Starting, Continuing and Ending Conversation
Starting, Continuing and Ending Conversation
Neutral:
Hi/Hey, (name). How’s it going? (often reduced to “How’s it goin’?”)
Hi/Hey, (name). How are you? (often reduced to “How are ya?”)
Good morning/afternoon/evening, (name). (“Good morning” is often reduced to
“Morning.” Also note that “Good morning/afternoon/evening” is more formal than the
first two greetings.)
Casual:
Hey, (name). What’s up?
Hey, (name). What’s going on? (often reduced to “What’s goin’ on?”)
Hi/Hey, (name). Long time no see. (if you haven’t seen the person in a while)
What’s up?
Not much. What’s up with you?
Not much. You?
Hi/Hey. How’s it going?
Hi/Hey. How are you?
Notice that we often reply to “What’s up” with another greeting. This often happens
when we greet someone who is walking past us. It can be awkward to say “Not
much. What’s up with you?” to someone walking away from you.
What’s new?
So, how have you been?
What have you been up to?
Keeping busy?
How was your weekend?
Do you have any plans for the weekend?
So, how’s it going with (a project, initiative, etc.)…?
So, what do you think about (current event or something new at work)…?
So, did you hear that…?
So, I heard that you are/you’re…?
Ending a Conversation
Note that we often say the word “well” followed by a pause.