Seeking Wisdom Together Proverbs 15 18 33
Seeking Wisdom Together Proverbs 15 18 33
of the knowledge of good and evil you shall not eat, for in the day that
you eat of it you shall surely die.”!
(2) 2 Thessalonians 3:10 - 10 For even when we were with you, we would
give you this command: If anyone is not willing to work, let him not eat.!
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c) CONSEQUENCES OF REJECTING WISDOM - 20 A wise son makes a glad
father, but a foolish man despises his mother. 21 Folly is a joy to him who
lacks sense, but a man of understanding walks straight ahead. 22 Without
counsel plans fail, but with many advisers they succeed.!
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i) Verses 20 and 21 speak of the impact of wisdom and folly on one’s life. Love
in a home brings peace (vv. 16–17), and obedient and wise conduct brings joy
(śāmaḥ) to the parents, but folly does not. In fact only a fool despises his
mother. Here rather than stating that folly in a son grieves his mother (as in
10:1) that reaction on her part is implied and the fool’s attitude toward her is
stated. !
ii) Delighting in iniquity, determined to have his own way despite every
warning and entreaty, the fool plunges on, rejoicing in his folly. The man of
integrity, subjecting himself to the fear of God, walks in uprightness, refusing
to be decoyed by sinful pleasures and fascinations.!
iii) Four times the Book of Proverbs focuses on the importance of getting advice
from others in regard to one’s plans (11:14; 15:22; 20:18; 24:6).!
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(1) Peter evidently acted without advice when he chose to compromise with
the Jews in the Antioch church (Gal. 2:11-13), whereas Paul received the
blessing of the apostles in Jerusalem when he sought their support for his
mission to the Gentiles (Gal. 2:7-10).!
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d) TIMING IN SPEECH - 23 To make an apt answer is a joy to a man, and a word
in season, how good it is! !
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i) In verses 23, 30, 33 the second line begins with and, pointing up synonymous
parallelism (see “Literary Style” in the Introduction). Appropriately spoken
words (cf. 25:11–12), saying the right thing at the right time, delights (śāmaḥ;
see comments on 15:20) not only the hearer but also the one who says them.
Timely words (whether of love, encouragement, rebuke, or peacemaking) are
beneficial. !
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(1) It is not just important to speak the truth. One must also speak
appropriately in view of the time, place, and circumstances. The right
thing said at the right time ("a timely word") can be a source of joy and
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happiness to many people. Such were the words of James at the Jerusalem
Counsel (Acts 15:13-21).!
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e) THE PRUDENT LIVE LONGER - 24 The path of life leads upward for the
prudent, that he may turn away from Sheol beneath. !
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i) Each of verses 24, 26–33 refers directly or indirectly to a characteristic of the
godly: wise (v. 24), humble (v. 33), pure (v. 26), honest (v. 27), cautious (v. 28),
prayerful (v. 29), joyful (v. 30), teachable (vv. 31–32), and reverent before the
Lord (v. 33). Wisdom can keep a person from a premature death, a point often
made in Proverbs (cf. 3:2, 16; 4:10; 9:11; 10:27; 14:27). !
ii) Sheol is the world of spirits—the unseen. It refers not to the place of future
punishment only, but to what was, even to the children of God, before the
Cross, a land of darkness beyond the grave. And, inasmuch as long life was a
blessing promised to the faithful Hebrew, an early cutting off from this
present life was a calamity to be dreaded. Hence the way of life could be said
to lead away from Sheol beneath. Those who trod it would be preserved to an
honored old age in the land given by God to His earthly people. Hezekiah’s
case aptly illustrates the state of mind in regard to death which was common
among truly pious persons in the past dispensation. See Isaiah 38 and 2 Kings
20.1!
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f) GOD PROTECTS WIDOWS - 25 The Lord tears down the house of the proud
but maintains the widow's boundaries. !
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i) “Though the Lord be high, yet hath He respect unto the lowly: but the proud
He knoweth afar off” (Psa. 138:6). His face is ever set against those who exalt
themselves; but from of old He has been the support of the fatherless and the
widow who confided in His love and care. He would have His needy people
trust His grace more implicitly, assured that His heart is ever towards them.
But the haughty and self-inflated have no title to His consideration and
loving-kindness. Their house shall fall, and their pride be withered up.
Contrast the judgment on Coniah’s house (Jer. 22:30) with the Lord’s care of
the widow of Zarephath (1 Kings 17:10–16).!
ii) God typically frustrates "the work (house) of the proud," to teach them that
He is sovereign. King Nebuchadnezzar learned this lesson when he lost his
mind (Dan. 4). But He also typically guards those who recognize their
dependence on Him, such as "widow" who have no one else to turn to for
help and who call on the Lord (cf. Ps. 138:6). Naomi learned this lesson when
God provided for her (Ruth 4), as did the widow of Zarephath (1 Kings
17:10-16).!
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g) GOD LOVES PURE THOUGHTS - 26 The thoughts of the wicked are an
abomination to the Lord, but gracious words are pure.!
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i) "The sacrifice of the wicked is an abomination to the LORD [v. 8]," but so are
their "evil plans"—like Saul's plans to destroy David. "Pleasant words” do not
fit with evil plans, because words express one's plans. In other words, God
hates both the plans and the words of the wicked, but He delights in the plans
and the words of the upright. Their words are pure in His sight because they
spring from a true heart. David's psalms contain pleasant words that pleased
God because they expressed what was in his (relatively) pure heart. !
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(1) There is no such thing as private thoughts. !
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h) GREED DESTROYS THE HOME - 27 Whoever is greedy for unjust gain
troubles his own household, but he who hates bribes will live.!
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i) The Hebrew word for greedy (bāṣa‘, “to cut or break off”) suggests making
gain unjustly or by violence. (On “a greedy man” see 28:25.) A dishonest
father, providing for his family by unjust or violent means, will eventually
cause his wife and children to suffer (cf. trouble in 11:29; 15:6). Accepting or
giving bribes is a form of dishonesty or greed because they pervert justice (see
comments on 6:35). So to reject bribes helps prolong one’s life and prevent
trouble for one’s family.!
ii) 1 Timothy 6:10 - 10 For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evils. It is
through this craving that some have wandered away from the faith and
pierced themselves with many pangs.!
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(1) This would be an example of the Exodus 20:5 - visiting the sins of the
fathers on the third and fourth generation. When the leader of the home
participates in unjust gain it can bring reproach on the whole family,
negatively affecting the lives of the generations to come. !
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good report (good tidings) maketh the bones fat; strengthens them and gives
them health (comp. ch. 3:8; 16:24). Sight and hearing are compared in the two
clauses, “bones” in the latter taking the place of “heart” in the former. The
happy look and good news alike cause joy of heart.3!
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(1) My Grandmother used to say, “smile when you enter a room, as it relaxes
others.”!
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l) CORRECTION IMPARTS LIFE - 31 The ear that listens to life-giving reproof
will dwell among the wise.!
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i) Note, 1. It is the character of a wise man that he is very willing to be reproved,
and therefore chooses to converse with those that, both by their words and
example, will show him what is amiss in him: The ear that can take the
reproof will love the reprover. Faithful friendly reproofs are here called the
reproofs of life, not only because they are to be given in a lively manner, and
with a prudent zeal (and we must reprove by our lives as well as by our
doctrine), but because, where they are well-taken, they are means of spiritual
life, and lead to eternal life, and (as some think) to distinguish them from
rebukes and reproaches for well-doing, which are rather reproofs of death,
which we must not regard nor be influenced by. 2. Those that are so wise as to
bear reproof well will hereby be made wiser (ch. 9:9), and come at length to
be numbered among the wise men of the age, and will have both ability and
authority to reprove and instruct others. Those that learn well, and obey well,
are likely in time to teach well and rule well. !
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m) INSTRUCTION IMPARTS INTELLIGENCE - 32 Whoever ignores instruction
despises himself, but he who listens to reproof gains intelligence.!
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i) This verse carries on and puts the climax to the lesson of the preceding. He
that refuseth instruction despiseth his own soul; “hateth himself,” Septuagint;
commits moral suicide, because he does not follow the path of life. He is like
a sick man who thrusts away (ἀπωθεῖται, Septuagint) the wholesome
medicine which is his only hope of cure. He that heareth (listeneth to) reproof
getteth understanding; literally, possesseth a heart, and therefore does not
despise his soul, but “loves it” (ch. 19:8), as the LXX. renders. !
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