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individual could be undeniably the adulthood. As children, the parents are the
significant characters and they are even considered the role models of life. But
when the transition occurs, the detachment also undeniably occurs. As children
every individual would have learned more information from their parents. But the
adulthood is the period where the adults reject the words of parents. It is period
where many questions and confusions arise and it is also the time period where
the adults need their parent’s guidance a lot. Adulthood is the period where the
adults learn how to regulate themselves and how to socialize. Though peers and
the environment teach them many things; parents are the first source of love,
individual fully functions with his/ her, self-embedded concepts and ideals, but
developmental theory makes out that human is also environmental driven, where
half of the ideals are self-directed and the other half are learned .
• Parental attachment:
parental attachment is where the child uses the primary caregiver as a secure base
from which to explore and when necessary, as a haven of safety and a source of
comfort. The parent reflects the child’s emotions giving them meaning and
regulating them which Molds the development of the child. It is one specific
aspect of the relationship between a child and a parent with its purpose being to
make a child safe, secure and protected. Attachment parenting is based on the idea
that babies learn to trust and thrive when their needs are consistently met by a
caregiver early in life. Children who never experience this secure attachment
early in life, according to proponents, don't learn to form healthy attachments later
in life. They suffer from insecurity, lack of empathy, and, in extreme cases, anger
developing child will develop an attachment relationship with any caregiver who
provides regular physical and emotional care, regardless of the quality of care. In
fact, children develop attachment relationships even with the most neglectful and
between this parent and this child, instead the question is, what is the quality of
the attachment between them. For example, in the times when the child is
physically hurt, ill or emotionally upset, if the mother reacts in loving ways most
of the time, the child will develop an organized and secure attachment with the
mother. That same child could develop an insecure and avoidant attachment with
the father if the father reacts in rejecting ways to the distress most of the time.
Manning, (1990) states that family is the concrete base where adolescence form
a sense of self and research also evidences that families which provide
congruence and support can develop a transition which would produce a positive
social. The style of the attachment predicts the future adults. It confides the
manner an adult creates the interaction or the relationship with others of their own
age. Cox & Paley, (1997) explained that the family system highly influences the
adult behavior and the behavior of every person creates a great vibrancy among
subsystem and the behavior of a person affects each individual in a family. So the
family system and the attachment undoubtedly play a significant role in the
different aspects of the adult life. Putnam et al., (2002) pointed that an adulthood
healthy relationship with them. Good parent relationship enhances autonomy and
health among adults. Rohner, (1970) states that unhealthy or neglected family
attachment.
Secure attachment is what we all strive for. Babies who form secure attachments
to their primary caregiver are more likely to become adults who confidently seek
out healthy relationships with others and are reliable and loving partners
themselves, Babies who are securely attached prefer their primary caregiver over
People with a secure attachment style are more readily able to form long-lasting
and healthy relationships with others. They’re more likely to trust their partner
and be emotionally available to them. Studies show that 58% of adults have
secure attachment. A secure attachment style doesn’t mean you can take for
granted that your relationships will be smooth sailing. “If two securely attached
people are in a relationship, they’re starting out from a better position, but
baby and an inconsistent caregiver. From their perspective, the baby can’t be sure
when and if their parent is going to be emotionally and physically available to
them.
Babies whose primary caregivers aren’t consistent in meeting a baby’s needs are
more likely to form an anxious attachment. Anxiously attached babies learn that
they may or may not get the attention they need, so they aren’t easily comforted
by their caregivers.
not trusting. People with an anxious attachment style can be consumed with
concern that their loved ones will abandon them, and they may seek constant
reassurance that they’re safe in their relationship. Research indicates that about
19% of adults have an anxious attachment style people who have an anxious
attachment can drive away their partner with their neediness. That can create even
“People with an anxious attachment can benefit from what we call ‘rituals of
separation,’ where the partners agree that before they go out for the day, they give
each other a kiss. They say, ‘I’ll see you tonight.’ They send a text during the day
to say they’re thinking of each other. Whatever it is, they make a conscious effort
to acknowledge that they’re leaving and also that they will be back, that can help
a person with an anxious attachment to feel confident their partner will not
abandon them.”
Avoidant attachment style
attachment can look like an adult who is a “lone wolf” or overly self-sufficient.
People with an avoidant attachment style are likely to not delve much into
baby most likely ends with caring for their physical needs, like feeding and
bathing, but the caregiver doesn’t provide the emotional comfort the baby also
needs. In that environment, the baby learns not to rely on others to care for their
emotional needs. Adults with an avoidant attachment style can be seen as self-
understand how to comfort their partner. Research shows about 23% of adults
have an avoidant attachment style people with an avoidant attachment style often
distance themselves from others and assume others will disappoint them. Actively
observing your own emotions and considering how you pull away from others
will require a lot of work. But that effort can be an eye-opening way to help
Disorganized attachment is the most extreme and least common style. People with
Adults with disorganized attachments are likely to live with mental health
relationships with others. They’re likely to crave close relationships but push
others away when they show them attention people who have a disorganized
attachment style can often benefit from dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), a type
of talk therapy that’s especially helpful for people who experience very intense
emotions.
forms between an infant and their primary caregiver, providing a sense of security
and
trust.
2. Mary Ainsworth : Parental attachment refers to the emotional connection
and bond between a child and their caregiver, characterized by the child seeking
proximity to the caregiver in times of distress and using them as a secure base for
exploration.
emotional bond between an infant and their caregiver, often influenced by factors
mistrust stage in infancy, where the infant's sense of trust in the world is shaped
which infants develop a sense of self and autonomy within the context of their
individuation.
• Psychological resilience:
adversity. Resilience refers to both the process and the outcome of successfully
adapting to difficult and challenging life experiences. It’s having the mental,
emotional and behavioral flexibility and ability to adjust to both internal and
external demands. Being resilient does not mean a person doesn’t experience
stress or suffering, instead it involves the ability to work through emotional pain
positive outlook on life. External factors include social support systems, including
relationships with family, friends and community. The most common way to
setbacks and becoming more energetic after experiencing them. The optimism
factor for resilience. Several family variables that are also conceptualized as
Werner and Smith (1982) found that positive parent-child relationships and
future relationships.
They are able to see setbacks as temporary and believe in their ability to overcome
obstacles. This positive attitude helps them maintain hope and motivation even
they are able to manage their emotions effectively, staying calm and focused in
stressful situations.
buffer against stress and can help individuals cope with challenges more
effectively.
adaptable. They are able to adjust their goals and strategies in response to
enhance resilience. When individuals have a clear sense of what they are working
towards, they are better able to persevere through challenges and setbacks.
coping mechanisms to manage stress and adversity. This might include activities
needed resilience is not a fixed trait; rather, it is something that can be cultivated
and developed over time. Building resilience requires practice and effort, but the
benefits are well worth it. By strengthening their resilience, individuals can
improve their overall well-being and better navigate the ups and downs of life.
wellbeing."
as “the process of adapting well in the face of adversity, trauma, tragedy, threats,
"bouncing back from difficult experiences, rather than letting them define or limit
you."
These definitions highlight the idea that resilience involves our ability to adapt,
maintain well-being, and bounce back from challenging situations. It's all about
building our inner strength and finding ways to thrive, even in the face of
adversity
emotions effectively, building strong social support networks, being flexible and
Cultivating resilience can lead to greater well-being and improved ability to cope
OPERATIONAL DEFINITIONS :-
Parental attachment:
Parental attachment refers to the emotional bond and sense of security that
develops between a child and their primary caregivers, typically their parents.
which meets the child's physical and emotional needs. It provides a secure base
from which the child can explore the world, seek comfort in times of distress, and
develop trust in others. Parental attachment plays a crucial role in shaping the
relationships and well-being throughout life. The parent reflects the child's
emotion giving them meaning and regulating them which Moulds the
Psychological resilience:
well as the capacity to regulate their emotions and cope with difficult situations
bouncing back from them, learning from experiences, and growing stronger as a
result. It encompasses traits such as optimism, perseverance, problem-solving
thrive amidst life's inevitable ups and downs. Its having the mental, emotional
and behavioral flexibility and ability to adjust to both internal and external
demands. Being resilient does not mean a person doesn't experience stress instead
to locate the gaps and find the trends in research in a particular field. The
information about the designs, samples and research tools employed by other
investigators help the future investigators to formulate their designs with more
care. An investigator must be aware of the new researches conducted in the past
“Literature review is most important to identify the problem of the study, which
can be solved by collection of data. It is very important to know that the work
It also helps to avoid the mistakes, which already has been done by another one.
So researcher can improve the research design and instrumentation, which was
Literature review exercises to analyze the area of the research, which has been
resolved in the study. It is the outline of the research. It shows the gap between
helps to understand easily. It verifies that it has not been already done. It is the
The review of the literature serves as a guide post to judge the quantum of the
work done and perceive the gaps existing in the concerned field of research. A
critical review of the literature enables the researcher to go into greater details
Following are some important reviews of related literature for the proposed study
adverse life experiences. Relationships with parents may be among the most
studies have examined the extent to which childhood relationships with parents
predict resilience in young adults. The research tested the hypothesis that the
young adults. The hypothesis was supported in a study with 245 participants (92
men, 153 women). Higher levels of resilience were predicted by higher levels of
correlational study conducted in 132 women and 66 men were selected through
concerning attachment styles, resilience, and loneliness. Data was analyzed using
Regression analyses showed that ambivalent and avoidant attachment styles are
results showed a significant difference between men and women in that male
with feelings of loneliness than females. The findings of this study highlight the
fact that providing the conditions and context necessary for secure attachments
Ozbay & aydogan 2020; Tamura 2019 examined the roles of negative experiences
and the nature of the relationship with parents and siblings in the resilience of
Turkish college students as emerging adults 199 females and 101 males who lived
apart from their parents, had at least one sibling and had experienced at least one
negative event. Data were collected from Child and Youth Resilience, Adverse
the extent to which the independent variables explained the resilience variance.
The results revealed that negative life experiences were significant factors in
with the mother had an effect on explaining the resilience, while a positive
Meantime, the role of protective factors in terms of family relationships and the
experience childhood trauma may have difficulty with academic success and
identified ACEs and poses a model of resilience that may be influential to their
The study is correlational and the statistical population of this study is all male
high school students . From this statistical population, a sample of 318 people
measure the variables. Data were analyzed using Pearson correlation and
social support. Also, the safe attachment style, social support and avoidant
of students.
• Z Tepeli Temiz, I Tari Comert 2018 aimed to investigate the role of secure
were used results found that secure attachment is associated with the presence of
resilience.
• SI Maximo, JS Carranza, Sage Open 2016 theorized the influence of parental
was studied in a Philippine setting. Using the survey sample (N = 843), it was
found that a secure attachment and receiving love from parents result in higher
resilience. The parental love languages quality time, words of affirmation, and
that provide emotional, motivational, and practical resources that build resilience.
While quality time contributed the most to resilience, a secure attachment is most
are needed from mothers. Sons need quality time from their fathers and the
physical touch of their mothers. Daughters benefit from quality time with mothers
alongside a secure attachment and words of affirmation from their fathers. This
study emphasizes the parental factors of attachment and love as external resources
experience that would support the resilience of young adults. Results also point
relationships relate to levels of Resilience, and how these are related to levels of
volunteers (16 males, age M= 38.63 years, SD= 15.56 and 180 females, age M=
secure attachment style correlated with Resilience (r=. 55). Both Secure
strategies (r>. 24), and negatively with ratings of stress (r=-. 20 and-. 53,
respectively).
availability.
where the Maternal availability to the needs of the child is sensitively and
aberration.
•Sroufe, 1985: Research finding have indicated that secure parental attachments
• Research has shown that relationships with family members can serve as a
protective factor of resilience for adolescents and young adults ( conger & conger,
2018;Vasilyeva & Shcherbakov, 2016) (Dereli & Dereli, 2017;Mahoney & Bella,
1998) states a negative parent-child relationship is revealed to be conflict in the
relationship with the child, and negative emotions, and high levels of.
child’s development positively and affects shaping the child’s personality and the
future adult life Prior research studies have shown that lower levels of attachment
in young adults predict higher levels of ageism and that attachment is related to
childhood relationships with parents. The present study investigated the role of
ageism were negative mother relationship and avoidant attachment and that the
Werner and Smith (1982) found that positive parent-child relationships and
effects. Rutter (1979) found that a good relationship with at least one parent,
defined in terms of both the presence of warmth and absence of severe criticism,
was protective against risk related to family discord, and he concluded that the
protective effect depends more on the quality, strength, and security of the
relationship than on the particular person with whom the relationship is formed.
Egeland, Carlson, and Sroufe (1993:525) found that “early sensitive and
when intervening functioning and conditions were poor”. Masten et al. (1990)
assert that the most important and consistent protective factor for children under
stress is the presence of caring adults during or after major stressors. If children
have supportive, involved parents, they are likely to survive even seriously
of research. The preparation of a research proposal or design is an important step in the research
process. This provides a basis for the elevation of the project and gives the adviser a basis for
assistance during the period of his or her direction. It also provides a systematic plan of
procedure for the research fellow. Research design is a road map for researchers. It is a step by
step approach. Any piece of research is incomplete without a proper plan of action. A research
is designed to enable the researcher to arrive at a valid, objective and accurate solution of the
Research design is thus, a detailed plan of how the goals of research is achieved. The research
design constitutes the blue-print for collection, measurement and analysis of data. It aids the
researcher in allocation of his limited resources by posing crucial choices: Is the blueprint to
include experiments, interviews, observations, and the analysis of records, simulation, or some
combination of these? Are the method of data collection and research situation to be highly
structured? Is an intensive study of a small sample more effective than a less intensive study of
a large sample? Should the analysis be primarily qualitative or quantitative? Best (2007)
Research is considered to be the more formal, systematic, intensive process of carrying on the
resulting in some sort of formal record of procedures and a report of result or conclusions.
According to Kothari “Research Design stands for advance planning of the method to be
adopted for collecting the relevant data and the techniques to be used in their analysis, keeping
in view the objectives of the research to availability of staff, time and money.”
RATIONALE OF STUDY :-
Attachment to parenting focuses on the connection that parents can develop with
their children. The researcher wants to study this topic the effect of parental
been conducted and based on the review of literature and it is found that some
more study needs to be done in this area. The study is planned to be carried out
OBJECTIVES: -
HYPOTHESIS: -
RESEARCH DESIGN: -
The present study is descriptive in nature and will follow the correlational design
POPULATION: -
Random college students will be chosen as a sample which will be identified
SAMPLE: -
The present study shall consist of 160 people. These respondents will be selected
from
Different colleges consisting of male and female students. The sample will be
taken from
N =160 FEMALE = 80
SAMPLING METHOD: -
The sampling method used for the present study will be random sampling.
EXCLUSION :-
INCLUSION :-
Baramulla .
INDEPENDENT VARIABLE :- Parental Attachment.
relating to both mother and father figures. Patterns Of relating can help determine
relationship with others throughout life and particularly influence the parent-child
around them. The dependent or parentified patterns may influence the person to
feel insecure and anxious in relationships, For those who experienced fearful or
distant patterns Of relating with parents, relationships may be difficult. There may
or children.
1) Never.
2) Seldom.
3) Sometimes .
4) Frequently .
5) Constantly .
• 40 items scale.
The scoring Of the ASPA-SF includes a pattern Of relating to both mother and
father, The mean score Of the ASPA-SF is located at "50" and plus or minus 10
points indicates 1 standard deviation. The graph created from scoring will assist
childhood relationships and should only be used to help the person understand
experiences Of relationships,
PATTERNS OF RELATING
M = Mother
F = Father
Safe (MS & FS) — This pattern Of relating provided comfort and security. The
Dependent (MD & FD) - This pattern of relating indicates a need for the parent
meeting the parent's needs. The child may have experienced feelings of
Fearful (MF & FF) - This pattern of relating indicates a fear of abandonment and
a belief that the parent would not be available for support. The child may have
Distant (MA & FA) - This pattern of relating indicates disappointment in the
parent's support and availability. The child may have experienced a need to
distance from the parent and may have experienced anger toward the parent.
High scores on any of the patterns of relating may indicate attachment issues and
style.
TO SCORE:
1. Place number for each individual item on the scoring sheet for both mother
2. Transfer total for each pattern of relating and overall total to profile sheet.
Circle the number indicating the score for each pattern of relating. Draw line
parents. This numerical value reflects the strong validity of the ASPA as a tool for
(reliability).
0) Strongly disagree.
1) Disagree.
2) Neutral.
3) Agree.
4) Strongly agree.
measure that scores items on a 5-point Likert scale with 0 = not true at all and 4
CD-RISC contains 25 items, which are rated on a five-point Likert scale and
SCORING :-
- Strongly disagree= 0
- Disagree = 1
- Neutral= 2
- Agree = 3
- Strongly agree = 4
3. Add up all the scores from the 25 items to get a total score.
4. The total score can range from 0 to 100, with higher scores indicating higher
levels of resilience.
reliability (. 87), and convergent and divergent validity in the development of the
scale.
DATA ANALYSIS :-
The data will be analyzed with the help of SPSS to get the results and to
accomplish the objectives of the proposed study the following tests will be used
:-
• Mean .
• SD .
• Co relation .
• T-test .
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