Understanding Self Unit-1
Understanding Self Unit-1
PERSPECTIVES
Lesson 1: Philosophy
2.5 weeks or 7.5 hours
Philosophy employs the inquisitive mind to discover the ultimate causes, reasons,
and principles of everything. It goes beyond scientific investigation by exploring all areas of
knowledge such as religion, psychology, politics, physics, and even medicine. Hence, the
etymological definition of philosophy "love of wisdom" could pertain to the desire for truth
by formulating never ending questions to provide answers to every inquiry about the
nature of human existence. The nature of the self is a topic of interest among
philosophers.
The philosophical framework for understanding the self was
first introduced by the ancient great Greek philosophers
Socrates, Plato, and Aristotle. In particular, Socrates
suggests: "Know thyself" But what exactly does "know
thyself" mean? What is self and the qualities that define
it? This lesson presents an overview of the philosophical
perspective of the self to assist students identify one's
own self to gain self-knowledge. It intends to give a
wider perspective in understanding the self. The
different views of prominent philosophers regarding the
nature of the self are discussed and while there are
disagreements in how philosophers view the self, most of
them agree that self-knowledge is a prerequisite to a happy
and meaningful life.
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Philosophy as a subject presents various philosophers offering multiple perspectives
on just about any topic including the self. Philosophical, discussion of the self is a basic
search for meaning and purpose in life. Determination, rationalization, and identification of
the self set the direction from which an individual travels to fulfill his or her purpose in life.
The inability to define oneself leads to a lot of contradictions within the self later on;
hence, it is one of the many imperatives in life to know oneself and to go on with the
business of leading a life charted by oneself.
Socrates
No historical document proves that Socrates really existed. We only know Socrates
because his illustrious students (from Plato to Aristotle) spoke eloquently and generously
about his wit, intellect, and wisdom. Socrates left no known writings, bur his highly
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regarded student, Plato, wrote extensively about him. Some would even claim that Plato,
in positing his own radical ideas in his era, spoke through the character of Socrates in his
writings. Despite this mystery in his identity, Socrates is credited for his many contributions
to western philosophy.
Socrates reminds us to "know thyself," a translation of
an ancient Greek aphorism gnothi Seauton, Socrates posited
that if a person knows who he or she is, all basic issues and
difficulties in life will vanish and everything will be clearer
and simpler. One could now act according to his or her own
definition of the self without any doubt and contradiction.
His technique of asking basic questions such as "Who
am I?" "What is the purpose of my life?," "What am I doing
here?" or "What is justice?" are all predicated on the fact that
humans must be able to define these simple things so as to
move forward and act accordingly based on their definition of the
self.
Self knowledge, for Socrates, means knowing one's degree of understanding about
the world and knowing one's capabilities and potentials. It is only through self-knowledge
that one's self emerges. Therefore, self is achieved and not just discovered, something to
work on and not a product of a mere realization.
For Socrates, possession of knowledge is virtue and ignorance is vice. He argued
that a person's acceptance of ignorance is a springboard for the acquisition of knowledge
later on. So, one must first have the humility to acknowledge his or her ignorance so as to
acquire knowledge. (“The only true wisdom is in knowing you know nothing.”)
Answers will always be subjective and there is no right or wrong answer to the
questions posited by Socrates. The quality and quantity of answers are dependent on the
person answering these basic inquiries and one's subsequent actions are best understood
on how one defines oneself, thus the constant reminder to "know thyself."
For Socrates, every man is composed of body and soul. This means that every
human person is dualistic, that is, he is composed of two important aspects of his
personhood. For Socrates, this means all individuals have an imperfect, impermanent
aspect to him, and the body, while maintaining that there is also a soul that is perfect and
permanent. He argued that the ruler of the body is the soul. For him, soul pre-existed the
body, and soul is what makes the body alive.
Plato
An ancient Greek philosopher who was a student of
Socrates and a teacher of Aristotle, Plato produced a
substantial body of work that became the basis for western
thought. He basically took off from his master and
supported the idea that man is a dual nature of body and
soul. In addition to what Socrates earlier espoused, Plato
added that there are three components of the soul: the
rational soul, the spirited soul, and the appetitive
soul.
In his magnum opus, "The Republic" (Plato
2000), Plato emphasizes that justice in the human
person can only be attained if the three parts of the soul
are working harmoniously with one another. The rational soul
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forged by reason and intellect has to govern the affairs of the human person, the spirited
part which is in charge of emotions should be kept at bay, and the appetitive soul in
charge of base desires like eating, drinking, sleeping, and having sex are controlled as
well. When this ideal state is attained, then the human person's soul becomes just and
virtuous.
In terms of the concept of the self, Plato was one of the first philosophers who
believed in an enduring self that is represented by the soul. He argued that the soul is
eternal and constitutes the enduring self, because even after death, the soul continues to
exist.
St. Augustine
Augustine's view of the human person reflects the entire spirit of the medieval
world when it comes to man. Following the ancient view of Plato and infusing it with the
newfound doctrine of Christianity, Augustine agreed that man is of a bifurcated nature. An
aspect of man dwells in the world and is imperfect and continuously yearns to be with the
Divine and the other is capable of reaching immortality. The body is bound to die on earth
and the soul is to anticipate living eternally in a realm of spiritual bliss in communion with
God. This is because the body can only thrive in the imperfect, physical reality that is the
world, whereas the soul can also stay after death in an eternal realm with the all-
transcendent God. The goal of every human person is to attain this communion and bliss
with the Divine by living his life on earth in virtue.
However, Augustine in his Confessions takes
this idea and expands it into an entire genre that
critically inquires what it means to be a person. In
other words, he explores the idea of the self until he
discovers personal subjectivity. As Augustine
constructs a view of God that would come to
dominate Western thinking, he also creates a new
concept of individual identity: the idea of the self.
This identity is achieved through a twofold process:
self-presentation, which leads to self-realization.
Augustine creates a literary character out of the self
and places it in a narrative text so that it becomes
part of the grand allegory of redemption. In The
Confessions, Augustine plays the lead role in the
story of his own life. By telling this tale he
transforms himself into a metaphor of the struggle
of both body and soul to find happiness, which
exists only in God’s love. He reads his life as an
allegory to arrive at a larger truth.
Rene Descartes
Rene Descartes, Father of Modern Philosophy conceived of the human person as
having a body and a mind. In his famous treatise, The Meditations of First Philosophy, he
claims that there is so much that we should doubt. In fact, he says that since much of
what we think and believe are not infallible, they may turn out to be false. One should only
believe that since which can pass the test of doubt (Descartes 2008). If something is so
clear and lucid as not to be even doubted, then that is the only time when one should
actually buy a proposition. In the end, Descartes thought that the only thing that one
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cannot doubt is the existence of the self, for even if one doubts
oneself, that only proves that there is a doubting self, a
thing that thinks and therefore, that cannot be doubted.
Thus, his famous, cogito ergo sum, "I think therefore, I
am." The fact that one thinks should lead one to
conclude without a trace of doubt that he exists. The
self then for Descartes is also a combination of two
distinct entities, the cogito, the thing that thinks, which
is the mind, and the extenza or extension of the mind,
which is the body. In Descartes's view, the body is
nothing else but a machine that is attached to the mind.
The human person has it but it is not what makes man a
man. If at all, that is the mind. Descartes says, "But what
then, am I? A thinking thing. It has been said. But what is a
thinking thing? It is a thing that doubts, understands
(conceives), affirms, denies, wills, refuses; that imagines also, and
perceives" (Descartes 2008).
For Descartes, the existence of anything that you register from your senses can be
doubted. For example, if you are staring at a burning building, you are not certain if that
building is really burning or it is something you are only reconstructing from your dream.
One can always doubt about the certainty of things but the very fact that one doubts is
something that cannot be doubted. This is what "I think, therefore I am" means.
The self, for Descartes, is nothing else but a mind-body dichotomy. Thought (mind)
always precedes action (body). It has always been in that sequence. Everything starts with
a thought. Humans think first about doing something and then do it. When one thinks that
he or she will have a very busy week, then he or she will plan what to do from Monday to
Sunday. It is the thought that sets direction to human actions but humans are always free
to choose. So, if one says he or she will have a very busy week, then he or she can push
through with the tasks he or she needs to do for the week or not.
Humans are self-aware and being such proves their own place in the universe.
Humans create their own reality and they are the masters of their own universe.
Western philosophy is largely based on the writings of Descartes. If you have heard
of the saying that man is a rational animal, one is actually positing the ideas of Rene
Descartes. To acknowledge him, Filipinos have a unique term, "diskarte," a derivative of
the surname of Descartes, which denotes finding a way or making things possible.
John Locke
John Locke's main philosophy about personal identity or the self is founded on
consciousness or memory. For Locke, consciousness is the
perception of what passes in a Man's own mind. He rejected
that brain has something to do with consciousness as
the brain, as well as the body may change, while
consciousness remains the same. He concluded that
personal identity is not in the brain but in one's
consciousness.
In his work, "Identity and Diversity” in An Essay
Concerning Human Understanding (1689), he
pondered, if the same Substance which thinks be
changed, it can be the same person, or remaining the
same, it can be a different person." Here, he supports that
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consciousness can be transferred from one substance (body and soul) to another. While
the soul is changed, for instance, consciousness remains the same, thereby maintaining
the personal identity through the change. On the other hand, consciousness may be lost
involuntarily through forgetfulness while the soul stays the same. With this, he claimed
that there is the same soul but a different person. Thus, the same soul is unnecessary or
insufficient in the formation of one's personal identity over time when consciousness is
lost.
His philosophy can be understood easily in his illustration of “The Prince and the
Cobbler." Suppose a prince will die and have its soul resurrected in the body of a cobbler
whose soul has departed. With this exchange, the prince will still act and think as a prince
even though he finds himself in a new body. This idea supports the possibility that the
same person may appear in a different body at the time of resurrection and yet still be the
same person.
The other remarkable contribution of this country lawyer was the notion of tabula
rasa. This concept posits that everyone started as a blank slate, and the content is
provided by one's experiences over time.
David Hume
David Hume a Scottish philosopher, has a very unique way of looking at man. As an
empiricist who believes that one can know only what comes from the senses and
experiences, Hume argues that the self is nothing like what his predecessors thought of it.
The self is not an entity over and beyond the physical body. One can rightly see here the
empiricism that runs through his veins. Empiricism is the school of thought that espouses
the idea that knowledge can only be possible if it is sensed and experienced. Men can only
attain knowledge by experiencing. For example, Jack knows that Jill is another human
person not because he has seen her soul. He knows she is just like him because he sees
her, hears her, and touches her.
To David Hume, the self is nothing else but a bundle of
impressions. What are impressions? For David Hume, if one
tries to examine his experiences, he finds that they can all
be categorized into two: impressions and ideas.
Impressions are the basic objects of our experience or
sensation. They therefore form the core of our thoughts.
When one touches an ice cube, the cold sensation is an
impression Impressions therefore are vivid because they
are products of our direct experience with the world.
Ideas, on the other hand, are copies of impressions
Because of this they are not as lively and vivid as our
impressions. When one imagines the feeling of being in
love for the first time that still is an idea.
Hume's materialism views the soul as a product of the
imagination. There is no primordial substance that houses the self. Any concept of the self
is simply memory and imagination. Hume stressed that there is no stable thing called self,
for the self is nothing but a complex set of successive impressions or perceptions. If you
are looking for a self, you can't find it; the only thing that you can discover is a set of
individual impressions like happiness or sadness, hotness or coldness, hunger or fullness,
hate or love, and many others. What you think and what you feel constitute what you are
at this very moment. So, if at this moment, you are happy, then you are happy. If you are
hungry, then you are hungry. That is what you are; that is who you are.
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What is the self then? Self, according to Hume, is simply “a bundle or collection of
different perceptions, which succeed each other with an inconceivable rapidity, and are in
a perpetual flux and movement”. (Hume and Steinberg 1992) Men simply want to believe
that there is a unified, coherent self, a soul or mind just like what the previous
philosophers thought. In reality, what one thinks is a unified self is simply a combination of
all experiences with a particular person.
Immanuel Kant
German philosopher Immanuel Kant theorized that consciousness is formed by
one's inner and outer sense. The inner sense is comprised of one's psychological state and
intellect. The outer sense consists of one's senses and the physical world.
Consciousness of oneself and of one's psychological state (or inner sense) was
referred to by Kant as empirical self- consciousness while consciousness of oneself and of
one's state via acts of apperception is called transcendental apperception.
The source of empirical self-consciousness is the inner
sense. All representational states are in the inner sense such
as moods, feelings, and sensations including pleasure and
pain. One must be phenomenally conscious to be aware
of something in the inner sense.
Apperception is the faculty that allows for
application of concepts. The act of apperceiving
allows one to synthesize or make sense of a unified
object. Transcendental apperception makes
experience possible and allows the self and the world
to come together.
Consciousness being unified, Kant argued, is
the central feature of the mind (Brook, 2013). Mind
should perform both the unity of consciousness and the
unity of apperception. Consciousness makes the world
intelligible. It is the self that organizes sensations and
thoughts into a picture that makes sense to a person. This
picture constitutes the "you" at the center of the universe, looking
at the universe from one's point of view. For example, think about a moment when you
shared memorable experiences with someone but each of you had radically different
experiences-swimming, attending reunion, or walking at a party. Reflect on the way each
person instinctively describes the situation from his or her perspective. This is the unity of
consciousness that Kant described. The self is able to perform this synthesizing and
unifying function because it transcends sense experience.
Kant recognizes the veracity of Hume's account that everything starts with
perception and sensation of impressions. However, Kant thinks that the things that men
perceive around them are not just randomly infused into the human person without an
organizing principle that regulates the relationship of all these impressions. To Kant, there
is a mind that organizes the impressions that men get from the external world. Time and
space, for example, are ideas that one cannot find in the world, but is built in our minds.
Kant calls these the apparatuses of the mind. Along with the different apparatuses of the
mind goes the "self." Without the self, one cannot organize the different impressions that
one gets in relation to his own existence. Kant therefore suggests that it is an actively
engaged intelligence in man that synthesizes all knowledge and experience. Thus, the self
is not just what gives one his personality. In addition, it is also the seat of knowledge
acquisition for all human persons.
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Sigmund Freud’s Psychoanalytic Theory
Freud emphasized the inner dynamics of unconscious motives. He asserted that the
sex urges in the unconscious constitute the main human drive. This is known as the
“libido” theory.
Many human desires are directed and complicated by
unconscious motives which we are not directly aware of
because they lie in the substrata of our consciousness
but which are nevertheless powerful drives that may
dominate our lives.
Basic to Freud’s theory is the conception that
the unacceptable (forbidden, punished}
wishes/desires of childhood principally libidinal
(sexual) are repressed in our consciousness or get
driven out of awareness. Repressed drives press to
find expression in dreams, slips of speech, and in
unconscious mannerisms. They are the reasons for many
of our inner conflicts in life.
Freud believed that all human behavior is energized by
psychodynamic forces. One needs psychic energy in order to satisfy his basic urges. He
viewed human as an inherently negative creature who is relentlessly “driven” by two kinds
of biological instincts (or motives).
Conflict within the mind: According to Freud, the job of the ego is to balance the
aggressive/pleasure-seeking drives of the id with the moral control of the superego.
Conflicts among these three structures, and our efforts to find balance among what
each of them “desires,” determines how we behave and approach the world. What balance
we strike in any given situation determines how we will resolve the conflict between two
overarching behavioral tendencies: our biological aggressive and pleasure-seeking drives
vs. our socialized internal control over those drives.
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Freud's Three Levels of Mind
Freud delineated the mind in the distinct levels, each with their own roles and functions.
Freud likened the three levels of mind to an iceberg.
1. The conscious mind contains all of the thoughts, sensations, memories, feelings,
and wishes of which we are aware at any given moment. This is the aspect of our
mental processing that we can think and talk about rationally. This also includes
our memory, which is not always part of consciousness but can be retrieved easily
and brought into awareness. It is likened to the tip of an iceberg that you can see
above the water.
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Gilbert Ryle
Gilbert Ryle, a British philosopher, opposed Rene Descartes that the self is a
"thinking thing." He maintained that the mind is not separate from the body (mind-body
dichotomy). Mind consists of dispositions of people based on what they know, what they
feel, what they want, and so on. People learn that they have their own minds because they
behave in certain ways. What truly matters is the behavior that a person manifests in his
day-to-day life.
For Ryle, looking for and trying to understand a self as it
really exists is like visiting your friend’s university and looking
for the "university." One can roam around the campus, visit
the library and the football field, and meet the
administrators and faculty and still end up not finding the
"university." This is because the campus, the people, the
systems, and the territory all form the university. Ryle
suggests that the "self is not an entity one can locate and
analyze but simply the convenient name that people use to
refer to all the behaviors that people make.
Ryle supported the basic notions of behavioristic
psychology. His theory is called logical behaviorism or analytical
behaviorism-a theory of mind which states that mental concepts
can be understood through observable events.
In his work Concept of Mind (1949), he described Descartes mind-body dualism as
"ghost in the machine." For him, Descartes idea is a category mistake supporting that
there is an immaterial mind in a material body. Descartes thought that one has soul in the
body that possesses talents, memories, and character. The properties of a person are
better understood as adjectives modifying a body, than as noun (objects) parallel to it.
Kindness, for example, is not a thing that exists apart from and parallel to the body, but
rather a collection of properties a body has. Kindness includes properties such as being
generous, humble, courteous, loyal, and honest. Someone who never exhibited any of
these traits would not be called kind; and anyone who is considered kind exhibits some of
these traits.
The only proof of the mind's operation is visible and evident in activities like
singing, running, walking, and the like. Knowing and believing are just dispositions but
these influence people's actions. To understand Ryle's illustration of the mind, think of this
scenario: You went to a forest and you saw the trees, animals, falls, and caves. You might
ask, "Where is the forest?" This is similar to asking, "Where is the mind?" All the things you
saw is the forest. Therefore, the disposition to know, believe, feel, and act is called the
mind.
As for Ryle's concept of the self, the self is a combination of the mind and the
body. While the focus of other philosophers is towards the separation of mind and body (a
dualist view), for Ryle, self is taken as a whole with the combination of the body and the
mind. Ryle also posited the maxim, "I act, therefore I am." For him, the mind is not the
seat of self but the behavior, opposing Descartes' immaterial mind in a material body. The
self is the way people behave.
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Paul Churchland and Patricia Churchland
Paul Churchland and Patricia Churchland, who are both neuroscientists, introduced
eliminative materialism-"a radical claim that ordinary, common sense understanding of the
mind is deeply wrong and that some or all of the mental states posited by common sense
do not actually exist" (Ramsey, 2013). For theme it is false to claim that folk psychology,
or common sense psychology, is the capacity to explain mental states of people.
Most people think that we have a stream of consciousness that contains images
and conceptions of things about which we have beliefs and attitudes. Our beliefs and
attitudes are supported by our feelings, which include
mental states like joy and sorrow, or anxiety and relief.
It is also a folk belief that our sense of the world and of
ourselves is a direct representation of how the world is
formed, thus making our bodies reflect or adapt the way
the world is (Weed, 2011).
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Merleau-Ponty
He distinguished the body into two types: the subjective body, as lived and
experienced, and the objective body, as observed and scientifically investigated. For him,
these two are not different bodies." The former is the body as-it-is-lived. He wrote, "But I
am not in front of my body, I am in my body, or rather I am my body.” He regarded self as
embodied subjectivity. It sees human beings neither as disembodied minds (existing
without body) nor as complex machines, but as living creatures whose subjectivity
(consciousness) is actualized in the forms of their physical involvement with the world. The
body is the general medium for having a world and we know not through our intellect but
through our experience. The latter is the body as observed and scientifically investigated.
It is the body that is known to others. These are bodies that people see, admire, imitate,
criticize, or even dissect.
For phenomenological philosophers, to be a subject (a self) essentially requires a
body. Consciousness cannot simply be immaterial but must be embodied. The "I think"
implies "I can,” in the sense that "I can” go somewhere else as a being possessing a body.
This is where Merleau-Ponty opposed the dualist account of subjectivity. Mind and body
are essentially correlated and it is not possible to understand subjectivity without taking
into account this essential correlation. He also opposed the Cartesian cogito. For him,
consciousness is both perceiving and engaging.
To sum it up, Merleau-Ponty's, "I am my body" cannot simply be interpreted as
advocating a materialist, behaviorist type position. He accepts the idea of mental states but
he also suggests that the use of the mind is inseparable from our bodily, situated, physical
nature. The body cannot be viewed solely as an object, or material entity of the world.
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After reading all the philosophical perspectives on the self, make your own philosophy of
the self incorporating the ideas you learned from the different philosophers.
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Multiple Choice: Choose the letter of the correct answer. Write your answers before the
number of the test item.
1. He is regarded as the Father of Modern Philosophy.
A. Gilbert Ryle B. Rene Descartes
C. John Locke D. Immanuel Kant
2. He postulates that the human mind at birth is a blank slate or tabula rasa.
A. David Hume B. Immanuel Kant
C. Gilbert Ryle D. John Locke
3. It refers to the emotion or desire portion that wants and feels many things based
on Plato’s ideas.
A. spirited soul B. rational soul
C. vegetative soul D. appetitive soul
4. What main categories did Hume use to describe mental perceptions?
A. impressions and ideas B. the physical and the spiritual
C. ideas and memories D. sensations and perceptions
5. The first philosopher to engage in systematic questioning about the self.
A. Aristotle B. Socrates C. Plato D. St. Augustine
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UNIT I: THE SELF FROM VARIOUS
PERSPECTIVES
Lesson 2: Psychology
1.5 weeks or 4.5 hours
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Real Self vs. Ideal Self
On the left column list down descriptions of your real self (Who you actually are?) and on
the right descriptions of your ideal self (Who do you want to be?).
Real Self (Who you actually are) Ideal Self (Who do you want to be?)
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Processing Questions
1. How did you feel when you were trying to identify words that describe your real
self?
2. Was it difficult or easy to look for words to describe your real self? Why or why
not?
3. How did you feel when you were asked to identify your ideal self?
4. Was it difficult or easy to think of words to describe your ideal self? Why or why
not?
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The Self as Cognitive Construct
How people define themselves in relation to others greatly influences how they
think, feel, and behave, and is ultimately related to the construct of identity. Self-
development is a continuous process throughout the lifespan; one’s sense of self may
change, at least somewhat, throughout one’s life. Self-representation has important
implications for socio-emotional functioning throughout the lifespan.
Philosopher and psychologist William James (1842–1910) was one of the first to
postulate a theory of the self in The Principles of Psychology. James described two aspects
of the self that he termed the “I” Self and “Me” Self. The “I” Self reflects what people
see or perceive themselves doing in the physical world (e.g., recognizing that one is
walking, eating, writing). It also refers to the aspects of someone that come from that
person's experiences or known as the
“empirical self”, whereas the “Me” Self
is a more subjective and psychological
phenomenon, referring to individuals’
reflections about themselves (e.g.
characterizing oneself as athletic,
smart, cooperative). It is classified as
the thinking self. Other terms such as
self-view, self-image, self-schema, and
self-concept are also used to describe
the self-referent thoughts
characteristic of the “Me” Self.
James further distinguished three components of the Me Self. These include: (1)
the material self (e.g., tangible objects or possessions we collect for ourselves); (2) the
social self (e.g., how we interact and portray ourselves within different groups, situations,
or persons); and (3) the spiritual self (e.g., internal dispositions).
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Two subclasses of the material self can be distinguished: The bodily self and
the extracorporeal (beyond the body) self. Rosenberg (1979) has referred
to the extracorporeal self as the extended self.
The bodily component of the material self requires little explanation. A
person speaks of my arms or my legs. These entities are clearly an intimate
part of who we are.
But our sense of self is not limited to our bodies. It includes other people
(my children), pets (my dog), possessions (my car), places (my home
town), and the products of our labors (my painting) called extended self.
It is not the physical entities themselves, however, that comprise the
material self. Rather, it is our psychological ownership of them (Scheibe,
1985). For example, a person may have a favorite chair she likes to sit in.
The chair itself is not part of the self. Instead, it is the sense of
appropriation represented by the phrase “my favorite chair.” This is what we
mean when we talk about the extended self. It includes all of the people,
places, and things that we regard as “ours.”
3. The Spiritual Self. For James, the spiritual self was who we are at our core. The
spiritual self is more concrete or permanent than the other two selves. The spiritual
self is our subjective and most intimate self. Aspects of an individual's spiritual self
include things like their personality, core values, and conscience that do not
typically change throughout their lifetime.
The spiritual self is our inner self or our psychological self. It is comprised of our
self-perceived abilities, attitudes, emotions, interests, values, motives, opinions,
traits, and wishes.
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Real Self vs. Ideal Self
The real self is who an individual actually is, intrinsically. It is the self that feels
closest to how one identifies with. It is how one thinks, feels, looks, and acts. It is the self
that feels most natural, comfortable, and true to what and who one really is. It is the self
that one continuously needs to accept, takes care of,
and improves. Despite the difficulty of an individual to
truly know how others see him or her, his or her real
self can still be possibly seen. One's significant other
may tell almost exactly his or her real self. The real
self is one's self-image.
Importance of Alignment
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far removed from what we really are. When
there is a huge discrepancy between what
we actually are (real self), and what we want
I am a self-actualize
to be (ideal self), we begin to experience an
person!
incongruence, a dissonance, a lack of
resonance within our true selves, and a gap,
sometimes huge, between what we sense as
our real self compared to what we feel
compelled to aspire to (our ideal self). When
the discrepancy between the real self and
ideal self is huge, the resulting incongruence
can lead us to become demoralized and
discouraged because we have in fact set
ourselves up for failure. This discrepancy
can lead to stress and anxiety because the
real self never seems good enough and the
ideal self seems impossible to attain. Hence,
one should strive to reduce the discrepancy
by either addressing the issue or accepting
the issue if it cannot be resolved.
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In the activity part, you identified your real self and ideal self. Reflect and answer the
questions as honestly as possible.
1. Are your real and ideal self closely aligned? Why or why not?
2. How can you make you real and ideal self closely aligned? What steps are you
going to do to attain alignment?
Multiple Choice: Choose the letter of the correct answer. Write your answers before the
number of the test item.
3. Which of William James’ three components of the self is based on all the physical
elements that reflect who you are?
A. material self B. social self C. spiritual self D. political self
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Alata, Eden Joy, Caslib, Bernardo Jr., Serafica, Janice Patria & Pawilen, R.A. 2018.
Understanding The Self . 1st Ed. Manila, Philippines: Rex Book Store, 1st ed.
Brawner, D. and Arcega, A. 2018. Understanding the Self. 1st Ed. Manila, Philippines:
C & E Publishing, Inc.
Corpuz M. Ronald, Estoque S. Ronan, & Tabotabo, Claudio V. 2019. Understanding the
Self. 1st Ed. Manila, Philippines: C & E Publishing, Inc. 1st Ed.
Macayan, J.V. et al (2019). Understanding the Self (Outcome-Based Module). Quezon City:
C & E Publishing, Inc.:
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representation
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UNIT I: UNPACKING THE SELF
Lesson 3: Sociology
1 week or 3 hours
In the realm of sociology, the self interacts with the social world. Initially, the self
is self-absorbed and is just concerned with its own. Progressively, however, the self
expands and is now concerned with other constellations of selves, known as others.
Conceptually, with the introduction of others, sociology as a science comes to fore,
expanding the self in its contemporary setting and relating with other selves as well.
No one could live by himself or herself alone. By extension, man will always look for
someone to commune with. The human person is a social animal; he or she will always
seek others for commercial or personal reasons. These
reasons will always be equated with relationships.
Relationships and their scientific study will always be
correlated with sociology.
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Collage Making
Cut out pictures showing the influences of the different social institutions in the shaping of
one’s self and paste it below the box.
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Answer the following questions:
2. Explain the social influences by different social institutions that you have identified in
your collage.
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The Self as a Product of Society
Sociological perspective of the self is based on the assumption that human behavior
is influenced by group life. A particular view of oneself is formed through interactions with
other people, groups, or social institutions. This lesson draws on the principles and
concepts of well-known sociologists to foster student understanding of sociology and how
sociology impacts students' everyday lives, and provide a pathway to self-understanding of
"who you are" and "what you are" in contemporary society. For sociologist like Mead the
self does not depend on biological predispositions; rather, it is a product of social
interaction. The sense of self emerges as the individual partakes in the society.
Sociologist George Herbert Mead argued that the self is not biological but social.
Self is something that is developed through social interaction. The self is developed as one
grows and ages. He illustrated the development of self in the case of Genie, a girl who was
confined in a room until she reached the age of 13. She was found when she was already
13 years old; she did not know how to walk and speak. According to Mead, she had no
development of the self. Even though her body developed normally according to her age,
she had not developed her "self" because of her isolation from the world. Self, therefore, is
constructed by directly engaging in the world through interaction and through reflections
on those interactions.
Mead explained that self has two parts: (1) self-awareness and (2) self-image. He
proposed the idea that the self develops through social interaction; that social interaction
involves the exchange of symbols (i.e., language); and that understanding of symbols
involves being able to take the role of another. In order for interaction to prosper, each
person involved must correctly interpret the meanings of symbols and intentions of others.
It can only succeed by the existence of common symbols, but actually accomplished
through the process of role playing.
Role playing is the process in which one takes on the role of another by putting
oneself in the position of the person with whom he or she interacts. One's response to the
action of another comes after putting oneself in the position of another person. Through
role playing, the individual develops a concept of self. By putting oneself in the position of
others, one is able to reflect upon oneself. The idea of self can only be developed if the
individual can get outside in such a way that he or she can become an object to oneself.
To accomplish this, one must be conscious of oneself from the standpoint of others.
Therefore, the development of the concept of "self" lies in the ability to wear other
people's shoes."
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For Mead, self is not inborn. Babies cannot interpret the meaning of other people's
behavior. It is usually learned during childhood which comes in three stages of
development.
First is the preparatory stage (0-3 years old). Children imitate the people
around them, especially family members with whom they have daily interaction. Example,
a child imitates the behavior of his or her parents like sweeping the floor. But they copy
behavior without understanding underlying intentions, and so at this stage, they have no
sense of self. During this stage, children are just preparing for role-playing or role-taking.
Second is the play stage (3 to 5 years old). During the play stage, children start
to view themselves in relation to others as they learn to communicate through language
and other symbols. At this stage, role-playing is exhibited. It involves the child playing the
role of others. For example, the child may act as a teacher, carpenter, or soldier. In doing
these, he or she becomes aware that there is a difference between himself or herself and
the role that he or she is playing. However, children do not perceive role-playing as
something expected of them. The self emerges as children pretend to take the roles of
specific people or significant others, those individuals who are important agents of
socialization. At this stage, the self is developing.
Last is the game stage (begins in the early school years; about 8 or 9 years
old). Children understand not only their own social position but also those of others
around them. They come to see himself or herself from the perspective of other people. To
play the game, the child must be aware of his or her relationship to other people and place
himself or herself in their roles in order to appreciate his or her particular role in the game.
In doing this, he or she sees himself or herself in terms of the collective viewpoint of other
people and the attitude of generalized others. They become concerned about and take into
account in their behavior the generalized others which refer to the attitudes, viewpoints,
demands, and expectations of the society which include cultural norms and values that
serve as references in evaluating oneself. This is the time when remarks like "He is
brilliant," "She is creative," or "He is lazy" are formed. They can have a more sophisticated
look of people and an ability to respond to numerous members of the social environment.
During this stage, the self is now present.
For Mead, all humans experience internal conversation. This conversation involves
the “I” and “me”, which he called phases of self. For him, self is essentially a social process
going on between the “I” and “me”. The “I” is the phase of the self that is unsocialized and
spontaneous. It is the acting part of the self, an immediate response to other people. It
represents the self that is free and unique. It is the subjective part of the self. The “Me”,
on the contrary, is the self that results from the progressive stages of role playing or role-
taking and the perspective one assumes to view and analyze one's own behaviors. It is the
organization of the internalized attitude of others. It represents the conventional and
objective part of the self.
The “I” is the response of the organism to the attitude of others. The 'I' represents
the individual's identity based on response to the 'me‘, or the person’s individuality. It
allows the individual to still express creativity and individualism and understand when to
possibly bend and stretch the rules that govern social interactions. The 'I', therefore, can
be considered the present and future phase of the self.
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The “Me” is the organized set of attitudes of others which one assumes. It is the
socialized aspect of the individual. It represents learned behaviors, attitudes, and
expectations of others and society. It is developed through the knowledge of society and
social interactions that the individual has experienced. A phase of the self that is in the
past.
The full development of the self is attained when the "I" and the "me" are united.
Generalized Others
One of Mead's best known concepts is the generalized other. He described it as
an organized community or social group which gives to the individual his or her unity of
self. The attitude of the generalized other is the attitude of the entire community. For
example, a dance group, as a team, is the generalized other as long as it enters as an
organized process or social activity into the experience of any one of the members of the
group. When one takes the role of a member of the dance group, it can be said that one is
playing roles in groups. However, this sort of exchange is entirely different from the more
complex set of behaviors that require an individual to participate in the dance presentation.
With this, one is required to learn not only the responses of specific others, but also the
behaviors associated with every member of the stage. These can be internalized, and
when one succeeds in doing so, he or she comes to view his or her own behaviors from
the perspective of the dance presentation as a whole.
Agents of Socialization
The Family
Families introduce children to the expectations of society. Socialization is
different based on race, gender and class. Human persons learn the ways of living
and therefore their selfhood by being in a family. It is what a family initiates a
person to become that serves as the basis for this person’s progress. Babies
internalized ways and styles that they observe from their family. Internalizing
behavior may either be conscious or unconscious. Table manners or ways of
speaking to elders are things that are possible to teach and therefore, are
consciously learned by kids.
One is who he is because of his family for the most part.
The Media
The average young person (age 8–19) spends 6 3/4 hours per day
immersed in media in various forms, often using multiple media forms
simultaneously. Television is the dominant medium, although half of all youth use a
computer daily. Can you notice how children eventually become what they watch?
How children can easily adapt ways of cartoon characters they are exposed to.
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Peers
For children, peer culture is an important source of identity. Through
interaction with peers, children learn concepts of self, gain social skills, and form
values and attitudes.
Religion
Children tend to develop the same religious beliefs as their parents. Very
often those who disavow religion return to their original faith at some point in their
life, especially if they have strong ties to their family of origin and after they form
families of their own.
Schools
In school, teachers and other students are the source of expectations that
encourage children to think and behave in particular ways. Research finds that
teachers respond differently to boys than to girls, with boys receiving more of their
attention.
Describe how you are expected to behave and interact with other people in each of these
situations. You may consider the following factors: volume of your voice, dress code,
general behavior.
3. Attending a class
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Multiple Choice: Choose the letter of the correct answer. Write your answers before the
number of the test item.
1. It is the process in which one takes on the role of another by putting oneself in
the position of the person with whom he or she interacts.
A. projection B. role playing C. copying D. coaching
2. He proposed the theory of social self.
A. Carl Rogers B. William James
C. George Herbert Mead D. Charles Horton Cooley
3. During this stage, the self emerges as children pretend to take the roles of
specific people or significant others
A. game stage B. preparatory stage
C. imitation age D. play stage
4. It is considered the socialized aspect of the individual and represents learned
behaviors, attitudes, and expectations of others and of society.
A. “ME” self B. “I” self C. “WE” self D. “US” self
5. During this stage, there is no sense of self.
A. play B. game C. preparatory D. role-taking
Alata, E.J.P. et al (2018). Understanding the Self. : Quezon City: Rex Bookstore Inc.
Corpuz, R.M. et al (2019). Understanding the Self. Quezon City: C & E Publishing, Inc.
Macayan, J.V. et al (2019). Understanding the Self (Outcome-Based Module). Quezon City:
C & E Publishing, Inc.:
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UNIT I: UNPACKING THE SELF
Lesson 4: Anthropology
1 week or 3 hours
How we see ourselves shapes our lives, and is shaped by our cultural context. Self-
perceptions influence how we think about the world, our social relationships, health and
lifestyles choices, and another people’s well-being. Culture has such a great influence on
our lives and is contributing greatly to our self-concept. The influence might either be
negative or positive depending on the type of culture we have been brought up in. Culture
contributes a great deal in shaping our individual personality or the SELF.
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Let’s explore . . . . .
4. What significant learnings can you get from the cultural practices?
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Cultural Anthropology is the study of human culture and society. It is the study
of people – their origin, their development, and contemporary variations, wherever and
whenever those have been found (Ferraro, 2008).
Culture on the other hand refers to the major way in which human beings adapt
to their environment and give meaning to their lives. It includes human behavior and ideas
that are learned rather than genetically transmitted, as well as the material objects
produced by a group of people (Nanda and Warren, 2007).
How we see ourselves shapes our lives, and is shaped by our cultural context. Self-
perceptions influence how we think about the world, our social relationships, health and
lifestyles choices, and another people’s well-being. Culture has such a great influence on
our lives and is contributing greatly to our self-concept. The influence might either be
negative or positive depending on the type of culture we have been brought up in. Culture
contributes a great deal in shaping our individual personality or the SELF.
The impact of culture on the self is based on our cultural beliefs and values. It also
depends on the kind of education we receive or the kind of culture we are growing up into.
It is sometimes argued that the concepts of the self, the person, or the individual are
culturally variable because people are not always considered to be persons everywhere.
Culture is something shared that characterize a group collectively just like identity.
The Origins of Self explores the role that selfhood plays in defining human society,
and each human individual in that society. It considers the genetic and cultural origins of
self, the role that self plays in socialization and language, and the types of self we
generate in our individual journeys to and through adulthood.
Anthropology
- has explored various meanings of culture, self and identity to better understand the
self.
- holds a holistic view of human nature. It is considered with how cultural and
biological processes interact to shape the self.
Contemporary Anthropologist
Culture and self are complementary concepts that are to be understood in relation
to one another.
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Who am I?
What could be the answer to this question?
Martin Sokefeld
Culture and self thus become complementary concepts that
have to be understood in relation to one another.
In egocentric, the self is viewed as autonomous and distinct individual with inherent
characteristics.
- The identity toolbox refers to the “features of a person’s identity that he or she
chooses to emphasize in constructing a social self”.
- Family membership could be the most significant feature to determine the person’s
social identity.
- Another important identity determinant that is often viewed as essential for the
maintenance of a group identity is language.
- Changes in one’s identity usually involve rites of passage that prepares individuals
for new roles from one stage of life to another
Identity Struggle
There are some cases that an individual disagree on their respective identities.
Anthony Wallace and Raymond Fogelson named this case as
IDENTITY STRUGGLES
- is a discrepancy between the identity a person claims to possess and the
identity attributed to that person by others.
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Identity Crisis
this happens when values and moral principles of an individual become relatively
determined by politics or ideology
Cognitive Anthropology
Illusion of Wholeness
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The Self as Embedded in Culture
Image of Man
Cultural Differences exist when groups of people assign different meanings to different
life events and things. Therefore, the self is embedded/ attached in culture
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American Anthropologist Clifford Geertz in
“The Impact of the Concept of Culture on
the Concept of Man” states that “. . .
culture provides the link between what
men are intrinsically capable of becoming
and what they actually, one by one, in
fact become.”
Man acquires his knowledge, beliefs, morals, customs, and other habits and capacities
from his interactions with others in the society where he belongs.
We learn our cultural practices and traditions by listening, talking, and interacting with
other people.
As a child we learn appropriate behavior by observing and copying the behavior of
adults.
We express our feelings and make judgement of what is right or what is wrong based
on our interpretation of adults behavior.
This serves to guide our own behavior and perceptions throughout life.
Thus, our shared beliefs, values, memories, and expectations bind us together who
grow up in the same culture.
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Look at this text message. Do you think everybody can get or understand the message? If
this is the way you relay messages, does it follow correct grammar and structures that you
learn from your English subjects since elementary and high school?
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Make a reflection paper using the guide questions below.
1. How do you feel about the pictures that was presented above?
2. What is its main message to you? Support you answer.
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Alata, E. J., Caslib, B. Jr., Serafica, J. P. & Pawilen, R.A. (2018). Understanding the self
(1st ed.). Manila: Rex Book Store.
Aligada, G. & Trajeco, S. (2010). Introduction to sociology and anthropology: Text and
workbook. Quezon City: AMMS Publications.
Ariola, Mariano (2012). Sociology and anthropology with family planning. Intramuros,
Manila: Purely Book Trading and Publishing Corp.
Atienza, M.E., Rico, R., Arugay, A., Franco, J. & Quilala, D. (2016). Understanding culture,
society and politics. Quezon City: C & E Publishing, Inc.
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Inc.
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UNIT I: UNPACKING THE SELF
Lesson 5: The Self in Western & Oriental/Eastern
Thought
1 week or 3 hours
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Let’s read this . . . . .
Sherpa village is found at the mountains around Mt. Everest in Nepal. Six (6) Sherpa
children were observed on how they were able to learn to speak their own Sherpa
language and culture.
When Sherpa adults talk to children, they used commands at astronomical rates.
Sometimes, there were over 200 commands per hour. Often these commands came when the
child was already coming, washing, or eating. Then, when a 4 year old talked to a 2 year old
child, there was the same proportion of commands. What these commands, were really being
used for was to mark status, which is based on age in Sherpa society.
These children were learning language ........ but right from the start they’re also
learning the cultural patterns and expectations that go along with the language use.
Language and culture comes together. The language they’re learning is full of
information about their culture and some of the most important parts of the culture are about
how language should be used.
The better we understand how language is learned across culture, the better we can
interact with people from different backgrounds.
(“Language Development and Socialization in Sherpa” Ciesielski, Sara U. retrieved at https://www.phdcomics.com/tv)
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Based on where you live, do you agree or disagree with the traits associated with yourself
and the residents of your area of the country? Why or why not?
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Personality is shaped by both genetic and environmental factors. The culture in
which you live is one of the most important environmental factors that shapes your
personality. The term culture refers to all of the beliefs, customs, art, and traditions of a
particular society. Culture is transmitted to people through language as well as through the
modelling of culturally acceptable and nonacceptable behaviors that are either rewarded or
punished.
Different cultures and varying environment tends to create different perceptions of
the “self” and one of the most common distinctions between cultures and people is the
eastern vs. western dichotomy wherein eastern represents Asia and western represents
Europe and Northern America. Oftentimes we associate western thought with individualism
and eastern/oriental with collectivism.
Individualist cultures and collectivist cultures place emphasis on different basic
values. People who live in individualist cultures tend to believe that independence,
competition, and personal achievement are important. People who live in collectivist
cultures value social harmony, respectfulness, and group needs over individual needs.
These values influence personality. For example, people in individualist cultures displayed
more personally oriented personality traits, whereas people in collectivist cultures displayed
more socially oriented personality traits.
The Western Culture is what we would call an individualistic culture since their
focus is on the person. Asian culture, on the other hand, is called a collectivistic culture as
the group and social relations that is given more importance than individual needs and
wants.
Individualism Collectivism
• Individualist culture is a culture in • Collectivist culture is a culture in
which the goals of the individual which the goals of the group take
take precedence over the goals of precedence over the goals of the
the group.
individual.
It means that, members are responsible for It means that members are responsible for
themselves and, perhaps, their immediate
the group as a whole.
families.
Success is measured by how far one stands Success is measured by one’s contributions
out from the crowd. to the group as a whole.
Ex: self-made millionaires, Ex: loyalty to company or country,
employees of the month, standing out… specialized skills, fitting in…
• The “I” identity. • The “We” identity.
• The individual identifies primarily • Collectivist views the group as the
with self, with the needs of the primary entity, with the individuals
individual being satisfied before lost along the way.
those of the group. • The survival and success of the
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• The individual is acts and makes his group ensures the well-being of the
own choices, looks after and taking individual, so that by considering the
care of oneself and being self- needs and feelings of others, one
sufficient. protects oneself.
• Independence and self-reliance are • Harmony and the interdependence
greatly stressed and valued. of group members are stressed and
• In general, they tend to distance valued.
themselves psychologically and • It sees the group as the important
emotionally from each other. One element, and individuals are just
may choose to join groups, but members of the group. The group
group membership is not essential to has its own values somehow
one’s identity or success. different from those of the individual
• Individualistic doers are self-assured members.
and very independent people. They • Each person is encouraged to be an
are quiet and realistic, very rational, active player in society, to do what is
extremely matter of fact people. best for society as a whole rather
They strongly cultivate their than themselves.
individualism and enjoy applying • Rules promote unity, brotherhood,
their abilities to new tasks. But they and selflessness.
are also very spontaneous and • Working with others and cooperating
impulsive persons who like to follow is the norm; everyone supports each
their sudden inspirations. other.
• Individualistic people are susceptible collectivist people can have a strong
to loneliness fear of rejection.
• Individualism: Collectivism:
Individual autonomy; self-oriented; personal Group unity and harmony; group-oriented;
goals; unique and independent; individual group goals; conforming and
privacy; nuclear family; individual rewards interdependent; group belongingness;
(equity); competition extended family; equal distribution of
reward (equality); cooperation
Countries with generally Countries with generally collectivist
Individualistic culture are: culture are :
United States Italy China Malaysia
Australia Belgium Taiwan Egypt
United Kingdom Sweden India Cyprus
Canada Ireland Pakistan Ghana
Netherlands Norway Bangladesh Nepal
Hungary Switzerland Indonesia Argentina
New Zealand Germany Afghanistan Armenia
By valuing the individual, Westerners may seem to have loose associations or even
loyalty to their groups. Competition is the name of the game and they are more likely
straightforward and forceful in their communication as well as decision-making. Eastern or
oriental persons look after the welfare of their groups and values cooperation. They would
also be more compromising and they tend to go around the bush in explaining things,
hoping that the other person would “feel” what they really want to say ( Qinxue 2003 in
Alata et al. 2018).
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Westerners also emphasize more on the value of equality even if they see that the
individual can rise above everything else. Because everyone is on their own in the
competition, one can say that they also promote ideals that create “fair” competition and
protect the individual. Asians, with their collectivistic culture, put more emphasis on
hierarchy as the culture wants to keep things in harmony and order ( Qinxue 2003 in Alata
et al. 2018).
It must be emphasized, however, that these are general commonalities among
Western cultures as compared to Asian or Oriental cultures. In the case of the Philippines,
we can also consider the colonization experience for differences and similarities with our
Asian neighbours. We might also find variation among provinces and regions due to
geographical conditions.
With the social media, migration, and intermarriages, variety between the Western
and Asian perceptions may either be blurred or highlighted. Whereas conflict is inevitable
in diversity, peace is also possible through the understanding of where each of us is
coming from.
Create a representation, diagram, or concept map of the SELF according to where you
came from, starting from your maternal and paternal grandparents. Provide a brief
explanation of places, religion and culture where they came from in which the family used
it until now.
MY FAMILY
FATHER
MOTHER
Place of Place of
Birth Birth
Religio Religio
n n
YOU
Place of Birth
Religion
Beliefs
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1. Is your family considered as individualistic or collectivistic? Why?
3. What western or eastern culture would you like to adapt in your own self?
Alata, E.J.P. et al (2018). Understanding the Self. : Quezon City: Rex Bookstore Inc.
Brawner, D. and Arcega, A. 2018. “Understanding the Self” C & E Publishing, Inc.
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