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Sexualisation

What is the point of sexualisation


1. Show that I understand what she craves
2. Identify this specific thing that turn this specific girl on as a gap that not many are able to
fulfill
3. Convey that we are able to fulfill her specific needs
4. Get her turned on

1. Sexual Understanding of Her: Coldread and Gap


Coldread

The easiest way to show sexual understanding is by making a coldread and starting broad and
getting more specific based on her non-verbal and verbal response a.k.a. calibrating. The easy
way we do it at UMP is by using the type routine.

The type routine

The point of the type routine is to show non-sexual understanding of her personality and
what she likes in a man to showing sexual understanding of her and what she likes in the
bedroom. How you communicate this is going to greatly influence the outcome.

Gap

When we've conveyed sexual understanding of her, we are going to have an idea of what she is
into. We want to further explore a gap in what she lacks sexually. Simply put this is done by
asking "Have you ever experienced that?" or "How many orgasms do you usually have?"

2. Sexual Authority: Promise and Proof


Promise

The promise is going to be based on the explored gap and this is the Value Proposition. Simply
put this is done by stating "You need 10 orgasms every day", "You want a guy that can be
dominant and tie you up" or "You want someone that is able to get you out of your head and
into your body".
The Value Proposition

The three main value propositions are:

1. Orgasms
2. BDSM
3. Tantra

The Value Proposition is greatly affected by How You Communicate.

E.g. If you communicate BDSM in a tantric way to a girl that doesn't relate to it like that,
she might completely disagree even tough you might be on the right Value Proposition.

Proof
BDSM and tantra require lot less proof since it is not common knowledge by every person
unlike orgasms. However you always want to emphasize how it is going to pleasure her. Simply
put this can be done by explaining how she is going to feel and why she is going to like it. E.g.
With public sex it could be describing the scenario and the emotions she is going to feel and
why she thinks it's hot (e.g. fear of getting caught turns her on). Or with Shibari how sexy it's
going to feel how she would love it, and that she is going to be able to let go.

While orgasms you want to show confidence by simply put stating "It's completely possible"
which shows confidence and then giving the girl a logical mechanism e.g. "70% mental 30%
technique".

3. Emotion: Painting a Picture


When dirtytalking you want to paint a picture. To do that you want to bait it e.g. "I can already
think of the things I'm going to do to you when we are back at my place" or if you don't have that
type of compliance use it in the negative e.g. "Don't look at me like that..." or "This is what I'm
not going to do to you, I'm not going to do x, I'm not going to do y, I'm not going to do z."

When dirtytalking you always want to look for her response. So for example if you say "I'll lie
you down and wrap my hands around your throat..." if she responds positively by e.g. smiling
you can double down. However if she doesn't respond positively you calibrate.

You can always go back to step 1 to find out more about her fantasies.

Tonality of the conversation


You want to always push the limit. If it is possible to be sexual from the start that is what you
should do. Realistically that is not going to be the case so you want to follow this in genera.

When cold reading you want to sound assertive and sure of yourself.
When exploring the gap you want to be curious.
When showing sexual authority you want to introduce a sexual tone.
When building the emotion you want to be fully sexual/dirtytalking.

How to make it a dialogue


Every point of the interaction should be a dialogue, usually through a question statement type
interaction. Always look for feedback. Ask follow up questions and make her expand on the
topic. Also try to bait a little bit to allow her to invest in the conversation.

Source
https://www.umpuniversity.com/courses/mastermind-course/lesson/06-03-2024-markus-
monday/?v=13b249c5dfa9

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