BDSM Activities Quiz (for Doms and subs)

This makes it easier to identify boundaries, negotiate, and find common ground to move on.

For each point, several answers are needed:

❖ EXPERIENCE Column:
> YES or NO (to indicate whether you have ever done that activity)
> N/A (if it does NOT apply to your gender)
❖ DESIRE column: (value from 0 to 5)
> Indicate how you feel about DOING (or having done to you) that activity
■ ? = The point is not understood.
■ NO = You will NOT do (or receive) that under any circumstances (strict limit).
■ 0 = You have no desire to do that activity and you don't like doing it (in fact, you may
even hate it), and you would normally object to doing it, but you would allow the
dominant to do it if they really wanted to (soft borderline).
■ 1 = You neither like nor want to do the activity, but you would not object if asked.
■ 2 = you are willing to do the activity in question, but you do not particularly like it.
■ 3 = You usually like to do this activity, at least occasionally or sporadically.
■ 4 = You like this activity, and you would like to do it more regularly/habitually.
■ 5 = terribly exciting for you, and you would like to do it as often as possible.
> Mark with an asterisk (*) those points that you are only willing to do with your current
partner(s) [sexual(s) or Dominant(s)], but NOT with casual playmates.
❖ ACTION Column:
> H or R (to indicate if you want to DO or RECEIVE that action)
> N/A (if it does NOT apply to your gender)
❖ NOTES-COMMENTS column:
> Add any additional information/comments that may be important.

- Some categories intentionally overlap.

- You should always respond honestly and keep in mind that this should be kept in mind at all
times in the relationship. If you ever change your mind, you should always let us know.
- You can add any other technique that you know and think is interesting to be reflected.

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Experience Wish?, Action Notes, Personal comments,

Activity Yes or No; NO, 0 H, R, explain your answer
N/A to 5 N/A

Abrasion (from friction or heat)

Nipple clamps (tweezers)
Hot oils (on the genitals)
Tongue worship (non-sexual)
Boot Worship
Worship of the vulva
Penis Worship
Foot Worship
Worship heels
Shaving (hair) (total)
Shaving (body hair) (total)
Shaving (genital hair)
Nipple rings (Piercing)
Penis rings/straps
Harnesses (leather)
Harnesses (ropes)
Kneel
Suffocation
Bindings (multiple days)
Bondage (in public, under clothing)
Bindings (strong)
Bondage (soft)
Intricate rope ties (Japanese style)
Leather ties
Breast or chest ties
Weight gain (forced)
Weight loss (forced)
Bathing naked (outdoors)
Expander bars (for legs and arms)
Beatings (with a stick and with batons)
Bestiality (animalism)
Bites
Clothes pins
Slapping (on the buttocks)

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Experience Wish?, Action Notes, Personal comments,

Activity Yes or No; NO, 0 H, R, explain your answer
N/A to 5 N/A
Slapping (on your dominant's knees)
Slapping while supported by other elements
(racket)
Human puppy (playing baby)
Chains
Change of ages
Name changes (legally and permanently)

Name changes (for a scene)

Straightjackets
Hoods
Hoods (full head coverage)
Forced chastity
Catheterization
Cells/Lockers (being locked inside)
Stocks
Hot wax (with candle or by waxing)
Chirlos (wounds)
Clams with brushes
Slaps on the dominant's knees
Chastity belts
Plastic surgery (breast augmentation and reduction, for
example)
Necklaces (in private)
Necklaces (in public)
Competitions (with other submissives)
Getting new companions for the Dom

Vaginal dildo
Dildos
Strap-on dildos (licking)
Strap-on dildos (being penetrated)
Strap-on dildos (wearable)
Anal/oral contact (black kiss)
Breathing control
Vision control (blindfolds)

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Experience Wish?, Action Notes, Personal comments,

Activity Yes or No; NO, 0 H, R, explain your answer
N/A to 5 N/A

Orgasm control
Toilet training
Corsets (waist reduction training)
Corsets (casual wear)
Cuts
Tickle
Ice cubes
Erotic dance (with audience)
Giving oral sex (fellatio/cunnilingus)
Orgasm denial
Waxing
Sleep deprivation (not allowing sleep)
Sensory deprivation
Sexual deprivation (short term)
Sexual deprivation (long term)
Both anal and vaginal dilation
Corrective speeches
Double penetration
Pain (mild)
Pain (medium)
Pain (severe)
Exercise (forced/required)
To tease (to be the butt of jokes)
Enemas (for cleansing)
Enemas (retention/punishment)
Training (within a scene)
Tampon training (in the rectum)
Wrapping in plastic
Punishment scene
Outdoor scenes
Prison scenes
Medical scenes
Religious scenes
Slave - Pony

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Experience Wish?, Action Notes, Personal comments,

Activity Yes or No; NO, 0 H, R, explain your answer
N/A to 5 N/A

Spits
Specula (anal)(apparatus)
Specula (vaginal)
Handcuffs (leather)
Handcuffs (metal)
Thumb Cuffs
Testicular stretching
Constriction
Physical examinations (scans)
Exhibitionism (in front of friends)
Exhibitionism (in front of strangers)
Fantasy of abandonment
Castration fantasy
Rape fantasy
gang rape fantasy
Fisting (anal)
Fisting (vaginal)
Whips
(severe) beatings (flogging)
Beatings (mild)
Full body beatings (strapping)
Shackles and irons
Harems (serving with other submissives)
Hypnotism
Humiliation (in private)
Humiliation (in public)
Verbal humiliation
Include others (as participants)
Infantilism
Immobilization
Partner swapping (with another couple)
Partner swapping (multiple)
Interrogations (interrogatories)
Injections

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Experience Wish?, Action Notes, Personal comments,

Activity Yes or No; NO, 0 H, R, explain your answer
N/A to 5 N/A
Cages (being enclosed within)
Games with weapons
Games with knives
Games with fire
Licking (non-sexual)
Whipping
Whipping to the genitals
Whipping on the breasts
Lingerie (dress)
Golden showers
Brown rains (eschatological)
Wrestling

Arm or leg sleeves (arm ties)

Manicure (give)
Marked (with fire e.g.)
Massages (give)
Massages (receive)
Gas masks
Fear (being scared)
Modeling for erotic photos (posing)
Personality modification (in real life)
Mummification
Riding the "Horse" (Genital Torture)
Clamps (tape)
Gags (phallic)
Clamps (rubber)
Gags (inflatable)
Clamps (cloth)
Smells
Another person chooses his food
Another person chooses their clothes
Wooden pallets
Diapers (soiling)

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Experience Wish?, Action Notes, Personal comments,

Activity Yes or No; NO, 0 H, R, explain your answer
N/A to 5 N/A

Diapers (wetting)
Diapers (dressing)
Standing in a corner (punishment)
Nipple weights
Electric prod
Piercing (permanent)
Piercing (temporary/game only)
Prostitution (public performance)
Prostitution (real)
Scratch the other
Getting Bitten
Receiving oral sex
Receiving oral sex (fellatio/cunnilingus)

Restrictive rules on behavior

Auction for charity (auction)
Restrictions on eye contact
Restrictions on speech
Public revelation
Rites of initiation (observe or participate)
Rituals (observe or participate)
Animal roles
Leather clothing
Spandex clothing (leggings type)
Sexy clothes (in private)
Sexy clothes (in public)
Rubber or latex clothing
Sleeping bags (continuous)
Kidnappings
Follow orders
Being forced to eat
Being forced to strip (in private)
Being forced to strip (in public)
Being forced to smoke

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Experience Wish?, Action Notes, Personal comments,

Activity Yes or No; NO, 0 H, R, explain your answer
N/A to 5 N/A
Being forced to masturbate
Being forced to wet the bed
Being forced to serve
Being forced into heterosexual relationships

Being forced into homosexual relationships

Being forced to dress

Being scratched
Being given to another dominant
(permanent)
Being given to another dominant
(temporary)
Chauffeur service (give)
Domestic services
Serve
Serving other dominants (with supervision)
Serving other dominants (unsupervised)
Serve as an ashtray
Serve as a toilet (feces)
Serve as a toilet (urine)
Serve as a waiter
Serve as furniture
Serve as a work of art
Serving as a maid
Serve orally (sexually)
Sex in the open air
Anal sex
Manual sex (giving)
Manual sex (receiving)
Phone sex (with her dominant)
Phone sex (on the orders of your dominant
and with others)
Phone sex (commercial)
Air suspension (right)

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Suspension in the air (horizontal)

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Experience Wish?, Action Notes, Personal comments,

Activity Yes or No; NO, 0 H, R, explain your answer
N/A to 5 N/A

Anal plug in public (under clothes)

Anal plugs (large)
Anal plugs (small)
Household chores
Having sex with others (in order)
Having homosexual relations (in order)
Hair pulling
Water torture
Nipple torture
Swallowing feces
Swallowing urine
swallow semen
Transvestism (dressing and behaving)
Triple penetration
TENS unit (for electrical stimulation)
Uniforms
Use of food
Use of spittoons
Urethral rods (metal)
Wearing symbolic jewelry
Wearing heels
Vibrator on the genitals
video (participate in)
video (watch)
Voyeurism (watching others)
Voyeurism (watching the dominant with
others)
Role change
Time control
Task control
Keeping/swallowing food in your mouth
that you don't know what it is
Written contracts

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