As an INFJ
As an INFJ
insight that sets you apart in today’s world. Your rich inner life is
characterized by complex emotions, vivid imagination, and a deep well of
empathy that allows you to connect with others on a profound level. You
have an unwavering commitment to your principles and an intense desire to
make a positive impact on the world around you.
Your natural ability to understand and interpret the feelings and motivations
of others is both a gift and a challenge. While it enables you to form deep,
meaningful connections and offer invaluable support to those around you, it
can also leave you feeling overwhelmed by the emotions and needs of
others. You often find yourself torn between your desire to help and your
need for privacy and solitude.
Your perfectionist tendencies drive you to constantly improve yourself and
the world around you. This relentless pursuit of growth and meaning can be
both exhilarating and exhausting. You have a knack for seeing potential and
possibilities where others might not, but you may struggle to bring your
visionary ideas into reality due to self-doubt or fear of criticism.
However, your idealism can sometimes clash with the realities of the working
world. You may struggle with mundane tasks or office politics, preferring to
focus on the bigger picture and long-term goals. Finding a balance between
your need for meaningful work and the practical aspects of a career is crucial
for your professional satisfaction. Look for opportunities that allow you to
exercise your creativity and work independently while still contributing to a
larger purpose.
INFJ
INFJs are deeply concerned about their relations with individuals as well as
the state of humanity at large. They are, in fact, sometimes mistaken for
extroverts because they appear so outgoing and are so genuinely interested
in people -- a product of the Feeling function they most readily show to the
world. On the contrary, INFJs are true introverts, who can only be emotionally
intimate and fulfilled with a chosen few from among their long-term friends,
family, or obvious "soul mates." While instinctively courting the personal and
organizational demands continually made upon them by others, at intervals
INFJs will suddenly withdraw into themselves, sometimes shutting out even
their intimates. This apparent paradox is a necessary escape valve for them,
providing both time to rebuild their depleted resources and a filter to prevent
the emotional overload to which they are so susceptible as inherent "givers."
As a pattern of behavior, it is perhaps the most confusing aspect of the
enigmatic INFJ character to outsiders, and hence the most often
misunderstood -- particularly by those who have little experience with this
rare type.
In their own way, INFJs are just as much "systems builders" as are INTJs; the
difference lies in that most INFJ "systems" are founded on human beings and
human values, rather than information and technology. Their systems may
for these reasons be conceptually "blurrier" than analogous NT ones, harder
to measure in strict numerical terms, and easier to take for granted -- yet it is
these same underlying reasons which make the resulting contributions to
society so vital and profound.
Beneath the quiet exterior, INFJs hold deep convictions about the weightier
matters of life.Those who are activists - INFJs gravitate toward such a role -
are there for the cause, not for personal glory or political power.
INFJs are champions of the oppressed and downtrodden.They often are found
in the wake of an emergency, rescuing those who are in acute distress.INFJs
may fantasize about getting revenge on those who victimize the
defenseless.The concept of 'poetic justice' is appealing to the INFJ.
Writing, counseling, public service and even politics are areas where INFJs
frequently find their niche.
Introverted iNtuition
Extraverted Feeling
Introverted Thinking
The INFJ's thinking is introverted, turned toward the subject. Perhaps it is
when the INFJ's thinking function is operative that they are most aloof. A
comrade might surmise that such detachment signals a disillusionment, that
she has also been found lacking by the sardonic eye of this one who plumbs
the depths of the human spirit. Experience suggests that such distancing is
merely an indication that the seer is hard at work and focusing energy into
this less efficient tertiary function.
Extraverted Sensing
INFJs are twice blessed with clarity of vision, both internal and external. Just
as they possess inner vision which is drawn to the forms of the unconscious,
they also have external sensing perception which readily takes hold of
worldly objects. Sensing, however, is the weakest of the INFJ's arsenal and
the most vulnerable. INFJs, like their fellow intuitives, may be so absorbed in
intuitive perceiving that they become oblivious to physical reality. The INFJ
under stress may fall prey to various forms of immediate gratification.
Awareness of extraverted sensing is probably the source of the "SP
wannabe" side of INFJs. Many yearn to live spontaneously; it's not uncommon
for INFJ actors to take on an SP (often ESTP) role.