Identifying Non-Verbal Codes in The Real World
Identifying Non-Verbal Codes in The Real World
Primarily two main individuals, Henry Cavill and Freya Allan, being interviewed. There might
be an interviewer and a small crew present, though they are not the focus of observation.
Henry Cavill: Frequently uses hand gestures while speaking, often illustrating his
points with open hand movements. His body language is relaxed yet engaged, using
illustrators to emphasize his speech.
Freya Allan: Uses fewer hand gestures compared to Cavill but occasionally gestures
with her hands to illustrate points. Her movements are more subtle and contained.
Emblems and Regulators: Both use head nods and hand movements to regulate the
flow of conversation, indicating when they are finished speaking or when they are
about to respond.
b. Eye Contact: How is the eye contact between the people you are
observing?
Between Henry and Freya: They maintain consistent eye contact with each other,
indicating active listening and engagement.
With the interviewer: Both maintain good eye contact with the interviewer, shifting
their gaze naturally between the interviewer and each other, showing attentiveness.
c. Facial Expressions: What are people doing with their head and forehead,
eyes and eyebrows, the nose, the chin and jaw, the head or face in
combination with hands or fingers?
Henry Cavill: Uses a wide range of facial expressions, including smiles, raised
eyebrows, and nods, which convey interest, enthusiasm, and understanding.
Freya Allan: Also uses facial expressions effectively, with smiles and occasional
eyebrow raises, though her expressions are more reserved compared to Cavill's.
d. Space: How are people using the space? Observe personal space. Is
there a common distance or does it appear that people have differing
preferences of personal space? How does the physical environment
influence the flows of communication and behavior?
Both maintain a comfortable personal space, sitting at a respectful distance from each other
and the interviewer. The physical setup of the interview space allows for a comfortable
interaction, with enough room for natural body movements without encroaching on
personal space.
e. Touch: How are people using touch and what might it communicate?
There is minimal use of touch, appropriate for a professional interview setting. When touch
occurs, such as a light touch on the arm to emphasize a point, it communicates friendliness
and agreement.
Reflection
As you observe, think about the following questions:
Reflection notes
People interact with each other using a combination of eye contact, gestures, and
facial expressions, which are key to conveying engagement and understanding.
The interview setting facilitates a natural flow of communication, with the physical
environment allowing for comfortable interactions.
Observing non-verbal communication reveals patterns of engagement and rapport,
highlighting the importance of non-verbal cues in effective communication.
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Personal Development
2. Communication Skills
3. Listening Skills
4. How Good Are Your Listening Skills?
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Self-Assessment • 17 min read
How Good Are Your Listening Skills?
Understanding Someone's Entire Message
By the Mind Tools Content Team
Poor listeners "hear" what's being said, but they don't "listen."
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For many of us, listening is the communication skill we use the most. Yet, many people
listen poorly, and they rarely think to improve this important skill.
Poor listeners "hear" what's being said, but they rarely "listen" to the whole message.
They get distracted by their own thoughts or by what's going on around them, and they
formulate their responses before the person who they're talking to has finished
speaking. Because of this, they miss crucial information.
Good listeners, on the other hand, enjoy better relationships, because they fully
understand what other people are saying. Their team members are also more
productive, because they feel that they can discuss problems easily, and talk through
solutions.
So, how good do you think your listening skills are? Test them below, and then find out
how you can improve.
How Good Are Your Listening Skills?
Instructions
Evaluate each statement as you actually are, rather than as you think you should be.
When you've finished, click "Calculate My Total" to add up your score, and use the table
that follows to think about next steps.
Not
Very
14 Statements to Answer at Rarely Sometimes Often
Often
All
1. To be more productive, I
respond to emails and instant
messages while I'm speaking
to people on the phone.
7. When someone is
speaking to me, I nod and
say things like "OK" and "uh-
huh" occasionally.
Part B: Reflection
Observation vs. Listening Skills
My observation skills allowed me to note gestures, eye contact, facial expressions, use
of space, and touch. However, my listening skills, while adequate, need improvement.
Focusing on empathic and active listening will help me fully understand messages.
Practicing in distraction-free environments is also crucial for improvement.
Part C: Forum Post
During my observations, I noted gestures, eye contact, facial expressions, and space
usage. While my listening skills are acceptable, improving them through empathic and
active listening will enhance my ability to fully grasp messages. Practicing in
environments without distractions is essential for further development.
Your score
46
: 30-49
Your listening skills are OK, but there's definitely room for
improvement. Use the tools that we suggest below to develop your
listening skills. Pay special attention to the advice on empathic
listening – this is great for taking your listening skills to the next
level.
Key Points
When you have good listening skills, you not only "hear" what's
being said, you listen to the whole message as well. Because of
this, you enable others to express themselves fully.
When you need to listen, make sure that you're prepared, and that
things in your environment will not distract you. Also, do what you
can to put people at ease.
Next, use active listening techniques so that you give people your
full attention, and look out for the nonverbal elements of their
message.
Finally, take your listening skills to the next level with empathic
listening. When appropriate, embrace silence and make an effort
to see things from other people's perspectives.
Note:
Part B: Reflection
Observation vs. Listening Skills
My observation skills allowed me to note gestures, eye contact, facial expressions, use
of space, and touch. However, my listening skills, while adequate, need improvement.
Focusing on empathic and active listening will help me fully understand messages.
Practicing in distraction-free environments is also crucial for improvement.