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NEGOTIATION AND POWER IN DIALOGIC INTERACTION
AMSTERDAM STUDIES IN THE THEORY AND
HISTORY OF LINGUISTIC SCIENCE
General Editor
E. F. KONRAD KOERNER
(University of Ottawa)
Volume 214
Edited by
EDDA WEIGAND
University of Münster
MARCELO DASCAL
Tel Aviv University
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Foreword vii
Edda Weigand and Marcelo Dascal
P I
Negotiation, Mediation and Power
Reputation and refutation: Negotiating merit 3
Marcelo Dascal
The mediator as power broker 19
Bruce Fraser
“We are different than the Americans and the Japanese!”: A critical
discourse analysis of decision-making in European Union meetings
about employment policies 39
Ruth Wodak and Gilbert Weiss
Games of power 63
Edda Weigand
The grammar of bargaining 77
Franz Hundsnurscher
Negotiation in business meetings 91
Monika Dannerer
Interlocutionary scenarios as negotiation of diatextual power 107
Giuseppe Mininni
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P II
Means of Negotiation
Addresser, addressee and target: Negotiating roles through ironic
criticism 125
Elda Weizman
Negotiation of irony in dialogue 139
Andreea Ghita
A case of negotiation: The argumentative concession in Latin 149
Mirka Maraldi and Anna Orlandini
Silence as a tool for the negotiation of sense in multi-party
conversations 167
Michela Cortini
P III
Objects of Negotiation
The negotiation of affect in natural conversation 183
Martina Drescher
Implicit communication in political interviews: Negotiating the agenda 197
Gerda Lauerbach
Negotiation of topics in professional e-mail-communication 215
Annely Rothkegel
Negotiation and identity 225
Robert Maier
The negotiation of relevance 239
Frank Liedtke
Unspoken assertions: Values and the shape of discourse 253
Barbara A. Emmel
Negotiating social relationships: Fontane’s gossip: The rhetoric of
discreet indiscretion in L’Adultera 267
Ernest W.B. Hess-Lüttich
General index 289
List of contributors 293
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Marcelo Dascal
Tel Aviv University
1. Introduction
result of the objective value of the person’s work, or else the result of social
processes of public relations and, as such, irrelevant for the determination of
a person’s true merit. In this lecture, I will focus on the evaluation of
intellectual merit, and will argue that, de facto, merit is negotiated in a way
that includes both refutation and reputation, which are in fact the two
extremes of a continuum, rather than belonging to strictly separated catego-
rial domains. I will also argue that this is also how things should be de jure.
My lecture will be a variation on the three quotes above — each
representing insights that would deserve a fuller elaboration than I can
provide here.
Reputation and refutation — words that differ just by one phoneme. And
yet, they lead to quite distinct domains of meaning, to quite separate modes
of reality, to widely different orders of discourse. Whereas reputation is a
property attributed to the worker, it is his works that constitute the proper
object of refutation. Whereas the former denotes the appreciation of a person
by others, the latter denotes the appreciation of a thesis or theory by refer-
ence to the world or to the facts. Whereas the one refers to the public image
of someone, which may be produced by sheer advertising, the other is
concerned with verifying whether such an image corresponds to the truth.
Reputation feeds on subjective impressions and gossip, whereas for refutation
only the facts and solid arguments count. The former would thus belong to
the lowest kind of knowledge, the one Spinoza dubs ‘knowledge by hearsay’,
whereas the latter would belong to the highest, which he labels ‘scientia’.
The discursive ‘regime’ having at its focus reputation is oriented
primarily towards who says something and towards what is said of her. The
discursive ‘regime’ to which refutation belongs considers such factors as
‘external’ and without importance, for its main concern is the content of
what is said and its truth-value. The former regards saying; the latter, being;
the one pertains to intersubjectivity, the other, to objectivity; the one, to
appearance, the other, to reality; the one, to ‘ethos’, the other, to ‘logos’.
Logic textbooks anoint this categorial difference between the two
domains and the two notions. They posit that every argument that appeals to
the reputation — positive or negative — of a person holding a thesis is
REPUTATION AND REFUTATION 5
But is the separation between reputation and refutation, or between the two
conceptual spheres represented by these notions, as categorical and as neat
as we have depicted it so far? Do the relations between these two spheres in
fact reduce to the determination of the former by the latter, and to the total
exclusion of any influence in the opposite direction? Furthermore, should this
be the case, from a normative point of view?
In ordinary life, we observe in fact a mixture of these two spheres,
rather than a strict separation. In almost all our decisions, we rely upon
reputation — whether in the choice of a doctor, a carpenter, a teacher, or any
other expert. It is the recommendations of our friends, colleagues, clients, or
other experts that allow us to choose. In so far as we are not ourselves
experts in medicine or carpentry, we are not able to judge by ourselves the
‘objective’ value of those who are recommended to us. For the most part,
then, it is their reputation that guides our choice. We may think that those
who recommend these experts ground their judgment on a direct evaluation,
to which they are qualified by virtue of being themselves experts. However,
1. Popper (1968, 1969, 1972, and elsewhere) considers refutation to be a purely logical
operation that takes place in a World III, inhabited by ideas. The knowing subject, i.e., the
person that defends or refutes a theory, is entirely excluded from this world. Along with his
interests, efforts, achievements, failures, reputation, pain, and joy, he belongs to World II of
psycho-social realities, which has nothing to do, according to Popper, with the objectivity or
validity of scientific knowledge. For a critique of this position, see Dascal (1997).
REPUTATION AND REFUTATION 7
4. Negotiating merit
So, it is not the number of good reference letters in a file that counts, but
their ‘quality’ — measured by the standing or reputation of the recommend-
ers, by the first-hand familiarity they demonstrate with the candidate’s work,
by the strength of the support expressed (which should not, however, be so
strong as to disqualify the letter as ‘invited’ rather than ‘objective’), and so
on. The determination of this ‘quality’, as well as sometimes the pragmatic
interpretation of the reference letters, is no easy matter.
As a Dean, I have been a participant-observer in this ‘recommendations
game’. My skills as a pragmaticist have helped me in this job. So did my
acquaintance with traditional rhetoric, for some of these letters are true gems
of the epidictic genre. Some of them deserve indeed a place of honor in
pragmatic textbooks, next to Grice’s famous example of a recommendation
letter that flouts the maxim of relevance, thereby exploiting the full power of
conversational implicature. Imagine, for instance, a very supportive letter,
written by a scholar of worldwide reputation, who relies himself on his
reputation as conferring weight upon his evaluations, and who does not
hesitate to make use of this fact. Recommenders can appeal to their reputa-
tions more or less implicitly as in the example mentioned or in the case
(discussed by Roland Barthes) of the famous art critic that remarks I cannot
understand this painting at all! (but, Barthes asks, is it the fault of the
painting or of the critic?). It can also be done quite explicitly, as in reference
letters that contain sentences such as I am not really an expert in this field, but
(…) (an evaluation nevertheless follows) or I am familiar with recent work in
this area and this book is one of the best three books on the subject I have read
in the last ten years.
In the committees engaged in the process of academic evaluation, the
‘intrinsic merit’ of a candidate or a research project is thus in fact negotiated,
in the light of a meta-negotiation regarding the merit of referees, journals,
academic institutions, theoretical frameworks — and both negotiations are
influenced by both intra-academic and extra-academic ‘political’ consider-
ations. The aim, of course, is to achieve an ‘objective’ decision, based on as
REPUTATION AND REFUTATION 9
2. Bourdieu (1984a,b) shows, with abundant examples, how academic power is maintained and
transmitted by means of devices such as the formation of evaluation committees for prizes,
promotions, nominations, etc. These devices enhance and preserve the ‘symbolic capital’ (i.e.
the reputation) ‘owned’ by certain individuals.
10 MARCELO DASCAL
3. In Chapter X of his Leviathan, that bears the title “Of Power, Worth, Dignity, Honour, and
Worthiness”, Hobbes (1994) places reputation among the types of power he calls “instrumental”
(as opposed to “original” or “natural”). He defines the power of a person as his “present means
to obtain a future apparent good”. To rally around oneself a large number of persons in order
to obtain this future good is, therefore, to increase one’s power. It follows that “reputation of
power is power, because it dreweth with it the adherence of those that need protection”.
Likewise, a reputation for “popularity” (a word that refers, in this context, to patriotism), for
“prudence in the conduct of peace and war”, and for having whatever quality that “maketh a
man beloved or feared of many”. Knowledge or science, on the other hand, “are small power,
because … science is of that nature, as none can under-stand it to be, but such as in a good
measure have attained it”. Still, in academic politics at least, a scientific reputation can yield
quite a lot of power.
REPUTATION AND REFUTATION 11
4. Walton (1998) shows that, in many cases, ad hominem arguments are not fallacious, provided
they are evaluated in the context where they are employed and taking into account their aims.
In general, an argument of this kind addresses a person’s credibility. Since credibility has a non
negligible weight in the acceptance of an allegation, of a testimony, or of an argument, its
critical examination through ad hominem arguments is often pertinent for the decision whether
to accept the person’s testimony or not. See also Walton (1997) and Dascal (1999).
14 MARCELO DASCAL
– On the other hand, reputation imposes upon the one who has it an
increased responsibility. The public’s presumption that her reputation
has a weight or value in the evaluation of her work must be internalized
as serious auto-criticism, which justifies that presumption.
– This epistemological-ethical notion of ‘intellectual honesty’, along with
the metaphysical idea my work is me, justify in turn the need to protect
reputations, giving rise to a legitimate ‘politeness of reputation and
refutation’.
– The principles above cannot be translated into an algorithm. They
require the case-by-case, context-by-context weighing of non-quantif-
iable reasons through the exercise of judgment.
The principles here sketched are closer to those one can discern in Montes-
quieu than to those that inspire Hillel the Sage or Popper. Hillel, like Popper,
stresses the absolute priority of the work’s value over any other concern,
including the respect and preservation of the author’s reputation. They thus
recommend unconditional obedience to the first principle in our list. For Hillel,
one must perform one’s work having in mind only its intrinsic value, without
caring at all for one’s reputation. Reputation ensues “naturally” from the value
of one’s works. Any effort to maintain a reputation introduces necessarily an
element that is alien to the value of the work, resulting in a reduction of that
value and, ultimately, in the destruction of the reputation one wanted to
preserve or increase. As soon as someone worries about the effect his work
will have upon his reputation, he becomes the servant of two opposed
masters, a sure recipe for the ruin of any reputation he might justly deserve.
Montesquieu, in turn, can be interpreted as acknowledging some value
to a reputation acquired thanks to the value of one’s work.5 The reputation’s
value shouldn’t be ignored: among other things, it impinges on the value of
5. Montesquieu’s observation depicts a sort of mathematical function that governs the relation-
ship between one’s achievements and one’s reputation in the course of one’s career. I have
used this quotation as a motto of a study of the 17th century controversy between Arnauld and
Malebranche on the nature of ideas (Dascal 1990). For Malebranche, debate was a battle of
reputations, rather than a way to clarify which of two opposed theories was true. He points out,
in summarizing the controversy in question, that, whereas at its beginning the reputation of the
“grand Arnauld” made the scales lean towards the latter, as his own reputation grew (partly due
to his courageous resistance to Arnauld’s criticism), he managed to neutralize the effect of
Arnauld’s reputation, and finally to win the debate (according to him). Malebranche thus was
fully aware of the existence of “Montesquieu’s law”, and even tried to take advantage of it.
16 MARCELO DASCAL
the author’s ensuing works. The principles above, except for the first,
attempt to express and explain the value assigned to reputation. Reputation,
due to its social influence, carries a greater responsibility toward any work
one produces. The internalization of such a responsibility — i.e., one’s
awareness of one’s reputation — does not divert one from the task of
producing the best work one is capable of. On the contrary, it contributes to
the achievement of such a task. If sometimes auto-criticism prevents us from
publishing some work, it is certainly for the best.
7. Concluding remarks
References
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d’Autruy”. Proceedings of the VI. Internationaler Leibniz-Kongress, Hannover, vol.
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Bruce Fraser
Boston University
There once was a poor devout man, his old blind mother, and his barren wife.
After many years of prayer, God inquired of him what one thing he truly
desired. He went home to discuss the matter with his mother and his wife.
They could not agree on a single request: his mother wanted her sight back;
his wife wanted a son; and he wanted a job so he could support his family.
The poor man left the house and consulted with a mediator, telling him of
his dilemma: “My mother wants eyesight, my wife wants a son, and I, I would
like a bit of money so we can eat everyday. What shall I ask? Whose needs
come first?”
The mediator thought for a moment, then he answered: “You must not
choose for any one of your family alone, but for the good of all. Say, ‘Oh
Lord, I ask nothing for myself; my wife asks nothing for herself; but my
mother is blind, and her desire is, before she dies, to see her grandson eating
milk and rice from a golden bowl’.”
(Adapted from the folk tale: Wisdom of the Mediator — Trinidad)
1. Introduction
I will be concerned in this paper with how language is used in the exercise
of power by mediators in performing their work as neutrals. The paper
should be viewed as a work in discourse analysis, where the emphasis is on
a conceptual rather than a linguistic analysis; that is, I am looking at the
sorts of things a mediator does with language in pursuing a settlement
between disputing parties.
This type of paper is particularly appropriate at this time. Mediation,
while certainly not new, is poorly understood, although it is being pushed
from many quarters as a means of resolving disputes that heretofore were
20 BRUCE FRASER
There are three major approaches to conflict resolution. The first, the non-
settlement approach, consists of ways for simply ending the dispute, perhaps
only temporarily. Here we find several tactics: one party choosing to take
what the other offers, to ‘lump it’, and move forward (e.g., a landlord
accepting a sum much less than the damage to his apartment rather than go
to court and fight a long battle); one party opting to avoid the confrontation
(e.g., staying in the library studying rather than going to your room and
arguing with your roommate about who gets to use the only easy chair); one
party selecting a tactic that will postpone the dispute until a more propitious
time (e.g., a father telling his son that they will discuss whether he should be
permitted to attend a party that would bring him home very late in the
morning when they both have had a chance to sleep on it); or some combi-
nation of these. Indeed, in some disputes, particularly where the parties know
one another quite well, it is often preferable to just let the dispute rest,
undiscussed, until it dies of natural causes or is of only marginal importance.
1. I am specifically not addressing here topics such as the difference between powerful and
powerless language, how mediator power distributes across gender or race, the function of
mediation as an empowering tool for the disenfranchised, or the potential ethical dilemma of
a mediator in the face of a power imbalance.
2. Note that I am using conflict and dispute interchangeably and resolution, management and
settlement interchangeably although there are some who would make distinctions between the terms.
THE MEDIATOR AS POWER BROKER 21
decision maker.3 Since my interest here is mediation, let us now turn there.
3. Mediation
3. There are many texts on the various types of dispute resolution processes. For a good
concise presentation, see Goldberg et al. (1985).
THE MEDIATOR AS POWER BROKER 23
4. I will not consider disputes which involve criminal issues, although these are often resolved
by negotiation or mediation through plea bargaining.
24 BRUCE FRASER
rules by which the mediation session will proceed (e.g., joint sessions
followed by caucus with each of the parties, followed by joint session,
followed by other caucuses, etc.), and rules of confidentiality that surround
the mediation (e.g., mediators pledge not to divulge what a party says to
them in a caucus when the other side is not present, and all pledge to say
nothing about what occurs to anyone, unless this is agreed to by all parties
ahead of time).5
Mediators are typically trained neutrals, knowledgeable but not neces-
sarily expert in the facts of the dispute. It has been said that a successful
mediator is part investigator, part therapist, part entertainer, part inventor,
and part salesperson.6 While mediators do not have the power to impose a
settlement on the parties, since it is the stakeholders who ultimately decide
upon the details of a settlement if one occurs, they do have considerable
power to ‘encourage’ the parties to settle. The test of a successful mediation is
the mutual, informed satisfaction of the parties, whatever that turns out to be.7
There are several styles of mediation (and negotiation, as well) that a party
can adopt, the one selected being dependent on the disputant’s personality,
interests, relative power.8 Suffice it to say that in a given mediation, no one
operates from one approach only. At one extreme, there is the confronta-
tional (win or else) style, whereby one party states their position at the outset
and expects the other to acquiesce without much protest. This is analogous
to the schoolyard bully coercing candy from a classmate. Such negotiations are
usually short lived, once the powerless party sees the handwriting on the wall.
5. There may be several joint meetings and many caucuses in a given mediation. The purpose
of the caucus is to permit the mediator to talk candidly with each party without the other
overhearing.
6. Although there are some states and some forums which require training and credential-
ization to serve as a mediator, this is the exception rather than the rule although this is
changing. Essentially, a person is a mediator if the disputing parties find him/her acceptable to
serve as their mediator.
7. There is an ethical question surrounding an outcome which seems to unfairly favor one
party at the expense of the other. While I do not have time to address this issue, I think most
mediators take the position that as long as both parties are fully aware of the settlement and its
implications, they have fulfilled their responsibility.
8. I hasten to point out that there is no theory of mediation (or for that matter, of negotiation),
just a set of practices which are more of less successful as a function of the particular
mediation: the issues in dispute, the parties, and the skill of the mediator.
THE MEDIATOR AS POWER BROKER 25
4. Mediation power
Let us now turn to power, which I will define as the capacity of one party to
produce an intended effect on another.9 In every mediation there are at least
three parties, the two disputing parties and the mediator, and there are two
types of power: that possessed by the parties relative to each other and that
possessed by the mediator relative to the parties.10 As we will see below,
they are partially but not completely overlapping.
A party’s power should be thought of not as an absolute value, but as
relative to the others involved, it is not fixed, it is not static, but is subject to
change as the mediation progresses. Moreover, for potential power to be
effective, the other party must be aware of it: a party must make their power
manifest and show that they are ready to exercise it. Someone who is a black
9. See Fisher (1991), Fisher & Ury (1981), and Mastrofski (1992) form some views on power
in dispute resolution.
10. I am not considering the linguistic manifestation of power, for example, treated in Brown
& Levinson (1987) and Thomas (1985).
26 BRUCE FRASER
belt in karate but who keeps this a secret has no physical power over a Mr.
Milktoast, who is not aware of the other’s relative physical power.
Let us consider the sources of power in mediation which the disputing
parties may possess and may decide to use in an effort to persuade the other
to yield on a point. There are three distinct sources of power that the parties
can rely on. The first is personal power: power conferred by age (especially
in Asian countries), power conferred by a higher social status, expertise in
the relevant content areas, and financial resources. Additional power comes
from having skill in those aspects of language use crucial to negotiating such
as listening ability and articulateness as well as proficiency in logical
analysis, control of emotions, and creativity in problem-solving, and the
power that is derived from knowing the other party’s biases, values, habits,
and hopes as well as the power that comes from a good rapport with the
other side, where there is a solid basis of trust.
The second source is positional power: power derived from the institu-
tional or peer-determined authority invested in one party but not the other, or
the power stemming from being morally correct in the position taken, or of
having the law, practice, tradition, or ritual on your side. Other aspects of
positional power include having the responsibility to obtain some result,
thereby having the ability to draw on resources, and power which arises from
indifference to the outcome of the issue, thereby being able to influence the
other party if they do care about the final result.
The third power source is potential power: power of one party to inflict
damage or injury to the other party. This power arises where one party is
aware of a piece of non-public but embarrassing information about the other,
where one party has strong relevant connections outside of the mediation
which can be drawn upon for support, or where one party is willing to take
a reasonable position and not budge or is willing to take risks or incur costs
not agreeable to the other side.
The power one disputing party holds over another is primarily a
function of who they are and what resources they came to the mediation
with. In contrast, a mediator’s power over the parties is more a function of
their role as mediator. Whereas a party’s power is typically seen as the
ability to influence the other on a specific point (e.g., take a reduced price
because the other side had been convincing that there are serious defects in
the current product), the mediator’s power is the power to control the
process. Mediators do not just take proposals and shuttle back and forth
THE MEDIATOR AS POWER BROKER 27
between the parties, but play a very active role wielding their power as they
see fit to guide the parties through the process to a settlement.
Since the parties have selected this specific mediator to assist them, they
essentially have subjugated themselves to whatever process is imposed on
them. By virtue of the confidence invested in the process, the mediator is
given the authority to establish the ground rules which govern the mediation
session, to determine when someone violates a rule, and to impose a sanc-
tion. The mediator is given the right to decide when the session is over,
whether the parties have been successful or not, to decide when the parties
should caucus and when they should meet in joint session, to decide what
the topic of discussion should be and who should do the talking. And the
mediator has been given the power to call into question a party’s assessment
of the situation. Effectively, the parties have given to the mediator the power
to threaten and coerce them, subject only to their getting up and leaving the
mediation session. But leaving a mediation session under protest is unlikely,
since they are there in mediation because the alternatives are, for one reason
or another, less desirable.
What forms does this exercise of mediator power take? Let us examine
some examples.11 In one instance, a meeting was called between Rosemary
and Ellen, two co-workers who had found that they were unable to work
together any more, and their supervisor, who assumed the role of mediator.
The supervisor starts out by establishing the ground rules for the discussion
and effectively persuades them to engage in mediation.
(1) Rosemary: We finally agreed on something and what we agreed on is
we don’t want to work together.
Ellen: We don’t need to talk about this. We’re just letting you know
that it’s over with this team.
Supervisor: Rosemary I need to talk about it. I value both of you tre-
mendously and I need you both in my department and I need you both
working for me and if you’d bear me out I’d really appreciate it, if you
let me hear the whole situation, well tell me a little bit about what’s
going on. Ok folks. I really want you to bear with me. I really would
11. The examples which follow have been taken from video-taped mediations, scripted and
unscripted, and from my own mediation practice. They have, however, been edited and
sometimes simplified for the sake of exposition.
28 BRUCE FRASER
like to talk to you both, hear what the situation is and then talk to you
together again. Ellen, can I talk to Rosemary for a few seconds?
(After conversations with both, they return for a joint meeting.)
Supervisor: Well I heard you both and what you perceive to be the
issues. I’d like to see if we can resolve them before they get any more
serious. Would you agree to do that?
Rosemary: I’ll agree to listen.
Supervisor: Ok.
Ellen: Yeah. I’ll agree to that much.
Supervisor: And will you listen to where Ellen is coming from and hear
it in a in a way that is open? What I will ask you to do is not interrupt
each other and allow her to do it in a way so that she can really hear
what you are saying.
Rosemary: That will be a challenge.
Ellen: Ok. Well lets try it.
Closely related is the need to keep the parties on task, to keep them focusing
on the issues before them and not some peripheral points that may need
working out, but at some later time. Again, the mediator can exert his power
by gently ‘scolding’ the errant party. For example, in a divorce mediation
where the husband and wife were squabbling over the last issue, Where their
only child was going to live?, and the wife was complaining that her
husband was not involved with their daughter’s care:
(2) Wife: All you have to do is ask him how much insulin she has to
take. How it’s given to her. How often. What kind of food she has to
eat. He doesn’t know any of those things. He has no idea of any of
those things. He hasn’t taken an interest in her medical condition at
all. It’s been five years since she got diabetes.
Husband: You’re exaggerating a little, aren’t you Karen?
Wife: Exaggerating? Like hell I am! Do you even know what she is
suffering from? Do you know the long-term effects of her disease?
Do you? You didn’t …
Mediator (interrupting): Slow down. We’re not running medical tests
here. I’m just trying to help you figure out how you can make your
move to your new home that meets your career needs and Tom’s
fathering needs. Let’s start back at the beginning and you, Karen, tell
us what you feel would be a fair arrangement, not what you ideally
want, but what you think would be fair.
THE MEDIATOR AS POWER BROKER 29
With several more of the “Let’s return to the task at hand” admonitions, the
parties were able to work out an arrangement that was not ideal for either of
them but was satisfactory. A similar exchange resulted in “mediator” interced-
ing to restore order occurred in the mediation between Rosemary and Ellen:
(3) Rosemary: I don’t work until 9 or 10 or 11 every night like you. It’s
not in my contract. I have a life, unlike you. You’re an alcoholic, I
mean workaholic.
Ellen: Where do you get off saying that. I don’t work till 9:00, 10:00,
11:00 every night either, Rosemary!
Mediator: Hold on Ellen. Ellen, Ellen if you would, please, please
don’t interrupt. Let Rosemary finish telling her perception of the situa-
tion. Please let her continue.
It is sometimes the case that after several hours of mediating, one or both
parties may need some “encouragement” to remain and continue with the
process. For example, after several hours of a highly charged mediation
session, both the School Board and the Teacher’s Union would not move an
inch on their positions on salary. The Board was offering a 3% increase in
wages for each of two years, and the teachers were holding firm at 3¼%.
The mediator brought the parties together.
(4) Mediator: Well, I’ve tried every way I know how to convince one of
you to move or to find some compromise, but neither of you has
budged. Pursuant to our ground rules which provided I could go pub-
lic with the mediation progress at my discretion, I am now considering
going to the public, to the news media, to report the lack of progress.
I will have to tell them that negotiations have broken down over
$2,600, the cost of ¼% difference per year. I will explain that in spite
of the sizable School Department surplus arising from reduced Health
Insurance costs, and in spite of the Union’s willingness to give up the
dental plan, which costs the Board $4,200 per year, the School Board
refuses to move.
The parties went back to their respective rooms, discussed the situation, and
agreed to meet the next week after they had consulted with their constituents.
In a divorce mediation which had lasted several sessions, the mediator,
sensing a crisis point, said:
30 BRUCE FRASER
(5) Mediator: People, you came in here to try to mediate a divorce settle-
ment rather than go to court for a trial which is scheduled tomorrow,
with lawyers, witnesses and a drawn-out process. The whole nine
yards. I let you vent at the outset, even tolerated some name-calling in
an effort to let you get off steam before we got down to business.
And we have made some limited progress. But you have taken no
constructive steps towards an agreement for the last two hours. You
seem content to bicker, have me interrupt you, and in spite of my
advice, begin bickering again. Even when I caucused separately with
you, I heard nothing but vituperation.
So here’s what I’m going to do. We’re going to start with the
custody issue and we’re going to discuss the interests of you, Martha,
and those of you Harry. And if I hear any comments off-topic, any
name-calling, any snide remarks, the mediation is over. And, I will
report to the judge tomorrow morning before the trial why there was
so little progress.
Now, are you willing to try again?
Another use of power is to emphasize to a party that the responsibility is
theirs and if they will not accept it, the mediator does not feel the necessity
to continue with the mediation efforts. In the following excerpt, during a
caucus, Johnson clearly enjoyed power of resources over Roberts:
(6) Mediator: Come on Mr. Johnson, you’ve got to engage in this process,
not just sit there and wait for the settlement to come to you. There has
to be some movement on your part. It can’t be all one way. You’ve
got to reach each other. You just can’t sit there and say, I want it all.
… You’ve got to help us resolve this.
Johnson: The hell I have to move. I can sit here for as long as I want
and finally Roberts will come to me. Just wait and see. I know I’m right.
Mediator: You may be right, Mr. Johnson, but with that attitude and your
failure to assume your due responsibility, we’re not going to get any-
where. I’m going to resign. I’m going to tell Smith that your attitude
was such that I don’t believe continued mediation will be profitable.
The reality check, usually done in a caucus rather than in a joint session, is
another means of the mediator exercising power. In the following example,
the president of a high tech company involved in mediating a contract
dispute with a distributor was getting impatient and, in spite of the advice of
counsel, expressed himself to the mediator as follows:
THE MEDIATOR AS POWER BROKER 31
(7) President: I’m sick and tired of their stalling around. What do they
want? Do they want us to give in completely? Hell, I think we ought
to go home and let the whole thing play out as it will. I’m sick of
this. Mediation just isn’t the way to go for us.
The mediator responded:
Mediator: That might very well be the best suggestion. Go home, take
some time to think over your position, and then go to court. It often is
the best way, especially when you don’t think you can make any more
progress through mediation. By the way, have you considered the
legal costs of going to court?
Thereafter the attorney, the president, and the mediator talked about the high
cost of litigation which would include a delay while discovery occurred, a
three week trial, adverse publicity, and the cost of about $100,000. The
president, hearing that, decided to continue with the mediation.
A mediator is frequently asked by one or both of the parties to give his
professional opinion about the outcome of the issues in dispute. This is, of
course, more important where there are, for example, legal arguments which
could play a role in subsequent court adjudication than for mediation over a
salary increase for a bargaining unit. In one case involving a breach of
contract issue, the mediator was requested privately by one party, A, to give
his professional opinion on how the dispute would come out if it were to go
to court. The mediator did so, and the opinion favored A over B, whereupon
A, sensing victory, wanted to increase its demand. The mediator refused to
permit A to do this, suggesting that such a move was not appropriate, that A
was misusing the information, and the whole deal would collapse if A took
such steps. Again, the mediator exercised control over the parties.
Another way the mediator can exercise his power of being experienced
with the issues involves reducing the expectations of one side. In the example
below, the Company and the Union were mediating a pending discharge of
an alcoholic in hopes that an accommodation could be reached.12 The
Company was adamant that the discharge stand, while the Union, convinced
that the discharged employee had reformed, wanted her reinstated. In this
12. This was done in grievance mediation, where a dispute headed for arbitration is subjected
to a mediator for one last effort as finding a mutually agreement settlement.
32 BRUCE FRASER
case, the Union had far higher expectations for instatement than were
warranted, given her DWI conviction and habitual insobriety, but they were
not seeing the reality. In caucus, the following interchange occurred:
(8) Union Representative: Look. We’ve got a good case for taking her
back to work immediately. She was an outstanding worker until she
starting drinking, she had numerous awards for efficiency and produc-
tivity, and she has no other discipline on her record. What’s more, she
is now sober and has been for some time.
Mediator: How long has she been sober? Completely without drinking?
Union Representative (to grievant): How long have you been without
a drink?
Grievant: 5 or 6 days.
Mediator: And are you going to AA? Getting other help to stay sober?
Grievant: I go to AA once in a while, maybe once a week. When I
have time.
Mediator (to Union, voice rising): And you want the company to take
her back after being absent 67 days and drunk most of the time. You
expect the company to reinstate her when she’s been sober a mere 6
days and isn’t getting any systematic and consistent help? Would you
take her back under these conditions?
The Union then went into caucus and subsequently proposed a long period
of sobriety prior to the Company taking her back, to which the Company
immediately agreed.
There are times when the mediator uses the power associated with the
position to assume the role of therapist, drawing out a party on the details of
an issue where they otherwise might remain silent. In the following ex-
change, the story was told, but would probably have been left had the
mediator not prodded.
(9) Distraught Woman: It creates a lot of tension for me. My life is prob-
lematical right at this moment and this is just one additional burden
that I don’t think I need to need to have. It’s ridiculous.
Mediator: Could you say a little more about that?
Distraught Woman: About what?
Facilitator: How your life is problematical what other conflicts you have.
On the other hand, there are times when the mediator feels the need to take
his/her own initiative to investigate the circumstances lying behind an issue,
THE MEDIATOR AS POWER BROKER 33
interests, for example, Put aside the question of right and wrong for a little
while, let’s talk about what you really want to get out of this, or placing the
sticking point to the background and focusing on what may be the basis of
a settlement, for example, Let us put this issue of preventable accident aside
and see if we can get a resolution without considering this factual question.
Sometimes the role of the mediators is not to deal with the substantive
matters surrounding the dispute but rather to deal with one or both of the
parties in a sensitive, sympathetic way. For example:
(11) Mediator: Ok. What does your current work day look like?
Dan: Right now?
Mediator: Yeah.
Dan: I’m starting at 2:00 am and often times I’m getting out at four in
the afternoon.
Russ: I’m there at 6:00 am and often not home till seven or eight at
night.
Dan: Right. But within your work day is a is a business lunch, there’s
a couple of hours on the golf course followed by beers and dinner.
Mediator: Isn’t it time for you guys to begin to think about how you
might organize your business so that you enjoy life a little bit more?
And, at times, the mediator, if he has a good rapport with a party, may appeal
to their relationship in order to convince the party to convince them to take
an unwanted step. This occurred on Day 11 in the Camp David meeting
between Israeli Prime Minister Begin and President Sadat of Egypt, and
President Carter. That morning, Carter received news that Sadat had ordered
a helicopter to take him from Camp David. As Carter recalled, “It was a
terrible moment. Now, even my hopes for a harmonious departure were
gone”. He sought out Sadat, argued strongly against his leaving, reporting
that “I told Sadat that he simply had to stick with me for another day or two
— after which, if circumstances did not improve, all of us simultaneously
would take the action he was now planning”. Sadat relented after hearing
Carter promise that he would not try to push for anything less than a full
agreement, all terms of which must be implemented to consider the other
parts valid. Sadat then told Carter, “I will stick with you to the end” (Schel-
lenberg 1996: 180). The Camp David accords were finalized shortly thereafter.
Related is when the mediator uses the trust between the parties and
himself to explore the details of a trade-off but without a risk to either party.
THE MEDIATOR AS POWER BROKER 35
For example, it often starts out like this: I have an idea. What do you think?
or If they did X, could you do Y? This is the core of much mediation deal-
making. But while ostensibly it reveals nothing about the opponent’s
confidential position, in fact it is fraught with implications starting with the
reasonable presumption that the mediator is not there to waste time, and
therefore not only that Y is seen as important by the other side and that X
may now be on the table for the first time as a real possibility, but that by
implication, Z may be less firmly desired by the opposing party than had
been thought.
Power used to influence more than control may occur when the mediator
is privy to information from one side and has been granted the authority
from that side to use it in pursuit of a settlement. An example of this
occurred during the mediation of the contract dispute discussed earlier
between Vision, the high tech company and Servo, its distributor in Chile.
The company manufactured computer peripherals and the contract with Servo
had expired and Vision was trying to convince the distributor to buy 10%
more units over the next two years in a follow on contract. It privately
acknowledged to the Mediator that although it had initially bargained to have
its own product distribution rights in Chile as well as selling its product to
distributors there, it now found it could not implement the distribution rights
and they were of no value to Vision. However, they didn’t want the Media-
tor to volunteer this fact to Servo. Later in a mediation caucus with Servo
representatives, the following dialogue occurred:
(12) Mediator: You have stated all along that you wanted sole distribution
rights in Chile, right?
Servo Representative: Correct. We want only us to distribute Vision
products in Chile. It’s the only way we can make a profit. Don’t you
see?
Mediator: I understand, I think. Well, what if I could get Vision Tech
to relinquish its right to distribute in Chile. Would you agree to pur-
chase 10% more units in each of the two years?
(Servo Conference)
Servo Representative: No, we can’t afford to buy that many in this
economy. But we can agree to buy 5% outright and 5% on consignment.
And there are times when the mediator will state that he is bringing in a
third party, an expert, whose knowledge or expertise on an issue should
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5. Conclusion
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The European Union (EU) consists of 15 member states with very different
cultural backgrounds and histories and national identities. Nevertheless, the
EU has to achieve consensus, inspite of all these factors, lobbying, interest
groups and political ideologies of the parties involved. The EU is in search
of a new identity which transpasses the national boundaries. In our paper, we
would like to trace and reconstruct the process from conflict to consensus in
the writing of a policy paper on new European employment policies which
should be different from the employment policies up to now but also
different from those in the USA and Japan. Let us look at one of the
sequences in a taperecorded meeting of the Competitiveness Advisory Group
which demonstrates how the delegates from different member states brain-
storm on Europe’s positive characteristics.
(1) M3: Dans les points forts, Président, d’abord l’effort d’ajustement
structurelle de beaucoup d’entreprises, avec la recherche d’économie
d’échelle et les fusions, les regroupements, le redressement de la
rentabilité de beaucoup de sociétés, un climat social finalement les
40 RUTH WODAK AND GILBERT WEISS
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