Understanding The Self Ge 1 Module Asc
Understanding The Self Ge 1 Module Asc
UNDERSTANDING THE SELF is a three (3) unit course with 3 hours lecture every
week for 54 hours in the semester. The nature of this course deals with the identity, factors
and forces that impact the improvement and care of individual identity. The pronouncement
to go on oneself has inspired in numerous and varied ways to follow. Among the questions
that are frequently asked by many people ”Who am I” asking this question are usually
troubled with their identity and are exploring for the awareness of themselves. The
incongruity is that if you look more on to view who you are, the much flimsy you are apt to
look about yourself.
This course is supposed to help the search of the concerns and issues on self and
identity and it seeks to fit this end by consolidating all the personal with the scholarly matters
discussed in the day to day experiences of students.
In this course it is divided into three major parts: The first part [Unit I]seeks to help
and understand the construction of the self from several perspectives such as, philosophy,
sociology, anthropology, and psychology as also the traditional division between the East and
West each searching to give answers to the question of“ who am I”.
The second part [Unit II] looks for some of the several views of the self, such as the
physical, sexual, spiritual, political, material, and digital self the period of the new generation
[GEN Z].
The final part [Unit III] identifies the three areas of interest for young generations,
such as, learning, goal setting, and managing stress. It also gives a more applicable application
of the ideas delivered in this course. Enables them the personal experience of developing
themself, helping them to plan for self-regulated learning, goal setting, and self-care. (CHED
Training Second Batch Generation).
All parts of this book are reserved and belong to the author.
Reproducing any parts of this book without permission
from the author is prohibited.
Clarinda A. Reyes
Eric G. Claudio
Authors
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Crisanto D. de Jesus
Mary Claire D. Calura
Melissa Belinda P. Faronilo
Elizabeth S. Manuel
Venus A. Vitles Co-
Authors
Andrelenz Buenaventura
Maureen Joyce Santiago
Contributors
TABLE OF CONTENTS
PREFACE i
INTRODUCTION TO THE UNDERSTANDING THE SELF
“WHO AM I” v
Unit 1: THE SELF FROM VARIOUS PERSPECTIVE 1
Philosopher’s Perspective of the Self 3
References 10
Self From the Perspective of Anthropology 12
Sociology 14
References 17
Self From the Perspective of Anthropology 19
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Anthropology 20
References 22
Self From the Perspective of Psychology 24
Psychology 27
References 31
The Self From Eastern and Western 33
Eastern and Western Philosophy 34
References 37
UNIT II: UNPACKING THE SELF 39
The Physical Self 44
References 46-47
The Sexual Self 49
Sex and Human Values 54
References 58
Material/Economic Self 60
I Shop Therefore I am, I have Therefore I am 64
References 67
Spiritual Self 70
Spirituality and Religion 72
References 75
Political Self 79
Developing a Filipino Identity 81
References 83
The Digital Self 86
I,Me,Myself, My User ID Online 88
References 93
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UNIT III: MANAGING AND CARING FOR THE SELF 97
Learning to be a better Student 99
References 102
Setting Goals for Success 105
Setting Goals for the Self 106
References 109
Stressors Responses 113
What is Stress 115
References 122
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INTRODUCTION TO THE UNDERSTANDING OF THE SELF
WHO AM I?
In this unit, students will understand the construction of the self from several
perspectives. The student will also reflect on a concrete experience from a holistic point of
view.
Learning Objectives
Setting Up
Activity 1.1.1
WHO I AM?
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1. Appetitive soul is the part of the person that is motivated by want and need
to satisfy oneself. This satisfaction involves physical needs and pleasures and
desires, objects and situations.
2. Spirited Soul is a brave part of a person. The one who desires to do
something or to right the wrong that they observe. This is very competitive and is
very active. Competitiveness drives one to anticipate positive results and winning.
3. Rational soul is the drive of our lives. The part that thinks and plans for the
future. It decides what to do when to do it and the possible results one could have
depending on their actions.
ST. AUGUSTINE
A Saint and a philosopher of the
church. He follows the concept that God
embraces us all, he said that everything
will be better if we are with God. For him
God and his teachings affect several
aspects in life.
He relates our existence to God being
modeled in his likeness though being alive
means that we are still far from God and
has yet to be true with him.
The soul can be immortal through communion with the divine. He viewed
that dual nature of self in the circumstance where one is not perfect and immortal.
The soul is capable of immortality through the communion with the Christian God.
While in-universe, the body will live in virtue, longing to be with God.
RENE DESCARTES
Is a French Philosopher not able to
be the father of modern philosophy
because of his radical use of a systematic
and early scientific method to help his
assumptions? He believes in modern
dualism or the existence was presented
with the evidence from experiments as
well as philosophical reasoning.
He is famous to be the advocate of
methodical doubt. He defined the roles of
the mind and body to the belief of one’s
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sum” [I think therefore I am].
He viewed the dual nature of self where the mind is a thinking thing that
makes a man, and the body is a mere machine. Cogito is the mind enabling our
fundamental existence. The body is just an extension of it. He proved that this
statement is completely true.
According to him “I am thinking” and “I exist” is a combination of “ cogito ergo
sum” ‘I think therefore I am ‘.
JOHN LOCKE
For him, the self is most delineated by the idea “Tabula Rasa” [blank
slate] He believed that the experiences and perceptions of an individual are
necessary for the establishment of who that person can become. He said that a
person is born with knowing nothing and that is capable to input learning from the
experiences, failures, references, and observation of the person.
He viewed that consciousness is the center of the self. According to him the
personal identity and psychological continuity define who we are which means if
we have memory versions of ourselves through time, then we can still define
ourselves as such.
DAVID HUME
He is a Scottish Philosopher, he
focused his work in the field of empiricism,
skepticism, and naturalism. Self is a
collection of different impressions and
does not exceed the physical kingdom. He
said there is no permanent self because
impressions of things are based on our
experiences where we can make our
concepts and knowledge. Hence, it might
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cited that the self is nothing but a collection of impressions. He defined
experiences as either impressions or ideas. According to him, impressions are
products of our direct experiences while ideas are copies of our impressions.
IMMANUEL KANT
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“Freud's Psychoanalytic Theory on Instincts Motivation, Personality and Development”
open the link and watch the video presentation https://www.youtube.com/watch?
v=7vFf5CS27-Y
GILBERT RYLE
He gained first-class honors at
Queen’s College, Oxford, and became a
lecturer at Christ Church College in 1924.
His first book, The Concept of Mind
(1949), is considered a modern classic. He
challenges the traditional difference
between body and mind as delineated by
René Descartes.
According to him the Traditional
Cartesian dualism, commit a serious
confusion when searching beyond the
human body. It views the mind as an
additional mysterious thing not subject to
observation or to mechanical laws, rather
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He contradicts the duality idea of the self, particularly the non-physical
self. The self is just a brand we call all the behaviors we make as individuals.
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PAUL CHURCHLAND
A Canadian philosopher who
focuses on the idea that people should
improve our association and use of worth
in distinguishing the self.
The self is defined by the motility
of our brain. His work turns around folk
psychology or common sense
psychology. The main philosophy is the
idea of
“ eliminative materialism “ [debates
that people’s common sense
understanding of the mind is false and the
mental states that man are into are not
existing; applies the understanding of
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He was a materialist who believed that nothing but a physical entity exists.
His manger the idea of a non-physical mind as the place of consciousness. He
supported the self-based on brain states rather than in mental states.
MAURICE JEAN JACQUES MERLEAU-PONTY
A French phenomenological
philosopher, powerfully influenced by
Edmund Husserl and Martin Heidegger.
He is famous for his works on
existentialism and phenomenology. Self-
regarded that the body and mind are not
separate entities instead those two
elements are one and the same. He
creates the concept of the phenomenology
of perception [unity of the function of the
mind and the body ] which is divided into
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The body that both obtains the experiences as well as incorporates like
experiences in the different perceptions.
The Perceived world is the accumulation of the perception and merged by the
experiences of the body.
The people and the world enable one to not only be able to integrate the other
objects in the universe but also to be able to experience the cultural aspect and
associate to some.
References
Internet resources
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MelSchwartz,L.C.S.W.,Retrieved
from.,https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/shiftmind/201006/who-am-i
https://www.nourfoundation.com/events/Perspectives-on-the-Self/Conversations-on-
Identity-andConsciousness.html
https://www.slideshare.net/shinpaiwa/understanding-the-self-lecture-1-
philosophicalperspectives
https://www.wattpad.com/715925505-understanding-the-self-
philosophicalperspective/page/2
https://www.coursehero.com/file/35714954/2-The-Self-from-Various-
PerspectivePhilosophyModulepdf/
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Assessing Learning
Quiz 1.1.1
Learning Objectives
At the end of the unit, I am able to:
1. describe the self as a social structure.
2. explain the four stages of role development in child socialization.
3. analyze the importance of socialization for individuals and society.
4. explain the nature versus nurture debate.
5. describe both the conformity of behavior in society and the existence of individual
uniqueness.
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6. learn the roles of families and peer groups in socialization.
7. understand how we are socialized through formal institutions like schools, workplaces,
and the government.
8. explain how people are socialized into new roles at age-related transition points.
Setting Up
Activity 1.2.1
PICTURE RECOGNITION
Name:____________________________________ Date:_________________________
Section:_______________________________
REVALIDATING MYSELF
Ask three persons who are close to you (Friend, Classmate, Family, Colleagues) about
your own characteristics. On the space provided, write the details given to you by someone
whom you asked. Validate your answer whether you agree or disagree on it and explain your
reason behind your validation.
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1.Name: ________________________ Relationship: (Friend, Family, Classmate) ______________
Characteristics given to you
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Lesson Proper
Sociology
Sociology is nearly concerned with the way that influences our behavior patterns. It is
broad by the manner of behavior differ from class and gender.
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He pioneered the sociological
Charles Horton Cooley perspectives on the self-development
[1864– 1929]. He declared that the people’s
understanding of the self is constructed,
”looking glass self” in part, is their
conceptualization of how others see them
[Cooley, 1902]. People imagine how they
must look to some, on certain outfits, fix
their hair, and how they wear makeup. The
perception that our look is going to change
how some others view us.
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Social Self George Herbert Mead
Mead [1863–1931] precocious a more
elaborated sociological approach to the self.
He agreed that the self is an individual’s
clear individuality that developed only
through social interaction. He argued that
the critical element of the self is its
capability for self-reflection, its capacity to
be “an object to itself” (Mead, 1934).
According to Mead, it broke the self-down
into two components
or “phases,” the “I” and the “me.”
“Me” represents the part of the self as “I” on the others’ hand, represents
“organized sets of attitudes” towards the the portion of the self that acts on its own
self. It is who we are in others eyes: our drive or reacts to the organized attitudes of
roles, our others like a novel, spontaneous,
“personalities,” our public personas. unpredictable portion of the self. It is always
caught up in a social process, in which we
turn back and forth between the I and the
Me.
The examples provided by Gallinero, et al., [p.24,2018] support this model.
References
Gallinero,W.B., Reyes, C.A.,Claudio, E.G., Alegado, A.M.,Understanding the Self. Two sides of
Self, 2018, 24,: Mutya Publishing House, Inc.:Malabon City Internet sources
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https://courses.lumenlearning.com/sociology/chapter/theories-of-selfdevelopment/
#:~:text=Sociological%20Theories%20of%20Self%2DDevelopment,One%20of
%20the&text=Later%2C%20George%20Herbert%20Mead%20(1863,thr ough%20the
%20eyes%20of%20others.
https://laulima.hawaii.edu/access/content/user/kfrench/sociology/Th e%20Three
%20Ma in%20Sociological%20Perspectives.pdf
Video Presentation:
https://study.com/academy/lesson/george-herbert-mead-the-self-me-i.html
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Assessing Learning
Quiz 1.2.1
Name_______________________________________________________ Date_____________________
Course/Year/Section________________
5. Which of the following represents the part of the self in which one recognizes the
“organized sets of attitudes” of others toward the self.
a. Me
b. I
c. Self
d. Social self
SELF FROM THE PERSPECTIVE OF ANTHRHOPOLOGY
Learning Objectives
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At the end of the lesson the students are able to:
1. Discover the meaning of Anthropology
2. Identify the subjects of inquiry and goals of Anthropology. 3. Explain
anthropological perspectives on culture
4. Describe culture as a complex whole.
5. Identify aspects of culture and society.
6. Recognize the Value of Anthropology for the 21st Century Setting Up
Activity 1.3.1
Name:____________________________________________ Date:__________________________
Section:__________________________________________
MY CULTURE IS MYSELF
Name three practices that you have acquired from your childhood years that are still existing
today and identify where have you accumulated those practices.
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Of these practices, which of it influence your present self? How?
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Anthropology
What is Anthropology? It is the study of people, past and present. It centering on the
understanding the human condition in its cultural aspect. [Gallinero,et al.,2018,p27]
It reckons the cultural origins and genetic of self. The self plays the role of
socialization and language, and the types of self bring forth the individual journeys to and
through adulthood.
CULTURE IS EVERYTHING
The individual has, does, and thinks as a part of society. It implies all material
possessions, belief system, and set of behavior. Culture is a powerful agent information of the
decisions and actions of humans in the given situation. It consists of:
Material includes all the concrete and visible parts of culture, which includes foods,
clothes, and even buildings. Material culture differs, as each society is designed by its
environment and history [Culinary Culture of the Philippines] is different from even that
of its neighbor’s in Asia like Singapore. Cultural differences exist when groups of people
assign different meanings to different life events and things. Hence, the self is
embedded/attached in culture.
Non- Material - it refers to the nonphysical concepts that people have about the culture,
including values, beliefs, norms, rules, morals, language, organizations, and institutions.
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As Max Weber mentioned that anthropology has emphasized that culture is not the behavior
itself but the joint understandings that guide behavior and are explicit in behavior. Anthony
Wallace and Raymond Fogelson called this case as IDENTITY STRUGGLES.
CONCEPT OF SELF IN DIFFERENT SOCIETIES
Culture and self are chromatic ideas that are to be understood in relation to one
another. The most essential philosophical task of the postmodern man today is to "work on
yourself" just like in the Socratic message "know thyself".
Robbins considered human beings as cultural animals as they make the meaning of
objects, persons, behaviors, emotions and events and behave in conformity with meanings
they presume to be true. Identity is interpreted as a disposition of basic personality
properties acquired mostly during childhood and, once integrated, more or less fixed.
To achieve self-identification, the individuals have to get over many hindrances like
traditionally established habits and externally imposed self-images.
Further research [Gallinero, et al., p28-29,2018] supports this claim, Catherine Raeff
[2010] a Developmental Psychologist, believed that culture can influence how you view the
following:
Relationships
Culture influences how you get into and keep a relationship.
Ex. Relationships might be seen as voluntary or as duty-based. In Western countries, it is
important to choose whom to marry, on the other hand, some Eastern countries still exercise
set up marriage.
Personality traits
Culture influences whether and how you value traits, such as self-esteem, politeness,
humility, and assertiveness, also how you perceive hardship in life.
Achievement
Culture influences how you value specific types of individual and group achievements
and how you define success.
Expressing emotions
Culture influences how you express yourself and it will affect you emotionally.
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References
https://www.plutobooks.com/9781783715244/anthropology-of-theself/#:~:text=The
%20Individual%20in%20Cultural%20Perspec tive&text=Western %20society
%20is%20individualised%3B%20we,ways%20of%2 1looking%20at%2
1 ourselves.
PowerPoint Presentation:
https://prezi.com/go6zixmolgw-/an-anthropological- conceptualization- of-self/
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Assessing Learning
Quiz 1.3.1
Name______________________________________________________ Date____________________________
Course/Year/Section_____________
Direction: Identify is being asked in each statement below. Write your answers before each
number.
Learning Objectives
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Setting Up
Activity 1.4.1
Name:_______________________________________________________________Date:_______________________________
Section:_________________________________
JOHARI WINDOW
Instruction: There are four windows/quadrants that have different categories. Your task is to
write the information asked for every window.
1. Window 1: On the space provided, write eight (8) characteristics that you know about
yourself and are willing to share.
2. Window 2: Ask someone who could give you their thoughts and idea about yourself.
Write at least seven (7) details given to you by someone whom you asked.
3. Window 3: Write something about yourself that you are aware of but might not want
others to know. ( In this part, you are not forced to write information that is sensitive,
but you can give details that you think might be good to share.)
4. Window 4: Don’t write anything.
Window 1 Window 2
Known by Unknown by Self
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Window 3 Window 4
Self-disclosure/Hidden Area Unknown
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Activity 1.4.2
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Lesson Proper Psychology The Self as Cognitive Construction
What is psychology and how it helps you understand yourself and know who you
really are? Psychology is the scientific study of how people behave, think, and feel. It also
includes topics like how the brain works, how our memory is organized, how people interact
with groups, and how the children learn about the universe. The real fact, everything that
concerns human beings is a concern of psychology. The process of the human brain to
consciousness to memory, language, and reasoning. Psychology will examine it so that the
human being will understand how it is to be.
For better understanding some of the things that happen during cognitive
development, it is important first to scrutinize a few of the important concepts and ideas
introduced by Jean Piaget a clinical psychologist. He pioneered the theory of cognitive
development. The theory dealt with the nature of knowledge itself.
Piaget [1952] determined how children processed and made aware of the world
around them and finally developed a four-stage model of how the mind processes new data
encountered. [Gallinero, et al.,2018,p32] The three basic components of Piaget’s cognitive
theory are the following:
1. Schemas/schemes are the building block of knowledge. These are the mental organization
individuals use to understand their environment and fate action.
3. Stages of Cognitive Development are the growing expertise of the child’s thought process.
Piaget said that the knowledge children acquire is organized into schemes or groupings of the
same action or thoughts.
Assimilation
It is commonly known as the process of getting new information that is already active
in our schemas. This operation is somewhat subjective for the reason we tend to change
information and experiences that could fit in with our pre-existing beliefs.
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Accommodation
Equilibration
Piaget believed that this mechanism tries to attack equilibrium between assimilation
and accommodation. It is essentials to maintain a balance between assimilation [previous
knowledge] and accommodation [new knowledge]. It helps to explain how the children can
move from one stage to another.
Dr. Susan Harter, a psychologist, author, and professor elaborated on the emergence of
selfconcept and asserted that the wide developmental changes observe across early
childhood, later childhood, and adolescence could be understood in a Piagetian framework.
Self-concept is an idea that referring to an individual's perception of "self" that remains
comparatively consistent and steady over time, contexts and developmental stages.
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Self Esteem is the ideal self and self-concept. Planetary self-esteem refers to the overall
mass opinion of oneself at any time, on a scale of positive and negative an [Harter, 1993, Pg.88
as cited in Kling et al 1999] Harter cited that, self-esteem can be observed as a degree of self-
success in academic, social and physical areas. Self-worthy Theory in Harter's theory was
founded on social and emotional development.
Further research [Gallinero, et al.,2018,p34] support this claim.
Early childhood. As the child describes the self in terms of concrete, observable
characteristics, like in physical attributes [I’m beautiful or I’m ugly or I’m witty], material
possessions [I have imported shoes and clothes, lots of toys], behaviors [I love wearing
my clothes, and shoes], and preferences [I like milk chocolates].
Middle to later childhood. Self-described in terms of traits such as constructs [ex. timid,
brave, smart, approachable and shy] that would need the type of stratified organizational
skills characteristic of analytical thought development.
Adolescence. Harter said this is the emergence of more abstract self-definitions, such as
inner thoughts, attitudes, motives, and emotions. For example A teenage girl in
discovering her selfconceptions she described herself as follows: “What am I like as an
individual?” Complicated! [I’m sensitive, friendly, outgoing, popular and tolerant though I
can be also shy. I’m a beautiful, happy person with my friends but at home, I’m more
likely to be anxious around my parents and family.[Harter,1990b,p.352]. In Piaget’s
findings on the adolescent’s ability to construct-higher order abstractions and the
capacity to introspection. [Harter, 1999] is the use of abstract words such as sensitive,
outgoing, cheerful, and anxious as self- portrait is consistent.
Emerging adults. The self for is emerging adults having sight of “possible self”. The “age
of possibilities” [Amett, 2004 a]. Australian research [Whitty,2002], early emerging
adulthood [ages17-22] was found to be a time of “grand dreams”, of being wealthy and
having glamorous occupation., hence beyond emerging adulthood [ages 28-33] the
visions of a possible self-became more realistic, if still optimistic.
Self-image there is a saying that self-image developed as they grow older and a strong
one is necessary.
[James,1950;Newman,2017;Pomerleau,2017,Damon&hart,1982]
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Real vs. Ideal Self
The real self is the one who you are; it is how you behave in a certain situation. It is who you
are in reality, how you think, feel, or act.
The true self is described by our real feelings and desires, on the other hand, the false
self is a side of us that has changed its behavior, inhibited feelings and forced needs aside in
order to survive. It presents the idea of the onion, the true self at the middle secured by outer
layers of a false self.
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Hence, this striving is important in our younger years, it changes us. The false-self
thought and behavior patterns we develop during childhood stay with us as adults. On the
other hand, they used to be helpful; they often become a deterrent as we get older and gain
more independence. While some psychologists see the true self as black and white [true self is
good, the false self is bad], some maintain there are two types of false self a healthy false self
and an unhealthy false self.
The healthy false self is described as one which allows someone to be functional in
society. It enables politeness and social courtesy, even when we may not feel like it.
The unhealthy false self comes from the same beginnings as the healthy false self. Yet,
for our long-term well-being, the effects of the unhealthy false self are rather different from
those of its opposite. This false-self is the one behind many dysfunctional behaviors, including
narcissism and addiction. As defined by D. W. Winnicott, the unhealthy false self as one that
fits into society through forced compliance rather than a desire to adapt.
References
Gallinero, W.B., Reyes, C.A., Claudio, E.G., Alegado, A. M.,Understanding the Self. The Self
Embedded in Culture, 2018, 28-29, 32- 34,38,: Mutya Publishing House, Inc., Malabon City
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vs- false-
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Assessing Learning
Quiz 1. 4.1
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1. Which 3 ways you can apply Harter's theory to practice? positive body language,
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2. Why it is important to give children unconditional praise and showing interest in what the
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Learning Objectives
Setting Up
Activity 1.5.1
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FINISH THE SENTENCE
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I am inclined to
behave_______________________________________________________ I like
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Cosmological unity Feeling oneself as an
element of the Divine
Life is a journey towards eternal realities that are
beyond the realities that surround us Life is a service (to God,
money, business,
Circular view of the universe, based on the
etc.)
perception of
eternal recurrence The Linear view of the
universe and life, based
Inner-world dependent on the Christian
Self-liberation from the false "Me" and finding the philosophy where
true "Me". The highest state is believed to be a state everything has its
of 'no-self', where neither self-worth nor self- beginning and the end.
importance has any real meaning. Outer-world dependent
Behavioral ethics
Self-dedication to the
goal (big dream, life
vision, happiness,
personal success, etc.)
East Living Principles West
VIRTUE ETHIC
"One can live
"To be able under all circumstances to practice five magnificently in this
things constitutes perfect virtue; these five things world if one knows how
are gravity, generosity of soul, sincerity, earnestness to work and how
and kindness." Confucius to love."
"Be satisfied with whatever you have, and enjoy the Leo Tolstoy
same. When you come to know that you have "Refrain from doing ill; for
everything, and you are not short of anything, then one all-powerful reason,
the whole world will be yours." Lao Tzu lest our children should
copy our misdeeds; we
"The thought manifests as the word; The word
are all too prone to
manifests as the deed; The deed develops into habit,
imitate whatever is base
And habit hardens into character. So watch the and depraved." Juvenal
thought and its ways with care, And let it spring from
love born out of concern for all beings." Buddha "There is no real excellence
in all this world which can be
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that needs to become
apparent. True “Me” is given
and doesn’t have to be
cognizable.
East Search for Absolute West
Truth
More focused on
INDIVIDUAL
EVENTS and the role of
HOLISTIC approach – all events in the universe are the person
interconnected Searching outside
Searching INSIDE YOURSELF – by becoming a part yourself - through
of the universe through meditation and right living research and analysis
INDIVIDUALISM/
East West
COLLECTIVISM
A human being has an
A human being is an integral part of the universe and individualistic nature and is
society. People are fundamentally connected. Duty an independent part of
towards all others is a very important matter. the universe and society.
COLLECTIVISM is stronger. INDIVIDUALISM is
stronger.
Goals and Key to
East West
Success
SPRITUAL MATERIALISTIC
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"The secret of success in life,
and subsequently of making
money, is to enjoy your
work. If you do, nothing is
"Live a virtuous life and adhere to performing your hard work – no matter how
duties." Confucianism many hours you put in." Sir
Billy Butlin
"The Three Armies can be deprived of their
commanding officer, but even a common man cannot be "Success is that
deprived of his purpose." Confucius old ABC –
ability,breaks and
"If you really want everything, then give up everything." courage."
Lao Tzu Charles Luckman
"He is able who thinks he is able." Buddha "Flaming enthusiasm,
backed by horse sense and
persistence, is the quality
that most frequently makes
for success." Dale Carnegie
The Eastern and Western thought about the self Eastern concept of the self
The ancient Grecian philosophers view humans as the holders of irreplaceable values.
In medieval times, Thomas Aquinas, philosopher, and saint believed that the body constitutes
individuality. The individual was the focus of renaissance thought, with Rene Descartes
famous “I think therefore I am” as the epitome of the Western idea of the self. [Gallinero, et al.,
2018,p44] [The focus is always looking towards the self]
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Materialistic/rationalistic is western thinking tends to disregard explanations that do
not use analytical reasoning modes of thinking [Johnson, 1985; Goldin,2000].
Eastern and western differences
The Western culture is more individualistic and trying to look for the meaning of life
there and now with self at the canter as it is already given and part of the divine, while in the
Eastern philosophy is drawn much more into groups or society or people’s actions and
thoughts as one in order to look for meaning in life as they try to get rid of the false “me”
concept and find meaning in discovering the true “me” in relation to everything around them,
or as part of a bigger scheme.
Additional reading:
http://www.1000ventures.com/business_guide/crosscuttings/cultures_eastwest-
phylosophy.html
References
Gallinero, W.B., Reyes, C. A., Claudio, E.G., Alegado, A.M., Understanding the Self. Western
concept of the self, 2018, 44-45,: Mutya Publishing House, Inc., Malabon City Internet sources
https://prezi.com/p/tobpvdqtdh9f/the-self-in-western-and-eastern- thought/
http://www.1000ventures.com/business_guide/crosscuttings/cultures_ east-
westphylosophy.html
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Assessing Learning
Quiz 1. 5.1
Name__________________________________ Date______________________
Course/Year/Section__________________
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not collectivist.
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Overview
This lesson gives you an insight into the concept of beauty, self-esteem, and body image that
shapes your physical self.
Learning Objectives
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Directions: Below is a figure of a human face. With the table provided, list down five
specific parts of your face that you find attractive. In a word, write down the adjective that
describes each part.
Source: freestuff4kids.net
1. What have you observed from the parts that you have listed?
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2. Which among the parts do you think is the most beautiful part of your face? What is/are
your reason/s that you find that part most beautiful?
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3. How do you take care of the parts that you have listed?
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Activity 2.1.2
Directions: In the table provided below illustration, make a list of your observed beauty
standard in the Philippines.
THE STANDARD
Source: 123rf.com
MALE FEMALE
1. 1.
2. 2.
3. 3.
4. 4.
5. 5.
1. What have you observed from your list of beauty standards in the Philippines?
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2. Do you think your beauty standards came from you own perception? Why yes, or why not?
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3. Do you think that there should be a standard of beauty? Why yes, or why not?
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Activity 2.1.3
1. Do you have high or low self-esteem? What do you think is the reason for having that
score?
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2. What are the steps that you will make to maintain/improve your scores?
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The physical self refers to the body that can be observed and examined. It is the aspect of
the self that consists of the extremities and internal organs, both with a vital function of
maintaining one’s life. As one aged, these critical functions gradually change. During infancy
and old age, physical efficiency performs at least. Its peak is early adulthood and slowly
declines into the middle age (Go-Monilla & Ramirez, 2018, p. 97).
Body image covers the emotional attitudes, beliefs, and perceptions of a person towards
their own body. It relates to what a person believes and feels about their body. This also
includes how they control and sense their body (Brazier, 2017).
According to the Canadian Mental Health Association (2015), body image and self-esteem
influence each other. It is hard to value yourself when you do not like your body. The reverse
is also true: if you cannot see the positive side of yourself and treat it with respect, you do not
value it.
Below are illustrations of having a good body image and self-esteem and poor body image
and self-esteem and its effect on your mental health
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Good body image and self-esteem
Source: Canadian Mental Health Association, BC Division
Culture has a great influence on a person’s self-esteem and body image. It can be positive,
negative, or both (Brazier, 2017). The traditions practiced culturally can either hurt or help us
in our life. The culture that we are surrounded by has a substantial influence on how we feel
about ourselves and how we think about our bodies. It can either be favorable to or resistant
to the building of a healthy body image and self-esteem. For example, dieting and body
appearance have been a focus of Western Culture. It is the same as in other cultures as
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digitally retouched photos become a norm in society. This kind of mentality negatively
influences an individual’s body image (Karges, 2015).
People value physical appearance in different cultures. They tend to worry about how
they look, how people will now to look at them, and what people will say about them. The
standard of beauty changes through time as the preference of the people varies from time to
time. What may be considered the standard of beauty in one culture may be different in other
cultures. It goes well with attractiveness as what may be attractive to another one may not be
appealing to another. The culture is greatly influenced by society; thus, the concept of beauty
is embedded by it (Palean et al., 2018, p. 74).
Across the globe, culture dictates what is beautiful. What is perceived as beautiful in
Egyptian women are slim, high-wasted, narrow hips, and long black hair. Contrastingly,
during the Renaissance period, women with a full figure or curvy and rounded hips were
considered beautiful. During the Medieval Age, gorgeous are chubby, fat or plump women like
in some ancient tribes (e.g., Africa). In Asian countries (Malaysia, the Philippines, and
Indonesia), which used to be beautiful, are women with flat noses. The standards of beauty
change over time due to culture. Traditionally considered most attractive are those humans
who have clear skin, thick shiny hair, well-proportioned bodies, and symmetrical faces.
Beauty is deemed necessary throughout history, with features that indicate youth, health,
excellent genes, and fertility (DeMello, 2014, pp. 173-205).
Body art and body modification like body piercing are also considered beautiful in
various cultures. In Ethiopia, Kara people use body painting to attract the opposite sex
(exploring-africa.com, 2020). Scarification, or scarring the skin to produce marks, is being
practiced by the Masai people in Tanzania to represent beauty and family pride to women and
strength, courage, and bravery to the men (newtimes.co.rw, 2010). Other tribes in Ethiopia,
like the Mursi and Suri, women wear lip plates that determine their beauty. The larger the lip
plate, the more beautiful a woman is (Agbo, 2018). Maria Jose Cristerna, the Mexican vampire
woman, reinvented herself through body piercings to empower herself (Valentine, 2015).
Plastic surgery is also a form of body modification that is popular nowadays due to the
influence of social media (Walker et al., 2019). Printed materials (magazines, billboards,
newspapers, and others), television (entertainment, fashion and, other shows) and the social
media (influencer, vloggers, and others) profoundly influence the standard of beauty of the
culture. What is perceived as beautiful is copied; thus, it is unrealistic and unachievable.
The standard of beauty is not absolute as per culture. There will always a constant
struggle to look at the perfect measure of beauty. The usual definition of beauty is reliant on
culture dictated by society. Self-image problem arises when your beauty standards do not
match with your looks (Gallinero et al. 2018, p. 61). There is a struggle of convincing the self
because of their set standards. Remember that no two persons are alike. Everyone is unique,
and that makes one stand out amongst the crowd. Besides, inner beauty should never be
forgotten as it is part of a person’s development.
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Refer to links below for additional information:
Philippines (April) | 100 Years of Beauty - Ep 6 by Cut
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NIsAeFYZFXE
References
Books:
DeMello, M. (2014). Beautiful bodies. In Body studies: An Introduction. New York, NY.
Routledge.
Go-Monilla, M. J. A & Ramirez, N. C. (2018). Understanding the Self. Quezon City: C & E
Publishing, Inc.
Gallinero, W. B., Reyes, C. A., Claudio, E. R. & Alegado, A. M. (2018).Understanding the Self.
Malabon City. Mutya Publishing House, Inc. Malabon City
Internet sources:
Agbo, N. (2018). The Ethiopian Tribe Where A Lip Plate Makes You MoreAttractive. Retrieved
from: https://guardian.ng/life/the- ethiopian-tribe-where-a-lip-plate-makes-
you-moreattractive/
Brazier, Y. (2014). What is body image? Retrieved from:
https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/249190
Canadian Mental Health Association, BC Division. (2019). Body Image, Self-Esteem, and
Mental Health. Retrieved from:
https://www.heretohelp.bc.ca/infosheet/body-image-selfesteem-and-mental-
health
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Karges, C. (2015). How Cultural Traditions Can Shape Body Image. Retrieved from:
https://www.eatingdisorderhope.com/blog/how-cultural-traditions-can-shape-
bodyimage#:~:text=Cultural%20Traditions%20Can%20Help%20or,body%20image
%20and%20s elf%2Desteem.
Valentine, C. (2013). Maria Jose Cristerna – The Mexican Vampire Woman. Retrieved from:
https://oddculture.com/maria-jose-cristerna- the-mexican-vampire-woman/
Vector - Opposite wordcard for male and female illustration by blueringmedia (2020).
Retrieved from: https://www.123rf.com/photo_80862554_stock-vector- opposite-
wordcard-formale-and-female-illustration.html
Walker, C. E., Krumhuber, E. G., Dayan, S. & Furnham, A. (2019). Effects of social media use on
desire for cosmetic surgery among young women. Retrieved from:
https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12144-019-00282-1
Assessing Learning
Quiz 2.1
2. Culture is usually not the basis when setting the standards of beauty.
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a. True
b. False
3. Refers to a person’s beliefs about his or her own worth and value.
a. Self-confidence c. Self-esteem
b. Body image d. Self-worth
4. Is the way one sees the physical self and the thoughts and feelings that result from that
perception
a. Body presentation c. Self-esteem
b. Body imaged d. Self-representation
5. A test that measures self-worth by rating both positive and negative feelings about the
self
a. 16PF c. Baron EQ
b. Rosenberg’s Self-esteem scaled d. Guilford-Zimmerman
2. _________________________________________________________________________________________________________
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3. How does culture affect our standard of beauty? Cite some examples to support your
answer.
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THE SEXUAL SELF
Overview
This lesson will provide you with understanding of how sexual self impacts one’s
development.
Learning Objectives
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2. distinguish biological, physiological and psychological aspects of
humansexuality discuss issues with consumerism; and
3. widen knowledge on youth sexual and reproductive health.
Setting Up
Activity 2.2.1
Directions: Draw male and female reproductive systems. Label the organs and its function.
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Illustrate human sexual response cycle
Activity 2.2.2
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Course/Section: __________________________ Instructor: _________________________
2. How does sex hormones affect a person’s general health? What are the factors that
affect levels of male and female sex hormones?
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3. What are the sexual behavious of humans and animals? Are there similarities or
differences?
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4. What is Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love? What other theories or principles that
explain the occurrence of attraction?
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Activity 2.2.3
Directions: Watch the news or check into social media notifications. List issues concerning
reproductive health and rights. Express your opinions regarding the matter in a virtual space
created for this purpose.
Lesson Proper
Have you ever wished you could talk about sex openly? Ask questions and discover your
sexual self? Let’s admit it, you know to yourself that you want to. It does not mean we
discussed sex we are liberated and this is not actually embarrassing to talk about. By
understanding and putting these topics into mind, you will understand your sexual self-
better and clarify uncertain thoughts and feelings.
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Sex and Human Values
Conceding that values are both personal and cultural, most sex researchers and educators
struggle to preserve their writings on sexuality value free. In research when they label the
sexually reserved individuals as “erotophobic” and as “high sex guilt” they explicit their own
values.
Furthermore, we improve our lives by knowing ourselves, by realizing that others share
our feelings, by understanding what is likely to please or displease our loved one. Behold the
increasing realization that some types of sexually explicit material can lead people to devalue
or hurt others.
Sex Drive
Psychologist thinks that sex drive peaks during the teens and early twenties (Hyde, 1982).
The drive declines gradually during the middle forties, another sharp decline in sexual
activity appears in the late sixties (Solnick and Corby, 1983).
Sex and Gender are parts of you that need to be continuously explored. These two
remains to be used interchangeably however current literature has provided us enough
information to differentiate one from the other. The emergence and/or development of
Sexual Orientation, Gender Identity and Expression termed as SOGIE is also an important
topic in understanding one’s sexual self.
Hear Kids' Honest Opinions on Being a Boy or Girl Around the World | National Geographic
(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2B3ea7IGwLA)
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At a deeper level, sexuality is linked with birth and death, an association found in Freud’s
notion of Eros and Thanatos. Although ultimately death prevails over sex, sex affirms life. The
instinctual sexual energy or Eros expressed in the childbearing, art relationships transcends
nonexistence. Life continues for the new generation where one can be fondly remembered by
important others. This close psychological connection between sex and life or the absence of
it is a concrete reminder of the existential inseparability of this cycle.
Additional Readings:
Psychosexual Development
The famous psychoanalyst Sigmund Freud cited that children go through a sequence of
psychosexual stages that lead to the development of the adult personality. Freud’s theory
defined how personality developed over the course of childhood. Whereas the theory is well-
known in psychology, it has always been quite controversial, both during Freud's time and in
modern psychology. These are named psychosexual stages because each stage signifies the
fixation of libido (roughly translated as sexual drives or instincts) on a different area of the
body.
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Physical Attractiveness
We are attracted to those who are physically attractive. Surely, the attraction here is
relative. “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder”. Some men find women with long hair are
attractive but some men like women with short hair to see their neck area.
LUST LOVE
focus on a person's looks and spend quality time together
body. with other than sex
interested in having sex, but get lost in conversations and
not in forget about the hours passing
having conversations
keep the relationship on a honestly listen to each
fantasy level, not discuss real other's feelings, make each
feelings. other happy.
want to leave soon after sex motivates you to be a better
rather than cuddling or person.
breakfast the next morning.
want to get to meet his or her
are lovers, but not friends family and friends
SEXUAL RESPONSE
It refers to the order of physical and emotional changes that arise as a person becomes
sexually aroused and partakes in sexually exciting activities, including intercourse (coitus)
and masturbation. Perceptive how your body reacts during each phase of the cycle can
improve your relationship and help you find the cause of any sexual difficulties. The sexual
response cycle has four phases:
R
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Orgasm u
Plateau t
Excitement i
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Both men and women encounter these phases, though the phasing usually is different. For
instance, it is improbable that both partners will reach orgasm at the same time. The intensity
of the reaction and the time spent in each phase differs from person to person. Knowing these
differences may help partners better understand one another's bodies and responses, and
develop the sexual experience.
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LGBTQ
Terms to understand:
Homosexual behavior is likely to present in all societies and cultures and has been
documented on all six settled continents. The homosexuality-heterosexuality distinctions is
not always a clear one. Not only do some people self-identity as bisexual, but others may also
change their sexual preference over the course of their lives (Chivers, Seto, & Blanchard,
2007). Researchers are trying to understand why some people are more strongly attracted to
members of the same sex than are other people.
Generally, procreation is the basic reason for the sexual act hence couples should have
this in mind.
A. Artificial Method- this method can be stopped when couples decided to have a child
again.
1. Pills
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2.Injection (Depo Provera)
3.Implants
4.Cervical Sponge
5.Spermicidal Gel
6.Condom
7.IUD
B. Natural Method- this method is encouraged by the church because it does not use
chemicals and therefore has no side effects on the part of the partners.
1. Calendar Method
2. Abstinence
3. Mucus Method
4. Basal Body Temperature Method
Resources
Grisham, Lori, USA TODAY Network, June 1, 2015 | Updated July 22, 2016, Retrieved from
https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation- now/2015/06/01/lgbtq-
questioningqueemeaning/26925563/
Moini, J. 2012, Anatomy and Physiology for Health Professions, 2nd Edition, Sudbury
Mass: Jones & Barlett Learning
Quiz 2.2.1
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Name three factors that influence sexual orientation and gender identity [5pts]
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Presently, how well do you know your sexual self? Rate from 1-10, 1 being the lowest and 10 being
the highest. Support your answer. [10pts]
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Overview
This lesson gives you a perception of how the things that we own shape our material self.
Learning Objectives
Setting Up
Activity 2.2.1
Name: _____________________________________ Date:
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Course/Section: __________________________ Instructor:
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_________________________
LET’S GO SHOPPING!
SM Mall of ASIA is known as one of the largest malls in Asia. The mall is located near
Pasay City, Metro Manila (Caparas, 2013).
Directions: Imagine yourself going to this mall to shop for the whole day with no
restrictions on the money. You can buy anything inside this mall at your delight. List down
five (5) items that you want to buy. Indicate their brand names, estimated prices, and the total
amount. On the last column of the table, categorize each as a “Need” or a “Want”.
Source: vigattintourism.com
What have you observed from the items that you have listed?
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Which among all the items that your purchase reminds you of yourself? Explain briefly.
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Which has the most number, the want, or the needs? Why?
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7-DAY LIST!
Directions: For a period one week, list down all your expenses on the table provided.
By the end of the week, add all your costs/fees and write them on the table below.
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Day 1 Day 2 Day 3 Day 4 Day 5 Day 6 Day 7
Total:
Item 1
Item 2
Item 3
1. What have you noticed from the three things that you found?
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I SHOP THEREFORE I AM: I HAVE THEREFORE I AM?
William James (1980) suggested that the self is everything that is considered by the
individual as his or hers. It includes his/her body and his/her material possessions and
reputation and beliefs. In conclusion, the self is comprised of the material self, manifested by
his/her material possessions (GoMonilla & Ramirez, 2018, p. 134). As what William James
stressed that the total of man is not only his body and his psychic powers but also his material
possessions (Leary, 1990).
The Basic Components of the Material Self, according to William James (1980):
1. Body - The innermost part of the material self. Taking good care of it will help you
experience life to the fullest.
2. Clothes- Considered important to people alongside the soul and the body. The styles
and brands of clothes become symbols that are the representation of the self.
3. Material Component
3a. Family and friends - These are people whom you are psychologically connected. They
helped shape and influence yourself and your identity.
3b. House- A place where many aspects of your life developed. It also gives you comfort and
security.
Accumulation of a house reflects the wealth and hard labor.
3c. Cars-Also considered as a material possession as it also reflects the wealth and hard labor.
3d. Pets- It could be an expression of one’s social status, pride, prestige since owning a dog or
a cat with breeds is very expensive.
Oxford bibliographies (2017) describe the consumer culture as a form of material culture
facilitated by the market. It represents a relationship between the consumer and the goods or
services he or she uses or consumes. Through Consumer culture, you are allowed to express
who you are by reinforcing an economic system of freewill or constrained. There is the
freedom to choose and be constrained with options offered commercially.
Consumer culture is also a system of consumption of commercial products. Consumer
culture represents a social arrangement wherein lived culture, social resources, ways of life,
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and material resources depend on the markets. The consumer culture focuses on the
consumption of market-made commodities (Arnould & Craig, 2005).
Despite being the extension of your identity, the desire for it has a negative effect on one’s
sense of self and identity. Materialism refers to giving to much importance to material
possessions and excessively being concern with its acquisition. As mentioned above, the
association of identity to material possession started at the early age of life; the etiology of
materialism arises from society and culture (Belk, 1988).
Social media play a massive part in the consumption of commercial products. Through
the internet, television, and magazines, endless options of advertised products are available
(Go-Monilla & Ramirez, 2018, pp. 136-137). Consumerism is the human desire to acquire
products and goods in excess of one's basic needs. Basic needs refer to sufficient food,
clothing, and shelter. The consumerist culture involves people who spend more on cars,
gadgets, and clothes to keep up with trends and upgrades instead of savings or investments
(Baker, 2016).
Conscious Consumption
Options are endless when shopping. Marketing strategies have been evolving to cater to
the needs and want of consumers. Being in a consumer culture, shopping is part of your life.
As a consumer, you have the power to control your expenditures as you have your free will to
choose. The struggle of conscious consumption usually starts when the discipline of shopping
ends. Conscious consumption is practicing being a responsible buyer (Gallinero, et al., 2018).
Being a responsible buyer means you should know how to separate your wants from your
needs. Below are tips that you can use when shopping:
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Tips to get most of your money
Adapted from the Federal Trade Commission (2009)
Try to shop around before We must remember that the “sale”
purchasing. price isn’t always the “best” price.
Search for information can help you get
the best price for the item you want.
Take time to read sale ads. Some items are limited only to specific
quantities or available to selected
stores. Make some call ahead to ensure
that the store has the item in stock and
if they ‘be willing to hold the item for
you.
Do not forget to consider the time and Take into consideration the time, and
travel costs. travel cost before shopping. What if the
item is across town, and you need to
travel just to acquire it? Are you saving
or not?
Check for price-matching policies. Fish out for competitors’ prices and
compare. You might find a good deal by
comparing and contrasting.
Use the internet for price references. Surf the net to compare and contrast
prices. You can also shop online but
consider the shipping costs and
delivery time.
Bargain offers that are based on Offers like “buy one, get one free,” “free
purchases of additional merchandise gift with purchase,” or “free shipping
should be computed. with minimum purchase” seems
tempting. It is not a great deal if you
don’t want or need the item.
Some shops have sale adjustments. Some items go into the sale after a week
that you purchase it. Try to ask the
store if they have sale adjustments
where you can get a credit or refund for
the discounted amount if it is
applicable.
Ask first the refund and return Refund and return policies for sale
policies for sale items. items or clearance sale differ from
regular items.
References
Books:
Gallinero, W. B., Reyes, C. A., Claudio, E. R. & Alegado, A. M. (2018). Understanding the Self.
Malabon City. Mutya Publishing House, Inc.,Malabon City
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Go-Monilla, M. J. A & Ramirez, N. C. (2018). Understanding the Self. Quezon City: C & E
Publishing,
Inc.
Journal:
Arnould, E. & Craig, J. (2005). Consumer culture theory (CCT): twenty years of research.
Journal of Consumer Research, 31 (4), 868-882.
Internet resources:
Baker, J. A. (2016). The good and bad sides of consumerism. Retrieved from:
https://www.straitstimes.com/opinion/the-good-and- bad-sides-of-consumerism
Belk, R. W. (1988). Possessions and the Extended Self. Journal of Consumer Research, Volume
15,
Issue 2, September 1988, Pages 139–168. Retrieved from:
https://doi.org/10.1086/209154
Hai, Y. (2018). Barbara Kruger: Slogans that shake the art world.Retrieved from:
https://blogs.commons.georgetown.edu/cctp-
802-spring2018/2018/05/04/barbarakruger-slogans-that- shake-the-artworld/
Leary, D. E. (1990). William James on the Self and Personality: Clearing the Ground for
Subsequent Theorists, Researchers, and Practitioners.
Retrievedfrom:https://scholarship.richmond.edu/cgi/viewconte nt.cgi?
article=1023&context=psychology-faculty-publications
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Assessing Learning
Quiz 2.2
_________1. It is important to look at not only what we want but what’s good for us when trying to
improve our material self.
_________2. Advertising and mass media help us determine what to buy since they help us justify
our purchasing decisions.
_________4. Barbara Kruger’s, I shop therefore I am, is based on William James’ philosophy.
________________1. Defines that the self is everything that is considered by the individual as his or
hers.
________________4. This could be an expression of one’s social status, pride, prestige since
owning one breed is very expensive.
________________5. The human desire to acquire products and goods in excess of one's basic
needs.
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2. How is the statement relatable to your current expenses/purchases? Cite an example to support
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THE SPIRITUAL SELF
Overview
This lesson explores the essence of spirituality, how distinct it is from religiosity, the
influences that form one's spirituality and how it affects one 's self.
Learning Objectives
Setting Up
Activity 2.4.1
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MY OWN MANDALA
Directions: Mandala is a symbolic picture of the universe and spirituality. It helps to transform
ordinary minds into enlightened ones. Using any coloring materials, color the
Mandala below based on your preference. Also, write your name inside the circle
on the center.
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Reflective questions
1. What comes to your mind when you first heard the word Mandala?
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SPIRITUALITY AND RELIGION
Oftentimes, many people define spirituality and religion synonymously. There are also
times that these two terms are interchangeably used. Conversely, they are definitely different
concepts. But, they play an important role in our lives.
Spirituality came from the Latin word spiritus which means breath of life. Jafari,
Loghmani and Puchalski (2014) defines spirituality as a way an individual seeks and
communicates the meaning of one’s experiences in relation to self, to nature, and to the
moment. It is a connection to something bigger than you, of significant, reverent, or sacred. On
the other hand, religion came from the Latin word religio that means an obligation, bond,
reverence and religare that means to bind. Many scholars define religion as the relationship of
an individual to God, and involves doctrines, beliefs and rituals connected with the same a
group that has shared same faith. An individual can be both religious and spiritual but being
religious does not mean you are a spiritual person.
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Characteristics of a Spiritual Person
Howell (2013) made a research on the personal and societal benefits of spirituality.
Based on the responses, here the top five characteristics of a spiritual person.
2. A spiritual person is compassionate. Living a spiritual life lets a person to feel good
even on small things in life. He or she looks at the world with empathy.
5. A spiritual person takes time to savor life experiences. Living a spiritual life makes a
person more aware of his or her day to day activities and gives an experience positive
emotions related to small pleasures in life.
Within the self lies the best way to improve spirituality. Constant thought and
contemplation on decisions and options in life, cultivating empathy and compassion for other
humans, and having confidence in a higher being will improve spiritual awareness. It's not
only finding meaning in life but also how it brings meaning to life.
As you grow older, you start to ask questions rooted in religious orientations. You have
probably compared one religion from another. However, you make realizations and
observations until you found the meaning of that goes beyond your religious orientations.
Functions of Religion
Cognitive enables human to explain the unexplainable
phenomena
Social maintains social order by encouraging socially
acceptable behavior and discouraging inappropriate
behavior
Emotional / controls the forces which they feel they have no
control
Conflict Resolution uses religion as a way of diffusing anger and hostility
Reinforcement of Group allow people to express common identity and
Solidarity strengthens group identity and belonging
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Religiosity follows the belief systems and practices associated with a tradition in which
there is agreement about what is believed and practiced.
The supernatural concepts are a part of any human society. One must develop a view
of cultur al relativism to research spiritual beliefs, and try to recognize beliefs from the
viewpoint of an emic or insider. Imposing one culture's meanings or beliefs onto another is
likely to lead to misunderstandings. Despite the wide range of supernatural beliefs found in
cultures around the world, some common elements are shared by most belief systems.
1. Cosmology. This explains the origin or history of the world. Religious cosmologies offer a
"big picture" of how human life was created and the forces or powers at work in the
universe
2. Belief in the Supernatural. This pertains to the realm beyond direct human experience.
The belief may involve a god or gods, but it's not a necessity. Quite a few religious beliefs
involve more abstract ideas about supernatural forces.
3. Rules of Behavior. Such principles describe proper behavior for individuals and society as
a whole, and are geared towards harmonizing individual acts with moral beliefs.
4. Rituals. Religious rituals or procedures which are typically supervised by religious
experts. These may be oriented toward the supernatural, such as rituals designed to
please the gods, but at the same time addressing the needs of individuals or of the entire
community.
The word "dungan" originates from the Ilonggos according to Magos (1986). The
Ilonggos' dungan or soul, which is normally not seen by the human eye. According to the
Visayans, this can leave the body voluntarily like when the person is asleep. If a person can
see himself in his dreams it means that the physical body has been replaced by his "other
self". It was profoundly impressed amongst the ancient Filipinos that a person who was
asleep does not suddenly awaken. So a person who is sleepy is first called softly and louder
and louder gradually to give the soul a chance to return to its body.
Traveling off the dungan outside of the body will be accident-free. It can be stuck in a
container or poured out from a vessel of liquid. The owner will only be able to wake up after
the soul has returned home safely. Anything that happens to the dungan does indeed happen
to the human body. It is also suspected that another reason for the soul's voluntary
withdrawal is if the body is seriously maltreated (Magos, 1986).
The Visayan dungan has a secondary sense of "willpower." A good dungan is the
mental and psychological capacity to control one's way of thinking or convince others to. An
individual with a lot of willpower is said to "have a good dungan." The constant
companionship of two people (sometimes under the same roof) can lead to a spiritual rivalry
between the two dungans and the defeat of the one with the weaker dungan.
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One may conclude that "dungan" or "spirit" is something that cannot be seen and
touched, and goes beyond our senses. It's also something that science can't describe.
FINDING AND CREATING MEANING [Frankl]
According to Frankl (1959), the meaning of life lies in finding a purpose and taking
responsibility for oneself and others. A person can face all the "how" questions of life by
having a clear "why." He / She can only make the world a better place by feeling safe and
confident of the goal that motivates him or her.
There are 3 ways to find meaning in one's life according to Frankl in his novel, Man's
Quest For Meaning.
By Doing a Deed
Realizing artistic quality comes not from the ‘greatness' of the mission, but how one
treats and executes his or her mission. It is not the ‘radius' of the action which is
essential, but how one feels the ‘circle' of his / her mission – how respectfully one
performs them.
By Experiencing a Value
Explore all facets of life in-depth, being open and receptive to all life has to bring. Deep
emotional feelings, i.e. wonder and sunset happiness, a pleasure in close contact with
others, sharing a child's sorrow, etc. Support all of the emotions; don't refuse them;
float with them, but don't get trapped.
References
Jafari, N., Loghmani, A., & Puchalski, C. M. (2014). Spirituality and health care in Iran: time
to reconsider. Journal of religion and health, 53(6), 1918-1922.
Magos, A. (1986). The Ideological Context of Ma-aram Practice in Mariit.In the Enduring
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Ma- aram Tadition : An Etnography of Kinaray-a Village in antique. New Day
Publishers. 46-62
Assessing Learning
Activity 2. 4.2
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MY SYMBOL OF BEING
Directions: Imagine yourself as a very precious object displayed inside a museum that other
people would remember your existence here in the world. Inside the box, draw
that single object that could represent yourself. And tell the story of your life in
relation to the object representation you have drawn.
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NOTE TO SELF
Direction: Life has given you some precious knowledge. Help yourself verbalize it. Write a
letter to your future self
Dear_________________,
Quiz 2.1
Sincerely,
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Direction: Answer completely and comprehensively the following questions below.
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Overview
This lesson lets you integrate political aspect of self and identity through critical thinking.
Learning Objectives
Activity 3.5.1
Directions:
1. Create a virtual group through the internet. Divide the group into two. Tackle any
emerging issues in your community.
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Lesson Proper
Generally, when speaking about national identity, the center tends to be on being a citizen
of a country. The role of culture on identity should never be underestimated. It can be varied
as his/her heritage. [Gallinero,et al.,2018,p108]
Filipino students may deepen their understanding of their political selves through a list of
socially relevant movies which can be found in this link
(https://www.spot.ph/entertainment/movies-musictv/75285/10-new-pinoy-films-for-the-
woke-a1943-20181006-lfrm)
Filipinos are of Malays descent with traces of Chinese, American, Spanish, and Arab blood.
According to the United Nations, the Philippines has a population of 109 million in midyear of
2020. Having been colonized by the West and an active trading system among neighboring
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Southeast Asian countries, the Filipino people are a unique blend of east and west, both in
appearance and culture.
The bayanihan or spirit of kinship and camaraderie took from the Malays, close family
relations inherited from the Chinese, piousness came from the Spaniards who introduced
Christianity are our dominant features. Positive relationships are a core value for Filipino
communities, also known as “Personalism.” These involve sensitivity and regard for others,
understanding, helping out, and consideration for others’ limitations. Children are taught to
respect older family members, older adults and authority. It is considered the norm to seek
the advice of and accept the decisions of older adults; and are obligated to care for aging
parents, and maintain emotional ties with family members throughout the life span. Religion
is central to our lives and serves as a means of coping with life’s adversities. The Philippines is
divided geographically and culturally into regions, and each regional group is recognizable by
distinct traits and dialects. Hospitality, cheerful disposition, welcoming character and
passionate about life are what distinguishes us from the rest of ASEAN. These are the
strengths of the Filipino character and in some ways our weaknesses.
She also cited that our political environment and government structures and systems are
troubled with problems [Graft and Corruption]. On the other hand, the mass media reinforce
our colonial mentality. It is shown on TV, magazines, newspaper, etc. Nowadays, the mass
media in fact part of Filipino life.
Ever since Filipinos highly respect authority, we learn on our leaders and role models
[1994].
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The Filipino characteristics listed below are not complete, hence, these are the most we
have in common. Filipino traits are as follows [Gallinero,et al.,2018p110]:
1. Pakikipagkapwa-tao
2. Family orientation
3. Joy and humor
4. Flexibility,adaptability, and creativity
5. Hard work and industry
6. Faith and religiosity
7. Ability to survive
Democracy is a Greek word that means demos [people’s rule]. It is a form of government
in which the supreme power is vested in the hands of the people. As stated by the famous
President Abraham Lincoln, democracy is a government of the people, for the people, and
by the people.
The idea of democracy is interpreted in many forms. In general, it implies majority rule,
minority and individuals have equality of opportunities and under law, civil rights and
liberties.
Is the one who is a member of a state who was accorded with full civil and political rights
subject to disqualifications provided by law, and who is protected inside and outside of the
state where he/she is a citizen.
Self and Politics
Man is considered a political animal. His/her thoughts about political happenings show
his/her personality and beliefs.
Political socialization is a learning process by which individuals acquire political
knowledge, beliefs and attitudes that helps develop a sense of self. The family is the major
socializing agent. As children grow up, schools, peer groups and the media also become
important agents of political socialization.
Reference
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Gallinero,W.B., Reyes, C.A., Claudio, E.G., Alegado,A.M., Understanding the Self. Developing
a Filipino Identity: Values, Traits, Community and Institutional Factors,2018,109-
110,: Mutya Publishing House,Inc. Malabon City
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Activity 3.5.2
1. Describe the manner of discussing your ideas in your virtual group. How about against
the other group.
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3. In formal settings such as in the classroom, school or workplace, how will you be able
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6. What are the things that you will be working on for you to achieve your goal?
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THE DIGITAL SELF
Overview
This lesson looks at the role of technology and the internet informing the digital self of a
person with an emphasis on using social media network sites and applications.
Learning Objectives
Setting Up
Activity 2.6.1
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WHAT’S APPS?
Directions: On the first space provided, write the name of the social media applications.
Below its name, evaluate how frequent (always, often, sometimes, or never) do
you use each social media application.
What did you notice with your answers from the activity?
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What is/are your reason/s in using social media?
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In the emergence of the use of technology in our lives, this made us create a new self of
our identity. This identity extends to the digital world using any social media applications like
Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, YouTube, etc. Aside from these applications, we also engage
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ourselves in different internet websites that create our virtual world that is different from our
real world. Thus, we create our own online identity or can be termed as a digital self.
Many from the millennial and Gen Z generations are being tagged as digital natives
because they depend most of the time on the functions of technology.
In 1988, Russell Belk, Chair in Marketing, Schulich School of Business at York University,
proposed the concept of extended self even during that time that digital technology was
limited to personal computers. Nowadays, access to computers can be done using mobile
phones, laptops, and other digital devices. Through these, we can exchange ideas and can
communicate and connect with others.
According to Belk (2013), the extended self can be presented in different factors:
dematerialization, re-embodiment, sharing, co-construction of self, and distributed
memory. These factors are actually changes and progressions evaluated for our
understanding of oneself, the nature of possessions, and our connections or associations with
things in an advanced world, the digital world.
First, dematerialization relates to our possessions like photos, videos, music, and
information which at present are all immaterial and cab be all stored in different electronic
devices that we can access anytime. Second, re-embodiment describes how we can post,
upload and view photos of our faces online that we have become online ‘avatars’. Using social
media and computer software, we can easily change our appearance distinguishing our online
self and our actual appearance. Third, with the use of the internet, sharing pertains to
transferring pieces of our true personal information or change information we would like
anyone can access in the digital world. In relation to this, fourth, co-construction of self
explains how we socially involve ourselves in a digital environment by communicating and
interacting and the same time constructing and our individual and extended sense of self. And
last, distributed memory shows that non-digital objects like events, people, and even
memories are now being recorded and shared in the digital world. Thus, this provides a sense
of past being archived in different social media and can be viewed later on.
Further, the concept of extended self is alive and well in the digital world (Belk, 2013).
However, number of differences are being observed because of the challenges and changes of
new possibilities offered in our digital world.
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Self-Presentation Goals
1. To arise from getting others to do what one wants
2. To gain respect, power, liking, or other desirable social rewards
3. To make certain impressions on others to maintain a sense of who they are
wish other people to like you by letting people agree with you, say nice things about
you, do favors for you, and possess positive interpersonal qualities.
2. Self-promotion
- You seek to convince people of your competence by getting people to think we are
capable, intelligent, or talented.
3. Intimidation
- You sometimes show people your authority and you are to be feared off by displaying
that you are tough, powerful or ruthless.
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4. Exemplification
- You try to make the impression that you are morally superior or righteous by portraying
an exaggerated degree that you suffered poor treatment or has endured excessive
hardships.
5. Supplication
You publicly overstress your weaknesses and deficiencies to play helpless in order to
attract others’ sympathy and get what you want.
How you present yourself and manage other’s impressions are part of your online
identity. It is you faithfully reflect on how you think of yourself. Presenting yourself online is
sometimes a concern of misrepresenting yourself. Further, it is very important to know
sincerity and authenticity in establishing relationships with others in the online social world.
Our interaction with others is very different now that we are living in the digital
age. Everything can be accessed in just one click. You can build hundreds to thousands of
friends around the world which you can actually create an online community. Social media
applications and social networking sites provide us an opportunity to widen our connections
and relationships. Despite our differences, the internet or virtual world connects us with
others and meets with our similarities. However, people we interact may influence the way
we think ourselves so let us not forget that our online interactions have an impact also on
ourselves.
In 2018, David Cross, chief editor at Web Hosting Media, published his review on the
positive and negative effects of social media on our lives. This shows how big the impact of
our online interactions. He explained that there is nothing wrong with the platform itself but
the problem is on the way a lot of us use it and play a role in our lives.
Here are the impacts of online interaction taken from Cross (2018).
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We may experience differently the impact of our online interactions using different
digital applications and sites. It can be both honestly connect us and help us communicate
more efficiently. Nevertheless, how we use it depends on how we make decisions (Cross,
2018).
The American Psychological Association defines the public self as “information about
the self, or an integrated view of the self, that is conveyed to others in actions, self-
descriptions, appearance, and social interactions..” And private self as “the part of the self
that is known mainly to oneself, such as one’s inner feelings and self-concept.” Your public self
or private self may vary depending on your audience of such impressions.
Wilson (2008) explained that the millennial generation has a characteristic of the
phenomenon of public identity than private identity. There is a belief that members of this
generation have not been afforded a sense of privacy. Examples of this are the posting,
sharing of information, capturing everyday activities and the like made by the online users.
The distinction between public and private becomes unclear because of the effects of
the popularity of social networking sites and applications where you can manage your
account on what to share or not and what to show between the real and unreal.
In the previous lesson, you already have the idea of what is gender and sexuality. Here
in this topic, the discussion will focus on the issues related to gender and sexuality online.
Gender and sexuality is part of our identity.
Computer-mediated communication (CMC) has been reported to possess a degree of
anonymity on the Internet which makes the gender of online communicators insignificant or
invisible. In comparison to norms of patriarchal superiority historically found in face to face
contact, this supposedly encourages women and men to contribute and be respected equally
for their efforts (Walther, 2007).
References
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Belk, R. W. (2013). Extended self in a digital world. Journal of consumer research, 40(3), 477-
500.
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Tajfel, H., & Turner, J. C. (1986). The social identity theory of intergroup behavior. In S.
Worchel & W.G. Austin (Eds.), Psychology of intergroup relations (pp. 7-24). Chicago:
Nelson.
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S. Worchel (Eds.), The social psychology of intergroup relations (pp. 33- 47). California:
Brooks/Cole.
Tartakovsky, M. (2018). 10 Tips for Setting Boundaries Online. Psych Central. Retrieved on
July 16, 2020, from https://psychcentral.com/lib/10-tips-for-setting-boundaries-
online/
Activity 2.6.2
Name:_____________________________________ Date:_______________________________
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Course/Section: __________________________ Instructor: _________________________
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MY SHOUT OUT 1
Directions: Create a hashtag of yourself (ex. #IamLikable) and write it on the space provide
provided.
Reflect on the shout out that you made by looking at your digital self and real self .
Activity 2.6.3
Name:_____________________________________ Date:_______________________________
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Course/Section: __________________________ Instructor: _________________________
THINK BEFORE YOU CLICK
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Quiz 2.6.4
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identity.
__________4.Boundaries online are based on personal decision you set.
__________5. A person can build a community his/her friends with others in the virtual world
despite of their differences.
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Overview
This unit focuses on three areas of concern for young students – learning, goal
setting and stress management. It also provides a more practical application of the
notions discussed in the subject and enables them to experience hands-on
development of self-help plans for self-regulated learning, goal setting, and self-care.
Learning Objectives
Setting Up
Activity 3.1.1
Name:______________________________________________ Date:___________________________________
Section:____________________________________________
Dear Self,
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Name:__________________________________________ Date:___________________________________________
Section:_________________________________
Word Hunt
Let us have some review and play a game. Let us see how familiar you are with some concepts
and terminologies related to self. Find at least 15 words. GAME!
C V S T R U G G L E N M Y S E L F K
N X O W J H P I D E A L E Y N P K R
E M C D O M L T R A I T G C L O E S
M P I M A G E U F W M H O U I L H F
O B E I N G T E G S V M A L A O G E
T L T A G A K D H Q P N S T E V J N
I H Y I N F E R I O R J I U G E T U
O D E G B R H N R A D O G R H H R R
N F R P H S T T S D N K L E N D E T
Z Y M K I D E N T I T Y U G K S H U
T O P M F Q P E R S O N A L I T Y R
C H S E L F I S H T F Y T S Y G L E
O N E S E L F R A Y B E H A V I O R
B W Z D T U S E A I T S E L F M W G
K M N O F E D B F J Y O P E R S O N
L I F E S I R N L G T U C T B M L I
M H R K W U T H Y S E L F S W Q Z D
Lesson Proper Learning to be a Better Student How Learning Occurs
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What happens in the brain while
learning?
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1. Sensory Memory – we gather information from our environment. It is the temporary first
interaction with any information. Sensory memory includes Iconic memory (what we
initially see) and Echoic memory (what we initially hear). Since we cannot process all
sensory memory, we concentrate on working memory instead.
2. Working Memory – our current thoughts. We process information from our environment.
Through working memory, we get to focus more on visual and spatial information and
verbal information one at a time or at the same time with the help of our central
executive. Working memory is responsible for temporarily storing and manipulating
information. The episodic buffer bridges us to long-term memory.
3. Long-term Memory – we decide based on our environment. Long-term memories are
prior knowledge and memories. There are three types of memories under this: a) Explicit
memories are facts or events that we can describe clearly and definitely; b) Episodic
memories are eventrelated memories, and c) Implicit memories which are influenced by
interpretation. Metacognition
1. Self-appraisal –
Image credits to KQED people’s personal reflections
about their knowledge states and
abilities and their affective states
concerning their knowledge, abilities, motivation and characteristics as
learners.
Such reflections answer questions about “what you know, how you think, and
when and why to apply knowledge or strategies”.
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2. Self-explanation – explaining how new information is related to known information, or
explaining steps taken during problem-solving. It generates inferences about causal
connections and conceptual relationships that enhance understanding.
3. Summarization – writing down summaries of texts to be learned.
4. Highlighting/underlining – marking important phrases from the materials to be learned
while reading in a single study session.
5. Keyword mnemonic – using keywords and mental imagery to associate verbal materials.
Every habit starts with a psychological pattern called a “habit loop” which is a three-
part process. First is the cue or trigger that orders your brain to go into automatic mode and
let a behavior unfold. Then the action or routine is the behavior itself. And lastly, the reward
which is something that your brain likes that aids in remembering the “habit loop” in the
future.
“How Habits are Formed – The Power of Habit” open the link and watch the video
presentation https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wg1VAhv6KHg
Self-Regulated Learning
Self-regulation is the process of controlling thoughts, behaviors, and emotions for the
purpose of acquiring information or skills. By engaging in self-regulated learning, one can
independently track down his own progress and manage his own development. Self-regulated
learners take full ownership of their learning where they are commonly described as more
engaged in learning, more confident to learn and perform better on tests.
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References
Habits: How They Form and How To Break Them. (2012, March 5). Retrieved from
https://www.npr.org/2012/03/05/147192599/habits-how-they-form-and-how-
tobreak-them
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Assessing Learning
Quiz 3.1.1
Name: __________________________________________________
Directions: In your own words, explain the following terms briefly. (2 points each)
Self-regulation
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Self-appraisal
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Long-term memory
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Metacognition
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Habit
loop___________________________________________________________________________________________________
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Quiz 3.1.3
Name: __________________________________________________
Directions: Reflect on your own study habits starting from when you were in elementary
school up to your current year in college then write an essay composed of at least two
hundred words about the differences in your study habits from then up to now and how you
can improve your study habits.
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Overview
This unit focuses on three areas of concern for young students – learning, goal setting
and stress management. It also provides more practical application of the notions
discussed in the subject and enables them to experience hands-on development of self-
help plans for selfregulated learning, goal setting, and self-care.
Learning Objectives
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At the end of the unit I am able to:
1. Recognize the theoretical foundations of managing and caring for the
self; 2. Obtain and practice new skills for better management and caring
for the self;
3. Use new skills to better one’s quality of life.
Setting Up
Activity 3. 2.1
Name:_____________________________________________________
Date:_______________________________________________
Section:__________________________________________________
DEAR SELF,
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Setting Goals for the Self
A goal makes life worth living so it is important to set goals that will lead you to success. A
goal is defined simply as what the individual is consciously trying to do. It directs attention
and action. Goals motivate people to develop strategies that will enable them to perform at
the required goal levels. People more often than not experience disappointments, stress, and
mental health problems when they fail to reach their life goals. In this lesson, you will develop
and practice goal-setting skills that will help you manage and care for yourself better.
To strengthen your understanding of your need for goals, here are some concepts and
theories that explain the human need for goals.
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2. Dweck’s Growth Mindset
Carol Dweck, a social psychologist, described how people have two types of mindsets:
the fixed mindset and the growth mindset. She found that students’ mindsets played a key
role in their motivation and achievement. Most people are not aware of which mindset they
have until it manifests in their behaviors, especially in how they react to failure.
GROWTH MINDSET FIXED MINDSET
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What will be accomplished? When setting a goal, be specific
What actions are you going to about what you want to
do to accomplish it? accomplish. It should include
SPECIFIC
an answer to the “W”
questions: Who, What, When,
Where, Which, and Why.
There should be a source of
information to measure or
determine whether a goal has
been achieved. If you set a goal
What data will measure the
MEASURABLE that is going to take a few
goal? How much? How well?
months to complete, then set
some milestones by
considering specific tasks to
accomplish.
Focus on how important a goal
is to you and what you can do
to make it attainable. Think
Is the goal doable? Do you have
about hot to accomplish it; if
ACHIEVABLE the needed skills and
you have the tools/skills
resources?
needed and if not, consider
what it would take for you to
attain them.
How does the goal support Focus on something that
RELEVANT broader goals? Why is the makes sense with your
result important? broader goals.
Anyone can set goals, but if
there is no realistic timing,
there is a greater chance that
What is the time frame for
TIME-BOUND you’ll not succeed. Provide a
accomplishing the goal?
target date or deadline to your
goal. Having time constraints
also creates a sense of urgency.
References
Dweck, C. (2015). Carol Dweck Revisits the 'GrowthMindset'.EDUCATION WEEK, 35(05), 20-
24. Retrieved
from/portal.cornerstonesd.ca/group/yyd5jtk/Documents/Carol%20Dweck
%20Growth%20M indsets.pdf
Locke, E. A., & Latham, G. P. (n.d.). New Directions in Goal-Setting Theory. Current
Directions in Psychological Science, 15(05).
Quiz 3. 2.1
Name: __________________________________________________ Course/Year/Section:
_______________________________ Date: _________________
Directions: True or False. Write TRUE if the statement is correct, otherwise write FALSE.
__________ 1. Some people experience disappointments, stress, and mental health problems
when they miss their life goals.
__________ 2. Carol Dweck described self-efficacy as the confidence in having the ability to
perform certain behaviors.
__________ 3. According to Albert Bandura there are two types of mindsets, the fixed mindset
and the growth mindset.
__________ 5. When you have a fixed mindset, you believe in innate abilities and have a fixed
theory of intelligence.
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__________ 7. Feedback helps keep the goal on track.
__________ 9. The easier the goal, the more that you feel motivated to achieve it.
__________ 10. For an effective goal-setting, one must be specific in detail to give a clearer
direction to the goal.
Quiz 3. 2.2
Name: __________________________________________________ Course/Year/Section:
_______________________________ Date: _________________
1. For you, what is the most important principle for Effective Goal-setting? (5points)
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3. In your opinion, what are the factors which make a goal unattainable?
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Quiz 3.2.3
Name: __________________________________________________
Directions: Before setting new goals, it is important to look back to previous goals you have
set and learn from them. Analyze why you reached those goals or why you didn’t reach those
goals by answering these guide questions.
Were you able to achieve those goals? What are the reasons the goal were achieved or not?
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Overview
This unit helps you to identify the aspects of learning, goal-setting and managing
stress. You will be provided with the practical application of the concepts discussed in the
course to enable you to get the hands-on experiences of developing your self-help plans for
self-regulated learning, goal setting, and self-care.
Learning Objectives
Setting Up
Activity 3.3.1
Name: __________________________________________ Date: __________________
Course/Year/Section: _________________________
WORDLES
This is a form of Riddle or Word Puzzle. Identify the answer to the following words based on
context. For each puzzle, your task is to decipher a series of cryptic letters, words and patterns
which, when combined, represent a common word or phrase.
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1.
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9. ___________________________________19._______________________________________
10. __________________________________20.______________________________________
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Lesson Proper
A. What is Stress?
The term stress is derived from the Latin word stringere, which is defined as to draw
tight. Psychologists define stress as the psychological and physiological response to a
condition that threatens a person’s capacity to adjust to the inner and outer demands. No
wonder people go into binge eating; become irritable; and do various activities to relieve
them from their stress.
In the 1930s, Hans Selye, a Canadian Scientist, started to use the term “stress” to mean
the environmental agent where an organism responds and adapts.
To understand what stress is, let us accept that it is a natural part of life. In fact, it is
important to have normal functioning of the body (Sevilla, et al., 2000). This is the reaction or
response of the body and mind to everyday challenges and demands. These responses could
disrupt or threaten to disrupt the physical or psychological functioning of the body.
Stress is usually perceived as negative; however, it may serve as a good source of
motivation. Stress often hits the individuals’ emotions and motivations, the individual’s ability
to think clearly (Cornista, et al, 2000). The events that often lead to stress are called stressors.
Stressors can be positive (getting married) or negative (funeral or death of a loved one).
Types of Stress
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Sources of Stress
Sources of stress are called stressors that can be internal or external. Internal sources
of stress is those that involve physical, demographic, psychological , and personal
characteristics. External source of stress are those that are outside the individual. Examples of
external stressors are air pollution, noise, crowding, brown outs, COVID-19.
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Emotional Symptoms include irritability and restlessness, aggressiveness,
anxiety and nervousness, withdrawal, substance abuse, lack of concentration,
depression, loneliness and isolation.
Physical Symptoms include aches and pains, dry mouth/throat, excessive sweating,
nausea or vomiting, indigestion, low energy, insomnia, aches, pains, tense muscles, loss of
sexual desire.
What happens to you if you experience stress? Your response could either be
physiological or psychological.
Physiological Response to Stress. Hans Selye (in Silverman, 1979) came up with his
theory on General Adaptation Syndrome (GAS). According to Selye, stress results when the
body’s normal homeostatic mechanisms fail to provide the body with sufficient means to
adapt to environmental demands. Thus, he called the widespread bodily reaction as the
general adaptation syndrome.
1. The Alarm Reaction State. In this state, the individual is momentarily immobilized (e.g.
in a state of shock) followed by a rapid and intense mobilization of bodily response, which
includes a high degree of instinctive and skeletal muscle activity.
2. The Resistance Stage. This is the recovery and restoration period. In this stage, the
individual “adapts” to the stress. Externally, it appears to be a quiet stage, but the
endocrine glands, the anterior pituitary, and the adrenal cortex, in particular, are hard at
work helping the individual to adapt himself to the stressful situation.
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3. The Exhaustion Stage. If the stress continues and the person is unable to maintain the
resistance level, exhaustion occurs and the alarm reaction is repeated. And if the stress
persists, then serious injury or even death may arise.
Psychological Responses to Stress
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Coping strategies are active efforts to eliminate or to get rid of stress. Strategies of
individuals to cope up with stress vary from one another. Some people try to deal directly
with the anxietyproducing situation, others may not.
Here are the approaches that individual use to cope up with their stress:
2. Problem focused – the individual deals with the stressor itself. The strategies include
reducing, modifying, or eliminating the source of stress.
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3. Proactive coping – the individual anticipates some stressful situations and take active
measures to avoid or minimize the consequences.
To deal with the above short-term stress, the body needs to react rapidly, though
adverse effects to the individuals’ physical and mental performance may occur, particularly if
there is no outlet or reason for the stress.
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C. Managing Stress
Managing and caring for the self is a holistic process. There are many aspects of the
self that needs attention. And there are various ways to prevent, minimize and manage stress.
Start managing your stress by first doing a self-care. Self-Care starts by taking charge
of one’s health. It is important to nurture not only our physical but especially our mental
health.
References
Cornista, A.N., and Lupato, T.A. (20000. ALS Publishing House. Dagupan City
Galinero, W.B., Reyes, C.A., Claudio, E.G., Alegado, A.M. (2018). Mutya Publishing House, Inc.
Malabon
City.
Lupdag, A.D. (2000). General Psychology. Grandwater Publication and Research Corporation.
Makati City
Sevilla, C.G., Punsalan, T.G., Rovira, L.G., and Vendivel, Jr., F.G. (2000). General Psychology Rev.
Edition. Rex Book Store. Manila
Silverman, R. (1979). Essentials of Psychology (2nd ed.) New Jersey: Prentice-Hall Inc.
Tria, G.E., Gaerlan, J.E., and Limpingco, D.A. (2012). General Psychology (6 th Ed.). KEN
Incorporated. Popular Bookstore. Quezon City
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Vitales, V.A. (2020) A Lecture Presentation for mental health awareness and stress and
depression-free workplace. Cabanatuan City
World Health Organization (2011). Psychological First Aid: Guide for Field Workers. WHO
Geneva.
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Assessing Learning
Activity 3. 3.2
Name:_________________________________________
1. 1. 1.
2. 2. 2.
3. 3. 3.
4. 4. 4.
5. 5. 5.
Activity 3.3.3
Direction: Paint Your Imagination: As a way to de-stress, paint your imagination to express
yourself. Just take out a watercolor paper (or simply use any blank paper), a
paintbrush, some watercolors and paint what comes to your mind. You can even use
sketch pens, color pencils or crayons – whatever is available.
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Activity 3.3.4
Name:_________________________________________
Direction: Take the Stress Indicator Questionnaire to identify the level of your stress based
on the
given indicators. After identifying your stress levels, develop your own Self-Care
Plan using the given Positive Coping Strategies for Stress
This questionnaire will show you how stress affects different parts of your life. Circle the
response which best indicates how often you experience each stress indicator during a
typical week.
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Use the following scale and equivalent
PHYSICAL INDICATORS:
How often would you say: AA MT ST AN N
1. My body feels tense all over. 5 4 3 2 1
7. My stomach quivers or 5 4 3 2 1
feels upset.
8. I get skin rashes or 5 4 3 2 1
itching.
9. I have problems with 5 4 3 2 1
my bowels
(constipation,
diarrhea).
10. I need to urinate more 5 4 3 2 1
than most people.
11. My ulcer bothers me. 5 4 3 2 1
3. I have nightmares or 5 4 3 2 1
repeated bad dreams.
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4. I wake up at least once in 5 4 3 2 1
the middle of the night for
no apparent reason.
5. No matter how much 5 4 3 2 1
sleep I get, I awake feeling
tired.
liquor a day.
8. When I drink, I like to get 5 4 3 2 1
really drunk.
9. I get drunk or "high" 5 4 3 2 1
with other drugs more
than once a week.
10. When I'm feeling high 5 4 3 2 1
from alcohol or drugs I
will drive a motor
vehicle.
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11. I tend to stumble when 5 4 3 2 1
walking, or have more
accidents than other
people.
12. In any given week, I take 5 4 3 2 1
at least one prescription
drug without the
recommendation of a
physician, e.g.
amphetamines,
barbiturates.
13. I have problems with my 5 4 3 2 1
sex life.
14. At least once during the 5 4 3 2 1
week I will make bets for
money.
15. After dinner I spend 5 4 3 2 1
more time alone or
watching TV than I do
talking with my family or
friends.
16. I arrive at work late. 5 4 3 2 1
EMOTIONAL INDICATORS:
How often would you say: AA MT ST AN N
1. I have found the best way 5 4 3 2 1
to deal with hassles and
problems is to consciously
avoid thinking or talking
about them.
2. I have trouble 5 4 3 2 1
remembering things.
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3. I feel anxious or frightened 5 4 3 2 1
about problems I can't
really describe.
4. I worry a lot. 5 4 3 2 1
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18. I feel very tired and 5 4 3 2 1
disinterested in life.
19. Impulsive behavior has 5 4 3 2 1
caused me problems.
20. I have felt so bad that I 5 4 3 2 1
thought of hurting
myself.
21. When I have an 5 4 3 2 1
important personal
problem I can't solve
myself, I do not seek
professional help.
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7. I spend less than 30 5 4 3 2 1
minutes a day working
toward a life goal or
ambition of mine.
8. My day to day living is not 5 4 3 2 1
really affected by my
religious beliefs or my
philosophy of life.
9. When I feel stressed, it is 5 4 3 2 1
difficult for me to plan
time and activities to
constructively release my
stress.
No single question in this questionnaire proves you are experiencing stress, but by
looking at the results of groups of questions, it may be possible to define what areas of your
life stress affects the most. To determine these areas, add the circled numbers in each section
and mark on the stress levels sheet below.
Activity 3.3.5
Note: Only the indicators with “Very High” to “Danger” Stress Level needs immediate
attention; thus choose a strategy that you prefer from the given Coping Strategies for
Stress
Total Stress Strategy
Points Level Preferred
Physical Indicators
Sleep Indicators
Behavior Indicators
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Emotional Indicators
Personal Habits
5 to 7 Very Low
8 to 9 Medium
Sleep Indicators 10 to 11 High
12 to 13 Very High
18 to 26 Very Low
27 to 36 Medium
Behavior Indicators 37 to 45 High
46 to 49 Very High
21 to 28 Very Low
29 to 36 Medium
Emotional Indicators 37 to 45 High
46 to 54 Very High
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30 and above Danger
EMOTIONAL STRATEGIES
10. Social support and relatedness
11. Self-nurturing (yes, you are worth it)
12. Good communication
13. Assertiveness
14. Recreational activities (“playtime”)
15. Emotional release
16. Sense of humor (ability to see things in perspective)
COGNITIVE STRATEGIES
17. Constructive thinking (ability to counter negative thinking)
18. Distraction (ability to distract yourself from negative pre-occupations)
19. Task-oriented (vs. reactive) approach to problems
20. Acceptance (ability to accept/cope with setbacks)
21. Tolerance for ambiguity (ability to see shades of gray)
PHILOSOPHICAL/SPIRITUAL STRATEGIES
22. Consistent goals or purpose to work towards a goal
23. Positive Philosophy of life
24. Religious/spiritual life and commitment
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