Unit 3: FAMILY

►Listen. Write the responses these people use to agree. Then practice
Wisdom of the Day: “What can you do to promote world peace? Go
the conversation with a partner.
home and love your family.” — Mother Teresa 1. A: It seems like people are getting married much later these days.
B: ________ I think it’s better to wait until you’re older.
Reading: FAMILY BREAKDOWN A: ________ That way you have time to grow up.
Society in the West seems to be getting into a very chaotic condition as
a consequence to the family breakdown. The emphasis on self- 2. A: I think it’s sad that so many people get divorced these days.
gratification, materialism, and instant gratification has taken priority over B: ________ I heard that 1 in 3 marriages ends in divprce. That’s terrible,
the collective well-being and stability provided by strong family units. especially when kids are involved.
Traditional gender roles have been challenged, leading to a redefinition A: ________ It’s a real shame.
of familial expectations and roles within households. Furthermore, the
advancement of technology has played a role in the decline of family 3. A: It’s too bad families don’t eat together anymore.
values. Social media, smartphones, and other digital distractions have B: ________ I read an article about that. It said when families eat
together, the kids get into less trouble because they talk to each other more..
reduced face-to-face interactions within families. Instead of engaging in
A: ________ And anyway, it’s just nicer to eat together.
meaningful conversations and quality time, individuals often prioritize
virtual connections. Additionally, the emphasis on personal freedom
4. A: You know, I don’t think it’s good when both parents work. It’s not good
and individual desires has undermined the importance of selflessness for the kids.
and sacrifice within familial relationships. B: ________ But I guess some families need two incomes.
A: ________ But money isn’t everything.
Divorce, nonmarital births, teenage mothers, and father absence are
dreadfully prevalent. And, quietly, the nation is seeing an epidemic of ►Listen to the phrases and underline the stressed syllables. Then listen again
elderly people living alone who have no close relatives or friends and and repeat them, copying the rhythm and intonation.
whose decayed bodies are found weeks or months after their deaths by agreeing half-agreeing disagreeing
landlords or police. Lonely deaths: Is that what's come of the American 1 I definitely agree. 5 I see your point, but... 8 I completely disagree.
dream? Washington Examiner 2 I totally agree. 6 l see what you mean, but... 9 I don't agree at all.
3 That's what l think, too. 7 I agree up to a point, but...
4 Absolutely!
Single teenage mother Courtney Cassidy and her three children Discuss the causes of family decline with your classmates.
-Liberal values
-Poverty
-Lack of discipline and parental control
-Full-time employment of mother
-Negative media influences
 Look at the photo and answer the questions.
1 What difficulties do teenage mothers experience? Watch the video about family members.
2 What effect would being teenage mothers have on children?

►NATURAL CONVERSATION
A BRAND NEW TYPE OF FAMILY
ANNA: What are you up to?
Adolescent mothers and their offspring are a high risk group both physically
MAY: I have some photos of my family. Come take a look.
and emotionally. Poverty, malnutrition, complications of pregnancy, ANNA: Oh great! Let me see… Who’s that guy?
emotional problems such as depression, drug and alcohol use, are all risks MAY: That’s my older brother. He works for World Tech in London.
for the mother. Children are also at greater risk for physical, cognitive and ANNA: Really! And who are those two? They’re really cute!
emotional problems. It is therefore important to identify factors which MAY: Oh, those are my sister’s kids. That’s her right here. They live in Hong
influence outcome on adolescent mothers and their children in order to Kong.
suggest interventions which will more positively affect the physical and
psychological health of this increasing population. Tell the class about your family. “My parents are Muhammad and Fatima. I
have two brothers, Ali and Hassan…”
DISCUSSIN
What causes family breakdown? FAMILY TREE Look at the family tree. How are the people related to Emily?
Who suffers most as a result of the breakdown of the family? Write the words in the family tree.
Do you think the government grants for single mothers induce teenage niece / husband / cousin / father-dad / grandfather / uncle / sister / nephew /
pregnancy? brother-in-law / aunt / grandmother / brother / mother-mom
Are you a close family? What would you like us to know about your parents?
What do you usually talk about in your family?
If both parents work, how can they balance work, family and personal time?
What role do grandparents and members of your extended family have in your
family?
What does your family do to help you learn?
What are your family’s traditions? How do you celebrate important events?

Is there a strong family trait? Have you inherited it?

Is there someone in the family you particularly admire? Why?
When seeking advice, are you more likely to turn to friends or family?

LANGUAGE FUNCTION agreeing

You can use these expressions to agree with people’s opinions.
Absolutely. Definitely. Exactly.You’re right. That’s true. That’s for sure.I agree
(with you). (Oh,) yeah. (Oh,) I know. ►Now listen and check.

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VOCABULRY: ►The Family VOCABULARY ■Relating to your family
A-Married couple: 1. husband 2. wife 3. ex-husband 4. ex-wife
B-Parents and children: 5. father 6. mother 7. daughter 8. son
C- Grandparents and grandchildren: 9. grandfather 10. grandmother 11.
granddaughter 12. grandson
D- Siblings: 13. sister 14. brother
E-Other relatives: 15. aunt 16. uncle 17. niece 18. nephew 19. cousins
F- In-laws: 20. father-in-law 21. mother-in-law 22. daughter-in-law 23. son-
in-law 24. sister-in-law 25. brother-in-law
Choose three family members and describe your relationship with them.
LISTENING COMPREHENSION: ►Listen and complete 1—4 with these admire adore be on the same wavelength as be very close to envy
feel sorry for have a lot in common with have nothing in common with look
names: Nolan Princess Sara Tom
down on look up to not see eye to eye with respect trust
Maria: Hi, Sara! Welcome to our house. e.g.: I don’t always see eye to eye with my brother.
Sara: Thanks. I really look up to my grandfather.
Maria: This is my husband, _________. And these are our children.
Sara: What are their names? Pair work: Your partner asks you about your family members. Give the correct
Maria: Her name’s Emma, and his name’s ________. answers.
Emma: And this is our cat. 1. Your mother's daughter is your
Sara: Oh, cute! What’s its name? 2. Your mother's mother is your
Emma: Her name is ________. She’s a girl. 3. Your father's son is your
Sara: Oh, sorry. 4. Your step-mother's son is your
Maria: The name of the restaurant is Marc’s Café. The phone number is on 5. Your brother's daughter is your
6. Your aunt's children are your
the table.
7. Your grandpa's father is your
Sara: Great, thanks.
8. Your dad's brother is your
Maria: My husband’s cell phone number is on the table, too.
9. Your sister's husband is your
Sara: OK. And your number is in my phone. 10. Your husband’s mother is your
Maria: Now, children. _________ is your babysitter. Be nice to her.
Children: OK, Mom.
►LISTENING: Family First by W. Houston

CONVERSATION MODEL ►Ask about Family Members Nothing's better than ___________________,1
A: So what does your sister do? For the ones who love you so
Be a shoulder to cry on when you’re in need
B: She’s a graphic designer. She works at Panorama designs. They'll never leave you ___________________,2, no
A: That’s great! How about your brother? When your ___________________,3 bring you down, and they drag you through
B: He doesn’t have a job right now. He’s a student. the dirt
And when nobody's around, they'll carry you through the __________________4
DISCUSSION: What Is Your Family Like? Just remember that family comes first
1. Everyone's family is different. What is your family like? Where’re you gonna run to? when no one is around
Who in your family...? Do you think out there they'll love you.
-likes to cook? When your face is on the ground? (face is on the ground),
-is kind of messy? When you feel your strength is almost gone
-likes to stay at home? And your arms are getting weak (when you’re getting weak)
And you don't think you'll keep holding on
-is good at telling stories?
We'll help you stand tall on your feet (just remember)
-wears nice clothes? Family comes first
-loves to go shopping?
-is easy to get money from? I can see you ___________________,5
-is the most fun to be around? Someone broke your ___________________,6,
-do you take after? In what way? Instead of being with those who _________________7 you,
-you don’t get along with? You spend time ___________________,8, It's because you think they won't
understand the ___________________,9 you're going through,
-you don't see eye to eye with on certain subjects?
So you don't reach out your ___________________,10 for them,
-is a black sheep? Until they'll pull and reach for you.
-wears the pants ?
Just remember that family comes first
PRONUNCIATION ►Reduction of do, does, and are Where’re you gonna run to? when no one is around
Listen and repeat. Do you think out there they'll love you.
1. Do you have any brothers? 3. Who do you like? When your face is on the ground?
When you feel your strength is almost gone
2. What does he do? 4. What are their names?
And your arms are getting weak
And you don't think you'll keep holding on
Pronunciation Help We'll help you stand tall on your feet
How we spell it How we say it
Do you Doya Don't you be ___________________,11 of your family,
Who do you Whodaya Put you into this earth and loved you since birth ___________________,12
What does he Whatduzzee sometimes you may disagree and you won’t see eye to eye
What are Whadder Don't you run away, oh no, they'll be right by your side

Where’re you gonna run to? when no one is around

DICTATION ►Listen and write the missing words. Do you think out there they'll love you.
A: ___________ have a big family, Eva? When your face is on the ground?
B: Kind of. I have a younger brother and an older sister. When you feel your strength is almost gone
A: Really? ___________ old are they? And your arms are getting weak (getting weak)
B: Let’s see… my brother is eighteen and my sister is twenty-five. And you don't think you'll keep holding on
A: Oh. ___________ your sister do? We'll help you stand tall on your feet (will help you stand, just remember)
B: She’s a chef. Family comes first
A: A chef? What a cool job! How do ___________ her food?
B: I haven’t tried it, actually. She lives in California.