Bride-to-be silences wedding bells

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Tuesday. November 1, 2011

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Tomorrows Horoscope
WeDnesDAy, nov. 2, 2011 You can enhance your ability to overcome most challenges and adversities in the year ahead by maintaining a positive attitude as often as possible. Doing so will substantially strengthen your ability to get things done. sCoRPIo (oct. 24-nov. 22) -It might be smart to yield a little on some minor issues in order to avoid locking horns with a family member over a big matter. Give a little to get quite a bit. sAGITTARIUs (nov. 23-Dec. 21) -- Because of your reluctance to be forthright about what is bothering you, many of your companions will find you difficult to understand and tolerate. Loosen up a bit. CAPRICoRn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) -- Frivolous activities that dont make any kind of contribution to your material or social well-being shouldnt be given a whole lot of your time. Dont make trouble for yourself. AQUARIUs (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) -- Your self-image and reputation could suffer greatly if you fail to keep your temper in check, especially when youre around people you like and respect. Control your ire and you control your image. PIsCes (Feb. 20-March 20) -- If you insist upon dwelling on negatives, youll elude all possibility of having any success. Its important to strive to be a positive thinker as much and as often as you can. ARIes (March 21-April 19) -- Keep your snoot out of a friends business if you see that she or he is unwilling to share something with you. Everyone is entitled to privacy when they feel its warranted. TAURUs (April 20-May 20) -- Youre in for a big surprise if you think inflexibility will enhance your negotiating skills. All it will do is cause people to turn their backs on you. GeMInI (May 21-June 20) -- Theres nothing to be gained by spreading yourself too thin where your work is concerned. It will gain you a lot of needless frustration when you cant complete all that you want to. CAnCeR (June 21-July 22) -- Trying to con a co-worker into doing a job your way will turn into a frustrating experience. If you want things done well, let your colleague call the shots. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22) -- Unless you think your way through every step of the day, your gains will be slimmer than a fashion model. If you do things in a haphazard manner, your fragile arrangements will crumble like a misbegotten cookie. vIRGo (Aug. 23-sept. 22) -You had better stay focused on your endeavors because if you dont, chances are you will make a serious mistake that could require a total, and very expensive, makeover. LIBRA (sept. 23-oct. 23) -- If you intend to go window-shopping at the mall, youd be smart to leave your credit cards at home. Your resolve to maintain your budget will be weaker than a wet noodle.
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HI AND LOIS

By Bernice Bede Osol

Dear Annie: My fian- We wish we could accomcee, Beth, and I have been modate you, but it is simtogether for more than two ply not possible. However, years. Recently, she called theres a lovely motel a few off our wedding, saying she miles away, and wed be isnt ready. The wedding was thrilled to pick you up and planned for a year in the bring you here for dinner. future, so I am grateful she Dear Annie: You printtold me now. ed a letter from Bruised A few weeks in Nebraska, the later, we decided 12-year-old boy to take a break and who said his brothwork on the relaer yelled at him and tionship. We live hit him, and whose in separate houses. mother refused to Beth has a fullget involved. Your time job. I am in answer wasnt school and work strong enough. It is part time. We used possible the writto see each other ers brother is, in every day. Now, fact, an abuser in although we still the making, and the talk daily, I only Annies Mailbox mother is in denial. see her twice a So what if he proweek at most. vokes his brother? The boy Beth is talking to a coun- has to learn that he cannot selor about her issues, and hurt anyone, regardless of we have started couples provocation. Avoiding him counseling. One of our main will not solve the problem. problems is that she becomes The only helpful advice distant when things arent you gave was to talk to the going well and subconscious- school counselor and his ly pushes me away. I have doctor. Hopefully, Bruised never loved and trusted any- will seek guidance before one as much as I do her. How the brother does something can I support and help her? that cannot be undone. -- Los -- Confused in California Angeles, Calif. Dear Confused: You Dear Los Angeles: Many already are being supportive readers were upset because by attending counseling ses- we said siblings can provoke sions and not pushing Beth each other into hitting. Others to make decisions any sooner said the brother was mentally than she is able. We hope ill. Many readers assumed counseling will help you Bruised was female and reach a satisfactory resolu- should be treated the same as tion. If so, your relationship a spousal abuse victim. will be stronger than ever. Since we didnt have that But please understand it is much information, we treated also possible that underlying this as a sibling rivalry that issues will come to light and was getting out of hand, and one of you might decide that since the parents were doing marriage is not in the cards. nothing, the school authoriThis is neither good nor bad. ties and the family physician It is simply how things some- would be the best way to times work out. report it. We appreciate our Dear Annie: I have a for- readers concern and hope mer school friend, Paula, Bruised follows through. who has lived in another state for 30 years. She and her husband visit relatives in our area once or twice a year. She has hinted that they would like to stay overnight at our house. We have one guest bedroom, but my husband uses it as his bedroom. We would rather Paula not know that we have separate bedrooms. I would like Paula and her husband to visit our home but find lodging elsewhere. She is always inviting us to stay with them, and we turn the offers down because if we accepted, we would be obligated to return the favor. What can we do? -- Prefer Privacy Dear Prefer: Do some legwork and find hotels or motels nearby. (We assume there are reasons she cannot stay at the homes of her various relatives.) You are not obligated to put them up at your house. Its OK to say,

BLONDIE

BEETLE BAILEY

SNUFFY SMITH

HAGAR THE HORRIBLE

BORN LOSER

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