Since i caugth my Boy Friend having sex with my Best friend, since then i have not

been able to date other men,cos i am scared and afraid.

I am looking for someone who can be with me in order to show true love....

I am always scared and afriad not to fall into a man that is ready to use and dump
me .

I am looking for a loving and caringman who is ready to love and care for me and
also who is ready to understand my feelings too.

which means that i am looking for a date with a serious man looking for a seriouse
relationship that will lead to a long term relationship

I was born and raised in pawtuket rhode island usa but presently in nigeria to
claim my dad properties

I am a very hot and sexy lady. I am a good looking lady and very beautiful also. I
am 5.5 tall. I have a Blue eyes and also a Blonde hair

I work as is personal assistant because my dad got a good job he works with oil
companies in Africa and all over the world .

Its so sad and i dont want to remember it any more.....I lost my Parents to an Auto
Accident..

They were involved in a motor accident.So since their death was left alone in the
lonely world and i had to think how i can survive in this world of Deception and
Loneliness....

My dad and my Mom are orphans befor they died and also we do not have a family nor
relatives......

The only friends i keep now are bad ones so i decided to be myself and i believe i
should get a Man that could make me feel wanted and not a Man that is ready to use
and Dump me...

I left all my friends cos they drink,smoke take drugs and go into Prostitution and
that is why i told u that i am willing to relocate to meet the Man i meet on here
and see what happens if we are compatible or not and start a new life too....

I decided to get serious and also to be a hardworking Woman cos i don't want to be
in a nuisance in the community by turning to prostitute, So i had to face my
essence of coming to Uk

I have once been told by my grandma before she died that i need to get back on my
love life and see what Life has gotten for me and also try and build a lovely LOVE
LIFE...And also get some thing doings for myself so i will not be a Liability to my
Dream Man...

Presently i am in my Motel Room chatting with you and will soon be done here and i
will like to get to know you more and willing to relocate to meet you in person and
see if this is Real and also see if we are Compatible or not.

Have been busy about my late dad property and i will get them Shipped soon and will
love to meet you when i am done here...
I have decided to establish a large business when i meet the man of my dream in
which i want to have my own store and start selling some Artworks,Sculptures and
House Hold Decorations....

I don't want to rely on any man for a living cos you Men are very funny at Times
and if a lady is not hardworking you are always fond of telling we ladies that we
are after your money .

In which i am not ready to love any man for what he as but ready to love him for
whom he is ..

Can u let me know alot about you i mean your hobbies and lifestyles and so on

I want you to listen carefully and read this cos i want u to know if i can be the
lady u are looking for or if i am the lady that can be compatible with you i want u
to see this attributes about me :-

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WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR IN A MAN

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1)I am looking for someone who has strong family values. Someone who is goal
oriented and ambitious

2)I am looking for a Man who loves trying new things!!!!

I want someone who can compliment me in everyway possible. I want someone who can
hang out with me...

3)I am a people person...and I would hope you are too!I am content just
lounging around doing nothing as long as I am surrounded by good company,....

4)I like to meet a man who are worth meeting. good conversationalists, funny and
sensible.We don�t have to argue on everything..

5)We should just be able to talk about things. Age,Ethnicity,Country and how he
looks like doesn�t matter as long as we understand each other

6)I wanna meet people who love and appreciate me.. anyone who appreciates good
music,Eccentric people... outspoken..and confident... I will love meet a Man that
can handle me and can drive me crazy�

7)I am looking for an honest, loving, understanding, caring, romantic,

passionate,Outgoing Man.

8)Very trusted man, independent, hardworking,who to love me and who i will love in
return.Very interlligent, openminded, simple in heart kind of man.

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I am a wonderful, single woman with a heart of gold, a woman you would love to meet
and even spend the whole rest of your life with as am also willing to meet that
special man God has sent to me,that i will be with from now til death do us part, I
just need every thing i ever wanted in one man only,am ready to spend both my day
and night with that special man.I'm my own woman and I am comfortable with my own
life., I'm beautiful, kind and respectful, well-spoken...I am extremely passionate
and affectionate..

I'm just an everyday, ordinary, average, normal woman. Nothing special about me., I
consider myself to be very simple. I believe that men needs to be treated with
respect and as a equal partner in a relationship, but all I seem to find is the
ones that does not know how to respond to that or is untrusting to it, I feel like
u should treat somebody with respect and like they are a person not a peice of meat
or whatever. I am the type of person who wants somebody to feel wanted not just as
a trophy, I am a very affectionate person and I love to cuddle, I like to show
somebody how I feel not just telling them., I love to be close to somebody whether
it is in the bed on the couch or wherever. I guess my dreams would be is to be
happy and have a family my goals in life I want to go into business for my self one
day but that will be a while from
now, I guess I want to work on my love life and be happy first and to have a
family, but I guess when the time is right it will happen, I like to play sports
just as much as I do watching them.

Most of all i like to spend time with who I am with, and cuddle up and watch a
movie, It is my opinion that we all want the same thing in regards to a partner,
and that most of us either do not know how or is scared to and sabotage themselves
from getting it. Ok, I like the outdoors, but I don't care about hunting or
fishing, well I will fish with an un-baited hook if it means I will get to spend
some time with someone I care about, There are a lot of things I like doing as in
dancing, cooking, camping, etc, My ultimate goal and what I think would make me
happy is to get back on my feet and have a man by my side that I love and loves me,
I am very relationship oriented and I believe life is too short to waste, When I am
in a relationship I am committed, honest, and loyal.

I think that falling in love is always a good thing, even if it doesn't work out.
There is always something to learn from being with someone,and happy times and
memories should be cherished, I am telling you this because I cannot predict the
future. For some people a relationship has to be all or nothing...I don't feel that
way, But I never in the past nor do I intend to intentionally hurt someone by
cheating, mistreating, or abusing them. i thought i am what you are looking for and
can you tell me everything about you too,?? cant wait to hear from you....

Country: United States

State:Usa austin texas
Ethnicity: Caucasian
Birthday: 06-07-1985
Eye: Blue
Hair: Blonde
Height: 167 cm
Weight: 60 kg
Cup: D
Measurements: 36D-26-37

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THE MAN I AM LOOKING FOR

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I am looking for an honest, lovin understanding, caring, romantic, passionate and
an outgoing man.Very trusted man, independent, hardworking, who to love me and who
i will love in return. Very intelligent, open minded, simple in heart kind of man
and above all a God fearing man.....
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QUESTIONS FOR YOU

What do you think is the biggest mistake that women tend to make in relationships?

Do you think that women tend to be too macho or too sensitive?

What are the qualities of your ideal relationship?

Have you ever gone out with a woman who was a Challenge?

What's the most important thing that women don't understand about men that they
should?

Have you ever had your heart broken?

What scares you the most about opening your heart to a woman?

Were you usually the dumper or the dumpee in your past relationships?

Do you feel that you've ever had a truly successful relationship?

Why did your last relationship fail?

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Hi,i am Nikki David,I'm from Usa new jersey, i saw your profile on Amateur match
and had to contact you for more chat..i am looking forward in meeting a soul mate
and i am new to this online stuff I am willing to get to know more about each other
...!!And would Love to meet if you don't Mind?
Bye.....

Khate.

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I wish i could meet you soon cos am in a deep shit here right now cos i have a
round trip ticket and it gonna expire soon.what has happen its a vey bad honey,i
will just brief for you i met one guy on AM dating site earlier last year and he
told me that he love me to be his wife & we dated online for a very long time
before i made up my mind this year to come and visit him in his country. and i
accept because This guy was so good and nice to me.The guy is from nigeria later he
invited me to his country and i went there when i got here he took me to one loca
hotel there and we slept there till next day when i woke up in the next day i told
him to took me to his family house and he refused to do that.next day i slept
before i woke up the guy have stole my money and jewelries and run away.he left me
alone in the hotel,This just happen to me recently even am still in the hotel in
nigeria.. he left me all alone in the hotel without paying the hotel bills.now i am
in sad and sorrow i dont know what to do babe maybe i am gonna poison myself down
here because i am sucked and stranded down here.now i am willing to relocate to the
right man from down here.and this is all what bring me into the AM site again..

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patty melt with pork & beans
hot snandwitch
Tocobell
here if you like meat loaf made with ground turkey and Nature Valley Granola Bars
ground up and used as bread crumbs with side of mac and cheese ...... of course
Heinz 57 sause to put on the meat loaf
had bagels and cream cheese at church this morning for breakfast with orange
juice ......
maple and brown sugar packet + original packet
oatmeal
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what kind of man do you want ??

i want a man that is not too hurt and not too hard to trust again and can give
himself to a wife to be loved and taken care of in a way that will bring a joy of
life and an appreciation he will look forward to every day...there is a lifestyle
of marriage in the Lord that gives life and purpose to being married and can really
be enjoyed..i am looking for that quality of marriage are you?

i believe in taking care of a man and treating him as a gift that God meant him to
be....i also understand that making love is not just a physical act of two
bodies..i would want someone that is kind, caring, loving, enjoys life, one that
knows there is stress in life..but doesn't let it run his life, one that isn't
afraid to show and express their feelings, someone that agrees to disagree at
times.

You are kind, sweet, know how to love and cherish a woman the way God meant it to
be...very special man, a best friend, lover for life....I'm searching for
everlasting love the way God meant it to be, and i am not ashamed of that. My
upbringing was to be a woman at all times..i am a well polished diamond...i don�t
like to play games, no wasting anyone�s time, life is to short.

Well I 'll tell you a bit of my background. I was born and raised in USA./SPAIN.
and sometimes visit my late dad house in England west Sussex do you know where
west Sussex is . Have you ever been there . well i have still got the house to my
own for me and my future husband to visit with kids when we are planning vacation
in England .... It was much different when I was growing up, a beautiful cozy small
town on the ocean, and not many hurricanes approached our shores. It was wonderful.

I love life with my heart and i promise to love my man with my soul...i am loyal
above all, very intelligent, funny, well adjusted...i enjoy going out as well as
staying in...i miss having a man on my/him couch, watching, laughing, listening,
caring, watching, kissing, holding, rubbing each other sore backs, necks, heads.
Just being together, looking into each others eyes and know what each other is
saying without speaking a word.

I am a passionate woman and i love to be affectionate....in the long run it is

companionship and enjoyment of what each person loves to do....the compatibility to
enjoy it together...i am not into lust, rather into finding chemistry that will
lead to love and monogamy.

Most woman today are all about self gratification and not concerned about
tomorrow...that is shallow and leads to a very empty, unfulfilled life.

If i capture your heart you will have my heart that offers that deep unconditional
love we all desire. My boundless personality that will keep you laughing and
loving. And my soul which you will have captured forever...am one of a kind.....If
this is what you desire for the rest of your life, search no more.

I'm an energetic and sociable person...i appreciate decency and sincerity in a

relationship between a woman and a man.

I'm seeking a man open, kind, serious, confident, cheerful, responsible who is
ready for marriage.

I was raised with a strike Christian background and taught from a young age to
always respect myself and other people....i still maintains this value wherever I
goes....the inner beauty is more important for me than the beauty of appearance.

I wish to open a new world in the world of your soul....and if i understand you are
the Only whom i am seeking, i share with you all your sorrows and joys, I'll will
be your best friend and life partner i like to travel very much....It is very
interesting to get more knowledge about the new countries, new people and
traditions...It's great to have such a possibility.

you are such a gentleman, i also miss having a man in my life, i can say that i
truly miss having time to cuddle and caress, kissing, just being with that special
man.

i I am looking for my partner for life. Someone to care for someone to love and
share with my hopes my dreams my sorrows. Someone who knows a relationship is a
work of art something that you strive together in building and molding it into
place. I miss the touch of a man, and sharing affection with a man. you might laugh
but I miss every aspect that comes with being that significant other for another I
miss talking kissing and laughing with someone.

like to stay home sometimes because i don't get to do that much...i am very loyal
to all who know me, i have never betrayed any one's confidence, it is a part of
whom i am.... I'm also intelligent i take commitments very seriously, if you want
good things from life you have to have goals. My main goal has been to find a
loyal, caring, affectionate soul mate.

i want to find a soul mate that is caring, kind-hearted, passionate, loving,

wonderful, intelligent, passionate about what they do in life as well as their
relationship.
You are so amazing, I never thought I would find a man who truly is the genuine,
kind, loving, loyal, and caring Man like you in my life

respect is so important, if you can find all that once in your life you are so very
fortunate...i think you are all that and much more, you are truly amazing. You are
one of a kind.

I would like to get to know more about who you are and where you come from....i
really like what i know, you are one of a kind...i have not experienced such
wonderful conversations with anyone like this. It truly tells a lot about you, you
really sound like who i have been looking for to be with and to spend all the whole
and rest of my life with forever.

I am so full of love and affection that I have been waiting for such a special
man...i have never let my standards down even when i was told they were too
high...i just prayed that someday i would find all the wonderful things that i
wanted...i don't let people into my life easily, nor do i let them out of it..i am
true and loyal.

I'm a quiet, kind, loyal. A great meaning for me is a humans soul. Circle of my
interests is various. I like the literature, music, and cinema. personality traits
are; calm, honest, kind, loyal, flexible, elegant, sociable, sensitive, gentle,
cheerful, optimistic, romantic .

To be honest I'm looking for a partner in life. There is no physical criteria

except I must be attracted to them. i realize attraction is more than skin deep
though. I'm not looking for someone to take care of me but someone to share me
with. I truly believed in my role when I was married and loved being a wife. To be
honest miss it greatly.

I am looking for my partner for life. Someone to care for someone to love and share
with my hopes my dreams my sorrows. Someone who knows a relationship is a work of
art something that you strive together in building and molding it into place. I
miss the touch of a man, and sharing affection with a man. you might laugh but I
miss every aspect that comes with being that significant other for another I miss
talking kissing and laughing with someone.

My perception of an ideal , I would like to see near me clever, intelligent, and

reliable man. Which would require my emotional heat, capable to like and respect
the man.

I have to let you know as well, that am an honest person as i have said, and i have
to be honest with that, i don't have any boyfriend at present now and am not in any
serious relationship.

am a great giver because I so much believes in the Multiplied returns and that's
why I doesn�t lack anything. I never speak negatively about people I take less and
listen more to people and does not jump into other people's affairs.

Am very understanding,open minded with a heart of forgiving, loving and caring with
sense of humor, hard working with cheerful character,honest,sincere,kind, warm and
intelligent with good look .....

my favorite food is plantain,meats,Fruits and i eats plenty of fruits and

vegetable....i also do like to eat french pizza and pasta.

I have been Hurt before and will not allow `that to happen to me again,that's why i
took my time to look for my Love Life.

It will be so great to be together and love and I hope, someday we'll meet and we
will be happy in our souls and hearts!

would you embrace my heart and soul as you would your own. I don't let people in
often, only when I feel that are of character and would not hurt me. I so want
someone who would cherish me for all that I am and want to be in life. Everything I
give in life is real and from the heart. Your heart would be safe with my heart.

I hope to create a happy, cosy, secure marriage with a nice man, I would love to
have a loving family in a nice house where everyone feels good to come home to.

have fully decided to be a role Model to my children and a good, loving and caring
wife to my husband.But I doesn�t want to mess myself with the wrong man.Basically I
decided to settle with a nice, good loving and caring man in any part of the world.
If I allow you into my heart which is a very special place, can I trust you to hold
it or will you throw it back in my face? Will you give it alot of love,kindness and
affection, or will you lie and mislead it in all different directions? Would you
take care of it as it would take care of you,or would you rip it out and step on it
with your shoe?

If I allow you in my heart which is capable of generating warm feelings of love

your way, would you hold it tenderly and caress it each and everyday? A heart as
bright as the sunshine rays lighting the very corners of you soul, holding you
taking your breath away.

If I allow you in my heart to feel the warmth of your hand will you embrace it with
your love,your passions,your plans?

If I allow you in my heart will I know your love for it is real,will you cherish it
and show it how a real woman feels?

If I allow you in my heart will you fill it with all of your manhood your Passion
your fire, the very Essenes of you...your desire?

To get in my heart it will except no imitation, if you promise to love, cherish,and

take care of it, my heart extends to you..

Are you really over your Past relationship? YES

Are you truly ready to move forward in your life? YES

Have you forgiven all the past relationship and those that have offended you or
hurt you in the past? YES

Do you go to Church,how often do you go to church? YES

What's your view on religion? ITS A WAY OF LIFE

What's your favorite brand of music? BLUES AND CONTINENTAL ,COUNTRY SONGS

Where is one place you did like to visit that you haven't gotten the opportunity to
see???? IRELAND,AUSTRALIA

Tell me the most memorable moment of you life and tell me the saddest times of your
life to(if you would love to share)? WHEN I LOST MY DAD and THE DEATH OF MY PET

What will be the your ideal first date with the woman of your dream? A CANDLE NIGHT
DINNER FOR TWO

Do you like the waters,what your favorite sport? YES

What do you like doing when it's raining outside? PLAY WITH MY PARTNER IN THE RAIN

Like to shop Antique Gold and Jewelry ?? YES

What's your view on Politics? DON'T GET INVOLVED

Do you like to watch the sunrise? SURE I DO

Do you enjoy road trips??? ever had any fantasy??? YES

Do you ever get "crazy"? SOME TIMES

Are you any good at holding hands, or hugging?? YES

How do you spend your holidays? Free time? WITH THE ONE I LOVE

Do you frequently have several task going on at the same time? NO

Do you frequently have unfinished task and don't get back to them? NO

What is you ideal income? 40k

Are you financially stressed, just fine, comfortable or blessed? JUST FINE

What education did you complete? COLLEGE

Where have you lived? NJ, TX, UTAH

Where did you get your education? NJ, TX

Are you at ease in a crowd? YES

Do you assume responsibility? YES

What do you truly hate? LIARS

What can really get you upset? CHEATERS

Do you prefer to read a book at home alone or go to a party? READ at home

Do you trust you feelings rather than reason? YES

What would your family say about you? I AM KIND

How old were you when you first fell in love? 20

Do you find it difficult to speak loudly? no

If you don't like someone do you tell otherwise? NO

Do you like adventure? WHO DOESN'T

Do you avoid obligations? no