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Once you have a handle on the type of person you want to be, you
can begin taking small steps to reinforce your desired identity. I
have a friend who lost over 100 pounds by asking herself, “What
would a healthy person do?” All day long, she would use this
question as a guide. Would a healthy person walk or take a cab?
Would a healthy person order a burrito or a salad? She figured if she
acted like a healthy person long enough, eventually she would
become that person. She was right.
The concept of identity-based habits is our first introduction to
another key theme in this book: feedback loops. Your habits shape
your identity, and your identity shapes your habits. It’s a two-way
street. The formation of all habits is a feedback loop (a concept we
will explore in depth in the next chapter), but it’s important to let
your values, principles, and identity drive the loop rather than your
results. The focus should always be on becoming that type of
person, not getting a particular outcome.