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Unit III Study Guide

1. Sometimes, when children do not receive enough affection, they will begin
to "_____ ____" in order to gain attention.

2. A solid Christian family is built upon a solid ______________.

3. Mature couples attack the _____________ and not the people involved.

4. Dr. Wheat maintains that sex within the context of marriage is not only
for _______________, but for _____________ as well.

5. Families today, according to Dr. B. Max Price, are __________, more

__________, and have fewer ______ in their communities.

6. Most researchers state that a child’s basic personality, modes of thinking,

style of speech, and other critical traits are established by age _______.

7. Even in traditional family structures, familial dysfunctions are perpetuated

______-_______________.

8. The average age for first year marriages for men is ____ .

9. The average age for first year marriages for women is ____ .

10. As Christians grow closer in their relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ,
they also grow closer to _____ ____________.

11. Resources that are developed within the ______________(or marital)

subsystem become readily available to address dysfunctions with the
____________ subsystem.

12. In ____ , parents who were raised in

dysfunctional homes attempt to implement parenting styles that are
opposite to those of their own parents.

13. _____________ are bits and pieces of our dysfunctional past that seem to
pop up from one generation to the next.

14. Perfectionistic parents always imply to their children that their

______________ is not good enough.

15. Another tool which aids in family systems analysis is the________________,

developed by Dr. David Olson.

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16. Teaching our children about sex should be understood as a ___________
and not a _____ ________ event.

17. All children need to be looked upon with ____________ self-regard.

18. Effective _________________ truly is the key to a vital and healthy

marital relationship and a balanced, healthy family.

19. If they [children] observe their parents handling conflict in violent ways,
they will probably utilize inappropriate ___________ _____________
methods in dealing with conflict in their own lives.

20. Parents should work together to achieve consistency in methods of

__________ and ______________.

21. ________________ involves the parent who attempts to realize his own
dreams through the life of his child.

22. Mature people give up the need to be ________.

23. Unfortunately, many parents make the mistake of equating discipline with
_____________________.

24. No matter how resistant the child, he still needs lots of unconditional
_______, unqualified ______________ and unhurried __________.

25. Today, many families suffer because of society’s emphasis upon

____________ in the context of a humanistic culture.

26. Members of dysfunctional families become too emotionally and relationally

_____________ in each other's lives.

27. It is important to note that dysfunctional behavior patterns may also be

present in ___________ families.

28. Undesirable traits and behavior patterns [in our children] must be replaced
with _________ of Godly living.

29. According to Dr. H. Norman Wright, "The Doer" has an over-developed

sense of _________________.

30. Less than ______ of all parents attend their child’s I.E.P. meeting.

31. In order for a family to be healthy and functional, the ____________ must
be healthy.

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32. Dr. B. Max Price refers to ages six to eleven as the "____ ___ ____
________ ________."

33. According to Dr. Ross Campbell, "-_____ is the primary

relationship in the frightening phenomenon of child abuse."

34. Early parental ____and repeated failures at _

_____________ play a large role in the development of Avoidance Person-
ality Disorder.

35. According to Dr. James L. Powell, ____________ _-___________

is "taking a concept that someone uses in a maladaptive way and helping
him or her to view it differently and more realistically."

36. According to Dr. H. Norman Wright, "The _______" seeks to avoid family
pressures by physically or emotionally withdrawing from other family
members.

37. ___________________ occurs in families when there is little or no direct

communication between family members.

38. ________________ love fosters an increasing dependency upon a parent

and undermines self-reliance.

39. According to Millon and Everly, _ ____

"appears to be a prevalent factor in the development of Avoidant Personali-
ty Disorder."

40. The main role of parenting is to move our children in the direction of
________________.

41. Children who suffer from Attention Deficit Disorders, with or without
hyperactivity, have trouble ____________ ______ ____________ for an
extended period of time.

42. Because of low self-esteem and an inclination toward self-depreciating

introspection, withdrawal from social settings often leads to continued
______-________________.

43. Only ____ percent of children with special needs were diagnosed before
age five.

44. One method of analyzing one’s family of origin is called _______________

Analysis.

45. From the very beginning of time, God created people to live together as
____________.
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46. If one person in a family has difficulty in a given area, the whole family is
___________.

47. About _____% of the couples who seek marital counseling indicate that
the inability to _________________ is the most devastating problem in
their relationship.

48. In order to assure proper role identification within the family, parents must
set _______________ _________________ between the executive and
sibling subsystems.