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In his book, Authentic Happiness (2002), Martin Seligman suggested three types
of a happy life which can be studied:
• The Pleasant life:It refers to the “life of enjoyment,” where people enjoy
and savour the various positive feelings and emotions in their daily life
such as pursuing interests, having entertainment and relationships.
• The Good Life:It refers to the “life of engagement” where people engage
themselves deeply in various activities and experience a flow in their
life. For instance, losing sense of time when you are engaged in reading
a story by your favourite author.
Seligman has given his PERMA model of well-being which consists of five
elements as explained below.
P- Positive Emotion
E- Engagement
R- Relationships
M- Meaning
A- Accomplishments
Fig. 15.1: Five Aspects of PERMA Model 277
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Positive emotion is not just about ‘happiness’, it is also about joy, affection,
love, hope, gratitude, kindness, care, dignity, delight, interest, etc. It means the
individual’s experience of positive mood and feelings which are comforting and
uplifting. Cultivating positive emotions helps in individuals’ wellbeing and
flourishing as these helps to build different resources such as physical,
psychological, emotional, and social which in turn makes individuals resilient
and improves their overall wellbeing. Working on building up positive emotions
intentionally helps individuals to improve their automatic thinking pattern and
behaviour which helps them to discover, appreciate and assimilate these positive
emotions in their day-to-day life.
There are number of strategies which can be applied to build positive emotion
such as devoting time with people you love, pursuing your favourite activities or
hobbies, playing musical instrument, listening to joyful and inspirational music,
reflecting and being grateful for your life, helping others selflessly, etc.
E- Engagement
Seligman (2012) defines engagement as “being one with the music” which is
quite close to one of the co-founders of positive psychology, Csikszentmihalyi’s
(1989) concept of “Flow”. Flow means you are completely absorbed and enjoys
the activity in which you are presently engaged in. In other words, it is being
fully present in the ‘now’ moment and completely absorbed or engaged in the
activity at hand.
There are a number of ways to enhance engagement, e.g., observing and living
the present moment, taking part in hobbies you truly love which makes you lose
track of time when you do them as you completely get absorbed in them, spending
time in nature or your balcony plants, with your pets, enjoying your daily activities
or routine tasks, being mindful of happenings around you, discovering and
practicing your character strengths, and doing things which you are good at.
R- Relationships
Relationships are very important for human beings as problems in relationships
and social interactions affect the well-being of people to a great extent. People
establish relationships for the need of love, affection, and for a sense of belonging.
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subordinates, and community at large - all are crucial for individual’s happiness Interventions
and overall wellbeing. In the PERMA model, Relationships refer to feeling of
being supported, loved, and appreciated or respected by significant others.
Improving the relationships with significant others makes the personal,
professional, and social life much happier and easier. Thus, most of the individuals
have a goal of enhancing relationships with important near and dear ones. Research
evidence suggests that we need human relationships not only for sharing our
grief and sadness but also for sharing happiness and success.
Some of the things which can be done to build relationships are building
friendships with people you are familiar with or in your surroundings, being in
touch with people, joining a club or group of activities you enjoy, reaching out to
people, knowing about them, sharing about self, helping people in need, etc.
M- Meaning
There is an innate human tendency to search for meaning in our life and a
fundamental need of importance of our being and/or self-worth. According to
Seligman (2012), meaning means a sense of belonging and/or doing something
for others which is greater than serving only ourselves. When a person is going
through any significant challenge or hardship in life, having a purpose helps
them sail through and give them a path.
Our personal values and/or beliefs play an important role in finding a sense of
meaning. Research evidence support that people who are having a purpose in
life have higher life satisfaction, better wellbeing, and longer life. Every individual
may have their own different purpose in life which may be followed through in
different ways like having a great profession, doing a creative job, working for a
social or political cause, or a religious/spiritual belief or participating in additional,
volunteer, or community services.
There are various ways to find meaning in life like working for a cause or
organization that is close to your heart, trying different and innovative endeavours
to create or find things you relate with, helping others, following your passions,
spending quality time with people who are important to you, etc.
Check out a life changing book Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl
(1946), an Austrian neurologist and psychiatrist and founder of
logotherapy.
A- Accomplishments
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(Adapted from Galiha, I.C. & Pais-Riberiro, J.L. (2011). Cognitive, affective
and contextual predictors of subjective wellbeing. International Journal of
Wellbeing, 2(1), 34-53, p.38)
15.6.1 Gratitude
Gratitude: Gratitude refers to be thankful for all the good things we have in our
life. It involves expressing our appreciation and gratefulness towards people or
things; this in turn creates positive feelings in us. Various activities have been
designed based on research for enhancing one’s sense of gratitude.
1. Gratitude Journaling: Writing down a few things you are grateful for is
one of the easiest and most popular exercises available. In this, people
practice gratitude for self-reflection and not to be shared with others.
2. Gratitude Letter where the person writes his feelings of gratefulness
and expressed or shared in the form of writing and give it to the concerned
person (Gratitude Visit).
3. Gratitude Jar
The gratitude jar is a stunningly simple exercise that can have profound
effects on your wellbeing and outlook. It only requires a few ingredients:
a jar (a box can also work); a ribbon, stickers, glitter, or whatever else you
like to decorate the jar; paper and a pen or pencil for writing your gratitude
notes; and gratitude!
Step 1: Find a jar or box.
Step 2: Decorate the jar however you wish. You can tie a ribbon around
the jar’s neck, put stickers on the sides, use clear glue and glitter to make
it sparkle, paint it, keep it simple, or do whatever else you can think of to
make it a pleasing sight.
Step 3: This is the most important step, which will be repeated every day.
Think of at least three things throughout your day that you are grateful
for. It can be something as benign as a coffee at your favorite place, or as
grand as the love of your significant other or dear friend. Do this every
day, write down what you are grateful for on little slips of paper and fill
the jar.
Over time, you will find that you have a jar full of a myriad of reasons to
be thankful for what you have and enjoy the life you are living. It also will
cultivate a practice of expressing thanks.
If you are ever feeling especially down and need a quick pick-me-up, take
a few notes out of the jar to remind yourself of who, and what, is good in
your life.
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that simply writing a full account of one’s gratitude towards other is helpful but
giving the letter to the person has even stronger positive effects.
Overall, all the gratitude activities found to enhance health and well-being by
increasing positive emotions and decreasing symptoms of anxiety and depression.
Research evidence suggest that people practicing gratitude tend to be more
attentive, energetic, determined, enthusiastic, helpful, joyful, optimistic and have
more meaningful life than the non-practitioners. Research also indicates that
grateful people get less anxious, depressed, lonely, and materialistic. However, it
is important to understand that doing such activities once in while or standalone
activity may not be very helpful, and effects will be short-lived. So, it is crucial
to note that for more sustainable long-term effects, these activities should be
practised or used in everyday life.
To develop an ‘attitude of gratitude’ you can do some of the activities like keeping
a gratitude journal, writing a gratitude or thank you letter, jotting down what
went well, penning down three good things, etc.
15.6.2 Savouring
Bryant and Veroff (2007) describes it as observing, appreciating, and enhancing
the positive experiences of your life. Savouring helps you slow down and
deliberately pay attention to all your senses i.e.,sight, sound, smell, taste, and
touch and thought and or emotions.The main aim of savouring is to focus attention
and being aware about your experiences and lengthening its pleasurable effects.
The fundamental principle of savouring is tohelp individuals to pay attention
deliberately on each part of an experience. Savouring positive interventions can
have several goals varying from sensory experiences such as related to food or
smell to other mental and cognitively oriented stimuli such as memories and
other emotional experiences. Researchers suggest that individuals practicing
savouring regularly are happier and have higher level of satisfaction with life as
well as less depressive symptoms than those who do not. Effectiveness of
savouring interventions depend on several factors like whether the experience
which we are concentrating on is meaningful or not, doing it in the presence of
other people,writing about it, employing humour etc.
Schueller and Parks (2014) suggested two subcategories of savouring
interventions. In the first one, individuals are taught and asked to concentrate on
general principles of savouring and then they are encouraged to practice these
and make them general skills. For example,reflecting on two pleasurable
experiences for 2-3 minutes every day, make them last longer like eating your
favourite chocolate. You can concentrate on different parts which chocolate is
made of, paying attention to the wrapping, texture, taste, and smell. Look at all
these parts and prolong the experience and see how these are all linked together.
Despite being very simple, practicing such savouring techniques show
improvements in the level of individual’s well-being. You can practice this type
of savouring in varied situations and use it as a general skill.
In the second type of savouring activities, individuals are taught to concentrate
and encouraged to practice these as a specific skill or activity. For example, in a
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to take pictures, which they find meaningful, creative, and beautiful,daily for at
least 15 minutes. Performing this for only two weeks, showed more positive
emotions in the individuals than those who did not do such activities. An active-
constructive responding is another example of a specific savouring skill where a
person helps a friend or loved ones to prolong and savour the good experience or
news. is– a series of behaviours that help a friend or loved one prolong and
savour a piece of good news (Gable et al., 2004).
Savouring activities can also be classified based on the time. In this, there are 3
types of savouring:
1. Savouring the past, which is also known as reminiscence or nostalgia. For
instance, recollecting happy memories of school or college with a childhood
friend.
2. Savouring the present or savouring the ‘now’ moment. For example, enjoying
the ice-cream by completing being absorbed in its flavour, smell, and taste.
3. Savouring the future, also described as anticipation. For instance, visualizing
the examination hall for your upcomingexam and doing well and after that
going for a vacation with your friends or family to your favourite destination.
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15.6.3 Meaning
Meaning is very important in our life as it performs two vital functions in our
life. One that it provides necessary foundation for us to be more resilient and
bounce back from adversity and second it gives us a sense of direction which
help us to set our goals and targets and achieve them. Meaning based positive
interventions basically focus on building the individual’s understanding about
what brings meaning to their life and what they can do to achieve this meaning.
Since research suggests that having a meaningful or purposeful life is essential
to happiness and ability to live a good life and feel satisfied. Research also suggest
that finding life purpose or meaning is not one day task it is often a slower process,
a gradual realization which takes place overtime.
The positive interventions which can facilitate individuals to find the meaning or
purpose of one’s life through different activities such as reflecting on the kind of
work or job a person does, meaning of one’s profession or re-crafting your work.
Find out how can you make your work more meaningful, think about what small
changes you can make to bring more meaning to your work. Set a meaningful
goal and plan, or just simply write and reflect on one’s life.
15.6.4 Empathy
Empathy is seeing and feeling like what other person is going through, being in
another person’s shoes helps you to look at and understand from other person’s
perspective. Empathy strengthens the social relationships by promoting an
understanding within the relationship. Several research propose that meaningful
social connections can be built by nurturing empathy in people which is essential
for happiness. Several activities can be used to develop empathy such as loving
kindness meditation where an individual uses meditation technique to create
positive feelings and emotions towards self and/or others. Research
discovered that doing this activity lessens the depressive symptoms in people
and improve their life satisfaction andincreases positive emotions and behaviours
in general.
Some other empathy based positive interventions concentrates on building
perspective taking, which reduces the misunderstanding between two people and
thus promotes stronger social bonds. Some research literature also suggests that
promoting empathy can also promote, forgiveness and thus increasing happiness
and greater overall wellbeing of people.
15.6.5 Kindness
Being kind and thoughtful not only toothers but to self as well can be a great way
to wellbeing. In kindness activities, individuals are asked to perform intentional
acts of kindness towards self (such as forgiving self for mistakes, taking good
care of health, gifting self some ‘me’ time) and other people (such as giving
small gifts, donating things to the needy one, giving free services like teaching
someone, visiting and spending time with orphan children or old people in old
age home). It is not necessary that you help people by spending money only. The
act of kindness could be as small as opening the door for someone who is loaded
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immense pleasure and happiness. Research also noted that kindness is a common
attribute of happy people, and happy people found to help others more. Thus, it
is a circular cycle where one strengthens the other.
Another example of a kindness positive intervention is “prosocial spending”, or
spending money for some cause or on others. Such as simply buying onetime
meal for a homeless person or a child, sponsoring for the education of a girl child
or any child, donating books, uniform, cloths, etc. for an orphan age home, getting
a movie ticket for a colleague, or donating to charity like doing something for
family of soldiers who lost their life in saving us. Research has strong evidence
that spending money on others, rather than on oneself leads to promote well-
being and happiness. All these examples go against the popular belief that “money
cannot buy happiness”, but it emphasizes that if it is spent on welfare of others
or kindness, it actually doesand that is why you will see that many philanthropists
donate money for the social uplifting or cause close to their heart. Some of
them are Azim Premji, Ratan Tata, Bill Gates, Warren Buffett, and the list is
endless if you search the google. These are some of the famous one but if you see
around, you will find so many people helping others in whatever way they can
small or big does not matter, what matter most is as a social being, how kind you
are to others.
“Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening
ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the
potential to turn a life around.”
— Leo Buscaglia
15.6.6 Optimism
According to Cambridge Advanced Learner’s Dictionary, optimism is “the
tendency to be hopeful and to emphasize or think of the good part in a situation
rather than the bad part, or the feeling that in the future good things are more
likely to happen than bad things”. In other words, optimism is an attitude of an
individual which echoes his/her belief or hope about the result of an activity or
task, or overall ending, will be positive and favourable.
Here are some easy techniques you can use to boost your optimism:
1. Use The Mirror Technique
You may have never heard of the secret mirror technique, but if you have, you
will probably understand how easy and helpful this technique can be.
In the morning and in the evening, stand in front of a mirror, look at yourself
and start saying what you like about yourself.
Give yourself confidence, praise yourself and tell yourself how great you are.
Doing this can really start to change your mindset and help you with your
confidence. You can start to feel much more positive and optimistic about
yourself and your life.
2. Only Use Positive Words When Talking
When you are talking to others and even yourself, try and stick to using positive
words only, and refrain from any negative words.
You should try and stop using words such as ‘no’, ‘can’t’, ‘won’t’, and ‘don’t’,
and replace them with more positive words. This way you are changing your
physical words and your brain can start getting used to a more positive language.
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Growth Across Life Span 3. Read An Inspiring Book
Sometimes it can be quite hard to get inspired, especially if you are not able to
find anything that inspires you right now.
It’s always a good idea to read an inspiring book and you can start to feel much
more optimistic and motivated after reading about someone else’s successes.
It can also help you to see how far someone else has come, even when faced
with challenges like you may be.
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15.6.7 Strengths
Strength are the personal qualities of the people which rejuvenates them and
enable them to achieve their optimal performance and the most important is it
feel like ‘the real you’. It is very likely that your strengths are the things that you
are good at. People often get confused about strength with competencies, talent,
or skill but in positive psychology they are not the same thing. They are morally
valued and cannot be wasted. Also, you do not have to force yourself to use your
strengths, you will be naturally motivated to do so. Empirical research evidence
suggests that using your “strengths” every day is beneficial to your psychological
wellbeing in a several ways such as increased resilience, enhanced vitality, better
confidence and self-esteem, improved happiness, and decreased stress. Not only
it increases your happiness, but research suggests that it also improves your work
performance, make you more engaged and more likely to achieve your goals.
The activitieswhich are included under “strengths”, make people realize, utilize
and/or build one’s strengths. Researchers show some apprehension in using
strength-based activity such as the “identify and use” strategy might lead to
dependability and rigidness of strengths. They suggest that while using strengths-
based positive interventions, it is important to be cautious and use your‘practical
wisdom’ to make sure that their application is appropriate. For example, honesty
is considered a strength, but in some situation being honest can hurt someone’s
feelings or leads to a conflict. So, in applying these, it is vital to also develop
what Schwartz and Sharpe (2005) call “practical wisdom” – the ability to use
one’s strengths when appropriate and beneficial.
3. Self-Assessment Questions 3
1. Gratitude means to be thankful of all the good things you have in your
life. True/False
2. Which one is Not the main aim of savouring _______________?
a) focus attention
b) being aware about your experiences
c) shortening its pleasurable effects
d) lengthening its pleasurable effects.
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Growth Across Life Span 3. Meaning is very important in our life as
a) it provides necessary foundation for us to be more resilient
b) it gives us a sense of direction which help us to set our goals and
achieve them
c) Both of the above
d) None of the above
4. Being empathetic does not help you to understand from other person’s
perspective. True/False
5. “prosocial spending” is an example of ___________.
a) Spendthrift
b) Kindness
c) Forgiveness
d) None of the above
6. optimism is “the tendency to be ________.
a) Helpful
b) Hopeful
c) Mindful
d) Careful
7. The ability to use one’s strengths when appropriate and beneficial is
known as_______.
a) Practical wisdom
b) Traditional Wisdom
c) Intelligence
d) Knowledge
15.10 KEYWORDS
Empathy : is the ability to understand and share the other
persons’ feelings or perspective.
Flourishing : is a process of growing healthy or being well,
developing or growing successfully.
Gratitude : is an attitude of being thankful or grateful of all the
good things we have in our life.
Optimism : is the tendency to be hopeful about the result of an
activity or task, or overall ending to be positive and
favourable.
Positive interventions : are evidence-based, intentional activities meant to
increase positive emotions, well-being, individual’s
growth, better creativity, healthy relationships,
personal fulfilment, and other desired results.
Positive psychology : is the scientific study of realising optimal human
functioning.
Savouring : refers to focusing attention and being aware about
our experiences and lengthening its pleasurable
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and enables them to achieve their optimal
performance.
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