SEXUAL TENSION MASTERCLASS - MASCULINITY RESET

WHAT IS THE PURPOSE OF THIS

MASCULINITY RESET?

Your wife has grown tired of you and her level of

excitement at the thought of having sex with you has
flatlined.

In this foundational stage we are going to reset your

masculinity... but you need to follow every single step in
order to do this properly.

Your wife has stopped taking you seriously and this

module is going to flip that upside down and rekindle
your her passion for you.

Do not forget this... SHE WILL DO ANYTHING WITH A

TRULY MASCULINE, DOMINANT MAN... SO YOU'RE
GOING TO BECOME ONE.

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STEP 1 - TRANSMUTE YOUR DESIRE

FOR SEX INTO YOUR WORK

You need to temporarily kill your need for sex by taking the
energy you would spend trying to get it and putting it into your
work or a passion. Chasing sex harder is ruining your
relationship, change course and get to work!

The sex is already bad so cut it off for at

STEP 01 least the next week.

Decide which ONE thing you want to

STEP 02 put your "sexual" energy into.
Business/work or a hobby/sport?

When you feel yourself getting horny,

STEP 03 redirect that energy back into your
business/hobby.

Set a difficult goal that you must achieve

STEP 04 before you can initiate sex with your
wife again.

You can kiss and flirt with your wife, but

STEP 05 no escalating things to sex unless she
does!

What Happens If Your Wife Questions You Doing

This?

Should she ask why you no longer seem to be interested in

sex, avoid logically explaining it. Instead you should playfully
tell her that you have more important things to be doing and
that she will have to wait.

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STEP 2 - GET RID OF PHYSICAL

CLUTTER AND OLD POSSESSIONS

Decluttering is a form of resetting things in your life. Your clutter

is a physical representation of you hanging on to old ways,
beliefs and ideas. By getting rid of them you are preparing to
welcome in the new. This CANNOT be skipped.

Throw out, donate or sell anything you

STEP 01 haven't used in the last 90 days and
won't use within the next year.

Remove your attachment to the things

STEP 02 by trusting that this is going to be more
impactful than you can imagine.

Accept that part of your old identity is

STEP 03 embedded into those things so they
must be fully removed.

Know that the same way you remove

STEP 04 mouldy food from your fridge is the same
way you remove clutter from your life.

Counterintuitive truth: The more

STEP 05 attached to the item you are, the more
you must get rid of it. (not talking about
truly essential items of course)

What Happens If Your Wife Questions You Doing

This?

Your wife may freak out when she sees you do this because
she could never imagine doing the same. Don't listen to any of
her suggestions or inputs, get rid of your crap and cling to
nothing. that she asks you to. Tell her it's time for a change,
this will make her wonder and then be on her best behaviour.

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STEP 3 - RADICALLY CHANGE THE

WAY YOU DRESS

How you dress is a reflection of how you see yourself and by

"forcing" on a new outfit, you "force" a new personality. Most
men dress in basic, unflattering clothing because that's how
they feel on the inside. Big change is coming.

There's a style of clothing you'd love to

STEP 01 have the balls to wear... so you're going
to go out and buy that right now.

Accept that the way you dress affects

STEP 02 how other people treat you and how you
treat yourself.

Do not let your wife get involved in

STEP 03 picking you new outfits. It waters it
down and takes away the mystery.

When you put on your new outfit you

STEP 04 need to carry yourself like you've been
wearing it for years.

Allow your personality to shift slightly as

STEP 05 you wear the new clothing. Avoid trying
to resist it, go with the new you.

What Happens If Your Wife Questions You Doing

This?

She may get nervous when she sees you improving, as she
feels as though you may outgrow her. But what will happen is
that she will transform soon after you do. She may ridicule
your new outfits but if so, it's a sign that you aren't owning it
enough.

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STEP 4 - GET A NEW HAIRCUT

Women know the power of a haircut when it comes to resetting

yourself, but few men do. Cutting your hair is symbolic of
change and it's another essential step to undergo a masculine
reset. Even if you're bald, you can grow or shave your facial hair.

Pick a hairstyle that both suits your face

STEP 01 and the amount of hair you have. If bald,
change your facial hair or grow some.

Go to a new barbers if you feel like you

STEP 02 need to make the change with new
people.

Get the new hair style and fully own it

STEP 03 like with the new outfit. Act like you've
had it for years.

Welcome the new and strange feelings it

STEP 04 gives you, step into your new personality
and enjoy the process.

See the bigger picture, yes it's just a hair

STEP 05 cut but it's another step to creating a
new and desirable you.

What Happens If Your Wife Questions You Doing

This?

Again, your wife may mock your new look and tell you it
doesn't suit you, but this is just her reflecting her insecurities.
Don't flinch or make any concessions. Most likely she will love
the new look and be all over you. Women get the symbolism
of a hair cut much more than men do.

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STEP 5 - GO OUT ON YOUR OWN

MORE OFTEN
If you're like most men, you only go out with your friends or your
wife... change that fast! Do things on your own to not only
develop your own inner voice but to seem more mysterious to
those around you. Most men are too chicken shit scared to
spend time alone, especially somewhere remote.

Start by simply going out for walks on

STEP 01 your own near where you live.

Drive out to a new city or town and

STEP 02 spend a few hours visiting on your own.

Go to a bar by yourself one Friday night

STEP 03 and get talking to some new people.

Take a weekend trip by yourself. Whether

STEP 04 that's a camping trip, a city break or a
business trip.

Providing you have no childcare

STEP 05 responsibilities take an international trip
by yourself for a steep learning curve.

What Happens If Your Wife Questions You Doing

This?

This will be an easy one for her to shame. She may accuse you of
going out to cheat or about simply being weird. But it will turn you
into an interesting and mysterious man in her eyes. Dismiss any
negativity playfully by saying that all of your cheating is exhausting
you, but you're addicted now and can't stop. Keep it light.

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STEP 6 - DO SOME COLD

APPROACH PICKUP
Don't do this to cheat, do this to prove to yourself that your girl
is replaceable if she needs to be. On top of that, getting a
random girl's number off the street is going to skyrocket your
general confidence. You CANNOT brush this off as unessential,
as the balls it takes to do this will change you forever.

Stop a girl and say "Hi, I know this is crazy

STEP 01 but I had to say you look interesting" With
some strong eye contact.

Tease her outfit or the speed at which

STEP 02 she was walking and get her to playfully
defend herself.

Make some tasteful sexual innuendos

STEP 03 and tease her a little to create the sexual
tension you need.

Before you take her number, ask her what

STEP 04 she'd like to know about you. This makes
you more familiar to her.

Tell her you've got to run but you'll take

STEP 05 her number and you can go out some
time. (But you won't)

What Happens If Your Wife Questions You Doing

This?

This isn't something you will be sharing with your wife and you
won't actually be texting any of the girls you meet. But should
your wife ever see or hear of you doing this, you can playfully
brush it off as how you meet side chicks. Hide the truth in plain
sight and she'll laugh.

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STEP 7 - GET A SIMPLE WEIGHT

LIFTING ROUTINE
This will certainly catch your wife’s attention, especially if you
rarely workout. Don’t try and perform miracles with this. Get
started with the Stronglifts 5x5 method, start with a low weight
and just put in the work week after week. Follow the program like
a machine and you’ll look back a year later as a shredded beast.

Remember that going to the gym and only

STEP 01 lifting the bar once, is better than not
going at all. Start small if you have to.

To get you fired up for your lifts, picture

STEP 02 your coming physique and how well
you'll perform sexually in the future.

Know that your wife will feel "forced" to

STEP 03 copy you and begin an exercise regime
of her own when you do it first.

Don't lose sight of how compounding

STEP 04 interest works when you begin lifting.
Results will snowball after 6 months.

Use your time at the gym as a way to

STEP 05 build sexual tension with your wife.
Don't always tell her where you are.

What Happens If Your Wife Questions You Doing

This?

Your wife may say "I don't like bulky men" and if she does, she
is letting you know that she feels unattractive and unworthy.
Simply grin and say "But you will soon" and do not stop lifting
no matter what she says. Self improvement is a major
aphrodisiac, keep going.

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 SEXUAL TENSION MASTERCLASS - MASCULINITY RESET

STEP 8 - GET YOUR SHIT CLEANED

UP

Have a place for everything, clean up after yourself as soon as

you've finished and realise that the mess that you live and work
in is a reflection of what's happening in your head. Become an
ordered man to have a wife who will obey your orders.

Keep on top of your possessions and have

STEP 01 a place for them all. By having systems for
everything, you can avoid desicion fatigue.

Remember that we don't rise to the level

STEP 02 of our goals but we fall to the level of
our standards. Raise your standards.

Look into the Kaizen method and adopt

STEP 03 the organisation/improvement methods
into your life.

Realise that your wife cannot obey you if

STEP 04 you live in a shithole and tolerate such a
pig sty. Be sharp.

When you live in a billionaire's level of

STEP 05 cleanliness and perfection, you'll respect
yourself 100% more.

What Happens If Your Wife Questions You Doing

This?

She isn't going to complain about the new level of cleanliness

you live in, but she may suggest that you calm down and stop
being "OCD". This is her subconsciously trying to stop you
from elevating yourself, but keep going, you'll elevate her in
good time too. Lead by example.

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STEP 9 - KNOW WHERE YOU WANT

TO BE IN 3. 5 OR 10 YEARS

A man who doesn't know where he is going cannot possible lead

himself, which means his wife cannot possibly be led by him
either. Knowing where you are heading will help you get up in
the morning and light a fire under your ass to get to work.

Set a giant 10 year goal that seems

STEP 01 impossible. This will help you achieve
more than a smaller goal would.

Reverse engineer the goal into yearly,

STEP 02 quarterly, monthly, weekly and daily
goals. Step by step makes it easy.

Avoid talking too much about your plans

STEP 03 with your wife, she just needs to see
you're driven that's all.

Know in your gut that you WILL achieve

STEP 04 big things if you remain focused and
persitantly persue that ONE goal.

Remind your wife that she is your

STEP 05 sidekick and helper in all of this. She is
the woman behind the powerful man.

What Happens If Your Wife Questions You Doing

This?

Your wife may say that you are working too hard or dreaming
too big, but these are just her own insecurities shinning
through. Rather than judge her on them, help her by setting an
incredible example for her. You do your job and she will do her
job of helping and supporting you.

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STEP 10 - BECOME BLUNT AND

BRUTALLY HONEST
The key to this is to know what you can reveal and what you can’t.
NEVER EVER reveal to your wife any strong negative emotions as she
has to see that you have those under control. But do (tastefully) reveal
your brutally honest opinion on events, personal tastes, worldviews
etc. The more firmly you stand by those and the more controversial
you make them, the more sexually polarised things will become.

Accept that when you bite your tongue, it’s

STEP 01 because you are scared of losing your wife.
Don’t be, she secretly loves male honesty.

Avoid constantly vomiting your opinion

STEP 02 everywhere, save it for effect and express
only the most important ones to you.

Enjoy the thrill of rattling people’s

STEP 03 emotions with your carefully timed
“truth bombs”. Be strategic, not a troll.

Never make apologies for your brutal

STEP 04 honesty as that negates its effects.

The secret to doing this well is to

STEP 05 genuinely not care what people think
when you say it. Own it completely.

What Happens If Your Wife Questions You Doing

This?

She may say that she doesn't like your new rudeness or
meanness. Stop and think for a minute if you are being too
aggressive and socially unintelligent. If so, pull back a little but
make no apology. If not, it's just because your lover feels
threatend that another woman will find your honesty too
appealing.
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STEP 11 - HAVE SECRET ACHIEVEMENTS

SHE DOESN'T KNOW ABOUT
This is how you create huge amounts of mystery and intrigue. Imagine
being together for say, 5 years and then you visit a Russian speaking
country and you’re fluent in the language, but she never knew. Imagine
the shock, fascination and then attraction something like that would
trigger in your wife. You may not have such grand hidden talents as
that, but this can be done with all things good and bad, big or small.

Realise that your achievements make a

STEP 01 much bigger impact when she discovers
them for herself.

Resist the urge to boost your ego by

STEP 02 telling your wife as soon as you’ve made a
success of something.

Avoid ever saying things like “I’m going

STEP 03 to start a business”. Just start one and
let her see the results later.

Take up new hobbies in secret, but should

STEP 04 your wife find out about them be open
about it.

Carry this habit outside of your

STEP 05 relationship and avoid telling friends and
associates the same kind of things.

What Happens If Your Wife Questions You Doing

This?

Your wife may comment that she doesn't like you keeping
secrets of any kind from her. Do not fall into the trap of
agreeing with her and then confessing to 10 other "secrets".
Simply tease her further by saying that she doesn't want to
know what you get up to when she isn't looking. Leave her
wondering.
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STEP 12 - DEVELOP A KING'S

POSTURE

Stand, sit, walk and move like a King. Not an arrogant King but a
gracious and respectful King. Carry yourself in the right way and
your wife will soon pick up on it and start reflecting your posture
in the feminine form.

Stand up straight with your chin just

STEP 01 slightly raised to 181-182 degrees. Any
higher is too arrogant.

Sit with your legs wide open in a very

STEP 02 relaxed position.

Walk like you’ve just had a foursome with

STEP 03 lingerie models.

When moving your arms for effect, move

STEP 04 them a little slower than usual to convey
power.

Put your hands on your hips from time to

STEP 05 time to slightly intimidate who you’re talking
to. Without being a weirdo.

What Happens If Your Wife Questions You Doing

This?

Should your wife negatively comment on your "arrogant" body

language, it's because your body language isn't matching up
with your personality. You have to act and feel like a King to
walk like one.

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STEP 13 - GO ALL IN ON
SOMETHING
When choosing an occupation or a business model, pick one, get
obsessed and fully immerse yourself in that topic until you
become a master at it. Stop fucking around and hedging your bets
in 10 ventures at once. Do a deep dive and risk everything trying
to make it work. Your wife will start drooling over your intensity.
Cowards spread themselves too thinly, so avoid that.

When you decide on your direction, switch

STEP 01 off Youtube and Twitter to avoid getting
shiny object syndrome.

Remember that the universe rewards

STEP 02 patience and persistence. Test the idea, if
it’s viable, do not stop until mastery.

Not only should you be forgetting to

STEP 03 acknowledge your wife, but you should even
be forgetting to eat as you’re so obsessed.

Revel in the risk and the excitement of

STEP 04 placing all of your chips on yourself.

Put your wife in 2nd place compared to your

STEP 05 mission.

What Happens If Your Wife Questions You Doing

This?

Your Wife may say that you're ignoring her or getting

dangerously obsessed with your work, but unless you
genuinely feel you are, do not cave. Ignore her pleas but be
sure to be very present and in the moment when you spend
time with her.

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STEP 14 - QUIT OR CHANGE

YOUR JOB
You may not be in the position to do this right now, and it would
be irresponsible to do this if you had a family and no back up plan
at all. A huge part of your identity will be tied to your occupation
as a man, so by changing your job, you can massively shift how
you see yourself. It will also let you know how resourceful and
ballsy you are.

STEP 01 Save 6/12 months of expenses.

In that time, create a small side hustle

STEP 02 with a proven offer that has demand.

Wake up 2 hours before work to give your

STEP 03 best energy to the side hustle.

Set a deadline for when you will quit your

STEP 04 job.

Quit your job and go ALL IN pursuing your

STEP 05 ideal business or new occupation.

What Happens If Your Wife Questions You Doing

This?

Your wife will almost definitely try to talk you out of this, but if
it's something you know you need to do and get out of your
system, you have no choice. If you have kids you have to go a
little slower but if not, you should be risking EVERYTHING
trying to make it work, including what you have with your wife.
When it works, she'll love you even more for it.
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STEP 15 - QUIT ANY WEIRD

HABITS YOU HAVE
If you have any weird habits like mumbling, stuttering, twitching,
flinching, sulking, hoarding things or being clumsy, then you need
to train yourself out of them. Yes, even stuttering can be fixed, to
believe it can’t is a limiting belief and you’re being a coward just
by saying so. These weird habits are a weakness and convey
insecurity and fear.

By following most of the previous steps

STEP 01 you may find these habits disappear on
their own.

Call out your weird habit to a close friend

STEP 02 or associate and have them tell you every
time you do it.

Tell yourself you are no longer a mumbler

STEP 03 (Or whatever your odd habit is) and
sincerely mean it and believe it.

Picture how off putting your odd habit is to

STEP 04 your wife and imagine her repulsed by it.

Realise that when others learn of your odd

STEP 05 yet simple habit, they take you less seriously

What Happens If Your Wife Questions You Doing

This?

Whether your wife calls this out or not, depends on what your
weird habit was. A powerful move to make here is to mock
your old self and your old habit. Let her see your
transformation for what it is and use it to make you look even
better.

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STEP 16 - VISIT A MARTIAL

ARTS GYM
Pick a martial art and go to a gym at least 3 times before you
consider quitting. Be sure to have at least sparred before you quit.
Getting punched, kicked or thrown around will do wonders for
your ego and give you a basic foundation of fighting confidence.
Don't tell your wife you're going, let her find out indirectly or
never.

Pick your marital art, whatever scares you

STEP 01 the most is the best pick.

Tell your wife you're going the the (regular)

STEP 02 gym and head out.

Learn the foundations of the sport and do

STEP 03 some sparring with others.

Get punched in the face a couple of times,

STEP 04 feel the sting and then relaise it's not that
bad.

Continuing going if you like it or move on to

STEP 05 something else if you don't. But don't skip
this step, it's a confidence builder.

What Happens If Your Wife Questions You Doing

This?

If your wife finds out you're boxing or similar and she says "I
don't like men who fight". Just know it's because it's a very
overt expression of masculinity and she feels as though other
women may sniff you out and try to steal you from her.

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PUTTING IT ALL TOGTEHER

The aim of this Masculinity Reset is to 'kill' the old lesser

version of yourself and fully step into a new you.

But you need to be unrecognisable to the old you for

this to work. You can't just dabble in these steps.

The thought of becoming the ideal version of yourself

should scare you, because it involves risk and radical
change.

But if you don't go into that fear and reset yourself, then
you'll never get to experience the highs on the other
side.

You can't get high highs without low lows and this
Masculinity Reset will force you through difficult low
points that take time to pay off.

Remember that life is an alchemical process, which is a

fancy way of saying 'continuous refinement'.

You need to always be unrecognisable to the version of

you 5-10 years ago or you aren't undergoing this
alchemical transformation.

Get to work.

Dominant Polarity©