!

I left with my girl and grabbed some pizza. Back at my place we had
a drink and a smoke before we started kissing. From there it all went
smooth as butter – no resistance. This is probably due to the fact
that I have kept her warm all along, all the way till she was back at
my place.

And… there we go… this time it led to a happy ending.

Fractionation: Last Words

Alright, thank you for sticking with me for so long. This was a long
post. I really hope you found some useful information in it.
Fractionation is a KEY topic that EVERY pro seducer uses – trust me
on that one. However, fractionation is a huge topic and can be
discussed over and over again. This will not be the last time you will
read about fractionation on Girlschase.com.

I know some of you struggle with end game, and none of my reports
cover events where I had some difficulties such as last-minute
resistance or lack of horniness during the end game. Do not panic,
my next report will not only be more beginner friendly (but still
contain a lot of goodies for you more advanced guys) but I will put
more emphasis on end game.

If you do struggle with end game, feel free to check out this report
where I cover how I dealt with some serious last minute resistance:

http://www.girlschase.com/content/last-minute-resistance-
sexy-women-treating-it-and-beating-it

And some of you have showed interested in seeing more sex talk
examples – do not worry because I will share a report soon with a lot
of juicy examples. Itʼs a story that took place last weekend. I took
some notes and will make it into a report very soon.

I hope you enjoyed this post. Questions, comments, and

suggestions are welcome.

Until next,

Alek Rosltad

Alek Rolstad launched his pickup career at age 14, an early starter
and seduction savant. His unique style of game focuses on “sex
talk”: a way to make sex the primary topic of conversation. Sex talk
lets the user excite girls rapidly, and filter for girls open to fast,
raunchy, kinky one-night stands and sex. You can learn from Alek,
the master and originator of sex talk himself, by booking a 1-hour
phone consultation with him.