Polaris Document
Polaris Document
“A ship that does not know to which port one is sailing to, no wind is favorable”
This document serves as a gateway to your subconscious, and might feel like
homework at first.
However, the transformative effect unfolds as you step into the world armed with
a fortified sense of conviction. What you write here is a reflection of your inner
world. This world you reveal will impart clarity, awareness, motivation, and
conviction.
If you fill out this document with earnestness and belief it will become the catalyst
that shapes your destiny.
Table Of Contents
A Note From The Author:.............................................................................................................2
Instructions:............................................................................................................................................ 4
Prompts....................................................................................................................................................7
Personality Quiz:.....................................................................................................................................8
Chapter 1: The Psyche.............................................................................................. 9
The Chronicle of Self..............................................................................................................................11
Your Eulogy...........................................................................................................................................12
Your Purpose Statement:....................................................................................................................... 13
Goals of The Heroic Mission..................................................................................................................14
The Grand Vision...................................................................................................................................16
Roundtable of Invisible Mentors...........................................................................................................17
Your Personal Ethos:.............................................................................................................................18
Principles............................................................................................................................................... 19
The 6 R’s................................................................................................................................................ 20
Chapter 2: The Physical..........................................................................................21
LIGHT.................................................................................................................................................. 23
WATER................................................................................................................................................ 28
AIR........................................................................................................................................................32
EARTH................................................................................................................................................. 37
MOVEMENT.......................................................................................................................................41
NUTRITION........................................................................................................................................45
SLEEP:................................................................................................................................................. 48
SUPPLEMENTS:................................................................................................................................53
Chapter 3: The Practice.......................................................................................... 59
Own 1 day:............................................................................................................................................ 61
“The 1 Big Thing (1:1:1 Method)”......................................................................................................... 64
The Dopamine Detox Mandates:...........................................................................................................65
“Own 1 Day” Schedule:......................................................................................................................... 68
The 1 Big Thing (1:1:1):.........................................................................................................................69
Dopamine Detox Mandates:................................................................................................................. 70
End of Week #3 Review:............................................................................................................... 78
End of Week #4 Review:............................................................................................................... 86
End of Month Review:..........................................................................................................................87
Instructions:
Step 1: Contemplation
Days 1-7
Print multiple copies of the “Prompts” page below - Do not fill out the “Prompts” page.
Simply print and place where you will read it every day.
Hang it up in your environment. Keep a copy on your person for at least 1 week.
They are designed to prompt your mind to imagine your desired reality.
Let these prompts permeate into your subconscious and illuminate all corners of the mind.
For best results, visit the prompts upon waking, before sleep, and before any form of meditation.
Even when you are not consciously pondering the prompts, your subconscious will be.
This hacks your subconscious mind, making the unconscious conscious through osmosis.
Throughout week 1, revisit your results and contemplate how your life is a reflection of your
strengths and weaknesses.
Absorb the information with the goal of queuing the mind for week 2.
Step 2. Illustration
Days 7-14.
Now that you have driven these prompts into your subconscious mind…
You will put brush to canvas as you illustrate The Grand Vision of your life.
You will illuminate the imagined reality your subconscious has been chewing on.
It’s imperative you schedule 1 day of minimal distractions to fill out Chapter 1: The Psyche.
Ideally, 3-6+ hours to get the first draft of your answers filled out.
Continue filling it out ideally in the morning during week 2 and beyond.
Day 6 or 7 (Sundays are best): 3-6+ hours to get first-draft responses written
Day 7-12: 5-30+ minutes of writing, editing, and reworking in the morning
Day 13: 1+ hours to complete anything missing before Week 3/Chapter 3: The Practice.
Print out and hang your completed templates where you will see them often.
Print the daily reviews and complete them at the end of each day (Days 14-30)
Keep Chapters 1 & 2 in the forefront of your mind as much as possible through revisitation.
I find that Chapter 1 is best typed out as you want to constantly iterate.
Step 4: Evaluation
At the end of week 3, complete the weekly review:
You have now completed the cycle. At the end of week 4, you will evaluate and iterate once
again. You will continue fine-tuning your practices toward your goals given the strategy you
have learned.
Prompts
Do you believe in God?
What would you want others to say about you at your funeral?
Personality Quiz:
https://www.understandmyself.com/
Take considerate time to understand the results of your personality test. It will reveal your
strengths, and of equal importance, your weaknesses. This should get your gears turning.
Try to remain unemotional about your results. It will only cloud your judgement.
You know you better than anyone ever could, and as such, believe in your truth above all else.
This is the reveal of a map, in later chapters we build the boat and align the compass.
Who is it that you want to be? You cannot become what you cannot imagine.
To catalyze a new gravitational pull in a very specific direction, that will guide you for the
remainder of your life.
You will see in Chapter 3 that this is done to then break the vision down into actionable pieces
that can be sustainably achieved.
The power of compounding is a power humans cannot comprehend. But before we are able to
compound our actions, we must first have a foundation upon which to compound FROM.
Let's go:
The Chronicle of Self
Write out who you are in 3rd person. As though you are an actor in a movie.
What is your unique story? Your personal saga thus far? The unfolding narrative of you?
Surface level to get the juices flowing (Family, friends, age, hometown, etc.)
“He is”
“He has…”
“He loves/hates”
“He values:
Fair
Reliable
Ferocious
Influential
Innovative
Calculating
Charismatic
Etc:
Your Eulogy
~ Memento Mori ~
What would you want them to say about you in your eulogy?
What will you be known for at the end of your life? Your legacy? Your impact?
No limits, no rules. Go deep and perceive what you write with your heart, and intuition.
Your Purpose Statement:
Given the truth you have spoken above, consider what real-world paths now lay before you.
Distil the information above. Consider this deeply. Crystallize an explicit statement.
Example: “To be heroic to my loved ones, the environment, and humanity through positive
inspiration and action to elevate collective consciousness”
You will likely iterate this many times as you evolve (ascend) in life.
Goals of The Heroic Mission
You have revealed a purpose.
How shall you fulfill your purpose, during this short spin on Earth?
Is it Political?
Is it humanitarian work?
Is it by gaining influence?
Is it building a huge company?
Is it shadow work on yourself?
Is it chasing excellence in athletics?
Bringing together your family, community, country?
For my clients, I ask that you ponder a goal that can be achieved in 90 days first, followed by
overarching goals of your lifetime. 90 days is a time period in which the human mind can remain
motivated and focused on a daily basis. Consider this deeply.
Examples:
● I will achieve xyz milestones in athletics 10/10/10 (90 day goal)
● I will receive all A’s for this semester of school 10/6/6 (90 day goal)
● I will possess X dollar amount by the time I’m 35. 10/10/10 (Larger goal)
Take your top 3 goals. Every morning on a sticky note handwrite these goals and stick them
where you can see them every day.
The Grand Vision
The foundation has been laid. Now for the application of imagination.
Vision Board:
Example: https://www.pinterest.com/Basedethos/vision-board/
Assemble left-brain thinking members on the left side of your roundtable and vice versa.
Imagine your “Wise old man” self, or “highest” self sitting directly across from you.
Allow your future self to weigh in on conversation and have the loudest voice at times.
I balance the counselors personalities with who they sit across from.
(A mellow counselor sits across from a volatile counselor)
(Alexander the Great sits across from An enlightened Yogi)
(A businessman sits across from a philosopher)
This is a meditation.
Ask these mentors the serious questions. You run this meeting.
Allow banter, discussion, tangents, etc.
The mind has incredible power when tapped into source, and the knowledge of these men will
ink into your consciousness through osmosis of information from the quantum field.
In The Polaris Coaching Program it is required to do this practice every single day during the last
2 weeks.
Examples:
“Never Give Up. Never Surrender” -Spartan Ethos
“I am all health, all wealth, and all love” - “I fearless conduit of love and power”
“I am proud of myself and I work hard” - “I am kind loving awareness”
Principles
Examples:
● Reality-expectations=Happiness
● Consistency+Time=Results
● Your Mind tells your body who is in control
● You are the guardian of the gates of your subconscious
● Comparison is the thief of Joy
● Be humble, be true to yourself and speak your truth
● Continue to build relationships with your siblings and parents
● Cut out negative people ruthlessly
● Strive to consistently ask: “Would the most successful version of me be doing this right
now?”
● Create a lifestyle where you are excited to get up every day
● Train daily to become a physical specimen of health
● Work on my mind daily and learn always
● Architect and change your environment with the utmost scrutiny
● Intertwine my grand purpose with each small action I take
● Always strive to be more understanding, empathetic, and a better communicator
● Look for opportunities to grow myself personally, physically, and spiritually
The 6 R’s
Perfection is bullshit.
A ruse by our internal self-critic.
Don’t let the self-critic win.
The 6 R's of meditation is a framework designed to help you RETURN to a place of stillness,
spaciousness, and awareness DURING and AFTER meditation.
This technique should be used during formal meditation sessions and in real-world scenarios.
By applying the 6 R's in both meditation and real-world situations, you can develop greater
degree of mindfulness, emotional regulation, and a postitively resilient outlook on life.
SIMPLY: Write the 6 R’s on Sticky notes and place them in your immediate environments
Chapter 2: The Physical
A preface (Disclaimer):
This chapter is in essence, a generic operating manual for a human vessel in 2023.
The information below is a distillation of practices and products that I use myself. But, I want
you to know that there is no agenda behind the guidelines I have set forth.
I have been an elite athlete my entire life, and as such I my focus has been centric to the
performance and health of my body.
Different genes, ancestral history, lifestyle, habitat, and demands make it impossible for
ANYONE to sell you a silver bullet for health and performance. If a company is making blanket
statements, it is near certain to be a marketing ploy.
SO. This is a generic operating manual, that could not possibly cover the 14 years of health and
performance wisdom I have accrued, but this information is a great launchpad and foundation to
achieve your health goals.
Disclaimer: I am not a doctor. The recommendations in the following chapters are not medical
advice. Always consult with a healthcare provider before making any changes to your diet,
exercise routine, or lifestyle, especially if you have pre-existing medical conditions or are under
medical care. Your health is your responsibility, and it's crucial to seek professional advice to
ensure your safety and well-being.
Let's go:
LIGHT
What is Your Light Diet?
It is not a stretch to say that humans are essentially complicated plants with our own
version of photosynthesis. However, as a human in 2024, you are likely overloaded with
artificial light and lacking in sunlight. Sunlight, as a crucial element of our natural
environment, orchestrates a variety of health-promoting mechanisms within the human
body. The spectrum of sunlight, encompassing visible light, ultraviolet (UV), and infrared
(IR) rays, interacts with our physiology in a dance refined through millions of years of
evolution. Despite the human eye's ability to perceive only a small portion of this
spectrum, our bodies can interact with and utilize a wider range.
Circadian Rhythm Regulation: Dr. Andrew Huberman accentuates the role of sunlight
in anchoring our circadian rhythms. Morning sunlight exposure is especially potent in
this regard, aiding in sleep regulation, mood enhancement, and hormonal balance. The
interaction between sunlight and the eyes triggers a neural circuit that modulates the
timing of cortisol and melatonin release, thereby affecting sleep34.
Circadian Rhythm Disruption: Blue light, especially during the night, can interfere
with the body's biological clock or circadian rhythm, disrupting sleep patterns. Dr.
Andrew Huberman highlights the importance of avoiding bright lights, particularly blue
light from electronic devices at night, to maintain a healthy sleep cycle12.
Mental Health Implications: Exposure to blue light, particularly at night, has been
associated with depressive symptoms in animal studies. However, it may have the
opposite effect during the day, possibly boosting attention span, mood, and reaction times
34.
Eye and Skin Health: Direct UVB exposure to the eyes and skin can enhance immune
function, promote faster wound healing, and regulate sleep. It also facilitates the growth
of stem cells in hair and nails 6.
Eye Damage: Constant exposure to blue light, especially from screens, can potentially
damage retinal cells and affect visual health over time.
Mitochondrial Function: Dr. Jack Kruse delves into the intricate relationship between
sunlight and mitochondrial function. He emphasizes the role of sunlight in optimizing
mitochondrial energy production, which is crucial for overall cellular health. Moreover,
the infrared component of sunlight is particularly highlighted for its beneficial effects on
mitochondria 7.
Chronic Disease Prevention: Dr. Kruse posits that the distortion of the light
environment is a key driver of modern chronic diseases. He links various health issues,
including obesity, cardiovascular disease, mental illness, and autoimmune diseases, to
vitamin D deficiency, underscoring the holistic role of sunlight in disease prevention
1112.
Light as Medicine: Dr. Kruse also mentions that light, particularly sunlight, functions as
medicine, with research showing that lack of sunlight can be more detrimental to health
than smoking. He also delves into the problems associated with blue light exposure,
which can negatively impact retinal and brain health, and disrupt dopamine production
13.
The multifaceted benefits of sunlight, as elucidated by Drs. Huberman and Kruse among
others, underscore the essence of this natural resource in fostering a spectrum of
physiological processes vital for our health and wellbeing. Through their work, the
profound symbiosis between sunlight and the human body is brought to the fore,
illuminating pathways towards enhanced health, vitality, and disease prevention.
Neurological and Cognitive Effects: Dr. Kruse posits that attending to light
environment, which includes managing blue light exposure, is crucial for brain and
mental health. He mentions that red and infrared light can combat the effects of blue
light, supporting brain and mental health5.
Melatonin Production: Blue light inhibits melatonin production, a hormone essential for
sleep. This disruption can lead to sleep disturbances which, over time, can affect overall
health67.
Natural vs. Artificial Blue Light: Dr. Kruse explains that while blue light is present in
sunlight, it is balanced by other colors like red light, which acts as an antidote. This
balance is lost in the artificial blue light emitted by screens, which dominates our light
environment, especially indoors89.
● Dedicate the first 30 minutes post-wake to bask in natural sunlight. This practice
aligns the circadian rhythm, bolsters mood, and prepares the body for the day.
● Avoid blue light as much as possible. Exposure to blue light while outside is best.
● Avoid sunburn: While sunlight has benefits, sunburn does not.
● Take short breaks during the day to step outside and soak up the sun. Even a brief
sun-soaked respite will rejuvenate the mind and body.
● Aim for at least 20-30 minutes of direct sun exposure daily, while being mindful of
the skin's tolerance to prevent sunburn.
● Don't wear sunglasses in the early morning, or much at all
● Use only zinc-based sunscreen (Be wary of the term “mineral-based,” which
means zinc oxide or titanium dioxide has been mixed with chemical sunscreen.)
● Stay hydrated: If you're spending a lot of time in the sun, stay hydrated.
H2O, simple yet complex. Modern science is currently learning fascinating aspects of this
molecule and how it interacts with our physical system and the world. While the magic of
this molecule is being studied, we need to set some boundaires for our own consumption.
Seems like a no-brainer, but in 2023 we are bombarded by contaminated water. Shower,
tap, and even pool water have serious downsides on our health. Rediscovering the
significance of water is akin to unearthing a fountain of vitality. Just as light orchestrates
a myriad of processes within us, water—the elixir of life—plays a crucial role in
maintaining our health and well-being. Its presence is felt in every cell, tissue, and organ,
underscoring the profound symbiosis between water and the human body. As we navigate
the currents of modern life, understanding the essence of water becomes imperative. This
chapter will illustrate ways to filter, leverage, and optimize the water in your life.
General Benefits of Water: Water is crucial for preventing dehydration, which can cause
mood changes, unclear thinking, overheating, constipation, and kidney stones. It also
assists in managing body weight due to its zero-calorie nature1.
Blood Oxygen: Water also helps in blood and oxygen flow to organs, making individuals
feel more alert and energized 3.
Harmony of Fluids and Electrons: It's essential for energizing muscles as cells require a
balance of fluids and electrolytes, with inadequate fluids leading to muscle fatigue4.
Water is key to maintaining healthy cellular function, including the buildup and
breakdown of cellular components, chemical reactions, and protein structure and
function. It can also function as an antioxidant, protecting cells from damage by free
radicals 5.
Cellular Respiration: Dr. Kruse discusses quantum coherent water and its exclusion
zone formation, and the role of water in cellular respiration & mitochondrial function67.
Food For Neurons: Water is essential for all biochemical reactions in the nervous system
and is a vital substrate in the conversion of food to energy in neurons 8.
Structured Water: Structured water refers to water with a supposedly altered structure
to form a hexagonal cluster. Some studies have shown positive responses in animals
when structured water is used as a nutrient source, including increased growth and
productivity in agricultural settings910.
Water Holds Memory: The notion of water memory refers to water's purported ability to
retain a memory of substances previously dissolved in it even after numerous dilutions
11.
A claim has been made about a groundbreaking discovery regarding water's ability to
retain memory, as reported by the Resonance Science Foundation Biophysicist William
Brown 12. A special issue of the journal Homeopathy, published by Elsevier, discussed
new data and reviews concerning the 'Memory of Water,' exploring the idea that water
could display memory effects 13. Structured water has been claimed to receive, store, and
transmit information (water memory) that is critical for life 14.
Neurological Function and Cognition: Dr. Zach Bush accentuates the symbiotic
relationship between water and the nervous system, elaborating on how water is a vital
substrate in the conversion of food to energy in neurons. This nexus between water and
neuronal function paves the way for optimal cognitive performance and neurological
health 15.
● Ensure the water consumed is of the highest quality, free from contaminants and
pollutants.
● Avoid tap water when possible due to the potential presence of heavy metals and
harmful chemicals.
● Consider that skin absorbs substances from water in showers, tubs, and pools. In
2023, we are forced to avoid exposing our skin to anything we wouldn't eat.
● Hydration needs vary depending on factors like altitude, exercise level, age, sex,
weight, and metabolism.
● As a guideline, drink 8 oz of fluid for every hour during the first 10 hours of the
day.
● During exercise, aim to drink an amount of fluid (in oz) equal to your body weight
in pounds divided by 30, every 15 minutes.
Incorporating breathwork into your daily routine can lead to significant improvements in
your ability to manage stress, increase focus, and boost overall well-being. Regular
practice can also enhance lung capacity, support immune function, and promote a sense
of inner peace.
To introduce breathwork into your life, start with simple practices like deep,
diaphragmatic breathing or box breathing (inhale, hold, exhale, hold - each for an equal
count). Progress to more advanced techniques like the Wim Hof Method or Pranayama as
you become more comfortable. Dedicate a quiet, comfortable space for your practice and
aim for consistency, as the benefits of breathwork compound over time.
● Ensure the air in your living and working spaces is of the highest quality, free from
contaminants and pollutants.
● Avoid outdoor environments with high pollution levels when possible due to the
potential presence of harmful particulate matter and gases.
● Consider that your respiratory system absorbs substances from the air we breathe.
In 2023, we are urged to avoid exposing our lungs to anything we wouldn't want in
our bodies.
● Air quality needs vary depending on factors like altitude, indoor vs outdoor
environment, city vs rural area, season, and local weather patterns.
● As a guideline, aim to ventilate your indoor spaces at least once every few hours,
especially in tightly sealed buildings.
● During physical activity, aim to exercise in areas with good air quality to ensure
the air you're breathing is clean and healthy.
● Never force, always go with your intuition and feeling.
Grounding, also referred to as earthing, is the practice of coming into direct contact with
the Earth's natural electric charge. By reconnecting with the Earth's energy, individuals
can purportedly tap into a source of healing and well-being. The concept of grounding
hinges on the belief that the Earth's surface contains a limitless supply of electrons, which
can be transferred into the body upon physical contact, thereby promoting various health
benefits. While grounded, one's body is believed to synchronize with the Earth's natural
electric frequency, enabling a transfer of energy that can purportedly neutralize free
radicals, reduce inflammation, and promote overall health.
Improved Sleep and Reduced Pain: Some studies suggest that grounding can enhance
sleep quality and alleviate pain. The practice is thought to induce a calming effect, which
might be beneficial for individuals suffering from chronic pain and sleep disorders3.
Physiological Enhancements: Grounding can lead to physiological improvements by
affecting various organ systems that utilize Direct Current (DC) energy and conductivity,
including the nervous, musculoskeletal, and cardiovascular systems4.
Immune Response and Wound Healing: Grounding may influence the immune
response and expedite wound healing. Research has shown measurable differences in
concentrations of white blood cells, cytokines, and other molecules involved in the
inflammatory response when the body is grounded 5.
Stress Reduction and Enhanced Vitality: Grounding has been associated with reduced
stress levels and improved vitality, potentially aiding in overall well-being6.
Antioxidant and Immune Boosting Properties: The free electrons obtained from the Earth
are believed to have antioxidant properties, which can boost the immune system and
combat oxidative stress 7.
Skeptical Perspectives: Despite the purported benefits, some experts remain skeptical
about the scientific backing of grounding, citing a lack of rigorous research to support the
claims8.
Grounding influences human physiology and health by causing a powerful and positive
shift in the electrical state of the body and the electrodynamics of blood. Grounding
allows a transfer of electrons from the ground into the body, which can neutralize free
radicals and reduce inflammation and pain. The practice of grounding has been linked
with self-healing and self-regulating mechanisms, aiding the body's natural recovery
processes. Consistent evidence from numerous individuals who have practiced grounding
has shown a reduction in their pain levels, indicating decreased inflammation.
Products to Enhance Grounding:
Everyone has a different plan. My goal is only to give you the enduring philosophies
provided by leading experts and my own experience that are universally applicable in
99% of situations. Since the dawn of human history, physical activity has been a
cornerstone of our survival and evolution. Exercise is a form of hormetic stress that, in
the right doses, can lead to numerous health benefits. I know you don’t need a list of the
benefits, but here are a few anyways: Improved cardiovascular and respiratory health,
enhanced strength and flexibility, improved mental health, reduction in the risk of chronic
diseases, extension of lifespan, and cognitive function.
The relationship between exercise and health is complex and multifaceted. It can
vary greatly depending on factors such as the type, intensity, and frequency of the
exercise, as well as the individual's overall health and lifestyle.
Daily Exercise: Regular exercise, ideally on a daily basis, stands as a pillar of health
maintenance. In the short term, it helps control appetite, boost mood, and improve sleep.
Over the long term, it significantly reduces the risk of numerous serious conditions such
as heart disease, stroke, diabetes, dementia, depression, and many cancers 3.
Global Health Perspective: The World Health Organization (WHO) underscores the
monumental benefits of physical activity. It contributes to the prevention and
management of non-communicable diseases such as cardiovascular diseases, cancer, and
diabetes. Moreover, it enhances cognitive functions including thinking, learning, and
judgment skills, thereby promoting a robust mental health framework 5.
● Pso-Rite
● Cupping Set
● Theragun Mini
● Knees over Toes
● USWE Outlander Pro
● All-Natural Exercise Mat
● Vibrating “Peanut” Roller
● AMP Human Sodium Bicarbonate Lotion
Nutrition
How not to Die-t
If I could emphasize the importance of nutrition and diet by grabbing, shaking, and
yelling at you I would. This section should be called, “How Not To Die-t” - Food is the
most powerful fuel and medicine. Unfortunately, in 2023, we require an elite-level
understanding and protocol to know what to avoid and how to give our bodies the
nourishment they so desperately crave. No singular diet works for everyone.
The nutrients we consume, and when we consume them, have profound effects on our
bodies, influencing everything from our energy levels and mood to our body composition
and disease risk. Despite the myriad diets and nutrition trends out there, some
fundamental principles of healthy eating are backed by science and endorsed by experts
in the field.
Dietary Guidelines: Adhering to dietary guidelines, such as those provided by the U.S.
Departments of Agriculture and Health and Human Services, can be beneficial. These
guidelines offer recommendations tailored to different life stages, grounded in scientific
evidence concerning diet and health3.
Protection Against Diseases: A healthy diet plays a vital role in protecting against
malnutrition and noncommunicable diseases (NCDs) like diabetes, heart disease, stroke,
and cancer. Conversely, unhealthy dietary habits coupled with a lack of physical activity
are leading global risks to health 4.
Mental Wellbeing: The link between diet and mental wellbeing is undeniable. For
instance, adhering to healthy or Mediterranean dietary patterns—characterized by high
consumption of fruits, vegetables, nuts, legumes; moderate consumption of poultry, eggs,
and dairy products; and only occasional consumption of red meat—is associated with a
reduced risk of depression5.
Sleep is an essential part of our health, acting as a restorative process for the body and
mind. It impacts our mood, cognitive function, and even our physical health.
Incorporating healthy sleep habits into your lifestyle can lead to improvements in
memory, concentration, and overall cognitive function. It can also boost your immune
system, reduce stress, and improve your mood.
To implement a good sleep routine, it's essential to establish a regular sleep schedule by
going to bed and waking up at the same time every day, even on weekends. Create a
sleep-friendly environment that is dark, quiet, and cool, and limit exposure to screens and
bright lights in the evening.
Understanding Sleep: Dr. Matthew Walker, author of "Why We Sleep," and Dr. Andrew
Huberman discuss the biology of sleep, detailing its various stages and the repercussions
when we don't get enough of it. They delve into the intricacies of sleep cycles,
emphasizing the importance of both the quality and quantity of sleep 1.
Impact of Caffeine: Dr. Walker and Dr. Andrew Huberman discuss the effects of
caffeine on sleep, illuminating how this common stimulant can impact both the onset of
sleep and its quality. Their discussion sheds light on how our daily habits, such as
caffeine consumption, can significantly influence our sleep patterns 2.
Nutrients and Sleep: Dr. Matthew Walker discusses various nutrients and their effects
on sleep. For instance, magnesium, valerian, kiwi, tart cherry, apigenin, and tryptophan
are mentioned for their potential to improve sleep quality. These nutrients highlight the
interconnection between diet and sleep, showcasing how proper nutrition can foster better
sleep 4.
Sleep Duration: In a discussion on the Huberman Lab Podcast, it's mentioned that while
the common recommendation is 7-9 hours of sleep, Dr. Matt Walker suggests that some
individuals might need 12-14 hours. This conversation underscores the individual
variability in sleep needs and encourages a personalized approach to understanding one's
sleep requirements 5.
Metabolic Health: Sleep exerts significant influence over our metabolic health. Chronic
insufficient sleep has been associated with an increased risk of obesity and metabolic
diseases such as diabetes. Studies have shown a strong relationship between sleep
duration, quality, and metabolic health, hinting at the crucial role sleep plays in
maintaining a healthy weight and metabolic balance21.
● Cardiovascular Health: The heart, too, finds a companion in sleep. Disruptions in
sleep have been associated with an array of cardiovascular issues. It's believed that
healthy sleep patterns help regulate blood pressure, thus aiding in maintaining
cardiovascular health3.
● Immune Function: Sleep is a friend to our immune system. It's during the deep
stages of sleep that our body gets to work, repairing, and rejuvenating itself. The
immune system is bolstered during these hours, readying itself to combat
pathogens we might encounter 1.
Memory and Cognitive Function: Sleep isn't merely a physical restorative process; it’s
a mental one too. One of the pivotal roles of sleep lies in memory consolidation. The
brain goes over the day's events, solidifying memories which is crucial for learning and
cognitive function 1.
Mood Regulation: The quality and quantity of sleep you get directly affect your mood.
Lack of sleep can lead to irritability and stress, while healthy sleep can enhance your
mood and help keep stress at bay.
Appetite Regulation: Sleep also plays a crucial role in appetite regulation. Hormones
that control hunger and fullness are affected by how much sleep you get. Insufficient
sleep can lead to increased hunger and possibly lead to overeating and obesity3.
Sleep Disruptions: Disorders such as insomnia and sleep apnea not only deprive one of
restful sleep but have been associated with a slew of health issues including heart disease,
stroke, and diabetes. The detriments of sleep deprivation extend beyond mere tiredness,
encroaching upon both short-term and long-term health3.
● Establish a Consistent Sleep Schedule: Go to bed and wake up at the same time
every day to regulate your circadian rhythm.
● Create a Bedtime Routine: Establish relaxing pre-sleep rituals such as reading or
taking a warm bath to signal your body that it's time to wind down.
● Optimize Your Sleep Environment: Ensure a comfortable mattress and pillows,
maintain a cool room temperature, and eliminate light and noise disturbances.
● Mind Your Diet: Avoid heavy meals, caffeine, and alcohol close to bedtime as they
can disrupt sleep.
● Exercise Regularly: Regular physical activity can help you fall asleep faster and
enjoy deeper sleep. However, try to finish workouts a few hours before bedtime.
● Manage Stress: Practice relaxation techniques like mindfulness meditation, deep
breathing, and yoga to manage stress, which can interfere with sleep.
● Seek Professional Help if Necessary: If sleep problems persist, consider consulting
a sleep specialist to address possible sleep disorders.
● A high-quality mattress and pillow, such as those from Tempur-Pedic, which can
significantly impact sleep quality.
● A white noise machine or app, like LectroFan or Noisli, to create a soothing,
consistent sound environment conducive to sleep.
● Blue light blocking glasses, like those from BLUblox, to wear in the evening to
minimize exposure to blue light from screens.
● Books like "Why We Sleep" by Dr. Matthew Walker, offering comprehensive
insights into the importance of sleep and practical tips for improving sleep quality
Supplements:
A Pillar of Support or a Pill of Illusion?
In the realm of health and wellness, dietary supplements have carved a niche, both in the
market and in the daily routines of individuals. These products, encompassing a wide
range of vitamins, minerals, herbs, amino acids, and other substances, claim to fill the
nutritional gaps in one's diet, aid in body functions, or even combat diseases. However,
the golden question remains: do they live up to the promise, or is the allure of a pill for
every ill merely a modern-day mirage?
Consumption Trends:
● In the US, over 70% of adults aged 65 and above use supplements, a trend more
prevalent among women than men. The usage of supplements also correlates
positively with educational and socioeconomic status, reflecting a broader lifestyle
choice among certain demographics 1.
Market Dynamics:
● The market for dietary supplements is expanding rapidly, with products being
developed for a wide array of health concerns affecting almost all organs of the
body. This includes supplements for conditions that don’t even exist, like 'bladder
elasticity 2.
Efficacy and Health Implications:
● While some supplements can be beneficial, the general consensus within the
scientific community is more skeptical. For instance, research indicates that
multivitamin consumption doesn’t significantly impact longevity, cognitive
decline, or the risks of major illnesses like cancer, heart disease, or diabetes3.
● However, certain supplements have proven benefits. For example, Calcium and
Vitamin D supplements are known to enhance bone health and reduce bone loss,
while Folic Acid is pivotal in preventing certain birth defects. Omega-3 fatty acids
from fish oils could also provide heart health benefits 4.
Consumer Behavior:
● Individuals who take supplements tend to be more health-conscious, exercise
more, eat healthier diets, and engage in beneficial lifestyle practices. However,
these factors could also be contributing to the positive health outcomes attributed
to supplement use, making it a complex scenario to analyze 1.
I have spent the past 10 years tinkering with supplements. You do not need them. If and
only if you have your foundation of health covered, should you supplement. I have used
good supplements and I have used toxic ones, and as a whole supplementing is often
opening a can of worms that many people are not skilled enough to navigate.
Given that your health foundation is very solid, proper supplementing can be very
advantageous. A main pillar I recommend is supplementing with minerals, as the soil in
the U.S. is extremely bad and we subsequently do not get the proper minerals from food
that would under normal circumstances provide us with. Additionally, getting bloodwork
done or wearing a continuous glucose monitor privdes real insights into your human
vessel and how certain compounds interact.
Supplements I reccomend
Shilajit
Creatine
Ketone IQ
Tongkat Ali
Magnesium
Kion Aminos
Methlyne Blue
Notable Focus
Kion Colostrum
Elemental Heal
● Gums
● Polyethlyne
● Silicon Dioxide
● Titanium Dioxide
● Hydrogenated oils
● Artificial Colorings
● Magnesium silicate
Spirit:
The Untapped Reservoir: Nurturing Your Indomitable Spirit
The modern era often misleads us into believing that success, happiness, and peak
performance are merely outcomes of a replicable formula. While there's truth in
structured pursuit, my journey as a coach has revealed a common void in many
individuals— a disconnect from their core essence, the wellspring of their indomitable
spirit. Following health guidelines, practicing grounding exercises, maintaining hydration
and nutrition are essential, yet without aligning with one's inner truth, the potential
realized is but a fraction of what's possible. I argue that an individual of mental and
physical health disconnected from their authentic essence operates 50% or more below
their true potential. The notion of nurturing the spirit is frequently dismissed as whimsical
or overly mystical, which unfortunately overlooks the profound impact of embracing
one's authentic energy.
Contrary to popular belief, tuning into your celestial power is less arduous than
perceived. It's a gentle process of acceptance, relaxation, and growing awareness,
opening oneself to newfound possibilities.
Being aspirational in 2023 is laden with challenges, predominantly due to the digital
cacophony that incessantly seeks to mold our identities. The virtual realm, filled with
endless talking heads dictating standards of success, inadvertently crushes our
self-perception. This phenomenon, relatively new in the span of human evolution, has
thrust us into an era of comparison and self-doubt. It's crucial to understand that the
character you've molded, named ___, living in ____, with desires and fears, is a mere
layer of your true self.
My approach diverges from popular narratives. It's centered on the idea of shedding the
superficial layers to reveal the nuclear core residing within. Unlike the common notion of
building or accumulating spirit through external achievements or internal effort, I
propose a path of surrender, acceptance, and openness.
A grand vision, as elaborated in the previous chapter, coupled with structured plans
outlined in the forthcoming chapter, create a conducive environment for this inner
exploration. The state of your physical health, understanding of self, and the
accountability you uphold, provide the necessary scaffolding to break down the artificial
and unnecessary, allowing you to touch the potent energy core within.
This entire document is centric to ripping out an outdated motherboard of beliefs with a
new one, allowing room for authenticity, acceptance, and love to flourish form within.
This shift creates a conducive space for your inner energy to blossom, becoming the
driving force behind your actions and decisions.
The cultivation of this internal energy is a process of training and daily diligence.
However, it resonates with Newton's laws of physics: the more you invest in
self-awareness and belief, the more momentum you gain towards your desired path. As
you delineate your grand vision in the following chapter with a disciplined approach, the
crucial step to nurturing an indomitable spirit is to relax, believe, and trust in your unique
capabilities.
Open yourself to the boundless energy within, recognizing that you're both a singular
entity and a part of a vast continuum. Within you lies a universe of potential, a star of
infinite capabilities. By tapping into this reservoir, you not only inch closer to your
dreams but embark on a journey of self-realization, unleashing a power that propels you
towards your highest self, and your grand vision.
First and foremost, meditation. More specifically, giving yourself time and space to
become intimate with you inner voice, emotions, and thoughts. This deserves its own
book, and I will provide the pivotal literature that has helped me below. But, begin
differentiating your thoughts. Fear based thoughts do not resemble your truth. Faith based
thoughts do. Use this as an initial pillar of exploration.
Secondly, go into nature. Barefoot, walk, sit, meditate. Spend hours alone and without
stimulus. You will receive visions, messages, and injections of your truth.
Exercise intensely. Ther higher your heart rate, and the more physical pain you inflict and
endure, the closer to your true core you become.
Chapter 3: The Practice
The philosophy of “The Practice”
You have conjured an overarching vision, mission, purpose, and goals for your life. You
have begun to take action on reclaiming your health in an advanced way. Now lies the
opportunity to transmute your vision into small actionable objectives. This begins with
reminding yourself of everything you wrote in Chapter 1.
In Chapter 1 you were the CEO, architecting this overarching vision of your life.
In Chapter 2 you were the COO dictating how your physical vessel operated.
In Chapter 3, you are a systems engineer breaking the CEO’s vision into smaller
conquerable pieces that will begin to run automatically.
For those not in my coaching program, the aim is to complete the activities in this chapter
in 1 day, on or before day 14.
I recommend printing pages 61-77 to fill out at the end of each day.
Quantifying your day is mundane. I understand, but through trial and error I understand
that it is crucial. Through osmosis your conscious AND subconscious mind begin to put
pieces together. “When I wake up at 6 instead of 9, I score better” and this turns into a
positive feedback loop of behavior and consequently, your identity. This reshaping of
identity is what we aim to carry beyond day 30 of this program, but without diligence and
honest analysis of oneself, you will remain but a boat without a sail.
Ask Yourself:
What actions are you taking or not taking?
What is it costing you to remain the same?
Who are you that you no longer want to be?
Is that acceptable?
Own 1 day:
We will ignite a shift in your behavior and habits by owning 1 day. The goal is to execute
everything on your “1-day plan” to the minute. This “1-day plan” should be crafted
through the lens of your higher self. Imagine what it would be like to have already
achieved your #1 goal in Chapter 1. What would you be feeling, and doing, on a
day-to-day basis? What new behaviors define you? What actions does your highest
future self take or not take, and who are you now that he/she no longer is?
Take 20 minutes and write out your perfect day. A day that if repeated 10,000 times will
inevitably have you surpassing your #1 goal written in Chapter 1.
BUT: With Owning 1 Day, we rip out the motherboard of habituation engrained within
you and jumpstart the process towards new behaviors and subsequently a new
self-identity.
Example:
AM
● 6:00-6:05
○ Alarm goes off, GET UP IMMEDIATELY!
○ Say a prayer of gratitude. Something like: “Thank you God, for this beautiful life,
for this day full of possibility, and for the breath of this moment”
○ Bathroom
● 6:05-6:20
○ Chug water with LMNT
○ View east-facing sunlight
○ Stretch/walk
○ Pretend you woke up in your body today but are actually 90 years old.
○ Think about how grateful you are to be in your body today and not a 90-year-old
with the best years of your life behind you.
● 6:20-6:40:
○ 20 minutes sitting upright meditation. Visit the roundtable of invisible counselors.
● 6:40-7:00:
○ Read book or journal
● 7:00-7:15:
○ Listen to theta wave binaural beats/Podcasts/Books/Or remain in a present, aware,
seat of personal power.
○ Write ideas, thoughts, feelings, strategies, and executions, in a journal for 10-15
minutes
○ Quickly review Polaris
● 7:15-7:30:
○ Open task journal/Google Calendar/Check Email. 15 minutes
● 7:30-9:00
○ Begin Deep focused work with no distractions following task list
○ Order of Operations-From the previous day’s list
○ Most Important/Stressful Tasks
○ Leverage 90-minute ultradian cycles
● 9:00-9:10
○ Short walk outside
○ Not checking the phone
○ Relax & allow the subconscious to work on problems
● 9:10-10:40
○ Deep work #2
● 10:40-10:50
○ Break/Short walk outside
● 10:50-12:00
○ S so Deep work/work
PM
● 12:00-12:30
○ Lunch, avocado, blueberries, eggs, kimchi, alfalfa sprouts
● 12:30-1:00
○ Relax/Walk/Read/Nap
● 1:00-1:20
○ Non-Sleep-Deep-Rest, followed by 3 rounds of Wim Hof Breathing
● 1:20-2:00
○ Reset and tackle remaining administrative tasks/calls
● 2-3:30
○ Gym/Run/Walk/Yoga
○ Listen to podcasts/music/nothing at all
● 3:30-4:00
○ Return home, eat snack, shower
● 4:00-5:30
○ Read/Call friends/Parents/Relax
● 5:30-7:00 pm
○ Dinner, clean kitchen/room
● 7:00-7:10 pm
○ Write a task list for the next day.
● 7:10-8:30 pm
○ Watch educational videos/shows.
○ Or do additional deep work cycle
○ Or unwind with a show.
● 8:30-9 pm
○ Take supplements
○ Brush teeth/Stretch
○ Continue watching/reading/meditating/journaling
● 9:30pm
○ Phone/lights off
○ Read/Listen to a book
● 10pm
○ SLEEP
“The 1 Big Thing (1:1:1 Method)”
Many self-development experts will pull the rug on your entire set of behaviors all at
once. This doesn't work for 99% of people. I fell into this trap as well. My philosophy
and what has worked for the people I’ve helped is this:
If you had to choose 1 thing holding you back from your goals what is it?
Decide on the thing you will be waging war against over the next two weeks.
“For the next two weeks, dated X-Y, I shall abstain/perform _The 1 Thing_ behavior.
Reframe your mind. Dopamine detoxes usually are proclamations to oneself about a
myriad of things you are going to do in a set period of time. In this practice, instead of
framing it as:
This takes the pressure off yourself to conquer the world in a month, which so many
dopamine detox protocols try to have you do. This dopamine detox allows room for
error. If you have set forth protocols for yourself in the past, you know that even one
mistake can sabotage the entire plan. “Well I messed up and did X, so I guess it doesn’t
matter if I do Y”
SO: With this frame of mind of simply doing your best, set forth a soft dopamine detox
protocol you will also follow for the next two weeks.
The most important thing is to not lose sight of your “One Big Thing”
Example: Dopamine Detox Mandates:
October 21st-November 7th
Everyday things:
● Say my ethos aloud
● No alcohol except for business dinners
● I complete my daily review at the end of each day
● I Cold shower
● I Meditate for 20 minutes
● I move for 45 minutes
● I dont look at my phone for 1+ hours after waking
● I drink 3> liters of water
● Lights out by 10:30pm
● Wake no later than 8:30am
● Phone on Airplane mode while sleeping
● No eating past 9:30pm
● 100 Push ups/day
Protocol:
● Educational shows only
● I Wim Hof Method for 20 minutes 4x per week
● I work to get my finances in order
● Social media on Saturdays only
● Read 1 page of a book per day
● Banned foods:
○ Candy
○ Soda etc.
○ Milkshakes
○ Fast food
○ Ice Cream
○ Seed oils
● At least 7.5 hours of sleep per night/35 sleep cycles per week.
● Create an environment for success, do an audit of everything in your space that
you are able to architect-remove bad
● Journal Sunday-Complete my weekly review and write thoughts, strategies, tasks,
and others for the upcoming week.
Side Note:
These Detoxes are important to increase motivation and allow you to hear your inner
voice better. When we are overstimulated by our phones and all of the dopamine hits at
our disposal, we lose no longer need to EARN our dopamine from doing important,
meaningful, purpose-driven tasks. The first week can be a little tough as you are going
through dopamine withdrawals, but after the hump, you will feel like a relentless
machine that can conquer anything, and that feeling is better than any artificial
dopamine hit. Trust me.
“Own 1 Day” Schedule:
AM
● 6:00
○
PM
● 12:00
○
The 1 Big Thing (1:1:1):
“For the next two weeks, dated X-Y, I shall abstain/perform _____ behavior
Everyday things:
●
Protocol:
●
End of Day 1 Review:
(1-10, 1= Not at all. 10 = Extremely Well )
I felt empowered:
Score: /70
Additional Notes:
End of Day 2 Rating:
(1-10)
I was aware:
I was disciplined
I was present
I was grateful
I was happy
Score:
Additional Notes:
End of Day 3 Rating:
(1-10)
I was aware:
I was disciplined
I was present
I was grateful
I was happy
Score:
Additional Notes:
End of Day 4 Rating:
(1-10)
I was aware:
I was disciplined
I was present
I was grateful
I was happy
Score:
Additional Notes:
End of Day 5 Rating:
(1-10)
I was aware:
I was disciplined
I was present
I was grateful
I was happy
Score:
Additional Notes:
End of Day 6 Rating:
(1-10)
I was aware:
I was disciplined
I was present
I was grateful
I was happy
Score:
Additional Notes:
End of Day 7 Rating:
(1-10)
I was aware:
I was disciplined
I was present
I was grateful
I was happy
Score:
Additional Notes:
End of Week #3 Review:
●
One thing I am very proud of from last week is:
●
One thing that did not go well this past week was:
●
One major lesson I learned this past week is:
●
3 behaviors I will train next week are:
I was aware:
I was disciplined
I was present
I was grateful
I was happy
Score:
Additional Notes:
End of Day 9 Rating:
(1-10)
I was aware:
I was disciplined
I was present
I was grateful
I was happy
Score:
Additional Notes:
End of Day 10 Rating:
(1-10)
I was aware:
I was disciplined
I was present
I was grateful
I was happy
Score:
Additional Notes:
End of Day 11 Rating:
(1-10)
I was aware:
I was disciplined
I was present
I was grateful
I was happy
Score:
Additional Notes:
End of Day 12 Rating:
(1-10)
I was aware:
I was disciplined
I was present
I was grateful
I was happy
Score:
Additional Notes:
End of Day 13 Rating:
(1-10)
I was aware:
I was disciplined
I was present
I was grateful
I was happy
Score:
Additional Notes:
End of Day 14 Rating:
(1-10)
I was aware:
I was disciplined
I was present
I was grateful
I was happy
Score:
Additional Notes:
End of Week #4 Review:
●
One thing I am very proud of from last week is:
●
One thing that did not go well this past week was:
●
One major lesson I learned this past week is:
●
3 behaviors I will train next week are:
Are there points in the course you still need help with?