STARTER

1. Who's your closest friend and why? what's ur friends cirecle, close friends?

2. What's your favorite childhood memories?

3. Where is your favorite place in the world?

4. What's your favorite local spot?

5. What neighborhood do you live in?

6. What's the best vacation or trip you've ever been on?

7. Are you interested in sports? What's your favorite sports team and why?

8. What are you looking forward to right now?

9. How was your schooling? What was your favorite subject in school?

10. What always makes you feel good about yourself?

11. What group would you like to be a part of?

12. What honor have you received in the past that you are proud about?

13. If you learned you only had six months to live, how would you spend your time?

14. Where would you want to be if you could blink and be anywhere in the world?

15. What secret talent do you have that nobody knows about?

16. Do you believe in fate or chance?

17. Would you describe yourself as spontaneous?

PROFESSION

1. Where do you work?

2. How long have you been in this profession?

3. Who do you hang out with most at work?

4. What do you love most about your job?

5. What do you like the least about your job?

6. What's next for you in your career?

7. Do you want to grow within your company, or do you see yourself elsewhere?

8. How did you decide to follow this career path?

9. What did you study in school?

10. What's your greatest professional accomplishment?

11. What's the most embarrassing thing that's happened to you at work?

12. Who is your least favorite colleague and why?

13. Who is your professional role model or inspiration?

14. What’s your office environment like? How do you get along with your bosses?

15. What’s the hardest thing about your job?

16. What’s your coolest job perk?

17. Do you want to stay in your field or explore something new?

18. Are you passionate about what you do?

19. Is there a profession that you’ve always had a curiosity about but never
pursued?

20. What was your dream job as a child?

21. If you could go back in time, knowing what you know now, is this the exact job
you would've chosen for yourself?

22. If I waved a magic wand and told you that you could do anything for a job, what
would that be?

PERSONALITY

1. Are you an introvert or an extrovert?

2. Are you an early riser or a night owl?

3. What does an ideal weekend look like for you?

4. What's your favorite way to relax?

5. How often do you like to exercise?

6. How would you describe your personality?

7. Do you like to relax or explore while on vacation?

8. What's your biggest pet peeve, and how do you respond when it happens?

9. What kinds of things make you the most upset?

10. What do you act like when you're sad or mad?

11. What makes you happy?

12. How do you communicate your feelings to others?

13. Who do you go to when you need to vent?

14. Do you consider yourself a calm or anxious person?

15. What do you like most about yourself?

FAMILY

1. Do you have any siblings?

2. How close are you to your siblings?

3. Who were you raised by?

4. Are you close to your parents and/or grandparents?

5. What's it like being around your parents?

6. How close are you to your immediate family?

7. How often do you visit your hometown?

8. How close are you to your extended family?

9. What was it like growing up in your family?

10. What was the best part of your childhood?

11. What were you like in high school?

12. What's your most embarrassing childhood memory?

13. Who was the most important part of your youth?

14. Are you still friends with people you knew growing up?

15. How would you describe your family to someone new?

16. Do you live close to your family? If not, would you live close to them?

17. What is your parents’ relationship like?

18. What do you do when you spend time with your siblings?

19. Who initiates plans between family members and yourself?

VALUES

1. What's your political affiliation?

2. Who do you plan to vote for in the next election?

3. Has your political affiliation changed?

4. What was your life like during the COVID-19 quarantine?

5. How religious are you?

6. Were you raised practicing a specific religion?

7. How important are holidays to you?

8. What would you consider to be your personal values?

9. Who are the most important people in your life?

10. What brings you the most fulfillment in life?

11. Do you live to work or work to live?

12. How important is alone time?

13. How important are other people's values to you?

14. What role do your friends play in your life?

15. Who do you admire?

16. What would you tell yourself five years ago?

17. What's a big lesson you've learned from a past mistake?

18. Are you a spiritual person?

19. Do you believe that everything happens for a reason?

20. What makes you feel free?

21. What do you think happens in the afterlife?

HOBBIES

1. What do you do in your spare time?

2. What are your hobbies?

3. What is the hobby you've been doing for the longest period of time?

4. What's a recent hobby that you've picked up?

5. How often do you read?

6. How important are hobbies to your mental health?

7. What's a hobby you'd pick up if you had more time?

8. What do you consider to be your passion in life?

9. How passionate are you about your job?

10. When do you make time for your hobbies and passions?

11. Is it important that your friends share your passions?

12. What do you consider your biggest contribution to the world?

13. How do you want to feel at the end of your life?

14. What's something you're really proud of?

15. If you could do one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be?

16. What is it about your hobby that you are drawn to?

RELATIONSHIP

1. What are you looking for in a relationship?

2. What does your ideal partner look like?

3. What do you like most about relationships?

4. What's the best part of dating you?

5. How do you cope with loneliness?

6. Who do you go to for relationship advice?

7. What's the best love advice you've ever received?

8. Do you like dating apps?

9. What made you want to start dating?

10. What was your longest relationship?

11. What was your shortest relationship?

12. What's been your greatest heartbreak?

13. What's romantic to you?

14. How do you know that you like someone?

15. Have you ever lived with a significant other?

16. What is your biggest pet peeve in a relationship?

17. What are your love languages (to give and receive)?

18. Would you say you’re emotionally available?

19. What do you do for fun when you’re single?

20. What are your favorite kind of dates to go on?

21. What’s a date you’ve always wanted to go on but never have?

22. What’s your ideal date?

23. Any couples in your life that you aspire to be like? What do you like about
their relationship?
24. Who’s your longest-lasting friendship with?

25. At what point in your life have you been ready for something serious versus
something casual?

FUTURE PLANS

1. What are you looking for in a serious relationship?

2. How worried are you about the future?

3. Where do you want to be in five years?

4. What about the future excites you most?

5. What about the future concerns you most?

6. Where do you want to live eventually?

7. What kind of a parent do you think you would be?

8. How important is it that you live close to your family?

9. What's your opinion on marriage?

10. How often do you want to travel for pleasure?

11. Is there anywhere in the world you haven't seen yet that you'd like to?

12. What's your ideal style for a home?

13. Is there anything you hope to do more of in the future?

14. What's something you'd like to get better at in the future?

SEXUALITY

1. How would you describe your sexual orientation?

2. How would you describe your tastes in the bedroom?

3. What do you look for in a sexual partner?

4. How do you define the word 'sex'?

5. When was the first time you had sex?

6. What was your first kiss like?

7. What's your greatest sexual fantasy?

8. Who's your celebrity crush?

9. Do you believe in casual sex?

10. Do you enjoy talking about sex?

11. How old were you when you had your first crush?

12. What does sex typically mean to you?

13. What's your biggest turn on?

14. What's your favorite movie sex scene?

15. Is there anything you wouldn't do in bed?

16. What do you think about sex on the first date?

17. What do you think about sexual exploration for couples?

FINANCIAL

1. Where did you grow up?

2. Have you taken any fun vacations recently?

3. Do you have any vacations planned or any dream vacations?

4. What do you like to do in your free time?

5. What’s a normal weekend like for you?

6. Are you a spender or a saver?

7. Do you think I am a spender or saver?

8. What was the last big thing you bought? Was it worth it?

9. Are you working towards anything now? A certain job, a skill, a thing, a house?

10. Would you rather spend money on experiences or things?

11. What kind of an area did you grow up in? Was it fancy pantsy or salt of the
earth?

12. How do you manage your money? Do you have a budget?

13. If you wanted to buy something expensive, how would you pay for it?

14. Do you usually have money left over at the end of the month?

15. How far ahead do you like to plan financially?

16. When you get an unplanned inflow of cash, do you usually spend it or do you
like to save money?

17. Are you comfortable telling me how much you make?

18. Do you have any other debt or financial obligations?

19. If you have debt, how do you feel about it?

20. If you have debt, how are you handling it?

21. Do you support anyone else financially?

22. What’s the next vacation you want to take and how much do you think it’ll cost?

23. Do you have any money saved right now?

24. How will you manage the day-to-day finances?

25. Would you help a relative financially if they needed it? Would you want to be
paid back?

26. What do you want our financial life to look like?

27. What is your risk tolerance financially?

28. Do you know anything about investing?

29. What are your dreams or goals in life?

30. Is there anything that scares you about your financial situation?

31. Do you support your parents financially?

32. Do you think your next car will be new or used?

33. Would you accept financial help from your friends or relatives?

34. Would you give money to your siblings if they were in a difficult financial
situation? Would you seek repayment?

35. Did your parents discuss financial matters with you?

36. How are you planning for retirement?

37. What kind of lifestyle do you want to live in retirement, and will you be able
to afford it with your current savings plan?

38. Where would you like to live during your retirement?

39. How much money do you need to retire?

40. What would you like to do when you retire as far as hobbies and extracurricular
activities?

41. Are you interested in traveling once you retire and if so where would you like
to go? How often would you like to travel?

42. Would you want to work part-time? Is there a part-time business you would like
to start once retired in an effort to stay active and have some extra income?

43. How would you like to maintain our health during retirement?

SELF FINANCE

1. Are you a spender or a saver?

2. Do you know how much money is in your bank accounts right now?

3. How do you spend your “fun” money?

4. Do you buy generic brands or name brands?

5. What expenses would you cut to live on less money?

6. How much money do you save every month?

7. How much money have you saved in total?

8. Do you put money into your savings account at the beginning or end of the month
(or not at all)?

9. How much money have you saved in total?

10. What are your financial goals for the future?

11. How much do you think vacations should cost?

12. Do you gamble?

13. What is the most expensive thing you’ve ever bought?

14. What charities do you support, and how much money do you donate annually?

GENERAL

1. What was your first impression of me?

2. What kind of friends do you think I have?

3. What do you think my parents are like?

4. Why did you decide to go on a date with me?

5. If I were an animal, what kind would I be?

6. What's your favorite thing you've learned about me so far?

7. What's your least favorite thing you've learned about me so far?

8. Do you think we have things in common?

9. Anything you want to ask me?