PSY 207 Guest Lecture Reflection
PSY 207 Guest Lecture Reflection
Shelby Novak
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Death rituals vary greatly by culture, but funerals are a typical route for people in today’s
Western society (Novak, 2024) making funeral homes a busy place attracting grieving
individuals. This makes the job of a funeral director, as explained by our guest speakers, a
difficult one that requires time, familial, and emotional sacrifices. One such sacrifice is
associated with acts of caring and it typically manifests in an individual’s reduced ability or
al., 2023; Harrison, 2021). This concept piqued my interest in our discussion as it is not only
experienced by funeral directors, but other professionals working with trauma sufferers including
nurses (Harris & Griffin, 2015), teachers (Xiao et al., 2024), and counselling psychologists
(Papadimitriou et al., 2023). As a hopeful future counselling psychologist myself, I see the
importance of not only recognizing compassion fatigue, but also dealing with it effectively.
When asked about compassion fatigue, the funeral director did not hesitate in admitting
that this was a significant issue for him, showing that at least for some individuals, you simply
know that you are experiencing it from the weight of your job. For those struggling to identify it,
people who are strongly empathetic are most at risk for compassion fatigue (Showalter, 2010),
and symptoms can include fatigue, irritability, sadness, difficulty concentrating, and feeling
When asked how they deal with compassion fatigue, they explained that they take it day
by day. This unfortunately is not an effective strategy for dealing with compassion fatigue. They
also mentioned that funeral directors do not have any protection against compassion fatigue.
Perhaps a preventative strategy that funeral directors, and other professions alike, can instil in
their workplace is further supports in accessing counselling where individuals can learn healthy
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associated with compassion fatigue by helping to create healthier ways of responding to stress
(Duarte & Pinto-Gouveia, 2016). Learning to desensitise from traumatic stressors is said to be
helpful in allowing professionals working with traumatized clients to have greater ability to face
and work through the traumatic stressors they are bound to face (Figley, 2002).
On a positive note, research shows that although feeling empathy can lead to compassion
fatigue, it can also lead to compassion satisfaction, the pleasure derived in helping others
(Hansen et al., 2018). This reflects what our guest speakers said about their job being fulfilling.
This gives hope to future professionals, like me, in having a fulfilling career just as our guest
speakers did.
Overall, I value getting to hear the funeral director’s experience as it brought awareness
of the topic of compassion fatigue and opened up a productive conversation. I and other future
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