Chapter 5 & 6 Parenting Notes
Chapter 5 & 6 Parenting Notes
A Healthy Pregnancy
● A pregnant woman’s responsibilities grow along with her baby.
● What happens to a baby during prenatal development can affect both the baby’s and
parents’ lives.
● For her baby’s health and her own, a mother-to-be needs to eat a well-balanced diet,
exercise moderately, get plenty of sleep, and manage stress.
Later Checkups
● 1-6 months - once a month
● 7-8 months - twice a month
● 9 months - once a week
● Between the 24th and 28th week, most women take a glucose tolerance test to check for
signs for gestational diabetes, a form of diabetes that occurs only during pregnancy.
- If left untreated, this can cause the baby to be heavier than is normal or healthy
- Gestational diabetes can be controlled by a special diet or may require medication
● Preeclampsia - high blood pressure and the presence of protein in the woman’s urine.
● This can prevent the baby from getting enough blood, which provides oxygen and food.
● Treatment may include bed rest and medication for this condition.
Discomforts of Pregnancy
● If a pregnant woman experiences one or more of the following symptoms she should
report it to her doctor:
- Nausea and/or vomiting: most common complaint of pregnancy
- Sleepness: due to hormonal changes
- Heartburn: burning feeling in the upper abdomen
- Shortness of breath: pressure on the lungs from the baby
- Varicose (swollen) veins: pressure on the blood vessels in the legs
- Muscle cramps in the legs: do gentle stretches and eat a calcium rich diet
- Lower back pain: wear low heeled shoes, exercises to strengthen the back
Protein
● Red meat, poultry, fish, dried beans, nuts, eggs, milk, and cheese provide protein.
● This is vital to the baby’s growth and development of bones and teeth.
● It keeps the mothers body in good condition.
Vitamins
● Some birth defects such as spina bifida are linked to vitamin deficiency.
● Mothers need more vitamins during pregnancy including twice the usual amount of folic
acid for normal spinal development.
● Mothers should take vitamins and other supplements only when their doctor approves
them.
● Vitamin A - proper eye development
● Vitamin B - assist in general fetal development
● Vitamin C - helps build proper teeth and gums and helps form the connective tissue of
skin, bone, and organs
● Vitamin D - aids in the creation of bones and teeth
Minerals
● They produce strong bones and teeth and ensure regular elimination of waste from the
body.
● A doctor may instruct a woman to take mineral supplements.
● Iron is a mineral that helps prevent anemia and assists in developing the baby's own
blood supply.
● Extra iron is stored in the baby's liver and is used in the months right after birth.
● Sources of iron include dried beans, raisins, dates, red meat, and leafy green vegetables.
Special Diets
● One alternative to milk products is to eat larger amounts of other calcium rich foods, such
as broccoli, tofu, and leafy green vegetables.
● If milk products cause symptoms such as abdominal pain and gas, the problem isn't
usually lactose intolerance (lactose is a type of sugar found in milk) cultured yogurt
contains lactase, an enzyme that helps in the digestion of lactose.
● By eating enough tofu and other soybean products, dried beans, nuts, and nut butters such
as peanut butter, pregnant vegetarians and vegans can get the protein they need.
Car Safety
Safety Tips:
● Starting from your baby's first ride home from the hospital, you must always use a car
seat that meets Transport Canada car safety regulations.
● In fact, many hospitals won't let you leave until they see that you have your baby secured
in a car seat properly.
● Infants require a rear-facing seat that fits the baby’s weight and height because babies
have weak neck and back muscles that need extra support when travelling in a vehicle.
● Be cautious about buying or borrowing a used car seat that could be missing parts or
instructions
● Never use a car seat that is more than 5 years old or past the manufacturer's expiration
date.
● Keep updated on any product recalls or notices.
Making a Budget
● Raising a child is expensive.
● It is estimated that to raise a child until he/she is eighteen years of age, will cost
$270,000.00 (2022) for goods and services. This calculator does not include “extras,” or
high-end purchase of goods/services.
● Depending on the family wage, having one or more children can be economically
challenging.
● Good planning can help parents meet the expenses of prenatal and postnatal care.
● A budget is a spending plan that people use to help estimate their present and future
income and expenses
● A budget will allow people to set goals for saving and develop a spending plan that meets
their needs.
- Step One: Identify income.
- Step Two: list where that income currently goes towards by assessing your expenses.
Fixed expenses: car payments, housing payments, taxes, cell phone - expenses that do not
change
Flexible expenses: food costs, household items, clothes, entertainment - expensive that can be
reduced if necessary
- Step Three: If your monthly income is less than your projected monthly expenses, it is
necessary to cut back or explore other sources of income.
● Canadian mothers are entitled to 15 weeks of pregnancy leave after giving birth.
● This benefit is only offered to biological (and surrogate) mothers.
● A further 35 weeks of parental benefits are available to biological, adoptive or legally
recognized parents. These can be shared between two parents.
● At the same time, your household income drops and your expenses are rising.
● Maternity leave pay in Ontario is 55% of your insurable earnings. That works out to a
total of up to $650 a week.
● The first year of a child’s life is usually one of the priciest, costing the average parents
upwards of $8,000 in extra expenses.
Reducing Expenses
● Buy second hand maternity clothing and clothing for the baby.
● Use coupons.
● Borrow baby equipment if you can.
● Access tax benefits.
● Make a plan of action and budget.
Prepared Childbirth
What Is It?*
● Prepared childbirth - involves reducing pain and fear during the birth process through
education and breathing and conditioning exercise.
● Labour - the process by which the baby gradually moves out of the uterus into the vagina
to be born.
● Delivery - the birth itself.
Prepared Childbirth
● Being prepared for childbirth is a responsibility that is placed on both the expectant
mother and father.
Types of Birth
● Today, expectant mothers are afforded the option to choose what type of birth they’d like
to have.
● Birth options include: the place of birth; and a vaginal birth, water birth or a cesarean
section.
Hospital Births
● Hospital births give mom the option of having a natural birth without medication or an
epidural.
● Epidurals can relieve harsh labour pains and help mom in order to focus on her breathing
and prepare for delivery.
● Choice of having a vaginal birth or a cesarean section.
2. Another sign is when women feel a trickle or even a gush of fluid from the vagina.
● This happens when the membrane, or amniotic sac, holding the amniotic fluid
surrounding the baby has broken, “water has broken”.
● If the mother experiences this, she should note the time, the amount, and the colour.
● Next, she should call her doctor or midwife and report this information.
● Once the membrane is broken, birth usually happens within 24-48 hours.
3. In addition, contractions - the tightening and releasing of the muscles of the uterus - can
be another sign of labour.
● When the uterus contracts, it shortens and closes, pushing the fetus against the cervix and
then relaxes.
● The time between contractions get shorter as labour advances.
● Contractions are painful, but bearable.
● During contractions it is important that the baby is monitored using an ultrasound device
to watch for indicators of stress in the baby’s heartbeat.
● Fetal monitoring - watching an unborn baby’s heart rate for indications of stress during
labour.
Premature Labour
● Occurs when the fetus has been developing in the womb for 37 weeks or less.
● Indicators of premature labour are:
- Contractions every 10 minutes
- Dull backache
- Leaking fluid or blood
False Labour
● Can occur hours or days before labour starts.
● Three signs of false labour:
○ Contractions aren't regular or rhythmic
○ Contractions don't become stronger over time
○ Contractions end with light exercise, such as walking
Stages of Labour
● The porches of labour and birth are divided into 3 stages.
First Stage
● Begins when you start having contractions that cause progressive changes in your cervix
and ends when your cervix is fully dilated.
● Dilate: to open wider.
● Contractions are about 60 seconds in length and occur 5 to 6 minutes apart.
● This stage is divided into two phases:
○ Early Labour: The cervix gradually effaces (thins out) and dilates (opens).
○ Active Labour: The cervix begins to dilate more rapidly, and contractions are
loner, stronger, and closer together.
○ People often refer to the last part of active labour as transition because it
completes the work of the first stage.
Transition Stage
● The cervix becomes fully dilated to a size of 10cm and the baby’s head slips out of the
uterus into the birth canal. Contractions begin to last about 90 seconds and are more
frequent (2-3 minutes apart).
● This is the most difficult time of labour and the woman needs encouragement and
reassurance.
● Most babies come into the world headfirst but some enter their feet or buttocks. This is
known as the breech position making it more difficult to move through the pelvis.
- In some cases, a doctor may decide that a normal delivery is not possible.
● The first stage and transition last to 6 to 18 hours for a mothers first child and 2 to 5 hours
for her second child.
Second Stage
● This is sometimes referred to as the “pushing” stage where the baby’s head appears at the
opening of the birth canal.
● This is also called crowning because the baby’s head emerges first.
○ The head has changed its shape to ease passage through the birth canal. It will
return to normal. After the head emerges, the shoulders follow and the rest of the
baby slips out easily.
● Pushing at the right time is important because earlier pushing may tear delicate tissues or
cause other types of injury.
● Doctors may use surgical tongs, called forceps, or a vacuum extractor to help move the
baby through the birth canal more quickly.
Third Stage
● Begins right after the birth of your baby and ends with the delivery of the placenta, which
is no longer needed by the baby (which provided the baby with oxygen).
● Shortest age, lasting anywhere from 10 to 30 minutes.
After Labour
● Parents may choose to have the cord blood from the umbilical cord and the placenta
stored for later use in case of medical need. The stem cells found in the blood are capable
of producing all types of blood cells and can treat blood-related illnesses in the baby or
family members.
● Every pregnancy is different, and there is wide variation in the length and experience of
labour.
The Newborn
A Newborn Baby Arrives
● A newborn baby is no longer reliant on the mother for basic needs, like oxygen.
● During pregnancy the baby’s lungs are collapsed and oxygen is delivered through the
mother’s blood.
○ During delivery, the lungs fill with the amniotic fluid and whatever amniotic fluid
that remains is suctioned out immediately after birth from the baby’s mouth.
● The umbilical cord, which provided the baby with nourishment and oxygen, is clamped
and cut off.
What is Bonding?
● Bonding is the forming of emotional ties between parents and child.
● It is encouraged by researchers because it is very important for the baby and the mother/
parents.
Rooming-In
● Hospitals offer the option of full or partial rooming-in.
● Full rooming-in means that the baby remains with the mother in her room during the
entire hospital stay.
● Partial rooming-in means that the baby stays in the nursery part of the time, such as
during night.
1. Physical Needs
- Rest: the mother should try to sleep whenever the baby does.
- Exercise: with a doctor's approval, the mother can generally begin exercising gently.
- Good nutrition: as during pregnancy, eating right is important for new mothers.
- Medical checkup: a new mother should have a postnatal check-up 4-6 weeks after birth.
2. Emotional Needs
- Many women feel confused a few days after giving birth and develop mood swings or
the baby blues which is very common.
- Joining a support group for new mothers or talking with other mothers often helps.
- A small group of mothers experience these symptoms to a greater degree and the blues
develop into postpartum depression: feeling sad or crying a lot, having no energy, being
overly anxious about the baby, having little interest in the baby or thoughts of causing the
baby harm.
● Treatment is available for postpartum depression and it is very important for women who
have these.
● Talking to a therapist can help, as can medication.