Personal Development EsP PD11-12KO Ia 1.1 EsP PD11-12KO Ia 1.2 Pascual JR., Bayani L.
Personal Development EsP PD11-12KO Ia 1.1 EsP PD11-12KO Ia 1.2 Pascual JR., Bayani L.
12 Personal Development
Quarter 1
Knowing Oneself: Strengths, Limitations, and
Dealing with Others / Individual Unique
Characteristics, Habits, and Experiences
EsP_PD11/12KO_Ia_1.1/ EsP_PD11/12KO_Ia_1.2
Personal Development - Grade 12
Quarter 1 – Module 1:
Explain that Knowing Oneself Can Make a Person Accept His/Her Strengths and
Limitations and Dealing with Others /
Share His/Her Unique Characteristics, Habits and Experiences
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Quarter 1
Explain that Knowing Oneself Can Make a
Person Accept His/Her Strengths, Limitations,
and Dealing with Others
EsP_PD11/12KO_Ia_1.1
This module was collaboratively designed, developed and reviewed by educators from public
institutions to assist you, the teacher or facilitator, in helping the learners meet the standards
set by the K to 12 Curriculum while overcoming their personal, social, and economic
constraints in schooling.
This learning resource hopes to engage the learners into guided and independent learning
activities at their own pace and time. Furthermore, this also aims to help learners acquire the
needed 21st century skills while taking into consideration their needs and circumstances.
In addition to the material in the main text, you will also see this box in the body of the
module:
As a facilitator, you are expected to orient the learners on how to use this module. You also
need to keep track of the learners’ progress while allowing them to manage their own learning.
Furthermore, you are expected to encourage and assist the learners as they do the tasks
included in the module.
This module was designed to provide you with fun and meaningful opportunities for guided
and independent learning at your own pace and time. You will be enabled to process the
contents of the learning resource while being an active learner.
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This module has the following parts and corresponding icons:
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The following are some reminders in using this module:
1. Use the module with care. Do not put unnecessary mark/s on any part of the
module. Use a separate sheet of paper in answering the exercises.
2. Don’t forget to answer What I Know before moving on to the other activities
included in the module.
3. Read the instruction carefully before doing each task.
4. Observe honesty and integrity in doing the tasks and checking your answers.
5. Finish the task at hand before proceeding to the next.
6. Return this module to your teacher/facilitator once you are through with it.
If you encounter any difficulty in answering the tasks in this module, do not hesitate to
consult your teacher or facilitator. Always bear in mind that you are not alone.
We hope that through this material, you will experience meaningful learning and gain deep
understanding of the relevant competencies. You can do it!
This module provides varied activities that will help you learn about knowing oneself
can make a person accept his/her strengths and limitations and dealing with others /
share his/her unique characteristics, habits and experiences.
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What I Know
Directions: Write your answer on the space provided before the number. Choose from the
power book below.
Power Book
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Check it Out!
____________________ 11. People under this personality are adventurous. They're curious
and appreciate art, imagination and new things. The motto of the open individual might be
"Variety is the spice of life."
____________________ 12. People under this type are organized and have a strong sense
of duty. They're dependable, disciplined and achievement-focused.
____________________ 13. This type of personality is chatty, sociable and draw energy
from crowds. They tend to be assertive and cheerful in their social interactions.
____________________ 14. This measures the extent of a person's warmth and kindness
and more likely they are to be trusting, helpful and compassionate.
____________________ 15. This type of personality worries about everything, like obsesses
over germs and disease.
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What’s In
Why is it important to know who you really are? It has been said that knowing yourself
is not to discover who you really are. It is not just about discovering yourself as a human being.
But rather, knowing yourself is a journey that every person must experience. We set our
purpose in our everyday journey. Without a purpose, we are like lost in space and wandering
around without reasons. Knowing yourself means discovering your strengths and
weaknesses. It is about knowing your passions and fears, your desires and dreams, your
thoughts and feelings, your likes and dislikes, your tolerances and limitations.
Our personality matters as it may be linked in reaching our destination. We have traits
and unique characteristics that is consistent to our individuality and behavior.
By knowing all this things, makes yourself determined to keep going with your life even
if when you are tired, helpless and abandoned. Are you now ready to know yourself?
Knowing Yourself!
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WORD SEARCH PUZZLE!
Directions: Find the words in the word search puzzle below. Draw a line to connect the
following words:
WEAKNESSES JOURNEY
A D F A E R T Y U N U H
S F R S E R U Y B E R A
B E X P E R I E N C E T
A E G T M N Z X I O Y B
D L Q U T H O U G H T S
C I D R Y U R W E R I Q
B N E F U M F H I T U T
P G S T V A D F G H O R
A S T R E N G T H S R G
S R I S G H J K E W Y B
S T N R D R E A M S U N
I Y A T A S H R W J B M
O M T G Y U H E T O N T
N N I G T O T D R U M M
S M O B E P G C R R N N
Y T N V A L M N E N O E
E W E A K N E S S E S F
B I U Y Q W R E D Y D T
What’s New
Directions: Picture Analysis. Examine these different pictures. Which of these pictures
represent your personality?
SALE
Picture No.1
Enterprising
creative people
who enjoy new
challenges
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Picture No. 2
Creative
perfectionists
who prefer to
do things their
own way
Picture No. 3
Natural leaders
who are logical,
analytical, and
good strategic
planners
Picture No. 4
Lively and
playful people
who value
common sense
Picture No. 5
Pragmatists
who love
excitement and
excel in a crisis
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Directions: LIKE or DISLIKE. Identify if the pictures represent your personality by checking
the box representing your choice.
1. The Entrepreneur
2. The Scientist
3. The Lawyer
4. The Entertainer
5. The Protector
What is It
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Reading 1: SELF-CONCEPT
Imagine yourself looking into mirror. What do you see? Do you see your ideal self or
your actual self? Your ideal self is the self that you aspire to be. It is the one that you hope will
possess characteristics similar to that of a mentor or some other worldly figure. Your actual
self, however, is the one that actually see. It is the self that has characteristics that you were
nurtured or, in some cases, born to have.
The actual self and the ideal self are two broad categories of self-concept. Self-concept
refers to your awareness of yourself. It is the construct that negotiates these two selves. In
other words, it connotes first the identification of the ideal self as separate from others, and
second, it encompasses all the behaviors evaluated in the actual self that you engage in to
reach the ideal self.
The ideal self, on the other hand, is how we want to be. It is an idealized image that
we have developed over time, based on what we have learned and experienced. The ideal
self could include components of what our parents have thought us, what we admire in others,
what society promotes, and what we think is in our best interest.
There is a negotiation that exists between the two selves which is complex because
there are numerous exchanges between ideal and actual self. These exchanges are
exemplified in social roles that are adjusted and re-adjusted, and are derived from outcomes
of social interactions from infant to adult development. Alignment is important. If the way that
I am (the actual self) is aligned with the way that I want to be (the ideal self), then I will feel a
sense of mental well-being or peace of mind. If the way that I am is not aligned with how I
want to be, the incongruence, or lack of alignment, will result in mental distress or anxiety.
The greater the level of incongruence between the ideal self and real self, the greater resulting
to distress. Personal development modules ultimate aim is greater self-knowledge that will
lead to higher alignment between these two personality domains.
Source: http://study.com/academy/lesson/what-is-self-concept-in-psychology-definition-lesson-
quiz.html
http://study.com academy/lesson/ideal-sel-vs.real-self-definition-lesson-quiz.html
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Reading 2: BUILD ON YOUR STRENGHTS AND WORK ON YOUR WEAKNESSES
Most failures emanate from weaknesses that are not recognized or probably
recognized but not given appropriate attention or remedy. This could be a weakness in
communications, personality or ability. Instead of giving up indulging in self-pity, take action.
Go for speech lessons, get skills upgrading, attend personality development sessions or
whatever appropriate remedies to your perceived weaknesses.
Instead of simply focusing on your weaknesses, recognize your own talents and
abilities, build on them, utilize them to your greatest advantage. This is where you can build
your name and popularity. Handicapped people like Jose Feliciano and other blind singers did
not brood over their physical handicap. They recognized that they have a golden voice so they
search for ways enrich that talent and now they have won international fame in the field of
music.
Reflection plays a vital role in student learning experience. When you are reflecting, it
is just as important that you make an account of what you have in mind. It is where journal
writing comes in. Writing a journal serves as personal reflective process to improve individual
decision-making ability.
Let us first define reflection, it has been defined as a process regarding thinking about
and exploring an issue of concern, which is triggered by an experience. As students’ progress
through their education, they must practice, enhance, and habitually use their reflection skills.
It has been noted that by recording all significant experiences, feelings, and thoughts, the
journal writers are able to recreate their experiences for further examination.
As a journal writer, you are developing your critical thinking ability, increase confidence
and a much careful thought about your action.
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For the purpose of this module, you can use the simple journal format below. So what
are you waiting for! Start learning and write your own journal towards your personal journey.
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What’s More
Independent Activity 1
What is Missing?
Directions: Identify the missing term to complete the statement below. Choose your
answer from the “Mystery Box”. Write the letter only.
____ 1. The actual self and the __________ are two broad categories of self-concept.
____ 2. Self-concept refers to your __________ of yourself.
____ 3. The ideal self could include components of what our parents have thought us, what
we admire in others, what __________ promotes, and what we think is in our best interest.
____ 4. The actual self is built on __________.
____ 5. The greater the level of __________ between the ideal self and real self, the
greater resulting to distress.
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Independent Assessment 1
Agree or Disagree?
Directions: Check the column representing your decisions about each statement in the
first column. Accomplish the last column by stating you reasons, reactions, or
comment.
Independent Activity 2
Directions: Determine whether each statement is correct. BOX the LIKE icon if the statement
is true. otherwise, BOX the DISLIKE icon, if the statement is false.
1. You can only view your weakness as a failure if you don’t act on it.
3. People who are born without talent can give up easily because it is the only
option to deal with it.
4. Handicapped people are limited to their actions and no hope for success.
5. It is good to deal with your weaknesses but it is much better to focus on your
strengths and use them for your greatest advantage.
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Independent Activity 3
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Independent Assessment 2
Directions: Read the short story below. Answer the questions in just one sentence.
WEAKNESS OR STRENGTH
Take, for example, the story of one 10-year-old boy who decided to study Judo despite the
fact that he had lost his left arm in a devastating car accident. The boy began lessons with
an old Japanese Judo Master Sensei.
The boy was doing well, so he couldn’t understand why, after three months of training the
master had taught him only one move.
“This is the only move you know. but this is the only move you will ever know," the Sensei
replied. Not quite understanding, but believing in his teacher, the boy kept training.
Several months later, the Sensei took the boy to his first tournament. Surprising himself, the
boy easily won his first two matches. The third match proved to be more difficult, but after
some time, his opponent became impatient and charged. The boy deftly used his one move
to win the match.
Still amazed by his success, the boy was now in the finals.
This time, his opponent was bigger, stronger and more experienced. For a while, the boy
appeared to be overmatched. Concerned that the boy might get hurt, the referee called a
time-out.
Soon after the match resumed, his opponent made a critical mistake. He dropped his guard.
Instantly, the boy used his move to pin him. The boy had won the match and the tournament.
On the way home, the boy and Sensei reviewed every move in each and every match. Then
the boy summoned the courage to ask what was really on his mind.
“Sensei, how did I win the tournament with only one move?"
“You won for two reasons," the Sensei answered. “First, you’ve almost mastered one of the
most difficult throws in all of Judo. And second, the only known defense for that move is for
your opponent to grab your left arm."
SOURCE: http://www.english-for-students.com/weakness-or-strength.html
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Questions: “The Five What’s”
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2. What is the reason the boy still continues to join the Judo competition despite of his
weakness?
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4. What makes the Sensei believed that the boy will win all the tournaments?
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Independent Assessment 3
SELF-CONCEPT INVENTORY
Take a look at your own self-concept and answer the following self-concept inventory
in your journal. Give yourself a rating using the scale below:
0 = very weak 3 = strong
1 = weak 4 = very strong
2 = somewhat weak or somewhat strong
_____1. I have strong sex appeal.
_____2. I am proud of my physical figure.
_____3. I am physically attractive and beautiful/handsome.
_____4. I exude with charm and poise.
_____5. I am easy to get along with.
_____6. I can adjust to different people and different situations.
_____7. I am approachable; other people are at ease and comfortable with me.
_____8. I am lovable and easy to love.
_____9. I am a fast learner, can understand with one instruction.
_____10. I am intelligent.
_____11. I have special talents and abilities.
_____12. I can easily analyze situations and make right judgments.
_____13. I can be trusted in any transaction.
_____14. I have a clean conscience and carry no guilty feeling.
_____15. I have integrity and good reputation.
_____16. My friends and classmates can look up to me as a model worth emulating.
_____17. I can express my ideas without difficulty.
_____18. I talk in a persuasive manner that I can easily get people to accept what I say.
_____19. I can express my ideas in writing without difficulty.
_____20. I am a good listener.
_____21. I am emotionally stable and not easily rattled when faced with trouble.
_____22. I am logical and rational in my outlook and decisions.
_____23. I feel and act with confidence.
_____24. I am a mature person.
Scoring: Copy this table in your journal. Write your score opposite each number and get the
subtotal.
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Student Output: Your Self-Concept Inventory!
Direction: Write your answers in a one whole sheet of paper and attached it to your journal.
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Having gone through different activities, do you realize now the importance of knowing
oneself can make a person accept his/her strengths and limitations and dealing with other.
The same manner how significant the role of sharing our unique characteristics, habits and
experiences.
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Write your realization below by plotting your ideas.
I realized that...
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What I Can Do
Recall the general summary of the topic and identify your top 3 weaknesses you possess.
From your point of view, what do you think are the best ways to improve your weaknesses that will
benefit you in the long run.
Top 1:_________________________________
Way to improve:
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Top 2:_________________________________
Way to improve:
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Top 3:_________________________________
Way to improve:
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Assessment
A. Multiple Choice
Directions: Write the letter of your answer on the space provided.
_____1. Which of the following statements is true?
a. Behavioral scientist argued that personality types do not exist
b. We often share personality traits with others, especially members of our own
family
and community
c. The term personality is standard and shared by all members of a society
d. both b and c
_____2. Which of the following things can have an effect on the development of an individual’s
personality?
a. physical and mental capabilities
b. health and physical appearance
c. skin color, gender and sexual orientation
d. all of the above
_____3. The following are important in the process of the development of our personality;
except,
a. genetic inheritance c. climate condition
b. environmental influences d. social connection
_____4. It refers to an organized pattern of behaviors and attitudes that makes a person
distinctive. It is also occurs by the ongoing interaction of temperament , character,
and environment.
a. personality development c. ideal self
b. self-knowledge d. character
_____5. Which among the statement best describes self-concept?
a. how we want to be c. built on self-knowledge
b. awareness of yourself d. it can be seen by other
_____6. If the way I am (actual self) is out of alignment with how I want to be (ideal self),
then I will experience what?
a. anger and sadness c. sickness and fatigue
b. awareness of yourself d. mental distress and anxiety
_____7. It is defined as a process regarding thinking about and exploring an issue of
concern, which is triggered by an experience.
a. exploration b. reflection c. journal writing d. education
_____8. The following are skills you can developed in journal writing; except,
a. critical thinking ability c. increase confidence
b. charm and poise d. careful thought of action
_____9. It is defined as our built-in capacities for particular ways of thinking, feeling, and
behaving.
a. weaknesses b. talents c. strengths d. interests
____10. The first step in understanding others is to begin by getting an understanding of __.
a. your family b. yourself c. your teacher d. society
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Additional Activity
A haiku is traditionally a Japanese poem consisting of three short lines that do not rhyme.
The origins of haiku poems can be traced back as far as the 9th century. In Japanese, there
are five "moras" in the first and third line, and seven in the second, following the standard 5-
7-5 structure of haiku. A mora is a sound unit, much like a syllable, but is not identical to it.
A haiku is considered to be more than a type of poem; it is a way of looking at the
physical world and seeing something deeper, like the very nature of existence. It should leave
the reader with a strong feeling or impression.
Explain the concepts that you have learned from this module by expressing it through
haiku.
Ask your teacher, classmate and a family member to read your haiku. Then, let them
write or tell their comments and suggestions.
*Note: Don’t be afraid to make mistakes. You are limited only from your own imagination
and it is solely up to you on how are you going to write them. Good Luck!
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Write your haiku inside the personal notepad provided below.
My Haiku Notepad
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What I Know What’s New
Check it Out! (answers may vary)
1. behavior
2. character Independent Activity 1
1. D
3. cognition 2. E
4. gene 3. A
4. C
5. identity 5. B
6. maturity
Independent Assessment 1
7. personality 1. Disagree
8. socialization 2. Agree
3. Agree
9. temperament 4. Disagree
10. personality development 5. Agree
11. openness
12. conscientiousness
13. extraversion
14. agreeableness
15. neuroticism
What’s In
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Independent Activity 2
1. Like
2. Like
3. Dislike
4. Dislike
5. Like
Independent Activity 3
(answers may vary)
Independent Assessment 2
(answers can be taken from the story)
Independent Assessment 3
(answers may vary)
What I Have Learned
(Answer may vary)
What I Can Do
(Answers may vary)
Assessment
1. b
2. d
3. c
4. a
5. c
6. d
7. b
8. a
9. c
10. b
Additional Activity
(Answers may vary)
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