Holistic Development
Holistic Development
SEXUALITY
-is about your sexual feelings, thoughts, attractions and behaviors towards other
people. You can find other people physically, sexually or emotionally attractive,
and all those things are a part of your sexuality. Sexuality is diverse and
personal, and it is an important part of who you are.
The Challenges Filipino Adolescence
1. Attitudes and Behavior towards sexuality and sexual relationship.
2. Academic concerns
3. Group Belongingness
4. Health and nutrition
5. Developing or Regaining self-esteem
6. Roles
7. Material Poverty
8. Parents Working Abroad
9. Career Choice
10.Relationship
11.Value and Beliefs 12. Self Identity
Other challenges
Depression
Overthinking
Procrastination
Filipino Adolescents, Model Heroes
UNTANGLED GO. GROW, GLOW
THE POWERS OF THE
MIND
Coping with Stress Middle and Late Adolescence
The Healthy Stress
Stressors of middle and late adolescent
External Stressors
Comes from the outside of you like certain situations and people.
Internal Stressors
Coming from within your thoughts that caused you to feel fearful
about the future and personal beliefs, which include your own
expectations. Ex. Negative self talk, Unrealistic expectations.
Possible Sources of Stress for Teenagers
1. School demands (test and homework) and frustrations.
2. Negative thoughts and feelings about themselves.
3. Change is their bodies.
How do we Cope-up with Stress
1. Exercise and eat regularly.
2. Avoid excess caffeine intake which can increase
feelings of anxiety and agitation.
3. Avoid illegal drugs, alcohol, and tobacco.
MENTAL HEALTH AND WELL-BEING
EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
MENS SANA IN CORPORE SANO- “A healthy mind in
a healthy body”
MENTAL HEALTH affects how we think, feel, and act. It also
helps determine how we handle stress, relate to others, and make
healthy choices. Mental health is important at every stage of life,
from childhood to adolescence and through adulthood.
MENTAL HEALTH
emotional,
psychological, and
social well-being.
Emotional Health
Emotional health refers to how a person thinks and feels. The ability
to acknowledge and cope with both positive and negative emotions is
a sign of good emotional health.
Emotional well-being, or emotional health or wellness, refers to how
well people are able to accept and manage their emotions and cope
with challenges throughout life.
Psychological Well-Being
Psychological well-being is characterized by
positive relationships,
self-acceptance,
It is linked to better health, greater happiness, and a longer lifespan.
Psychological Well-Being
HEDONIC (enjoyment, pleasure) and
EUDAIMONIC (meaning, fulfillment) happiness, as well as
resilience (coping, emotion regulation, healthy problem solving)
Social Wellness
Social wellness refers to the relationships we have and how we
interact with others. Our relationships can offer support during
difficult times. Social wellness involves
building healthy.
VULNERABILITY
the quality or state of being exposed to the possibility of being
attacked or harmed, either physically or emotionally.
Expressing Your Emotions in a Healthy Way
Use positive self-talk
We all have an inner dialogue running through our heads, which
is sometimes negative and counterproductive. If you have a
negative inner dialogue, this is bound to make healthy self-expression
difficult (Beck et al., 1979; Ingram & Wisnicki, 1988; Hiçdurmaz et
al., 2017). Consider whether the messages in your head are
damaging, and if so, work on ways to replace them with positive
ones.
Be a good listener
It might be helpful to remember that… “…we have two ears and one
mouth so that we can listen twice as much as we speak.”
It is hurtful to feel unheard (Nichols, 2009), so LISTEN to your
family, friends, and coworkers and you will be in a far better position
to respond with expressions of empathy and understanding.
Try spirituality
Mother Teresa said:
Joy is prayer; joy is strength; joy is love; joy is a net of love by which
you can catch souls. -Mother Teresa
Many others have also found strength in the self-transcendent
emotions related to spirituality (Stellar et al., 2017; Haidt, 2003),
and if you need an extra nudge in terms of expressing your emotions,
it might help you too.
Practice empathy
Whether among family (Geiger et al., 2016), friends (Goleman,
2006), or coworkers (McKee et al., 2017), practicing empathy creates
bonds that enable us to be emotionally in sync with others.
Take a risk
Emotional expression equals risk; it means you are putting yourself in
the position of potential rejection. But meaningful conversations and
relationships require such risk. So, take a chance and you will be
rewarded (Brown, 2015).
Be optimistic
Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done
without hope and confidence.
-Helen Keller
By focusing on the positive, you will find it easier to express yourself
in a range of situations while enjoying the many wonders of life
(Seligman, 2006).
Practice mindfulness
Whether in the form of meditation, yoga, or breathing
exercises, mindfulness has been found to promote optimism,
happiness,
positive emotional states, and
self-acceptance (Amutio et al., 2015). Each of these
outcomes aids in the promotion of emotional
expression.
Feelings or emotions are the universal language and are to be
honored. They are the authentic expression of who
you are in your deepest place. -Judith Wright