Hello and how're you doing today?

Am doing fine, My day was quite a little busy one but all thanks to God.

My name is David, and You? Well it's a pleasure meeting you here online

So how long have you been here online?

Am a new Free Trial Member here. Am still a Cyber Dating virgin, I said to give
it a try becos I know it has worked out for so many people.

What do you feel about me when you first saw my picture and read my profile...?As I
came across your profile you seem to posses some sought of magnetic charm that
elicited my interest...How long have you been on the dating site and whats your
experience on it so far?

I am 48 year old man I Live In Dallas, Texas United States but willing to
relocate when i find the right woman for me.I'm a supplying manager the company
diversified into supplies, installation and maintenance of power engineering
products mainly generating sets, transformers and switch gears. and i help
orphanage with clothes,shoes e.t.c, I'm presently in West Africa Nigeria right now
working and will be back to the states with my daughter in 2weeks time. My daughter
came along with me here for this trip, I employed a talented tutor that will be
homeschooling her here while i work, She has made some couple of friends, i bet she
is loving it here.My daughter Favour is 6years old.

What is your Aim on The dating Site?

My aim of joining the dating site is to find a solid friendship that would possibly
lead into something great in future,I want an ideal relationship,well it must be
founded on friendship first. There must also be a certain amount of mutual
attraction to begin with.

Are you a Christian?

I am a Christian and do go to church, I try to go every week.I know that if the

lord wasn�t in my life that there are days I would just give up but because he is
he keeps me going. Sometime I do the wrong things but I know he will forgive me if
I ask and I do that daily because I believe that the lord listens to my prayers and
he will always take care of me even when I don�t think he is listening.
And if you were asked to use 5 words to describe yourself, what would you say??

As for me... Am Creative, Caring, Honest, Communicative and Passionate..

Do u have a kids and tell me about them and What is there name?

My daughter means the world to me and she is 6 years old, Her name is Favour and
she means a lot to me &I'm trying to raise her to be one of the rare breed out
there, a gentle women who owns her words, who is independent, self-confident,
knows her worth, loves God, treats people, and especially women and men & older
people with respect, focused, disciplined, be playful, be fun, sense of humor ~
always and be a warrior with a tender heart.

Tell me about your family...?

I was Adopted by my parent i never knew who my real parent was ....... I am the
only child of my parents. I lost my mom and dad in a car accident 5 years, and my
wife passed away 2years ago she had cancer....I don't have any more family, The
only family I've now is my daughter Favour, God and my Soul mate I'm hoping to meet
someday soon.

Where are you originally from? I am originally from Real Madrid, Spain Mum was a
Spanish woman while my dad was an American man..I move back to the USA ten years
ago cos my dad is Originally from here..

My admiration and physical attraction drew forth my immediate response without

hesitation because you appeal to my dreams, desire and taste.My sudden instinctive
response was based primarily on a spontaneous mutual attraction which rendered me
helpless and unable to resist communicating with you immediately, please afford
me the opportunity to know you.

From my point of view, there are a few things that I find attractive and a few
that I find emotionally irresistible about you, you seem straightforward and
sincere..

Actually I must confess that I was impressed by the sincerity of your profile...
And I must say that you really do have a Killer Smile which anyone would
appreciate...

I�m looking for a woman who can be caring and romantic with a sense of adventure to
start out as friends with and see where it takes us. I would like to meet somebody
who can carry on a good conversation, and make me laugh. Honesty is the best policy
with me, so if you don�t like it just say so I�m a big Guy,I can handle the truth,
even when it hurts.

So tell me... Generally in life, what are the few things that keeps you happy??

To me health is very important, If you've got your health, you've got everything. I
Feel Warm deep inside of me whenever I make someone smile, I get Happier whenever I
give praise to God or whenever I help others to appreciate God..

Have you tried this online relationship before or is this your first time?

I decided not to go into any intimate relationship for a while, at least for
while.. You know what I mean.

And what was your last relationship like, how long did it last and Why did it
ended??

I was still Married to My Wife untill she past away 2years ago,she had cancer and
was a good wife... But thanks to God that I was able to overcome the shock...i want
to move on with life now and leave the past behind...

So what have you learnt from your past Relationships?

I've come to realise that life holds endless possibilities, special times are
better if shared with a good hearted and wonderful people..

Can you pls describe to me the characters & qualities you're looking for in a Man?

Am looking for a Responsible Lady, who is Honest, Kind, Learned, Beautiful at

Heart, Hard Working, Reliable, Communicative, and Committed..

If I may ask, what is your definition of LOVE?

My own definition of LOVE is that Those who don't like it call it Responsibility,
while those who play with it call it Game. And those who don't have it call it
Dream, but I call it DESTINY.

So now are you ready to move on, I mean to start up a new Serious and Committed
Relationship??

Behind every Great Man there is a Good Woman. So am ready to move on to find that
Good Woman for my heart..

What would you say your biggest fear is when it comes to relationships?

Actually I've no fears but I don't like been Lied to, Cheated on, and loosing Trust
in that person whom I've engaged myself with in a relationship.

What common mistakes do you think most people make in there Relationships which you
wouldn't like to make?

Most people bottle up their emotions while some relationships Lacks Good
Communication, Not Keeping their Words & Standards, and Not Following their Inner
Truth.

Do you smoke or take much of Alcohol?

I don't smoke but I know my limit with alcohol, I can only take a glass of Red Wine
once in a while..

What kind of music do you like?

I like all kinds of music, I can listen to most anything,like country

blues,oldies,jazz,r and b hip hops.

What's your Religious Believe, and how serious are you in your Religious?

Am a Christian (A Catholic) My Christian Faith is the center of my identity, and

It's the essence of who I am..

Now lets talk about some of the things we like and the things we do for fun as
well...
I like gardening, fishing, sightseeing, taking a long walk, exercise, cooking, and
Sightseeing. The warmer the better, I also love to cuddle, going to Comedy shows
and sporting events.. How about you??

Your words really do sound like a great woman, who is full of Warmness, kindness,
sincerity, openness, understanding, and compassion..

What type of music do you love listening to and do you play any musical
instruments?

I love R&B/Soul Music, Jazz, Oldies, Country, Classical, New Age, Gospel,
Instrumental and I Am good in playing Acoustic Guitar

What's your favorite Colours, Flower, and Pet?

My favorite colours are Green, Purple, Sky Blue... As for flowers, Hollyhock, Lily,
Rose, Marigold, and my pet is Dogs but my daughter likes Birds and yes i love to go
to the Movies...

Name a couple of T.V. shows you love watching?

Family Guy, The Simpsons, Spongrbob, Criminal Minds, Perfect Couples, The Office,
Modern Family, House, American Idol and C.S.I

If you had to choose a sport to watch - Which would it be, Football or Basketball?

Actually I love the both of them but I would prefer Football..

What makes your the happiest?

When i being loved back from the people i love and care about so much example.
You!!

What gives you that smile?

when kids are playing around when i render help to the helpless, comedies etc

What can make your sad or cry?

Loosing a love one makes me sad and cry, Listening to bad news, just like this
missing Malaysia Airline, the recent tornado in Arkansas and Alabama that killed a
lost of people this things make me feel bad.

Do you get bored easily?

I do get bored easily but I get over it quick too, just go to town for a ride and
I'm okay after that..

Are you one who will laugh just because?

I laugh at most anything,people, kids, it does not matter.

What is your favorite perfume?

My favorite cologne is Tom Ford

What is your favorite designer?

My favorite designers are Hugo Boss, Ralph Lauren, Thomas Pink

If we are a couple, and had an argument, how would you settle it?
First i would decide if we are to argue over the issue and try to control my voice
over her and be clear and on point.listen to my spouse point of view so that we can
disagree to agree....i will make sure i never say those thing that i will regret
then we can reach a compromise. And i so much believe about the word " Sorry".

How old were you when you first fell in love?

i was 20 years

When was the last time you had sex?

I haven't dated since after i lost my late wife The last time i had sex was 2
years ago...

Do you forget and forgive someone who has done something to you or do you hold a
grudge?
I guess you could say I forgive easily because I don't like conflict.I would
rather just walk away that to fight but after things are over I don't hold a grudge
against you because I would have said what I wanted to and you would have said what
you wanted and then it would be over

Are you adventures?

I think I like adventures mostly. I usually try new things

Do you get into a hurry when you are doing something?

I don't think I hurry when doing a job, I try to do it right and if it takes a
while then that is what I'll do

Are you one who watches the clock?

I'm not a clock-watcher, but I do like to be on time for things. I don't like to
come into Church late.I would rather be early than late..

Do you know that A friend is someone who will walk the long way when you don't want
to hop the fence,No distance of place or lapse of time can lessen the friendship of
those who are thoroughly persuaded of each others worth Money and power only last
the hour, but friendship and love withstand the sky above.

A special friend is a blessing that you should treasure with all your heart Our
Friendship: A two way road to a perfect love..A friend is someone who will always
be there when everyone else fails. i can always be there for you and never fail
you and u have to do the same An acquaintance is a jewel; a true friend is a
treasure..

Friends are like wedgies. They're intimately close. They know you're inner self.
And it feels great when you pick out a good one am a good friend on yours You have
done it Without a touch,without a word,Without a sign.You have done it By being
yourself.Perhaps that is what Being a friend means After all.

A friend is someone who will bail you out of jail. A best friend is the one sitting
beside you saying, 'Damn that was fun Friends are angels that come from above. Sent
down from God for you to love. So if you are sad, and don't know what to do. Just
remember that I care for you You have no idea what you do to me, and even if you
did you'd probably still do it anyway

The best friend you can have is one you can sit on the porch with and not say a
word, then get up and feel like that was the best conversation you've ever had True
friends are the siblings God forgot to give us,In the cookies of life, your friends
are the chocolate chips.If I could give you one thing I would wish for you, the
ability to see yourself as others see you, then you would realize what a special
person U're

If You become my wife i will treat you good make you happy and treat you like a
Queen that you are i will give you my heart and build my world around you and make
your heart my home i will share everything i have with you and all my love i will
give you all and promise to always make you happy and smile i will never let you
down we always be there for you in good times and Bad times will always tell you i
love you and how much u mean to me and will never stop expressing my love for you

Though miles may lie between us, we're never far apart, for friendship doesn't
count the miles, it's measured by the heart A true friend walks in when the whole
world walks out Stars are like friends; there's always some around, you just need
to find your favorite one If I was blind, you would make me see. If I was deaf, you
would make me hear; and if I was dumb, a word would come out of the boundaries of
my lips

I would like a woman that will love and respect me for who I am , thatlikes to hold
my hand and surprize me with a little kiss when I least expect it or give me a wink
from across the room just tolet me know she is thinking about me or give me a call
just to let me know she is thinking about me... Because I will be doing the
same....

I want to find a woman who wants to get to know me and love me for me and i want a
long term relationship, hopefully someday i would ask that special person to marry
me and we would live the rest of our life together as friends, partners and lovers.

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How're you doing and how was your day?

Am doing fine, just had a very cool lovely day as usual.

Actually I must say that I would really like to know you more better if you don't
mind so as to build an endless relationship with you.

So, I know that it will take time for us to get acquainted come to trust and
respect each other. If you are interested in a serious relationship,one that will
also take time to develop, then I may be your man;)!

Can you tell me what kind of a person you want to grow old with?

someone that is serious, confident, purposeful, persistent, smart, responsible,

honest, modest, kind, flexible, elegant, sociable, communicative, sensitive,
gentle, cheerful, romantic, considered, responsible,someone that still believes in
true love, soul mates, love notes, walks, holding hands, and talking to each
other,That special someone would be attractive, intelligent, sexy, romantic,
affectionate, caring, funny, confident, and family oriented, LOVES KIDS. Sorry, but
they're an important part of my life, and expect the person I'm with to accept
that. Someone who will work at keeping the relationship alive. Want that feeling of
looking forward to seeing each other after work, and when were away from each
other, we cant wait to go home!

What is your zodiac sign and When is your birthday??

My Zodiac sign is arise and my Birthday is Match 21.

So do you believe in love at first sight?

Yes I definitly do.

How Romantic are you?

Am quite romantic, though I might not be 100% romantic but at least I can be 85%
romantic

Do you like Kissing and would you be proud enough to Kiss your Man in public?

Am a very good Kisser and I can never be ashamed to Kiss my partner in public, no
matter who is watching..

What do you think is the secret to a good life?

The only secret to a good life is to have a good teacher and a loving heart.. And
of cos a loving heart is the beginning of all Knowledge...

Do people tell you that you act and look much older than your age or much younger?

I enjoy Sports a lot and I keep fit regularly thats why most people say I look much
younger than my age

So do you consider yourself a happy person?

mmmmm.. Yes & No... Yes becos am Okay with who I am and No becos a part me is
feeling lonely and empty.

How artistic and creative are you, are you a lover of Art and Beauty?

Actually, my Job has to do with Creativity.. Am not much of an Artist but am good
in what I do best

Now tell me, Do you like guys with short or long hair?

I like both but if am to pick one then I would go for (short ) Hair..

Would you prefer to go out with a quiet or a talkative person?

I would prefer someone who talks more than I do but not too much where you would
have to tell the person to stop for a second.
So would you be willing to relocate if the right Man eventually come along??

I love traveling and sometimes my job gives me the Chance, so it's Possibly a 50-50
thing... But I would prefer to have her in my house if she don't mind.

How would you feel if the person you were seeing was seeing someone else?

Definitly, it would be painful, and that could possibly lead to jealousy and over
re-action

What would be your idea of a perfect first date with that special person??

I would love a nice meeting at a Cool Restaurant or a Seaside Restaurant, to have

nice time together..

Do you like cooking at home or do you prefer eating in a restaurant, and which
restaurant do you prefer??

I don't normally go out alone to eat, I prefer cooking at home than going to eat in
restaurants..

What's your favorite drinks?

mmmm... I like Energy Drinks, Coffee, Apple juice, and Strawberry Milkshakes

Do you have a favorite restaurant or food?

I don�t really have a favorite restaurant but when i was in Spain i love McDonald
so much cos that is the place i do go and eat, well i don't eat much cos i am not a
picky eater...i love Mexican food i love chicken and beef also

Do you make your bed after you get up in the morning and when you do the laundry do
you fold it and put it away or just leave it in the dryer??

well i do make beds after sleeping on it,I always at night straighten the covers
before I get in.loved to do laundry and i do them for u.
In your kitchen do you have dirty dishes in the sink?

well i don't have cos i do have maid that clean dishes always,Since I�m home alone
most of the time i do cook so that i wont be lazy and i can used that to keep
myself busy, i am a very good cook..

My Hopes and dreams in life is to find my soul mate someday, that�s why i decided
to try the online dating, though am new to this and want to see how things go on
here.

Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's
not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till
the end.

Talking about Career now.... What do you see yourself achieving in the next 5
years..

I've worked with variety of interesting and intriguing individuals and in few years
to come I hope to grow wide and to increase my professional network.

How do you celebrate the holidays (Christmas)?

I always got excited about Christmas,But if I had to pick something I guess it

would be to have someone to share the day and year with. I think I miss that the
most about Christmas not having someone who loves Christmas and makes it fun.

Do you have a favorite season?

My favorite season is Spring, I like the cool mornings and warm days, the grass
turning green and the flowers blooming, i love summer so much but i don't like
winter that much..

How long have you been in your Career and what is your professional vision??

I've been in my Career for like 20years now and my professional vision is To
provide a leading edge services that will add more value to my skill-set and to
expand my portfolio with undiluted passion of excellence.

Is it important for your Partner to know much about your Job and how much money you
earn?
I could honestly care less about that. Any Woman who has a Job is Hard working,
regardless of what she does or how much she makes..

Do you have a hobby or something you enjoy doing?

I love swimming,playing chess,pool,fishing,camping going out but since i am all

alone i hardly go out cos is not fun to go out all alone.

Which particular song makes you cry whenever you listern to it and you love learing
it over and over??

mmmm... Songs like River Flows In You by Yiruma, Dance with my Father by Luther
Vandross, My heart will go on by Celine Dion, When I See You Smile by Uncle Sam,
Walk on Walk Strong by Tae Kami and Heal the World by Micheal Jackson.

Name which 3 books that you've read and has really impressed you?

A trilogy called "His dark Materials" by Phillip Pullman. They're the books that
the golden compass film was based on. "The Marrowbone Marble Company" by M Glen
Taylor, and "The Great Gatsby" by F. Scott Fitzgerald.

Has any book or movie made an impact on you?

Yes it has.. As for Movie, It's Artificial Intelligence, Sleepless in Seattle, A

Beautiful Mind, The Pursuit of Happiness, Schindler's List.. And as for Books,
Vengence, The Road, Successful Mind, River run Dry, "Woman" an asset to behold...

Do you get your feeling hurt easily, upset or cry just because?
Yes I do

Do you like to be on time, late or early when you go somewhere?

If I know I have something to do on a given day that's fine but most of the time I
just do what comes up at the time.

Are you the kind of person who enjoys people (party) or would
rather be alone reading?
i like reading and love to be around people so I guess the party or just being
with that special someone talking would be great too..

Tell me if there anything someone could do to you that would make you hate that
person?
I hate being lied to or accused of things that I've not done and playing games.I
think the thing that upsets me the most is someone to lie to me and after they get
caught not admit it. You know I understand that we do things that are not right but
when you are wrong you need to be responsible for it and admit you are wrong. Be
big enough to say you are sorry. That is something I think a lot of people have a
hard time doing.

What would your family tell me about you?

I think my family would tell you that I'm a loving, kind, caring person...

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Would you wait on a person you were seeing or about to date if He joined the army?

Of cos I can wait as long as the distance takes.. I don't think that will be any
problem for me on that..

Which particular song makes you cry whenever you listern to it and you love learing
it over and over??

mmmm... Songs like River Flows In You by Yiruma, Dance with my Father by Luther
Vandross, My heart will go on by Celine Dion, When I See You Smile by Uncle Sam,
Walk on Walk Strong by Tae Kami and Heal the World by Micheal Jackson.

What would be your Defination of a True Successful Relationship?

a True Successful Relationship is when partners can Trust and Care about each
other, Genuinely enjoy each others company and space to strengthen the
relationship..

Have you ever had a one night stand, If yes, how many times and do you regret it?

Yes but only once and I must say that I really regretted it.. That was a year after
I lost my wife.

What would you be doing on an ideal Saturday night?

Go out with your partner, friends, or Stay at home with my little girl, keeping
myself busy with movie and books.

Would you mind if your Partner went out to a party without you?
That's fine. Just as long as she knows her limit with alcohol. If I don't allow her
to go out without Me then that means I don't trust her.

If you had a whole week to do things with your partner, what would you do?

Book for a Holiday somewhere in Europe or New Zealand, and we'll tour around. Walk
hand in hand on the beach, have dinner at a very nice restaurant, check out some
new stores, light partying.. Cuddle and make love over and over again all day
and night, Enjoy the sunshine, Eat lovely food, and most of all, relax together.

So what do you like doing with your Man when it's raining?

I like to be in each others Arms while its raining, cuddling on the couch and
listening to thunderstorm while its raining..

What is the first thing that usually comes to your mind before you go to bed and
when you wake up?

The first thing is the thought of sleeping alone and not having a companion to
share words with and keep me warm in bed.

Are you a heavy or light sleeper?

Though I love relaxing when am less busy but I dont sleep for too long.

While sleep, do you Snore, Steal the covers or Roll around in your bed?

I love covering myself up while sleeping so I do Steal the cover...

What do you think is the most important thing in a relationship, right now?

Freedom to do what you want, Have a great time together as long as we respect each
other feelings and opinions...

Which do you prefer giving or receiving, and what is the best present you've ever
received?
What holiday present would you be expect to receive from your partner?

I'll be happy to get anything, Anything that shows me that she cares.

What are some of the little things you appreciate about Life?

When my daughter calls me Daddy, the laughter of children, the sound of the birds,
the air we breath, the sound of night sky and mother nature..

Is religion something you want in your life?

I love the Lord and hope that whomever I have in my life will be someone who knows
and loves him too.

It is more worthwhile and satisfying to improve the world or appreciate the world?

As for me it would be more better to appreciate the World.. With appreciation we

can achieve whatever we dream of...

If your Partner plans a date for Saturday night, but ends up canceling it. How
would you feel?

I would feel Disappointed, becos I'll be hoping that we'll be spending some quality
time together but I'll definitly call to know if everything is Okay

What were your life-changing moments?

When I lost my Parents , I pretty much lost faith.. When I watched innocent people
sufferring in different places, when I relocate, when I fell in love, and Watching
my baby girl being delivered, then holding her in my arms and staring into her
eyes..

Which 4 parts of your body would you love to be massaged most?

I love Massaging my foots, my back, shoulder and arms

And when you encounter a sad moment, what do you do to reduce the sadness?

Usually, I would close my eyes and take a deep breath. But if I'm still upset, I'll
either watch a TV comedy show or listen to a cool music, or even go for a Walk..
That usually cheers me up.