Lesson3 Counselingprocesses
Lesson3 Counselingprocesses
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…When I wake
up…it is too late
already…
Yes!
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+Summarizing is an important way for the clinician to gather together
what has already been said, make sure that the client has been
understood correctly, and prepare the client to move on.
+Summarizing is putting together a group of reflections.
Example of summarizing
We discussed your relationship with your
husband. You said there were conflicts
right from the start related to the way
money was handled, and that he often felt
you gave more importance to your
friends. Yet on the whole, things went well
and you were quite happy until 3 years
ago. Then the conflicts became more
frequent and more intense, so much so Yes, that is
that he left you twice and talked of it!
divorce, too . Have I understood the
situation properly?
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+Processing is the act of the clinician thinking about his
or her observations about the client and what the client
has communicated.
Processing allows the counsellor to mentally catalogue the following
data:
+Client’s beliefs, knowledge, attitudes, and expectations
+Information given by his or her family
+Counselor’s observations
+Responding is the act of communicating information
to the client that includes providing feedback and
emotional support, addressing issues of concern, and
teaching skills.
+Empathy is the action of understanding, being aware
of, being sensitive to, and vicariously experiencing the
feelings, thoughts, and experiences of another.
Example of Expressing Empathy
I am so tired, but I
cannot sleep...
I see.
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+Probing is the counselor’s use of a question to direct the client’s
attention to explore his or her situation in greater depth.
+A probing question should be open-ended
+ Probing
helps to focus the client’s attention on a feeling, situation, or
behaviour
+ Probingmay encourage the client to elaborate, clarify, or illustrate
what he or she has been saying
+ Probing may enhance the client’s awareness and understanding of
his or her situation and feelings
+ Probing directs the client to areas that need attention
Example of probing
I was always known to be a good
worker. I even received an award.
Work problems
related to drug Lately I had some issues…my
use? husband is just not helping…that is
why I am always late.
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+Silence can encourage the client to reflect and continue
sharing. It also can allow the client to experience the power
of his or her own words.
Silence
+It can be used as an encourager.
+It keeps the focus on the client.
+It can help the client absorb what was said.
+It can help the client collect his or her thoughts for expression.
Understanding
+Advanced empathy:
oAttends to the feelings and thoughts that are not expressed by the
client.
oHelps the client see the bigger picture.
oHelps to open up areas for counseling for which the client is either
unaware or has only hinted at.
oHelps to identify themes.
oHelps the client own his or her feelings and behaviors.
Confrontation
+A form of advanced empathy which helps the client look at thoughts
and behaviors that might be self-defeating or harmful.
oIt is a form of challenge and not a verbal assault.
oIt needs to be done with a high level of empathy.
oUsually it is in reference to a incongruence or discrepancy on the
client's part.
Self-Disclosure
+Sharing personal information with a client.
oIt must be for the benefit of the client and not the counselor.
oIt can be used as a model to help the client self-disclose.
oIt should not take the focus off the client.
oUsed sparingly and appropriately, it can enhance the therapeutic
relationship.
Directives
+Instructions given to the client.
oBasically it is the counselor telling the client what to do.
oThe timing in giving a directive is important.
oSome theories use more directives than others.
Advising
+A form of directive.
oThe advising should not be seen as a command or a demand.
oCounselors need to take responsibility for the advice they give.
oDo the advising in such a way as it leaves the client with the
ultimate choice.
Gives information about how the person is experienced by others
Serves to:
▪ Help client see self more objectively (as others see him or her)
Feedback works best when
▪ It is requested or desired
▪ It is concrete
▪ It is positive
▪ If negative, it addresses something changeable or controllable