How To Make Your Woman Desperate To Give You Head

By John Alexander
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How to Make Your Woman Desperate

To Give You Head
The feeling of a hot, wet, soft mouth sucking on your hungry penis is one of the best
sensations you will ever experience. As a general rule, in order to get a woman to the
point where she will happily give you these sensations, she must feel...

1. Relaxed.
2. Comfortable.
3. Emotionally connected with with you.

Of course it is often the case that a woman will give you a blow-job as a “consolation
prize” in lieu of vaginal intercourse, but to maximize your chances of getting a blowjob,
you need to create those three feelings within your lover-girl.

If the woman starts the process of taking your dick into her mouth, the emotional
connection (#3 above) is practically a given. Why? Because you are at your most vul-
nerable when her teeth are around your dick. So you are trusting her in an enormous
way.

Getting her to feel comfortable and relaxed (#1 and #2) is the more challenging part.
It is challenging because it requires you to control a massive urge that you've had your
entire life, ever since you learned to masturbate.

What is that urge, you ask? It is the urge to be active when it comes to the sexual
pleasure you receive.

Because of the urge to be active, the average man wants to grab his woman’s head
and start thrusting. Don’t do it!

Instead, remain passive during the blowjob. Allow your woman to control the ac-
tion. Lock your hands together behind your head and just lay back and relax.

If you feel the urge to touch her, instead lightly stroke her neck and run your fingers
through her hair.

Do not physically move her head, however, because women find this unpleasant and
you don’t want her to associate any unpleasantness whatsoever to the act of fellatio.

A woman who feels like she controls the tempo will have a higher comfort level. Try
sticking a sausage in your mouth and you’ll see why this is important. It’s easy to start
gagging, which is an unpleasant sensation.

So allow the woman to be in charge of the fellatio and let her choose the ways she
will give pleasure to your dick.
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Women tend to be highly self-conscious in the bedroom, and as a consequence she
doesn’t want to bite you or otherwise do a poor job and embarrass herself.

This brings up another point — societal conditioning. From an early age women
are taught from constant cultural barrages, media influence, societal gossiping from
their friends, and family and religious messages that enjoyment of sex is “bad.” This is
the reason a lot of women turn cold on enjoying fellatio.

The solution? Praise, praise, and praise again! Let her know how much you enjoy
the blowjob, both during it and afterwards.

Reward her good behavior by telling her how much you enjoyed it and are enjoying
it. Examples:

•“I love the way you stroke my dick so tenderly.”

•“Your mouth feels so good.”
•"When you swallow, I feel so connected with you.” (More on this in the next
chapter.)
•"Ahhh yeah!” (Moan approvingly when you feel good.)
•"Baby, you are the best!”

Notice something that all of these have in common? They’re all very simple.
There’s no need to recite Shakespearean Sonnets when receiving a blowjob.

In fact, women respond better when you lose control of yourself, feeling such intense
pleasure that you tap into your most primal, lustful thoughts and become almost inartic-
ulate.

So let yourself go, and be vocal when you feel her hot, moist tongue on the head of
your dick.

Women feel a deep connection with you when they take your cock into their mouths
and make you feel good. Have you ever noticed how even in porn films when the ac-
tresses are performing fallatio, they’ll look into the man’s eyes whenever they can?

Your woman will most likely do this too. When she does, return her gaze.

She is not just making any man feel good; she is making you feel good. She is not
just tasting any man intimately; she’s tasting you intimately.

Enjoy the view by pulling her hair away from her face. Not only do you get the visual
stimulation of seeing your penis in a woman’s mouth, but you also get the following two
benefits:

1. It increases the tenderness between the two of you, merely by virtue of you
having her silky hair intertwined in your fingers.

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2. Women don’t like when their hair gets in their eyes, nose, and mouth, so you
are helping her do something she’d want to do anyway. This frees both her
hands to massage your balls and ass and to stroke your dick up and down.

You also need to have your dick be enticing to her. Keep the hair at the base of your
penis shaved. And closely trim (or shave off entirely) the muff of pubic hair on your low-
er abdomen. This will greatly reduce the amount of hair that your woman gets in her
mouth during the blowjob.

It will also give your genital area a clean appearance. You know how a woman’s
pussy looks a lot more enticing when it’s shaved rather than having the appearance of a
jungle? It’s the same with our penises.

A side benefit to getting rid of all that long pubic hair is that it will reveal the entire
length of your organ and make it appear longer.

Finally, it is very important keep your dick clean, because the combination of residual
urine and sweat can make your crotch area smell noxious.

Use soap, but only very sparingly, and rinse thoroughly. You don’t want the scent of
the soap to clash with the natural aroma of pheromones that your genitals give off.

If you are uncircumcised, an oily fluid gathers under your foreskin and needs to be
cleaned out from time to time. To do this, simply pull back the foreskin when you’re in
the shower and wash away the accumulated fluid.

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How to Get Her to Swallow

When you come in a woman’s mouth, you are giving her an awesome gift. Again,
however, societal conditioning is a key reason a lot of women don’t swallow. (For exam-
ple, they hear from their friends that sperm is “icky” and that women who swallow are
"sluts.")

So when your woman does swallow, give her praise, praise, and more praise.
Tell her you like it when she swallows.

After she swallows, she’ll want to kiss you on the lips. Allow her to. It’s very impor-
tant. Don’t worry about getting your sperm in your mouth, because she will have swal-
lowed it all, and you won’t taste a thing.

Under no circumstances should you indicate that you think your own sperm is gross,
nor should you be reluctant to kiss her on the lips. Women tend to be very deferential in
their beliefs. If you believe your semen is gross, then your woman too will think that.
But if you think it’s normal and no big deal, then she too will think that.

As she becomes accustomed to the taste, your woman will grow to enjoy it. Studies
have shown that humans enjoy the taste of flavors that they are exposed to on a consis-
tent basis, and it doesn't matter whether they didn’t like those flavors at first.

On an average western diet (i.e., pretty unhealthy), the typical man has semen that
tastes salty and bitter, with a pH of above 8, comparable to an egg white.

Particularly in men whose diets are high in dairy, the texture often is reported to be
an unpleasant clumpiness, leaving an aftertaste.

The good news, however, is “you come what you eat.” Through improved diet,
you can improve the taste and texture of your semen enough to make your girlfriend en-
joy swallowing.

In order to make your semen taste as good as possible, you need to maximize your
intake of the foods and liquids that have been experimented with and shown to improve
it.

What to consume:

• Pineapple juice. (You should make it a ritual to have one glass of pineapple
juice everyday. Out of everything, this is the number one thing you can consume
to make your come taste better.)

• Cinnamon (Try a teaspoon a day.)... the #1 taste-improving spice you can con-
sume and overall is 2nd only to pineapple juice in the immediate improvement it
makes to semen taste.

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• Other semen-improving spices are nutmeg and ginger. (For breakfast, try hav-
ing oatmeal with cinnamon, nutmeg, and ginger.)

• Lots of water. (Reduces saltiness and improves texture)

• Fresh fruit such as strawberries, bananas, grapes, papayas, mangoes, and of

course pineapple.

• Citrus fruit such as oranges.

• Sweet melons such as cantaloupe and watermelon.

• Vegetables, particularly celery, broccoli, and avocados.

• Non-sugar sweeteners such as Splenda. They are more concentrated in their

sweetness than sugar and will not be resisted by your body’s insulin the way sug-
ar will be.

What to avoid:

• Tobacco in any quantity.

• Asparagus in any quantity.
• Beets.
• Beer.
• Excessive red meat (too much can make your semen too alkaline and affect its
smell).
• Excessive quantities of strong-tasting fish.
• Fried starches such as potato chips.
• Excessive amounts of bread (can give semen a bad texture).
• Garlic.
• Raw onions.
• Cabbage.
• Dairy products in excessive amounts.
• Excessive salt.
• Coffee.

Basically, when it comes to eating, you can adjust the flavor of your come based on
saltiness, sweetness, sour, and degree of bitterness.

What makes pineapple so ideal is that it’s highly sweet and acidic. The acid reduces
the alkalinity of your semen, making it less bitter.

Foods being on the “avoid” list doesn’t necessarily mean that you should never par-
take in them.

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Red meat is a good source of zinc, which helps with sperm and testosterone produc-
tion.1 If you’re a bodybuilder, red meat and dairy products can be a great source of the
protein you need to build muscle. Just make sure not to go overboard with them, and to
drink your pineapple juice daily.

One basic rule for many of the foods on the avoid list is the question, “Do they affect
my urine?” Just as asparagus and coffee influence the smell of your urine, so too do
they influence your semen.

It takes a minimum of 12 hours from the time you eat semen-friendly foods to the
time they start to have an effect on taste, so plan accordingly.

An easy way to consume large quantities of fruits quickly and easily is through the
use of a juicer.

Having tried different brands of juicers, the kind I recommend is the Champion
Juicer2 (which you can find through doing an Internet search) because, as a "masticat-
ing" juicer, it grinds up the fruit in such a way that the juice maintains its full amount of
vitamins. Cheaper juices that spin the fruit tend to aerate the juice, which depletes it of
a lot of the vitamins.

It should be noted that semen itself is healthy for a woman to consume. The aver-
age amount of ejaculate (one teaspoon) contains 5-7 calories and has important vita-
mins and minerals she needs like Vitamin C, iron, and zinc.

Another thing for you to watch is where you aim the come that you shoot into your
woman’s mouth. When you’re pumping your dick into a hot, hungry vagina, you have to
urge to push your dick in as far as it will go just before you come. This is a biological re-
flex because it ensures that the woman’s uterus will be bathed in the maximum amount
of life-giving sperm.

When you’re coming in your woman’s mouth and pump and shoot as deep as possi-
ble, however, you can trigger her involuntary gag reflex, which will cause her to asso-
ciate unpleasant feelings with you coming in her mouth.

To avoid this, pull your dick out so that only the head is in her mouth when you ejac-
ulate. Try to aim so that your semen hits the roof or sides of her mouth rather than the
back of her throat.

Another option is to simply have your woman suck your penis while you're lying
down. That way she'll be in control of how far your penis goes into her mouth when you
orgasm.

Sometimes you may encounter a woman who’s had negative taste experiences with
fellatio in the past and is simply afraid to swallow.

1 See chapter on Your Diet

2 As a disclaimer, I do not have an affiliation with that brand. I have just had experience with it and like it.
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When this happens, have her suck on Tic Tacs or some other kind of breath mint just
before sucking your dick. The strong flavor of the mint will mask the taste of your come.

Eventually as your woman realizes your come tastes good (since you will have been
eating semen-friendly foods), she will swallow your load happily.

Try to give your woman some kind of warning before you orgasm. This can either be
explicit, by saying “I’m gonna come!” or it can be implicit, by loudly moaning and even
screaming out in pleasure as your orgasm becomes inevitable.

Because fellatio is based on a strong emotional connection between man and wom-
an, you need to allow yourself to have a lot of visibly apparent facial expressions of
pleasure. Now is not the time for a poker face!

As you gasp and shoot your streams of hot semen into your woman’s mouth, look
deeply into her eyes. The emotional effect on her will be extraordinary.

Let her know how much pleasure you get from her sucking your cock and swallow-
ing your come. If she focuses on the pleasure she's giving you, she will bestow on you
the kind of blowjobs that rock your world.

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