90 DAY - No Porn Advice & Tool Guide

The 90 Day No Porn Advice & Tool Guide is a helpful PDF-file with 13 bullet points for each
week, as it takes 13 weeks to complete a 90 day challenge.

It’s not a big ‘rebooting course’ or anything like that, but it’s an easy to read reboot guide
where I have taken into account what I have discovered about how it is normal to react
during certain phases of rebooting. I have also implemented specific action steps that are
best suited for you to do during those phases - from a psychological and neurobiological
standpoint.

Before jumping into the 13 weeks, it starts with a few important things for you to consider
before, and during, your journey...

Delete any erotic material you may have stored!

If you have files with downloaded pictures or videos on your computer, bookmarks
that contain favorite porn sites, or just have any trace of your porn history (including
your search and browsing history) make sure to delete all of it as soon as you’ve
read this guide.

There are two reasons for this.

1. It acts as a psychological statement to your brain that you are now

starting a new way of living.
2. It eliminates potential triggers you would sooner or later run into while
doing some otherwise innocent computer work.

Know that it’s over now!

You really want to make your brain understand that the old way of living is gone and
there’s no going back there.

It doesn’t matter if you feel sad about it, feel depressed or even feel some kind of
grief.

If that’s the case then it’s actually a good thing because then you can almost make a
ceremony out of deleting your old erotic content, and thus it’ll affect you more.
So go ahead and grieve.

Maybe you’ll even play some sad music while you’re doing it and then perhaps you
can go out and treat yourself to a nice dinner when it’s over. Doing things like that is
always beneficial as it will have a bigger impact on your brain whenever you stack
things on top of each other.

Obviously you should also get rid of any old DVDs, VHS-tapes, porn magazines or
any kind of erotica you may have hoarded over the years.

Write down your “why”

You should also have a rebooting journal where you write down things you discover
about yourself and the rebooting process as you keep trudging forward on your
journey.

I recommend you write things down using a real physical pen and paper instead of
journaling on your computer.

Studies have actually shown that when you use the brain-hand connection, as
you do when writing with a pen, it has a bigger impact on your brain.
Any notebook will do, but if you can make it stylish and meaningful, all the better.

Your “why”

The very first thing you should write down in your notebook is the exact reason for
why you want to do NoFap in the first place.

To help with this, think about where you could be 3 years from now if you managed
to quit your addiction.

How good could your life be?

Write…it…all…down!

This is your “why” and as you’ll see later on, it’ll be very important.

Your “why not”

Do the same with your “why not”.

Your “why not” is obviously all the reasons for why you should NOT continue to fapp
to porn.

Write down what your life could look like 3 years from now if your porn habit
escalates and things take a sharp turn for the worse.

Really try to picture the worst case scenario in your mind's eye. Make it vivid and
scary…

…then, write it down!

This is your “why not”.

 Identify your triggers!

Another thing you want to write down in your notebook is things that trigger you to
use porn.

Write down all the triggers you can think of.

Just in case you don’t know what a trigger is; a trigger is what starts the whole
relapsing process. That’s right, every single relapse is preceded by a trigger, whether
you are aware of it or not.

Triggers can be…

● Visual triggers (like for example seeing a hot fitness model on

Instagram)
● Emotional triggers (like for example feelings of loneliness,
disappointment, anger or stress)
● A certain time of the day (like for example coming home from school
or at night when your wife leaves the house to go to a night class)

A trigger is basically anything that reminds your brain of your porn sessions.

“Triggers can produce very strong cravings or urges to act out. By writing
down every single one you can think of you’ll be better equipped to handle
them in the heat of the moment. Because remember; by writing things
down it has a bigger impact on your brain. Writing is like thinking on
steroids”
 Create barriers to relapse!

This one is more important than you think.

One of the key drivers of both addictions and bad habits is ease of use.

By putting some form of barrier between you and the relapse you often save yourself
from going down the rabbit hole of porn.

“Barriers are obviously neither fail-safe or a permanent

solution. But oftentimes they provide you with just enough
time to get you out of that relapsing mode and get the logical
part of your brain back in gear.”

There are literally hundreds of ways you can make it harder for you to act on your
impulses.

Be creative and smart about it!

Some examples of barriers could be…

● Only use your laptop at the kitchen table and never in your bedroom –
while removing the kitchen curtains so that people that walk by can see
you.
● Turn off the internet 2-4 hours before going to bed every night.
(I call this “operation blackout” and it is especially helpful in the
beginning of a reboot)
● By a time-lock safe for your phone / sim card / router (this is a small
container that works with a time-lock).
● Install a good adult site blocker (I highly recommend Covenant Eyes, as
that is the absolute best one out there –using the feature of an
accountability partner as well –which is very powerful. If you use promo
code STRONGER when signing up you get the first 30 days FREE )
● Take your phone / internet cable and put it in your garage every night
after 6pm
● Make your phone black and white (gray-scale) and then lock that mode
by using a “lock me out” app. There is literally an app called “lock me
out”. Search for it in your app store, for just a few bucks (not sponsored
by this one)
This is surprisingly effective as porn looks very boring without colors.

Remember, the more time you spend in front of your laptop or on your phone, the
bigger the risks of a relapse. Especially at the end of the day when you’re tired and
your willpower is weaker.

In the beginning of your reboot, you really need to limit your internet use and have
some barriers in place.

If reducing the amount of internet use sounds daunting, keep in mind that it’s not for
life. After about a month or two you’re already going to be stronger and rebooting
becomes easier. Then you can start experimenting with introducing more internet
time again, if you feel like it.
 Come up with replacement activities!

Acute and long term activities!

Related to the last point are replacement activities, as they are also a form of a
barrier between you and your favorite porn site.

You need to have both long term replacement activities as well as short term (acute)
replacement activities.

Long-term replacement activities…

Look, you can’t just give up a big part of your life (fapping to porn) while still
spending the same amount of time in front of your laptop or on your phone.

Well, some people can, but they are few and far between and from all the 1 on 1
coaching I have done I would estimate that at least 95% of people can not.

“If you have spent 6 hours a week on porn, then you need to find
something else to fill that 6 hour void with.”

Preferably something meaningful, but anything away from the screen is good enough
in the beginning.

Keep working on finding your purpose though, because again, you can’t just rip your
beloved porn away without filling the void with something else.

Short-term replacement activities…

Short term replacement activities are also important. Especially in the beginning of a
reboot.

The difference between short-term and long-term replacement activities is that the
short-term is “acute” i.e. something you resort to in the “heat of the moment”, when
you feel that you are in danger of relapsing.
Some examples of good “acute” replacement activities are…

● Taking a cold shower

● Going to a cafe (without taking your phone with you)
● Visiting a friend
● Taking a walk in the nature
● Going to a movie
● Doing push-ups
● Doing the Wim Hof breathing method
● Meditating
● Journal

Warning: a common mistake guys are doing is to make their replacement activity
way too demanding.

Like for example…

“Whenever I have urges I will go for a 20k run followed by a 5 minute cold shower
and then meditate for 30 minutes”…

Yeah, well, good luck with that!

That’s not going to work. The gap between the allure of the porn and the effort of
your replacement plan is just way too big.

Your replacement activity needs to be something that can be executed quickly and
fairly effortlessly!

Decide in advance…

You need to decide in advance and come up with something that you’ll do away from
the scene of the crime (phone / laptop), when you feel that you are in danger of a
reboot. So, decide on one activity as your primary replacement activity!

This is very important and can not be overstated, because in the heat of the moment
you are not that rational and if you try to decide which one to use while you are
ridden by urges, you have already lost the game.

“Your replacement activity needs to be decided on in advance and ready

to execute.”
 Your 13 Week Journey!

Week 1 - Survival Mode Week!

General:

The first four weeks are the absolute hardest part of a 90 day reboot. In particular the
first two weeks. Once you get past 4 weeks, for most people it will get a lot easier.

Common mistakes:

One common mistake people make in the beginning is to make a rebooting plan that
is WAY too strict. They are trying to fit in as many good things as possible, like for
example a daily 10 mile run, two cold showers, 30 minutes of meditation, strength
training etc. all on the same day.

This is a psychological trap we fall into when trying to compensate for our last
relapse binge and we so desperately want to see a better future. So, we come up
with a plan and do not realize that we overcompensate and that the plan is way too
strict for it to work in the long run. DO NOT DO THIS. It WILL backfire!

Also, your testosterone levels spike at the end of the first week, which can cause
massive urges, so be aware of that. They will drop back down in the second week
though (this is not a mistake, but it is something you should be aware of).

Action steps:

● Stay away from the internet as much as possible.

● Do physical exercise in moderation.
● Plan your day.
● Take long walks in the evening to help you limit your phone / internet use.

The first week is all about survival and licking your wounds from your last relapse
and the most important thing here is to stay away from the internet as much as
possible.
Limiting your internet use...

The reason for limiting your internet use is because you can’t rely on your willpower
yet. Every addiction causes a weaker prefrontal cortex (PFC- the part of your brain
that is responsible for self control and willpower).

The good news is that, with time, your PFC will grow stronger and stronger, but in
the beginning your willpower is simply not enough. It has to be built up slowly.

The physical exercise...

Do physical exercise in moderation and by all means meditate, if you feel like it, and
do all the other self help things you want in moderation, but don’t be too hard on
yourself with all the things that require an enormous amount of discipline at this
moment. This is exactly because your main energy needs to be directed at just
getting through the day.

Being kind to yourself...

Even if you happen to eat more junk food than usual, and get less productive work
done, that’s ok because, again, your main focus right now is to just survive the first
week. In order to help you stay away from the internet as much as possible, take
long walks in the afternoon and consider NOT using the internet at all when getting
back home from your walk.

Week 2 - Clinging On Week!

General:

In the second week it is common that some of the aggressive urges you experienced
in the first week convert into a low mood instead. It’s now common to start
experiencing a “deeper” lack of motivation that is often accompanied by depression.
This is most likely due to low dopamine levels.

Common mistakes:

Forgetting your reasons for wanting to do a PMO reboot. Most guys do not keep
reminding themselves of their “WHY” i.e. why it’s important for them to do a PMO
reboot. It’s fresh in your mind during the first days, but the fact is that already in the
second week, your “why” starts to pale.
Action steps:

● Remind yourself of your “ why” on a daily basis.

● Daily physical exercise is a MUST in order to mitigate the side effects of low
dopamine levels.
● Plan your day.

If you didn’t write down why you want to reboot, back when you first started your
journey, now it's time to do so. It has to be done in the second week (by the latest).
Write it down on a piece of paper and put it in your wallet.

This is not enough, however, since you need to keep reminding yourself of it on a
daily basis. Make a habit out of picturing yourself where you could be three years
from now if you stop PMO’ing (this is your “why”) and then also picture yourself
where you could be if you don’t stop (this is your “why not”).

In order to combat the low dopamine levels, which are at their lowest level in the
second and third week, you also need to be doing daily physical exercise. Right now,
physical exercise is more important than mediation and cold showers, or any other
tools out there.

Week 3 - Sensitized Pathways Week!

General:

According to brain science the sensitized pathways in an addict's brain actually grow
stronger now than they were in your first week. These are the pathways in your brain
that remember how good it feels to use “your drug of choice”.

A sensitized pathway is basically a super memory of pleasure.

This does not mean that your urges and cravings will be stronger now than in your
first week. Most of the time they are actually weaker. However, IF you are presented
with a trigger right around here, THEN those sensitized pathways can fire up and
give you stronger urges than you’ve ever experienced.

Common mistakes:

Becoming too confident and underestimating the power of the addiction.

The increased confidence from being able to go for more than two weeks, in
combination with not being aware of the sensitized pathways actually being stronger
by now, can completely knock you off your feet, when suddenly presented with an
unexpected trigger...and then, the relapse is a fact.

Action steps:

● Have an “emergency” replacement activity planned for when the urges hit.
● Daily physical exercise.
● Plan your day.

By now you need to have an exact plan for what to do instead of relapsing when hit
by an unexpected trigger. This is precisely because of the sensitized pathways being
stronger by now. If you are hit by a trigger that completely overwhelms you with
urges, then your replacement activity needs to be there, active and ready to be
executed. It is a MUST have! There are hundreds of good activities you can come up
with, just make sure it is something you do AWAY from your phone and computer.

In addition, your dopamine levels are still very low. They should start rising after
about a week or two from here, albeit VERY slowly. But nevertheless, sunnier days
up ahead so hold on tight. However, because the levels are still very low, you still
need to keep up the daily physical exercise this week.

Week 4 - Reinforcement Week!

General:

Hold on, it will probably get easier after this week!

Yes, it is probably the last week of the excruciating lowest of the low dopamine
levels. They should slowly start rising from here on out. For some people they may
even have started doing so in week 3.

Common mistakes:

Even though the dopamine levels should start rising after this week, they are still
very low and a lot of guys simply get too tired of this depressing state, they can’t
stand it and mess up. And so, they go on a complete destructive binge right around
here.
Action steps:

● Keep reminding yourself of your “Why” in order to make it through to the next
phase, where dopamine starts to rise.
● Daily physical exercise.
● On a daily basis, remind yourself that it will slowly start getting easier once
you get past this week.

Keep reminding yourself of your “why” and your “why not”. It is important to do this
during your whole reboot, but now you are in a vulnerable place, having had to go
through so many days with very low dopamine levels, that it now is especially
important in order for you to be able to push through to the next level.

Also, don’t get lazy with physical exercise. It’s more important now than ever. In a
couple of weeks from now you can cut back on it, if you like, but again, your
dopamine levels are still very low and physical exercise really helps to combat this.

Week 5 - Newfound Motivation!

General:

Congratulations, the hardest part is behind you!

Of course you’re not out of the woods yet. There will still be plenty of storms to
come, but the fact is that most guys experience a much smoother reboot from here
on out and there is nothing wrong with congratulating yourself to keep you motivated.

Common mistakes:

The dopamine levels are rising now, but they have just now started to do so which
means they are still low. Some guys are getting tired of the physical exercise, but It’s
not yet time to cut back on it.

Action steps:

● Keep up with daily physical exercise.

● Avoid getting too confident, triggers are still dangerous.
● Congratulate yourself for making it past the hardest part.
● Start thinking about some new, interesting hobbies / goals.

Keep up with the daily physical exercise. Next week you can start to cut back on it a bit, if
you want to, but just to be on the safe side, keep the daily exercise going until this week is
over.
Start thinking about some new interesting goals that you could start working on. You don’t
need to come to a conclusion yet, but as it’s common for creativity to start increasing right
around week 6 and 7, ( a pretty cool benefit, right? ) it would be foolish to not take advantage
of that by trying some new things in life.

Week 6 - Things Are Getting Brighter!

General:

It is now pretty common to notice how things are getting brighter. The explanation for
this is a better functioning dopamine system. Now, it’s probably not yet nowhere near
fully recovered, but there will be at least some more dopamine receptors available by
now, for your beloved dopamine to be able to bind to.

This will help you feel less depressed, a bit more motivated and things will just be
easier in general.

Common mistakes:

We can always make mistakes, but I can’t really find any typical ones that most guys
do right around here.

Action steps:

● You should still exercise, but you don’t have to do it every single day, if you
don’t want to. Feel free to cut down a bit.
● Add meditation in order to fuel the increased creativity even further.
● Decide what new hobbies / goals you will start working on.

Most guys are now experiencing a significantly higher level of creativity so this is a
wonderful time to start working on some new goals or getting some new hobbies.
Last week you were supposed to start thinking about some. This week you should
decide. Even if not really sure yet, just decide and go with something.

Don’t neglect this, as you have to realize that everything you do is programming your
brain in some way, and by doing this action step you will slowly start training your
brain to alo start focusing on going towards ‘what you want’ in life instead of just
running away from things you ‘don’t want’.

Sure, we want both the carrot and the stick, and in the first weeks of your reboot the
stick is extremely important, but now you are already getting so far into your reboot
that it is time to start training your brain on what awesome things can be achieved.
Good things to come!
Week 7 - Continuing The Path!

General:

There is nothing really special about week 7, in terms of neurobiology, however right
now you are in a phase where your brain is open to a new life. Look at this phase as
“a learning” phase.

This learning or “discovery phase” can be pretty new to your brain, so it could be
wise to help guide it by planning the future, visualizing your goals and to journal.

Common mistakes:

Right around here there are no typical mistakes other than many guys don’t take
advantage of this new opportunity to steer their brains towards new and exciting
things to get more out of their reboot.

Action steps:

● Keep working on your new goals or hobbies.

● Don’t forget to still do physical exercise a few times a week.
● If you haven’t been journaling, this is a good place to start.

Start journaling to help guide your brain. It’s also an excellent tool to help you reach
the goals you have set for yourself. By writing things down you get a better idea of
what kind of strategies will make you excel faster. It just works. So, do it!

Week 8 - Acclimation Danger!

General:

As with so many other things, in life, whenever we reach a new level we quickly
acclimate. There is nothing wrong with that, except when it comes to rebooting it
comes with a huge danger; forgetting the past and how easy it can be to slip.

Common mistakes:

After a couple of weeks of feeling a bit better many guys will slowly, but surely start
to forget what it was like down at the bottom, how easy it is to slip and relapse, and
they get a false sense of security.
It is a great thing to move on in life, and not to dwell on the past, but when it comes
to PMO rebooting it is a bit different. We need to keep reminding us of how horrifying
it is to be stuck in a PMO relapse cycle in order for us to do everything we can to
NOT go back there.

Sure you can back off with reminding yourself of that in the future, but not yet. We
are talking about at least a couple of years of being clean before you should do that.

You are not out of the woods yet and you need to stay sharp!

Action steps:

● Remind yourself of your “why not”.

● Keep journaling.
● Meditate.

Journal and meditate to further help your brain, steering it in the direction of the new
life you want to have.

Once more, be meticulous with reminding yourself of your “why” and your “why not”.
In this phase the “why not” is even more important than your “why” as in this
acclimation phase you will have to remind yourself a bit of just exactly how bad it
was to be stuck in the relapse cycle.

We tend to forget, and forgetting that one is dangerous. Many guys have relapsed
because of this, started binge relapsing again and pretty much wiped out two
months' progress in a matter of a few days. Not good!

Week 9 - Reliving The Past!

General:

Almost nothing lasts for just one week, and so, you are still in the acclimation phase.
This means you will still have to keep reminding yourself of the past to prevent you
from going back there.
Of course, your main focus should be on your goals and on your future, but a
constant reminder of the past needs to be in place.
Common mistakes:

As the new life feels so much better, most guys just do not want to be thinking about
the past any longer, even though they know they probably should. Now is NOT the
time to forget, as again, you are far from being out of the woods...yet, you have
come so far that you don’t want to wipe out all your progress by falling back into
weeks of binging again.

Action steps:

● Daily thinking of your “why not”.

● Swap mediation for physical exercise again.
● Journal and keep planning your new life.

In order to not get depressed from having to do the, somewhat mentally taxing, task
of reminding yourself of the past, don’t forget physical exercise. Physical exercise is
such a wonderful tool whenever we have to deal with draining stuff.

Week 10 - More Colors In Life!

General:

Your dopamine receptors have continued to recover and things are continuing to get
better. Music may perhaps sound better. Food may perhaps taste better. The colors
in your life are really starting to become noticeable.
Common mistakes:

Mistakes can, and will, always be made, but I can see no mistakes that are typical
right around here.

Action steps:

● Keep working on your goals.

● Keep journaling.

You are in a perfect position to keep working on your goals. From here on out you
should really make sure to always have goals that you are working on. Both long
term and short term goals. They will prevent you from going off track again and
somehow drift back to a life filled with instant gratification and destructive dopamine
addictions.
Week 11 - Evaluating Progress!

General:

Congratulations! 70 days are behind you and you are now riding on a really, really
good streak.

Since everyone is different, and since the things I have written in this guide is made
considering “average data '', your situation may of course be different and with 70
days under your belt, you now have enough data on your own to sit down and
evaluate your progress.

Common mistakes:

Nothing typical here.

Action steps:

● Evaluate your reboot.

● Continue journaling.
● Continue working on your goals.

What would you say have been the most helpful things during your reboot so far?
Spend this week thinking about that and the reasons for why that is, all while you
continue working on your goals.

Week 12 - Implement Your Findings!

General:

As you spent your last week analyzing and thinking about your reboot so far, you
were bound to come up with some conclusions on what has been particularly helpful
for you, as well as things that have maybe felt more like a waste of time and energy.

Common mistakes:

It is pretty common that, for example ultramarathon runners, tend to crash just before
the finish line, due to a psychological phenomenon that we do not yet fully
understand. This is also true in other domains and other “bigger” taks we set out to
achieve. Some PMO rebooters also fall into this trap and relapse right before they
are about to hit the big 90.

Don’t let this happen to you!

Action steps:

● Implement / reinforce your findings as you go forward.

● Keep working on your goals.
● Stay strong as you last week is about to arrive.

Taylor your daily action routines to your findings you’ve been pondering last week.
Implement, or do more of, the things that you think have given you the most bang for
the buck and cut down, or eliminate, the actions steps that didn’t really do anything
for you. From here on out you are your own best teacher.

Week 13 - The Big 90 Around The Corner!

This is your final week and by the end of it, you will be reaching 90 days!

I will no longer give you action steps, as you are now your own best teacher,
however, I will give you a few recommendations.

Recommendations:

As you close in on the big 90, look back on your journey and feel proud of yourself.
You should at the same time be careful not to start underestimating the power of the
addiction.

Guys have relapsed on day 88 or day 89 even though they were just a couple of
days away from reaching one of their biggest goals in life and that should really tell
us something about the power of an addiction.

Many guys have also relapsed in the fourth, fifth or sixth month and even further
along the road than that.

At the same time, don’t get paralyzed by fear because of it.

I recommend you keep journaling as you go forward because that is such an

incredible tool to help you keep your brain on track.

It will remind you of the hellhole you once spent your darkest days in and thus
prevent you from starting to drift in a direction that will take you back there.
It is also a great tool for assisting you in your new life, assisting your brain with
finding clever ways on how to achieve all the new goals you set for yourself.

Work on putting your life in order!

There is a reason for why I put this last, but that doesn’t mean it’s to be neglected.

It’s because this is something that you don’t fix in just a couple of weeks. It’s
something that takes time.

I don’t know if you have developed addiction related brain changes from all the years
of fapping to porn or not, but most guys who find it difficult to stop relapsing have at
least some form of addiction related brain changes. I.e. they fill the criteria of being
classified as an addict. (If you’re unsure, you can take the porn addiction test right
here).

If you are addicted, you need to be aware of the fact that it is almost impossible to
overcome an addiction if you keep being a “party animal” and otherwise have bad
lifestyle habits.

A messy lifestyle = bad success rate…

If you spend most of your days playing video games, watching Netflix and surfing on
social media, while eating a crappy diet and doing little to no physical exercise, it’s
going to be very difficult for you to overcome your addiction.

If you on top of that also like to get hammered and smoke weed on weekends or
even worse, almost daily, then overcoming a porn addiction will be almost an
impossible task.

During my 10 years in the porn addiction community, I have seen almost no one
successfully quit who keeps living like that.

I’m not telling you this to scare you, but rather to encourage you to make some good
lifestyle changes.

Look, it’s not like you can’t ever party again or indulge in junk food or any hedonic
pleasures, but in general you need to be taking good care of yourself. You definitely
have to have more “good days” than “bad days”.
And just in case you’re not entirely sure what I mean by taking good care of yourself
then, here you go…

● Make sure your sleep is okay.

● Do some physical exercise a few times a week.
● You can’t be eating junk food every single day of the week.
● Eliminate or drastically reduce alcohol or any other recreational drug
use.
● Have a purpose outside of NoFap. I.e. you need to have meaningful
goals that you keep working on.

All of those are going to help you both on a biological level as well as on a
psychological level.

Let’s not get into the biology behind it here, other than to just say that with a healthy
brain and a healthy dopamine system everything becomes easier.

But let me just say a few words about the psychological part…

Your identity and the psychology of taking good care of

yourself…

John Dryden said: “First we make our habits, then our habits make us”.

That is 100% correct.

You see, whenever you do healthy things you are forming your identity in line with
that of a person who takes good care of himself.

Then, after that identity is formed, it will be much easier to do healthy things
automatically.

This is because…

“The strongest force in the human personality is the need to

stay consistent with how we define ourselves”.

Meaning, if you view yourself as a person who takes good care of himself (identity)
you would rather go to the gym and work on your goals than spend the whole day
playing video games.
Now, sure it would still take a bit of effort to go lift, but you’d feel an intrinsic
motivation to do so. So much so that it becomes a pull and an almost automatic
behavior…

…your identity becomes your core driver!

In other words, if you view yourself as a person who takes good care of himself, you
will always have an intrinsic motivation to do things that are good for you, which also
includes staying away from porn relapses.

The opposite is also true…

If you have an identity of that of a person who does NOT take that good care of
himself, it will be much easier for you to relapse.

Even though you know porn is not good for you, you would still relapse from time to
time because, hey, that’s just in line with what a person who does not take that good
care of himself would do.

And remember, you form your identity by first creating habits…

…either good or bad ones.

You become your habits…

Like James Clear puts it in his book Atomic Habits: “every action you take is a vote
for the person you wish to become”.

If you take a short walk, well that’s not going to change your body much, but it is still
a vote for being a person who takes good care of himself.

If you skip working on your project one day and you just lie on the couch eating
candy, well that’s probably not going to destroy your future, but it is still one more
vote for being a lazy person.

“Once you have enough votes pointing towards a certain

kind of identity, you start to embody it and -after that- you’ll
have an intrinsic drive to act it out.”
So, decide who you want to become and then start proving it to yourself with
repeated small wins, by stacking up those votes.

Votes that make you view yourself as a healthy, grounded man. A man who takes
such good care of himself the last thing he’d want would be to mess up his dopamine
system, erectile health and self esteem by watching porn.

You can do this.

I believe in you!

-Scandinavian Bob-

P.S. And again, if you’re unsure of whether or not you really have a porn addiction,
you can take the porn addiction test right here.

However, it’s important to understand that one does not have to be a full-blown
addict, in order for porn to have detrimental effects on you.

P.P.S This 90-day tool guide provides helpful tools and tips, but it's not a
comprehensive step-by-step, online course for quitting porn.

If you're still struggling after using these tools, consider checking out my full online
course, 'The 4-Step Porn Crushing System.'

This comprehensive course includes video, audio, and written content, offering an
easy to follow, step-by-step formula for quitting porn and achieving the life you
desire. It has already helped many men overcome relapses for good.

And again, if you’re unsure of whether or not you really have a porn addiction, you
can take the porn addiction test right here. However, it’s important to understand that
one does not have to be a full-blown addict, in order for porn to have detrimental
effects on you.