Reality Theory
Reality Theory
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★ William Glasser and Robert E. Wubbolding. ★ Choice theory is based on the premise that
★ Reality therapists believe the underlying problem because we are by nature social creatures we
for most clients is the same: they are either need to both receive and give love.
involved in a present unsatisfying relationship or ★ the need to love and to belong is the primary
lack what could even be called a relationship. need because we need people to satisfy the other
★ The more clients are able to connect with people, needs. It is also the most difficult need to satisfy
the greater chance they have to experience ★ Choice theory teaches that we don’t satisfy our
happiness. needs directly but remember actions that make us
★ Reality therapists recognize that clients choose feel good throughout life.
their behaviors as a way to deal with the ★ We create a mental "quality world," a personal
frustrations caused by unsatisfying relationships. ideal life filled with specific images of people,
★ Glasser (2003) maintained that clients should not activities, events, beliefs, possessions, and
be labeled with a diagnosis except when it is situations that satisfy our unique wants and
necessary for insurance purposes. needs.
➔ He limits the term mental illness to ★ Picture album is the collection of mental images
conditions s associated with tangible brain within our quality world. It includes detailed
damage such as Alzheimer’s disease, "pictures" of what we want and how we believe
epilepsy, head trauma, and brain infections we can satisfy our needs, guiding our decisions
★ Choice theory -theoretical basis for reality and actions.
therapy; it explains why and how we function.
★ Reality therapy- provides a delivery system for
Choice Theory Explanation of Behavior
helping individuals take more effective control
of their lives.
➔ If choice theory is the highway, reality ★ Choice theory suggests that everything we do
therapy is the vehicle delivering the product from birth to death is a form of behavior, and
most of it is chosen or driven by our internal
Key Concepts motivations. This theory introduces the concept
of Total behavior, which is made up of four
interconnected components:
View of Emotional Disturbance ○ Acting (what we physically do).
○ Thinking (our thoughts and decisions).
★ Choice theory posits that we are not born blank ○ Feeling (our emotions).
slates waiting to be externally motivated by forces ○ Physiology (our physical responses, like
in the world around us. heart rate or tension).
★ Rather, we are born with five genetically encoded ★ These components always work together, and
needs that drive us all our lives: each behavior is our best attempt to meet our
○ survival, or self-preservation needs and desires.
○ love and belonging ★ The primary emphasis is on what the client is
○ power or inner control doing and how the doing component influences
○ freedom, or independence the other aspects of total behavior.
○ fun, or enjoyment
varies depending on the counselor’s style and ★ There are more choices available than clients
personal characteristics. realize, and the therapist explores these possible
★ With choice theory in the background of choices.
practice, the counselor tailors the counseling to ★ Wubbolding states that reality therapy helps
what each client presents. clients realize they are not victims, can gain inner
control, and have a range of choices open to
them.
The Counseling Environment ➔ In short, clients in reality therapy often
★ The practice of reality therapy rests on the acquire a sense of hope for a better
assumption that a supportive and challenging future.
environment allows clients to begin making life ★ Reality therapists help clients identify needs,
changes. discover their quality world, and recognize their
★ The therapeutic relationship is crucial for role in choosing behaviors, guiding them to make
effective practice; without it, the therapy is better choices and build successful relationships.
unlikely to succeed.
★ Counselors avoid negative behaviors arguing,
attacking, accusing, demeaning, blaming, The “WDEP” System
bossing, criticizing, finding fault, instilling fear, ★ The WDEP system can be used to help clients
or giving up easily explore their wants, possible things they can do,
★ Clients typically respond positively to the opportunities for self-evaluation, and design
caring, noncoercive environment, where they plans for improvement
feel free to explore and try new behaviors. ★ Grounded in choice theory, the WDEP system
assists people in satisfying their basic needs
★ Each of the letters refers to a cluster of strategies:
Procedures That Lead to Change
○ W = wants, needs, and perceptions;
★ Reality therapists operate on the assumption that ○ D = direction and doing
we are motivated to change ○ E = self-evaluation
○ (1) when we are convinced that our ○ P = planning
present behavior is not meeting our
needs
○ (2) when we believe we can choose other Wants (Exploring Wants, Needs, and Perceptions)
behaviors that will get us closer to what
★ Reality therapists assist clients in discovering their
we want
wants and hopes.All wants are related to the five
★ Reality therapists begin by asking clients what
basic needs
they want from therapy —They make the therapy
★ Through the therapist’s skillful questioning, clients
process clear and understandable. They also ask
are assisted in defining what they want from the
about the choices clients are making in their
counseling process and from the world around
relationships.
them.
★ When clients begin to realize that they can control
★ Part of counseling consists of exploring the
only their own behavior, therapy is under way.
“picture album,” or quality world,and how their
The rest of therapy focuses on how clients can
behavior seeks to align the external world with
make better choices.
their inner wants.