General Concepts of Character
General Concepts of Character
The term was derived from the Greek word “charassein,” referring to an
engraving instrument; originally used of a mark impressed upon a coin or
the mark cut by it.
Then it was applied to a distinctive mark of the personality; and gradually,
to the sum total of such marks, each individual one is being called
characteristics (Bartemeier, 2009).
It is the trademark of being a person.
Character as defined by the American Psychiatric Association, signifies the
relatively fixed or continuing group of an individual personality attributes of
a person or the characteristic pattern of behaviour of an individual.
The social, emotional and intellectual manifestations of a character are
called personality, and character is roughly equivalent to personality.
Harbans (2011) noted that character is the index of the state of mind of a
person, it may differ as an individual differs but one thing is certain the
special characteristics form the solid basis of his stability in the society of
which he is a part. Character, thus is an index of a person’s standing in the
society.
1. Parental Influence
2. Home Environment
3. School Environment
4. Culture
PARENTAL ENVIRONMENT
Parental influence is the most important of all the factors responsible for
personality development. The way parents behave with the child, how
much he is allowed to socialize, the kind of culture he is subjected to by
them, and the emotional make-up of his parents, all these have a great
bearing on the child’s mental growth. In early stage of their human
existence, children adapt their parent’s mannerisms. Thus, parents should
be careful in their ways for they establish a great influence to their
children’s character.
HOME ENVIRONMENT
Home as cradle of human character and personality largely contribute to
the character formation of a child. It is said that the parents are the first
educators of the children. It is their parental guidance and discipline that
creates the kind of character, personality and attitude the child has.
Parents should make sure that the child incorporates the positive
emotions in his personality and stays away from the negative ones. A child
needs both his parents, to develop his personality. An absentee father can
be a negative influence on the child. To make a child a confident, positive
person, parents should avoid being too authoritative, trying to discipline
excessively.
SCHOOL ENVIRONMENT
To perfect the total development of a child’s character and attitude,
besides the home environment, a child’s school environment too plays a
major role in shaping a child’s personality. Once a child starts going to
school, he learns how to interact and deal with his peers. He comes to
know how to engage in “playing” according to the rules and regulations. He
gets educated, learns how to read, write and communicate effectively. A
child’s personality is greatly influenced by the way he is treated at school,
both by his teachers as well as his peers. The school reinforce the
education that the child needs that home fails to provide.
CULTURE
Everyone has different character and values because of the different
cultures where everyone is exposed. Sociologists found out that different
cultures have different values and a child grows up with them, sub-
consciously absorbing the same. Influence of culture in personality and
social development cannot be ignored. Those who were born and grown
up in western countries are influenced to be individualistic and competitive,
while those children brought up in Asian, African and South American
countries are taught to be cooperative.
Infancy, toddler-hood, preschool and school age are the various phases
that a child passes through and each of these stages has its own share of
problems and challenges, which a child has to overcome, with his parent’s
assistance, to turn out to be a well-developed personality.
Home environment
Social environment
Culture and language
History
Educational system
Religion
Economic environment
Political environment
Mass media
Leadership and role model
TYPES OF CHARACTERS
Self-realized Character
Covetous Character
Superstitious Character
Egoistic /Overbearing / Bossy / Tall-Talker
Anti-social Character
Insincere Character
Complacent Character
Self-realized Character
A person with this type of character is ever enthusiastic for he
knows his potentialities and limitations. This sort of a character is an
asset not only to the family but also the society in which person
lives.
Covetous Character
This refers to a jealous or acquisitive character. It is held that,
persons with greed will endeavour to go all out in collecting worldly
possessions and fulfilling his personal petty ambitions by adopting
any means open to him even crossing all the limits of moral and
ethical limits.
In effect the person will become most arrogant, repulsive, slanderer
and fully bereft of any moral feelings for the humans. He is the
burden not only on the family but also the society in which he lives.
Superstitious Character
In a way all are superstitious but when we’re over superstitious then
problem starts. It is not merely bad for the individual concerned but
also for those who come in contact with this unpredictable person,
who may change his tag any moment thus leaving everybody
around in the lurch. Too much reliance on superstitions also robs us
of scientific temper and forward looking approach in our life. But we
should not compare superstitious and traditionalists.
Anti-social Character
A person who neither cares for the norms set by the society nor
cares for the moral or ethical values is an anti-social character. This
character is both a sinner and a criminal. He could also be termed
as an offensive character. This like character resorts to offense
besides being abusive on even a pettiest pretext. This anti-social
behaviour cuts him off from the community in which he is living and
has to fend for himself ultimately for his acts of omissions and
commissions.
Insincere Character
When a person does something good for us, we express our sincere
thanks and go extra mile in being sincere to that person in
whatever way it is possible for us. Contrarily, a person who thinks
others is there for serving him and is without any warmth in the
feeling for others. This like person is not only a insincere to his own
family, society and even to the Creator who had created him!
Complacent Character
We all should have confidence on ourselves. It is good for day to
day functioning of our society. But when we cross the threshold of
confidence and step into the realm of complacency then problem
starts. A person who imbibes this trait finally faces ignoble defeat for
being so and learns a lesson.
A. Honesty
• There is no more fundamental ethical value than honesty. Honesty is
associated with honor. Thus, a person of honesty is a person of honor and
he is admired and trusted because of his being straightforward.
• A person of good character must be a person of honesty in both
communications and conduct.. Honesty in communications is
expressing the truth as best we know it and not conveying it in a way likely
to mislead or deceive.
Truthfulness
• Presenting the facts to the best of our knowledge. Take note that, intent is
the crucial distinction between truthfulness and truth itself. Being wrong is
not the same thing as lying, although honest mistakes can still damage
trust insofar as they may show sloppy judgment.
Sincerity
• One must observe genuineness, being without trickery or duplicity for it
precludes all acts, including half-truths, out-of-context statements, and
even silence, that are intended to create beliefs or leave impressions that
are untrue or misleading.
Candor
• In relationships involving legitimate expectations of trust, honesty may also
require candour, forthrightness and frankness, imposing the obligation to
volunteer information that another person needs to know.
Integrity
• Persons of integrity are those who acts according to his beliefs, not
according to expediency. He is also consistent. There is no difference in
the way he makes decisions from situation to situation; his principles don’t
vary at work or at home, in public or alone.
• The person of integrity takes time for self-reflection, so that the events,
crises and seeming necessities of the day do not determine the course of
his moral life. He stays in control. He may be courteous, even charming,
but he is never duplicitous or unfaithful. He never demeans himself with
obsequious behaviour toward those he thinks might do him some good. He
is trusted because you know who he is: What You See Is What You Get.
People without integrity are called “hypocrites” or “two-faced.”
Reliability
• (Promise-Keeping). Reliable persons are those who keep their promises
for he believe that doing so create legitimate basis for another person to
rely on him, and that he undertake special moral duties. They accept the
responsibility of making all reasonable efforts to fulfil their commitments.
Because promise-keeping is such an important aspect of trustworthiness.
B. LOYALTY
To be trusted one must be loyal to his or husband or wife, friends,
employer , employee, organization, citizen, and country.
CHAPTER I
FILIPINO INFLUENCES TRAITS AND CHARACTERISTICS
The Philippines is a meeting point for cultures from all over Asia and the
Pacific because it has been a crossroads between east and west and the
merging of cultures reflects the country’s culture and its people.
It comes from various ethno-linguistic groups that are native to the islands
or migrants from various Asia- Pacific regions, Filipinos are the people who
are naturally born to or recognized with the Philippine country.
China, the United States, and Spain mainly influence the modern Filipino
identity
it is believed by the Filipinos that the country have the best values in the
world
Though it has experienced colonization by several countries, but the core
values it has gained from the Filipino ancestors remained intactand are
still honoured today like the bayanihan or spirit of kinship and camaraderie
implanted by Malay ancestors and close family ties inherited by the
Chinese ascendants.
1. Hospitality
Hospitality is a trait displayed by every Filipino, characterized by heart-
warming generosity and friendliness exhibited to foreigners and locals
alike.
2. Respect
This is often observed—not just by younger people—but also by people of
all ages. In the Philippines, respect for one’s elders is a tradition.
Hospitality
• Filipinos are well-known for being hospitable. This is one of the most
popular qualities of Filipinos. Most foreigners who have gone to the
Philippines fell in love with the warm hospitality they have experienced
while staying in the country. This is a kind of value system which has
existed in the country thousands of years ago. Good thing is that the
hospitality of the Filipinos is not only shown to the foreigners but to its
fellow Filipino as well.
• Hospitality of Filipinos is shown in the following sample situations:
• When a person visits a friend’s house, the host greets him or her with a
very warm welcome. The host will immediately let their visitor sit down and
will prepare a meal or a snack plus drinks for the visitor. The host will insist
that the friend not leave the house with an empty stomach. A host will
always make sure you had a great time visiting them.
• People offer their guest room to visitors if they’re going to spend the night.
• Meals offered to guests are very special. A host always finds a way to
prepare great tasting food that her visitor wants to eat.
Respect
• Po and Opo – These words are spoken by the Filipinos when talking to
elders, or in order to show respect to persons in authority. These Filipino
words mean “yes,” when answering or talking to the elders.
• Pagmamano - Another way of showing respect to the elders when greeting
them. This is done by putting their elders’ hands on their foreheads
• Filipinos also show respect at work by making a bow to their employers.
Crab Mentality
• This is an attitude of some Filipinos where they tend to push each other
down to clear the way for their own gain. Filipino people with this kind of
mentality or attitude try their best to ruin each other, either by making
issues against the other for him to turn out bad to the public or to the
company or organization so that people will gradually put distance and loss
their confidence and trust that eventually result to their replacement.
Hypocrisy
• This is a trait of the Filipino where criticisms to others’ failure to live with
the moral standards of the society are inevitable. In the Philippines morality
is highly valued, most of us try to live up to the standards set by the
traditional society. However, as no one is perfect, many of us are not
actually able to sustain these standards.
• The fear of being an outcast has forced a lot of people to live a double
standard life. To hide our failure in following a norm, we tend to be
condemning those who are caught red handed. A perfect example could
be the criticisms faced by those who become pregnant outside marriage.
The sad fact behind this scenario is that some of these critics could have
actually engaged in premarital sex too—only that no proof is visible.
Ningas Cogon
• Most Filipinos are very good at the start when doing something.
Nevertheless, after a few hours or days, that excitement to do or
accomplish something is lost we and become too lazy to finish what were
have started.
Gossiping
• Filipinos are fond of talking about others’ business. It is not true that only
women are into gossiping. Even men can also be nosy on other people’s
lives. Secrets are brought out; failures and flaws are emphasized; and
relationships are destroyed. Worse, as gossips are passed around, they
tend to be twisted until the final story becomes too far from the original—
thus, causing more damage.
Blaming
• Filipinos can sometimes be too self-righteous. When mistakes happen, we
do not want to take the blame, we lack humility to accept our failures, and
instead we point at others. This shows how irresponsible we are on our
actions. This attitude destroys team work, and reliability becomes an issue.
Attention Taker
• Filipinos are fun and people loving race. Thus, attracting attention is
natural for them. Nevertheless, it is a different thing to be an “epal” or
“kapalmuks - simply, being an attention grabber.
• Sometimes, in our desperate need to be the center of attention, we do
things that are already embarrassing like butting in conversations as a
know-it-all or by being scandalous. This habit is also common to our
politicians. Instead of prioritizing their duty to give the best service to the
people, they rather prioritize their thick faces to grab attention that will
bring them more chance of winning in the next election. But thanks to our
vigilant netizens, this kind of politicians earns more shame than fame.
1. Personalism
• Filipinos valued interpersonal relationship. It is firmly believed that
harmonious personal relationship is the key to successful endeavors.
Amicable settlement of dispute is the primary means of restoring broken
relationships and face-to-face open forum is considered once conflict is
recognized in an organization or the community.
2. Familialism
• Filipinos are family-oriented. Development programs and projects in the
community are concentrated on the family. Decision on matters is centered
on the welfare and best interest of the family rather than on the betterment
and interest of some individuals. The mistakes committed by a family
member affects the credibility and of the immediate members of the family
and relatives.
3. Particularism
• Displayed behaviour by the individuals may it be good or bad is blamed
against the family. It is based on the principle that home is the cradle of
human personality and character that is, the product of goodness is always
good and those who are moulded in wickedness, will always show-off
badness. Individuals strive to promote their own and their family’s interests
over community interests.
• Pakikiramay
• It is in the Filipino value of going out of the way to help, without being
asked, i.e., unsolicited help.
• Bayanihan
• As mentioned in the preceding topics, Filipinos are able to render services
and generous enough to extend help without compensation. –Somebody
can request help in time of need from those to whom it is extended.
• Galang (Respect)
• Filipinos are basically oriented to revere to the opinions of elders, peers, or
those in authority, during important discussions during social encounters.
Verbal clash or any sign of extreme familiarity in public meetings is a sign
of disrespect to elders or persons in authority.