How To Text A Girl

(The Simple Way)

By Ashley Lloyd Shaw

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Mindset and Attitude:
So, texting from one point of view ought to be mainly used for continuing to
screen her to see if she ticks your boxes and set up a date whilst still
continuing to build comfort with another. This can be applied to the 1st, 2nd
and 3rd date (and so on).

(Please Note This Is A Rough Guideline… Are You Ready? Here We Go...)

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Structure:

Message 1 –
Keep it short, sweet and simple. Be straight forward. Points to consider -
Comment on meeting her, make an assumption or use a screening question or
statement.

Example -
Spontaneous / Cool / etc
bumping into you / meeting you (name).
Are you usually that friendly/smiley/upbeat/chilled/laid back/easy going/etc?
(or another type of question you'd want to know) 🤔... (sign name off)
- THIS COULD ALSO BE SENT AS A VOICE NOTE

Message 2 –
Respond to what she's said and continue to lightly screen and get to know her.

Example -
You strike me as someone who's into... / I’m curious to know if…

Message 3 -
Respond to what she's said. Begin setting up a date and continue to get to
know her while lightly sceening.

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Example -
Blah Blah...
When we're both not busy...let's xyz sometime. How’s that sound? As long as
you promise not to be to much trouble ;).

Xyz could = Drinks, Hot Chocolate, Cake, Mini Golf, Bowling, Dancing, Salsa,
etc.

Message 4 –
Respond to what she's said and arrange day, time, location. DO NOT miss all 3
pieces out. Your job is to make this as easy as possible for the both of you. You
are the space of Masculine energy – structure, direction. She is the space of
Feminine energy – spontaneity, flow. She doesn’t want to have to think and
would prefer to just be led and flow.

Example -
Blah Blah...
I could do Thursday around 7pm, meeting outside xyz. Is that good for you as
well?
/
I could do Thursday around 7pm or Sunday around 6pm, meeting outside xyz.
Which one would be good for you as well?

Message 5 –
Continue the conversation whilst also still arranging the date.

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Example –
Blah blah.
Great, see you then.
What’s the rest of your week looking like, anything chilled or exciting?
/
Have a good rest of the week/weekend.

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Other:

When continuing to keep in touch example -

If she's being wishy washy about when to meet etc - Let's arrange for another
time when it's not a maybe :).
(Then check back in a week or so)

If she hasn't responded aka if she has ghosted you. Respect the dead and
move on. That’s my suggestion. There can be exceptions to the rule...
sometimes.

BUT...

If you really want to reach out and message again after she hasn’t responded,
you could send a clickbait / nudge type message. I would wait at least 3 days
before doing this.

Example –

Guess what...?
(Very hard for a woman to resist responding to this as it sparks her curiosity.
Just be sure to have something ready to respond with when she say ‘What?’)

Can you keep a secret?

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(Same as above)
You haven't responded - Did you drop your phone down the toilet? 😋
You haven't responded - Are you playing hard to get? 😛
You could just send an emoji, funny meme or gif. Maybe one about ghosting
😆.

If you don't hear from her in a week or 2 max, let her go, remove number and
continue with the women that are receptive to you. Focus on the other
women that are your cuppa tea and also make effort too.

Your job isn’t to convince any woman to go out with you. Your job is to
express yourself to the best of your ability with the understandings and
principles between the romantic dynamic between men and women – the
Masculine and Feminine energy. Whilst being on a journey and inviting her
along for the ride.

That’s it for now. Short, Sweet, Simple. Simplicity is key.

As I mentioned this is a rough guideline which you really want to make your
own along with the ideas and principles of GUIDING, teasing, playing.

Try your best not to stress to much and overthink about what to say and what
to send. I’ve been there and trust me it’s not worth it. You’ll be doing yourself
a favour by allowing yourself to just not give a f**k by authentically
expressing what you want combined with an understanding of romantic
principles and dynamics.

If you’d like more guidance in living the Dating life you desire or
understanding around the romantic dynamics between Men and Women.
Then feel free to connect with me via any of my socials or website.

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And if you found this rough guideline helpful, please feel free to give it a rating
here.

Either way, I wish you the best!

Ashley Lloyd Shaw

www.ashleylloydshaw.com

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