The Next Level - Mindset
The Next Level - Mindset
Introduction
crucial role of mindset in setting apart the best from the rest.
Mental strength is not just an advantage; it's a necessity if you
aspire to reach peak performance levels.
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It’s possible to develop
your mindset
The journey to becoming the best starts with your mind. Are
you ready to make that your next obsession?
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VISUALISATION
WHAT IS
VISUALISATION
FOOTBALLERSTRAIN
IMPACT OF
VISUALISATION
VISUALISATION ISN'T JUST ABOUT SEEING THE GAME IN YOUR MIND; IT'S ABOUT FEELING
THE IMPACT OF EVERY MOVE, ANTICIPATING THE FLOW OF PLAY, AND MENTALLY
PREPARING YOURSELF FOR SUCCESS. WE WILL EXPLORE THIS RELATIVELY UNTAPPED
HOW TO TECHNIQUE THAT CAN GIVE YOU THE CONFIDENCE AND CERTAINTY TO DOMINATE AND
VISUALISE SUCCEED AT ANY MOMENT.
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what is visualisation?
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VISUALISATION
VISUALISATION IS A POWERFUL TECHNIQUE THAT
CAN SIGNIFICANTLY BOOST YOUR CONFIDENCE.
THIS IS BECAUSE IT IS A BIOLOGICAL FACT THAT
YOUR IMAGINATION CAN TRIGGER PHYSICAL
CHANGES IN YOUR BODY. THIS PHENOMENON
OPERATES ON MULTIPLE LEVELS, AFFECTING
ENTIRE PHYSIOLOGICAL SYSTEMS DOWN TO
INDIVIDUAL ORGANS AND MUSCLES. YOUR
IMAGINATION CAN ALSO IMPACT THE NEURAL
PATHWAYS IN YOUR BRAIN AND SPINAL CORD,
WHICH ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR CONTROLLING YOUR
MOVEMENTS AND BEHAVIOUR. YOU NEED TO
UNDERSTAND THAT IMAGINATION IS NOT JUST A
PASSIVE TOOL THAT YOU USE OCCASIONALLY
WITHOUT ANY CONSEQUENCES. RATHER, IT IS A
POWERFUL INSTRUMENT THAT CAN INFLUENCE
VISUALISATION
EVERY CELL IN YOUR BODY.
What is visualisation?
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The images you hold strongly influence how you feel about
yourself now in the present and how you feel about your
future. A useful way to create confidence and ensure that your
hard-earned skills don't fall victim to fear, doubt, and worry is
to create a deja vu experience of that desired scenario, by
envisioning so completely and so vividly how you want that
specific scenario to unfold and how you want to feel when it
happens, that's when the opportunity to reach that next level
presents itself, when you do step onto the pitch, you feel like
you've already done it before and done it to the best of your
ability. This is the experience I want you to have in the key
performance moments of your life, the comfort and security
that comes from having been there, done that, and done it
exceptionally well. You can have that feeling, that utter sense
of certainty about yourself, by repeatedly becoming the main
character in a movie, complete with surround sound and
incredible special effects. As the central character in this
movie, you execute your various tasks and skills at a near-
perfect level, achieving the desired outcome without
hesitation, doubt, or analysis. In this virtual reality that you
immerse yourself into, you stay confident and free no matter
what, easily letting go of any error or imperfection. In this high-
definition, multisensory reality you joyously go for your
dreams and leave the rest of the world behind.
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Visualisation is one of the most powerful tools available
to an athlete, and Mohamed Salah's journey is a perfect
example of its effectiveness. In a recent interview, Salah
revealed that he had visualised 90% of the goals he
scored before they even happened. When you
visualise, it’s not just about seeing the moment unfold
—it’s about truly experiencing the emotions tied to it.
For example, when Salah visualises scoring a goal, he
doesn't just imagine the ball hitting the back of the net.
He taps into the feeling of excitement as the crowd
roars, the adrenaline as his teammates rush over to hug
him, and the pride during the post-match interview
when he's asked to describe how he pulled it off.
Once you've identified your goal, set the scene. Imagine where it will take place - if you've
been there before, try to picture it in crystal clear details. If it's somewhere new to you, find
photos or video clips to help you create a vivid mental image. For example, if you dream of
making your debut in a particular stadium, look for photos or virtual tours of that stadium.
Having a good visual representation of your performance arena will help you create a
multi-sensory virtual reality experience of success in that setting.
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Before you start, list out a few of the key moments you expect to encounter in your performance, the moments that
are likely to have a real impact on your success. For example, a situation where you play a through ball that gets
your striker through on goal or a last-ditch tackle to keep your team in the game.
This visualisation session shouldn't last longer than approximately twenty minutes as that is the longest amount of
time that most people can sustain the control, detail, and emotion needed for envisioning to effectively "fool" the
nervous system. If you are serious about improving this skill then you should aim to devote 15 minutes a day 5 days
a week. This is a small price to pay to get the benefit of a few hundred extra reps a week on an important skill with
no strain on your body. How badly do you want to improve? Make that decision and consider how much time you
are willing to dedicate to improving your game.
We will begin this envisioning practice by setting up a personal workspace. A place in your mind where you go
when it's time to envision skill improvement and big performances. This private room is your safe zone, and when
you're in it, everything and anything is possible. Make sure you are sitting comfortably with your back supported.
Read the next few pages and familiarise yourself with the process before practising it. Or listen to this audio with
your eyes closed Video link
STEP 1
PRIVATE ROOM
Imagine walking down a well-lit, carpeted hallway, lined with doors on either side, much like those in a hotel. As you walk, you
approach the door at the end—a door marked with a unique symbol that holds special meaning for you. This is your personal
sanctuary, a mental space you've designed entirely for yourself. You turn the handle and step inside, immediately greeted by the
room you've crafted with care. Take a moment to let your eyes wander around, soaking in the details. The walls, the floor, the ceiling
—all reflecting your personal taste. Maybe some paintings or photos inspire you, plants that bring a sense of life, or sculptures that
capture your imagination. There's a favourite song playing softly in the background, setting the perfect mood. If you’ve chosen to add
windows, they reveal a landscape of your choosing. It might be a sun-kissed beach, a serene mountain lake, a vibrant garden in full
bloom, or perhaps the bustling lights of a city skyline—whatever brings you the deepest sense of peace and connection. You make
your way to a cosy chair or recliner positioned just where you want it and sink into its comfort. Feel your body relax, supported in the
perfect position as you take in the atmosphere around you. On a small table nearby rests your favourite drink, waiting for you in the
glass or mug that feels just right. You lift it, take a slow sip, and savour the taste before setting it back down. With each deep breath
you take, you feel your jaw and face soften, knowing that in this space, you're safe and secure. Here, you have all the time you need to
mentally practice and visualize the skills that will elevate your next performance.
STEP 2
ARRIVE AT YOUR ARENA
Once you've settled comfortably in your private room, let your imagination take you to the start of your performance. If
you've been to this arena before, draw on your memory and internal perspective to vividly place yourself there. If the
venue is new to you, use photos, videos, or any other references to help shape the environment in your mind, making
sure to rely on that same internal viewpoint. Picture yourself standing in front of the locker room door where you'll
gear up—observe every detail from your perspective, immersing yourself in the sights, sounds, and emotions that
come with it. Hear the music playing in the background, the murmur of coaches' voices, and let those sensations
become real.
As you mentally move from one room or space to another, notice the natural excitement building in your body—the
butterflies stirring in your stomach, a reminder that your system is getting ready. You reach your locker with a clear
mind, feeling that familiar sense of control and focus that you've practised. Visualise yourself calmly putting on your
gear, fully prepared and ready to step out and take command of the moment.
STEP 3
WARM UP
Picture yourself stepping onto the pitch, feeling the studs of your boots press into the turf beneath you. Take a
moment to ground yourself in the sensations of the field, whatever surface you play on. Now, see yourself going
through a few key movements of your warm-up—just a handful of reps from your routine to spark the right emotions.
You don't need to visualise every part, just enough to tap into that feeling of readiness.
Look around, take in the sight of the field, and the vibrant energy of the crowd, and hear the voices of your teammates
shouting words of encouragement. Feel the buzz of excitement building within you, the anticipation rising as the start
of the game draws near. You're focused, you're prepared, and you're ready to give it your all.
STEP 4
GET OFF TO THE RIGHT START
Now it’s time. Picture yourself stepping onto the pitch, feeling every step as you walk out before the game. Let
yourself fully experience the blend of excitement and anticipation coursing through you. Hear the crowd, see your
surroundings, and feel that electric energy in the air. Then, the referee’s whistle blows, signalling the start of the game.
Instantly, you’re locked in, ready to take control.
Imagine your first pass—crisp and accurate, setting the tone. Visualise your first tackle—strong and decisive. Spend a
moment seeing yourself establish the pace, the rhythm, and the movements you’ve trained for. You’re dictating the
flow of the game, playing just as you’ve envisioned.
STEP 5
DOMINATE THE BIG MOMENTS
Now, let’s focus on your key moments and vividly imagine each one with complete control, clarity, and emotion.
From your internal perspective, see the action unfold exactly as you’ve planned, as you execute your strategy with
precision. Picture the teammates, opponents, or crowd around you, and notice how the scenery shifts as you move
through each phase. Hear the sounds—the whistle, the footsteps, the shouts of encouragement—and feel your
body’s position and movement with each step.
Tune into the emotions you want to experience in every moment. Are you fired up with intensity, or cool and
composed? Do you bring aggressive physicality, or are you quick and instinctive? Whatever the perfect emotional
state is for each situation, you naturally tap into it. In every scene of this multisensory reality, you perform at your best
—controlling your opponents, mastering the moment, and succeeding in all you set out to achieve.
STEP 6
FINISH STRONG
Now, picture that final moment—the last kick, the last attack. Just as you did at the start, fully
immerse yourself in the scene. See every detail, hear the sounds around you, and feel each
movement with absolute clarity and control. Experience the final seconds ticking away on the
clock, and let yourself feel the emotions that rise within you—maybe it’s excitement, satisfaction,
or a sense of relief.
What will you feel as you make that last move? Visualise the intensity of the moment, the
culmination of your effort, and embrace the emotions that come as you bring it all to a close. It’s
your final action, and you execute it flawlessly.
STEP 7
CELEBRATE
Wait! It’s not over just yet. Don’t hold back from feeling a moment of pure happiness after your envisioned scenario. Picture
your teammates surrounding you, their faces lit up with smiles, celebrating together. Hear the cheers, the applause ringing
out, and the voices offering compliments for a job well done. Allow yourself to feel a sense of validation and fulfilment,
knowing that all your hard work and effort have finally paid off.
Once you’ve fully enjoyed that moment of celebration, let the scene slowly fade. Return your imagination to your private room,
back to that comfortable seat where you started, surrounded by the familiar furnishings and decorations that make this space
your own. There, next to your chair, is your favourite drink waiting for you. Reach out, take another sip, and savour the taste.
As you place the drink back on the table, stand up and take a moment to look around, enjoying the view from the windows.
Slowly move through your room, noticing the photos, paintings, and personal touches you’ve added to make it feel uniquely
yours. When you reach the door to the hallway, pause for a moment and take one last look, knowing this space will always be
here for you whenever you need to visualise or prepare for any moment you desire.
EXTRA
If you are finding it hard to do this by yourself.
Here is a really good guided visualisation track
that you can use before games or training
sessions. The visualisation starts at minute 6:30
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You might find it beneficial to listen to
inspiring music while you visualise your ideal
scenario. Here's a playlist that has helped me
visualise effectively. Feel free to choose your
own songs, but ensure they evoke strong
emotions and enhance your visualisation
process.
But wait...
SO FAR, WE’VE FOCUSED ON THE POWERFUL EFFECTS OF ENVISIONING IMPROVEMENTS AND BIG
PERFORMANCES—CREATING IN YOUR IMAGINATION A DETAILED, MULTISENSORY EXPERIENCE OF YOUR
DESIRED OUTCOME. BUT LET’S BE REAL—THE WORLD BEYOND YOUR IMAGINATION DOESN’T ALWAYS BEND
TO YOUR WILL. NO MATTER HOW WELL YOU PREPARE MENTALLY, THERE WILL ALWAYS BE OPPONENTS,
CHALLENGES, AND OUTSIDE FORCES TRYING TO BLOCK YOUR PATH TO SUCCESS.
NOW, IT’S TIME TO FACE THOSE CHALLENGES HEAD-ON. LET'S INTRODUCE A DIFFERENT KIND OF MENTAL
REHEARSAL—ONE WHERE THINGS DON’T GO ACCORDING TO PLAN. START BY MAKING A LIST OF
EVERYTHING THAT COULD POSSIBLY GO WRONG IN YOUR IMAGINED SCENARIO. FOR EXAMPLE, IMAGINE
ONE OF YOUR KEY TEAMMATES GETS INJURED MID-GAME, AND YOU’RE FORCED TO PLAY WITH A SECOND
OR THIRD-STRING PLAYER YOU’VE BARELY PRACTICED WITH. PICTURE THAT SITUATION AS VIVIDLY AS
POSSIBLE—EVERY DETAIL, EVERY EMOTION. LET YOURSELF FEEL THE FRUSTRATION OR WORRY IT BRINGS.
BUT HERE’S THE TRICK: ONLY ENVISION THIS PROBLEM FOR ABOUT TEN SECONDS.
THEN, INTERRUPT THE SCENE. TELL YOURSELF, "STOP!" OR "I’M IN CONTROL!" WITH REAL CONVICTION.
NEXT, IMAGINE YOURSELF PAUSING JUST LONG ENOUGH TO TAKE A DEEP BREATH AND RELAX YOUR NECK
AND SHOULDERS, EVEN IF CHAOS IS HAPPENING AROUND YOU. NOW, FOCUS ON REGAINING CONTROL.
VISUALISE YOURSELF CALMLY RESPONDING TO THE SITUATION WITH TOTAL CLARITY AND PRECISION. HEA
YOURSELF SAY, “I’M READY FOR THIS. I’VE TRAINED FOR MOMENTS LIKE THIS. IT’LL TAKE MORE THAN THIS
TO THROW ME OFF.” SEE THE SCENE SHIFT AS YOU TAKE DECISIVE ACTION, MOVING WITH PURPOSE, AND
CONTROLLING WHAT YOU CAN CONTROL.
SPEND AT LEAST THIRTY SECONDS VIVIDLY IMAGINING THIS CALM, CONTROLLED RESPONSE. THIS IS THE
MOST CRITICAL PART OF THE EXERCISE. VISUALISE YOURSELF HANDLING THE SITUATION AND BRINGING IT
BACK ON TRACK FOR THREE TIMES AS LONG AS YOU ENVISIONED THE PROBLEM. FINALLY, FINISH WITH A
MENTAL IMAGE OF SUCCESS—MAYBE YOUR NEW TEAMMATE STEPS UP AND MAKES A GAME-WINNING PLAY
BY PRACTICING THIS TECHNIQUE, YOU’RE PREPARING YOURSELF NOT ONLY FOR WHEN THINGS GO RIGHT,
BUT FOR THE INEVITABLE CURVEBALLS THAT COME YOUR WAY. YOU’LL BE READY TO ADAPT AND THRIVE,
NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS.
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FOOTBALLERSTRAIN
BUILDING
CONFIDENCE
THE SECRET OF CONFIDENCE. EVERYONE WANTS TO HAVE IT BUT NOT MANY DO. THE
DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A GOOD PERFORMANCE AND A BAD PERFORMANCE RELIES ON
PRE - GAME THIS ONE SKILL. HOW DO WE ATTAIN IT? LET'S SEE
ROUTINE
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What confidence is and isn’t
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Confidence is undoubtedly crucial, yet it's common knowledge that too
much of it can sometimes be perceived negatively. If you display more than a
cautious level of confidence, you risk being labelled as arrogant or egotistical.
Such labels can make you appear unlikable, as well as give the impression of
being unmotivated and complacent. Because of these potential downsides,
many committed, hardworking, and driven players hesitate to fully embrace a
confident self-image. They fear that enhancing their self-perception might
inadvertently lead to these negative outcomes, so they hold back from fully
developing and protecting their confidence. This reluctance can hinder their
ability to perform at their peak, as maintaining a balanced sense of self-
assurance is key to maximizing potential on and off the pitch
WHAT CONFIDENCE IS
WHAT CONFIDENCE IS
You may believe that it is essential to remain humble and modest,
which involves not having an excessively high opinion of yourself.
You may recall a loud and boastful player who outplayed you at
some point in the past, and therefore you strive to avoid becoming
like that player at all costs. Or even see a footballer that you dislike act
in a confident/ arrogant way and refuse to emulate them in any way.
But here's what's important: if you are a naturally quiet individual who
grew up believing that it was important not to call attention to
yourself, doing the mental work to gain confidence isn't going to
change you into an arrogant person. The media bombard us with
generally negative coverage of loud and confident players — like
Zlatan Ibrahimovic or even Cristiano Ronaldo. For every loud and
confident individual out there, there are just as many equally
confident people who are also naturally quiet and reserved. The truth
is that you can be very confident on the inside (which you have to be
if you want to perform well,) and very polite, respectful, and humble
on the outside.
Let's redefine confidence in a way that's actually useful. If I were to ask you to define confidence, you might
say it's about "believing in yourself" or "knowing that you can do something." While these definitions are
common, they aren't very practical. What does it really mean to "believe in yourself"?
Having "belief in yourself" is great, but if you find yourself constantly analysing your every step, critiquing
your every move, and internally narrating your performance, you're likely to compromise your true abilities.
This kind of conscious, deliberate thinking consumes a significant portion of your nervous system's
capacity, which should instead be focused on processing task-relevant information quickly and responding
instinctively.
True confidence—especially the type you need under pressure when the stakes are high—is characterised
by the absence of mental chatter and analytical thoughts.
Confidence means feeling so proficient at something that you don’t need to think about how to do it while
you’re doing it. It’s about having a skill or knowledge so deeply ingrained that it becomes part of you and
manifests naturally when needed.
To internalise this definition, think about the everyday tasks you perform effortlessly. Consider how you tie
your shoes: your fingers execute a complex series of movements without your conscious thought. Or think
about brushing your teeth: you manage the angle of the bristles, the pressure of each stroke, and the
number of strokes per tooth all automatically and confidently.
Now, imagine applying this level of unconscious proficiency and certainty to your performance on the
pitch. The ability to act without overthinking can transform your game, allowing your training and instincts
to take over seamlessly—this is the essence of true confidence.
You may be wondering if you are "good enough," to reach that level
of certainty. If you're wondering that, please understand this:
success requires both confidence AND competence. A supremely
confident individual who lacks the required skills will only be
partially successful. The player who neglected his off-season
conditioning program will be at a disadvantage once team practices
start, no matter how confident they are.
So how can we ensure that we feel certain about our competence? Where does that all-important sense of certainty come
from?
The answers to these important questions require a little digging, and the best place to begin that excavation is with some of
the common misconceptions about confidence, the ideas and partial truths that influence popular thinking but aren't truly
accurate and definitely not helpful. This exploration will bring us to a useful truth about confidence that will help us build it,
protect it, and apply it at the right moments.
MISCONCEPTIONS
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Misconception
CONFIDENCE IS A FIXED, INHERITED TRAIT. YOU WERE
BORN WITH A CERTAIN AMOUNT OF IT AND THERE'S NOT
MUCH YOU CAN DO BEYOND THAT.
MANY PLAYERS BELIEVE THAT THEIR CONFIDENCE IS FIXED, WHICH IS A POPULAR BUT
UNFORTUNATE MISUNDERSTANDING. THEY THINK THAT NO MATTER HOW MUCH THEY TRAIN,
PRACTICE, OR GAIN EXPERIENCE, THEIR CONFIDENCE WILL REMAIN THE SAME. THIS
CONVICTION IS SELF-DEFEATING BECAUSE IT DISCOURAGES THEM FROM TRYING TO IMPROVE.
HOWEVER, THE TRUTH IS THAT CONFIDENCE IS SOMETHING THAT CAN BE LEARNED AND
DEVELOPED. OUTSTANDING ATHLETES AND PERFORMERS DO NOT HAVE A GENETIC
ADVANTAGE WHEN IT COMES TO CONFIDENCE. INSTEAD, THEY HAVE LEARNED HOW TO THINK
CONSTRUCTIVELY AND USE THEIR SUCCESSFUL EXPERIENCES TO THEIR ADVANTAGE WHILE
RELEASING OR RESTRUCTURING THEIR LESS SUCCESSFUL EXPERIENCES. MANY PEOPLE USE
THE EXCUSE THAT CONFIDENCE IS AN INHERITED GIFT TO AVOID PUTTING IN THE TIME AND
EFFORT TO IMPROVE THEIR THINKING PROCESS. HOWEVER, CONFIDENCE IS A SKILL THAT CAN
BE DEVELOPED THROUGH PRACTICE, JUST LIKE ANY OTHER ABILITY OR COMPETENCY.
WHETHER YOU HAVE A LOT OF CONFIDENCE OR VERY LITTLE, YOU CAN ALWAYS BUILD MORE.
Misconception
YOU'RE EITHER CONFIDENT ACROSS THE BOARD IN ALL
ASPECTS OF LIFE OR YOU'RE NOT CONFIDENT AT ALL.
CONFIDENCE IS VERY SITUATION-SPECIFIC. YOU CAN FEEL VERY CONFIDENT ON THE FOOTBALL
PITCH BUT FEEL COMPLETELY INSECURE IN THE MATHS CLASSROOM AND VICE VERSA. EVEN ON
THE FOOTBALL PITCH, YOU CAN HAVE ENTIRELY DIFFERENT LEVELS OF CONFIDENCE FOR
DIFFERENT ASPECTS OF THE GAME-SHOOTING VERSUS PASSING, TACKLING ET CETERA.
YOU CAN DEVELOP CONFIDENCE IN ANY SPECIFIC ASPECT OF YOUR LIFE THAT YOU CARE
ABOUT. CONFIDENCE IN ANY OF THESE SPECIFIC AREAS CAN BE LEARNED AND DEVELOPED.
Misconception
ONCE YOU BECOME CONFIDENT YOU'LL STAY THAT WAY
FOREVER.
"GUARANTEED" IS THE KEY TERM IN THE MISCONCEPTION THAT SUCCESS ALWAYS LEADS TO
CONFIDENCE. MANY SUCCESSFUL ACADEMY PLAYERS FIND IT DIFFICULT TO TRANSITION TO
PROFESSIONAL FOOTBALL DESPITE THEIR PAST ACHIEVEMENTS. SOME SUCCESSFUL PLAYERS
LOSE THEIR CONFIDENCE, AND THEIR PREVIOUS SUCCESS BECOMES A SOURCE OF PRESSURE
FROM WHICH THEY CANNOT ESCAPE. WHILE SUCCESS AND POSITIVE FEEDBACK CAN ACT AS
SOURCES OF CONFIDENCE, THEY DON'T GUARANTEE IT. THIS IS BECAUSE MANY ATHLETES AND
PERFORMERS FOCUS ENTIRELY ON THEIR WEAKNESSES AND FAILURES, DISREGARDING THEIR
SUCCESSES. THEREFORE, SUCCESS ALONE IS NOT A CONFIDENCE BOOSTER. IT'S HOW YOU
UTILISE YOUR SUCCESSFUL THOUGHTS AND MEMORIES THAT DETERMINE YOUR LEVEL OF
CONFIDENCE. YOU CAN CHOOSE TO IGNORE THEM, CONSIDER THEM UNIMPORTANT, OR USE
THEM CONSTRUCTIVELY TO SET YOURSELF UP FOR GREATER SUCCESS.
Misconception
MISTAKES, FAILURES, AND NEGATIVE FEEDBACK DESTROY
OR WEAKEN YOUR CONFIDENCE.
MISTAKES, FAILURES, SETBACKS, AND SIMILAR EXPERIENCES CAN MAKE US WORRY ABOUT
WHAT MIGHT HAPPEN NEXT. HOWEVER, THE AMOUNT OF "FAILURE" WE'VE EXPERIENCED
DOESN'T MATTER IF WE CHOOSE TO RESPOND TO IT CONSTRUCTIVELY. SOMETIMES,
RESPONDING CONSTRUCTIVELY MEANS IGNORING IT ALTOGETHER. FAILURES ARE NOT
NECESSARILY CONFIDENCE DESTROYERS. THEY ONLY BECOME SO WHEN WE DWELL ON THEM,
REPLAY THEM, AND LET THEM BRING ON NEGATIVE FEELINGS OF WORRY, DOUBT, AND FEAR.
INSTEAD, WE CAN USE THEM AS CUES TO REVISIT OUR PERSONAL STORE OF PAST SUCCESSES.
CONFIDENCE COMES FROM THE MIND AND NOT FROM ANYTHING THAT HAPPENS OUTSIDE
THAT MIND.
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TRUTH
That truth is this: confidence has relatively little to do with what actually
happens to you, and pretty much everything to do with how you think about
what happens to you.
It's no stretch then, to think of your confidence, that sense of certainty you have
about yourself and your abilities, as the total of all your thoughts.
NEXT, FIND YOUR FAVORITE PHOTO OF YOURSELF PLAYING FOOTBALL. THIS COULD BE AN
ACTION SHOT THAT CAPTURES YOU IN THE MIDST OF PLAY, OR AN IMAGE FROM A
SIGNIFICANT ACHIEVEMENT. PLACE THIS PHOTO IN THE CENTER OF THE PAGE. THIS
VISUAL CENTERPIECE WILL SERVE AS A POWERFUL REMINDER OF YOUR PASSION AND
SUCCESS, ANCHORING THE POSITIVE EMOTIONS ASSOCIATED WITH YOUR CHOSEN
HIGHLIGHTS. THIS EXERCISE NOT ONLY CELEBRATES YOUR ACHIEVEMENTS BUT ALSO
REINFORCES THE POSITIVE ASSOCIATIONS YOU HAVE WITH YOUR FOOTBALL JOURNEY,
ENHANCING MOTIVATION AND SELF-ESTEEM.
At the top go your name and the name of the team you are on right now or hope to join. Below that is the photo of you in action or a picture
of your goal. Then list your top ten moments and at the bottom, write a goal down as a final reminder.
Put your Top Ten poster up on a wall where you'll see it often and be reminded of your accomplishments and progress.
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Team you are on
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START EACH ENTRY BY DATING THE TOP OF A FRESH PAGE TO KEEP TRACK OF YOUR PROGRESS.
ON THE NEXT LINE, WRITE A CAPITAL "E" AT THE LEFT-HAND MARGIN. THIS MARKS YOUR "EFFORT"
ENTRY. REFLECT ON YOUR PRACTICE, TRAINING, OR WORKOUT AND WRITE DOWN ONE INSTANCE
WHERE YOU TRULY GAVE YOUR ALL. IT COULD BE A FOCUSED DRILL DURING PRACTICE, A MOMENT
IN THE GYM WHERE YOU PUSHED PAST YOUR COMFORT ZONE, OR ANY TIME YOU RESISTED THE
URGE TO TAKE IT EASY. RECORD THIS MOMENT OF HONEST EFFORT, ASKING YOURSELF, "WHERE
DID I DO SOME VALUABLE WORK TODAY?" IF YOU HAVE MORE THAN ONE INSTANCE, FEEL FREE TO
DOCUMENT ALL OF THEM.
AFTER DOCUMENTING YOUR EFFORT, SKIP A LINE AND WRITE A CAPITAL "S" AT THE LEFT MARGIN
FOR "SUCCESS." REFLECT ON YOUR DAY AND IDENTIFY A MOMENT WHERE YOU SUCCEEDED. THIS
COULD BE SCORING A GOAL UNDER PRESSURE, ACHIEVING A PERSONAL RECORD IN LIFTING, OR
ANY SMALL VICTORY THAT STANDS OUT. WRITE DOWN THIS SUCCESS, HOWEVER MINOR IT MAY
SEEM, AND IF THERE ARE MULTIPLE SUCCESSES, INCLUDE THEM ALL.
NEXT, SKIP ANOTHER LINE AND MARK IT WITH A CAPITAL "P" FOR "PROGRESS." CONSIDER AREAS
WHERE YOU IMPROVED TODAY, EVEN IF YOU HAVEN'T PERFECTED THE SKILL YET. PERHAPS
THERE’S A SKILL YOU’VE BEEN WORKING ON FOR WEEKS AND TODAY YOU SAW TANGIBLE
IMPROVEMENT. RECORD WHAT YOU GOT BETTER AT AS A RESULT OF YOUR EFFORTS. AS WITH
EFFORT AND SUCCESS, IF THERE ARE SEVERAL MOMENTS OF PROGRESS, NOTE EACH ONE.
THIS STRUCTURED REFLECTION NOT ONLY CAPTURES THE HIGH POINTS OF YOUR DAY BUT ALSO
ENCOURAGES A MINDSET GEARED TOWARDS CONTINUOUS IMPROVEMENT AND APPRECIATION
FOR YOUR DAILY EFFORTS.
Here is an example
Effort
Success
Progress
EXERCISE 3
IPR
DURING TRAINING, YOU'LL OFTEN FIND MOMENTS OF REST BETWEEN DIFFERENT SECTIONS OF THE SESSION. THESE
BREAKS PROVIDE AN EXCELLENT OPPORTUNITY TO QUICKLY REFLECT, FILTER, AND MAKE A POSITIVE MENTAL NOTE OF
YOUR PERFORMANCE. DEPENDING ON HOW LONG YOUR TRAINING SESSION IS, THESE OPPORTUNITIES TO BUILD POSITIVE
MEMORIES CAN ACCUMULATE RAPIDLY.
FOR EXAMPLE, CONSIDER A TYPICAL TRAINING SCENARIO: THE COACH STARTS WITH SOME WARM-UP ACTIVITIES AND
THEN MOVES INTO THE FIRST DRILL, WHICH IS UNOPPOSED SHOOTING. YOU GET TEN REPS IN THIS DRILL BEFORE THE
COACH BLOWS THE WHISTLE TO SIGNAL THE START OF THE NEXT DRILL, SUCH AS 1V1. THIS TRANSITION IS THE PERFECT
MOMENT FOR WHAT I CALL AN IMMEDIATE PROGRESS REVIEW (IPR). THIS IS A MINI-REFLECTION ON WHAT JUST
HAPPENED DURING THE FIRST DRILL. IT'S A TIME TO FILTER OUT AND FOCUS ON THE BEST MOMENT FROM THOSE TEN
REPS. AS YOU JOG TO THE NEXT DRILL, HOLD ONTO THE MEMORY OF YOUR BEST SHOT, LETTING THAT POSITIVE FEELING
SINK IN. THIS PRACTICE OF FOCUSING ON WHAT YOU WANT MORE OF IS THE FIRST STEP TOWARD ACHIEVING MORE OF IT.
IF YOU CONSISTENTLY APPLY THIS DRILL-FILTER SEQUENCE THROUGHOUT YOUR PRACTICE SESSION, YOU'RE
EFFECTIVELY REVIEWING AND REINFORCING THE PROGRESS YOU'VE MADE. BY THE END OF THE SESSION, YOU'LL HAVE
SEVERAL HIGHLIGHTS TO REFLECT ON, ENRICHING YOUR POST-TRAINING REVIEW.
BACK IN THE LOCKER ROOM, WITH THOSE POSITIVE MOMENTS FRESH IN YOUR MIND, TAKE OUT A NOTEBOOK OR YOUR
PHONE TO JOT DOWN YOUR DAILY ESP—EFFORT, SUCCESS, AND PROGRESS. WITH THIS RICH MATERIAL, YOU CAN EASILY
REFLECT ON THE ENTIRE PRACTICE SESSION, IDENTIFYING THE KEY MOMENTS OF EFFORT, SUCCESS, AND PROGRESS.
ADDITIONALLY, CARRYING THE BEST REP FROM THE LAST DRILL INTO THE NEXT HELPS MAINTAIN A POSITIVE MOOD AND
ENHANCES YOUR OVERALL PRACTICE EXPERIENCE. EVEN IF YOUR COACH POINTS OUT MISTAKES, MAINTAINING FOCUS
ON YOUR BEST EFFORTS HELPS CULTIVATE A MORE CONSTRUCTIVE AND POSITIVE OUTLOOK, FOSTERING BETTER
PERFORMANCE DRILL BY DRILL.
BY ENGAGING IN REGULAR IPRS, YOU AVOID THE PITFALL OF DWELLING ON LESS SUCCESSFUL ATTEMPTS. IT'S NATURAL
TO WANT TO IMPROVE AND SUCCEED, BUT FOCUSING YOUR EMOTIONAL ENERGY ON POSITIVE MOMENTS RATHER THAN
SETBACKS IS CRUCIAL FOR LONG-TERM PROGRESS.
These 3 exercises are how you make the
most of your memories. These aren’t
complicated and don’t take much time they
only decide to take action. If your current
belief system is that you should remember
your mistakes as imperfections as a way of
achieving success then just think about
how well this is working for you. Are you
gaining confidence every day? Is your
present way of thinking consistent with the
level of success you’d like to have? Does it
help you find how good you could be?
Pre-game routine to enter the pitch with confidence
03
Pre-game mentality
The game is the fun part. It's the moment
when all those hours of training finally get to
shine. Think of it like a test in school—you've
studied hard, you know the material inside
and out, and on test day, you’re not anxious
—you’re eager to ace it. Football works the
same way. The match is where everything
counts, and it’s your opportunity to be free.
Every game is a chance to change your life.
You never know who’s watching or what
doors might open for you because of that
performance. How exciting is that? You are
fortunate to have this chance—to step onto
the pitch and potentially change your life
with every game.
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ENTERING THE PITCH WITH
CONFIDENCE
Transitioning into a confident state doesn't just happen
automatically; it's the result of a deliberate process,
often facilitated by a "pregame routine." Such routines
help you cut through mental clutter and distractions,
allowing you to arrive at your arena focused on the
present moment and prepared to take actions that lead
to success.
While pregame routines vary widely among performers,
every effective routine involves three key steps:
1. Conducting a personal assessment: Evaluate your
current physical, mental, and emotional state. Are you
feeling energized, anxious, or fatigued? Understanding
your starting point is crucial for setting the tone for the
performance.
2. Analyzing the upcoming performance situation:
Consider the specifics of the event. Who are the
competitors? What challenges might arise from the
environment in which the performance will take place?
This analysis helps you mentally prepare for the specific
conditions and challenges you will face.
3. Affirming your capabilities: Decide and affirm that you
possess the skills, knowledge, and experience
necessary to succeed in this particular situation. This
step is about reinforcing your belief in your abilities and
setting a positive expectation for your performance.
By systematically going through these steps, you
establish a mental framework that supports peak
performance. Each part of the routine builds on the last,
ensuring that you step into your performance with
clarity and confidence.
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STEP
ONE
THE FIRST STEP TO ENHANCING YOUR PERFORMANCE IS CONDUCTING A THOROUGH
ASSESSMENT OF YOUR CURRENT CAPABILITIES AND TRACKING YOUR PROGRESS, BOTH
IN THE SHORT TERM AND OVER THE LONG HAUL. THIS INVOLVES CHECKING YOUR
MENTAL STATE AS YOU PREPARE TO STEP ONTO THE PITCH. WHAT IS YOUR MINDSET
AT THIS MOMENT? THIS IS WHEN YOUR JOURNAL OR NOTES ON DAILY EFFORTS,
SUCCESSES, AND PROGRESS PROVE INVALUABLE. THESE RECORDS SERVE AS
TANGIBLE EVIDENCE OF YOUR HARD WORK, WHAT YOU’VE ACCOMPLISHED IN
TRAINING, AND THE DISTANCE YOU’VE TRAVELED IN YOUR DEVELOPMENT. SIMILARLY,
IF YOU'VE WRITTEN AFFIRMATIONS, NOW IS THE PERFECT TIME TO REVIEW THEM.
REAFFIRM THE NARRATIVES THESE STATEMENTS EMBODY, REINFORCING YOUR
CONFIDENCE AND READINESS TO PERFORM.
STEP
TWO
THE LEVEL OF CERTAINTY YOU BRING INTO ANY PERFORMANCE WILL SIGNIFICANTLY
INFLUENCE HOW FULLY YOU CAN EXPRESS YOUR ABILITIES. THIS CERTAINTY LARGELY
STEMS FROM YOUR SELF-PERCEPTION AND HOW YOU THINK ABOUT YOUR SKILLS AND
PREPARATION. THE SECOND PART OF YOUR PREGAME ROUTINE INVOLVES A DETAILED
ASSESSMENT OF THE UPCOMING SITUATION:
2. OPPONENT AND FACTOR ANALYSIS: IDENTIFY WHO OR WHAT YOU ARE UP AGAINST. THIS
COULD INCLUDE SPECIFIC OPPONENTS, TEAM STRATEGIES, OR EVEN ENVIRONMENTAL
FACTORS LIKE WEATHER OR CROWD NOISE THAT MIGHT IMPACT YOUR PERFORMANCE.
An essential component of your pregame routine should include a brief yet thorough review of
potential distractions or challenges that could disrupt your focus once you enter the arena. It's crucial
to prepare for these scenarios in advance by imagining how you would handle them effectively. The
best athletes understand that setbacks are inevitable and repeatedly practice how to navigate these
disruptions. They train themselves to think, "Here's my chance to do what I love," maintaining a
relaxed and composed demeanour.
Consider the upcoming performance: what specific situations might trigger unhelpful emotions such
as fear, anger, or feelings of inadequacy? Identify these potential triggers and bring them into the
open. By acknowledging these challenges ahead of time, you reduce the likelihood of being caught
off guard. This proactive approach allows you to stay in control and respond to any situation with
confidence.
WHAT? THE TASK
If you reflect on it, you'll realize that to win the game, you have an essential task ahead of you: the task
of focusing on what's important minute by minute during the performance, rather than fixating on the
importance of the outcome. Recognizing this "task within your task" — the specific processes that
lead to your desired outcome — is a crucial step in your pregame routine. This approach helps you
maintain concentration on immediate actions and decisions, which are vital for achieving success in
any performance.
WHERE? THE PITCH
I recommend getting "attuned" to each stadium where you will perform, well before the actual event.
This helps you become more comfortable by reducing the element of surprise and unfamiliarity that
accompanies every new environment. Explore the stadium thoroughly: walk up into the stands, climb
to the highest seat available, and sit down to get a bird’s-eye view of the entire pitch. Take your time to
familiarise yourself with the place where you'll be performing.
Spend a few moments envisioning the opening and closing of your performance, as well as a few key
moments, from this external viewpoint. Consider what the spectators will see during the game. Then,
imagine the stadium packed with an excited, energised crowd. Think about how you will handle the
noise and atmosphere.
Next, walk back down to ground level and go to your bench or team area. Look out onto the pitch
again and envision your performance, hearing the crowd and feeling the atmosphere around you.
Make this arena "yours"—a place where you can make a significant impact, leveraging what you’ve
trained to do and what you love doing.
Where will your next performance take place? Will you be comfortably attuned to this "arena"? If time
or travel constraints prevent an in-person visit, you might still be able to get a feel for the place through
photos or descriptions from fellow players who have been there. If these options are not available, use
your imagination to visualise yourself comfortably performing in that new environment. With a little
effort, any pitch can become your favourite.
STEP
THREE
NOW THAT YOU'VE EXAMINED YOUR MENTAL STATE AND ACCLIMATED TO YOUR PERFORMANCE
ARENA, THE NEXT STEP IN YOUR PREGAME ROUTINE IS TO MAKE A CRUCIAL DECISION: AFFIRMING
THAT YOU HAVE ALREADY DONE ENOUGH. AS YOU STEP ONTO THE PITCH, YOU MUST BELIEVE THAT
YOU HAVE PREPARED ADEQUATELY AND ARE FULLY EQUIPPED TO SUCCEED IN THIS MOMENT. THE
ANSWER TO WHETHER YOU'VE DONE ENOUGH SHOULD BE A RESOUNDING "YES." IF IT ISN’T, YOU
MAY FEEL INADEQUATE, LEADING TO DOUBTS THAT CAN CAUSE TENSION AND HINDER YOUR
PERFORMANCE.
THE WORK YOU'VE DONE, WHETHER PHYSICAL—TO BECOME STRONGER, FASTER, AND MORE AGILE
—OR MENTAL—TO SHARPEN YOUR FOCUS AND ENHANCE YOUR GAME INTELLIGENCE—ONLY HOLDS
VALUE IF YOU CONCLUDE THAT YOU ARE SUFFICIENTLY PREPARED TO FACE ANY COMPETITOR OR
CONDITION IN THAT SPECIFIC ARENA. THIS DECISION MARKS A CRITICAL MENTAL SHIFT FROM AN
ATTITUDE OF BUILDING AND ACQUIRING SKILLS TO ONE OF RELEASING AND TRUSTING IN THE
ABILITIES YOU HAVE DEVELOPED.
AT THE MOMENT YOU DECIDE THAT YOU ARE ENOUGH, YOUR FOCUS SHIFTS AWAY FROM TRYING TO
IMPROVE FURTHER. INSTEAD, YOU CONCENTRATE ON BEING YOUR BEST, UTILISING THE SKILLS
AND KNOWLEDGE YOU’VE HONED. THIS MINDSET ALLOWS YOU TO PERFORM WITH CONFIDENCE
AND CLARITY, FULLY ENGAGED IN THE PRESENT AND READY TO EXECUTE YOUR SKILLS TO THE
FULLEST.
Making
your
decision
It doesn't matter "how" you make that decision, it only matters that you make it! The
temptation always exists to say to yourself I sure wish I had /done more/got more practice
reps/ as you step onto the pitch, but doing so only opens the door to self-doubt. Similarly, it's
easy to ask yourself the question, Am I ready for this game? but that question also opens the
door to a flurry of self-doubt. Better to simply stop with the questions altogether once a certain
threshold of time or space has been passed. You can do this by using the Statements Only rule
- once a certain time has expired, or once a certain line has been crossed, you refrain from
asking questions of any kind and make only statements to yourself and to any teammates.
Once you wake on that day, once your feet hit the floor and you rise from your bed, you refuse to
ask yourself or anyone else any questions, and you deliberately make statements to yourself and
anyone else about how well you're going to perform. Even the seemingly innocent questions like
"How're you feeling?" or
"Ready to go today?" are forbidden, because even those, as simple and innocuous as they might
be on the surface, can start up a deeper, more serious, and more negative series of questions
taking over your mind. Like a small ember that starts a big fire, those innocent-seeming questions
can make you (and your teammates) ask, "Am I really ready? Have I honestly done what I should
have done to prepare myself for today?" These questions have no functional value when asked
on game day. All they do is pull your mental state down. Follow the SO Rule and make statements
instead, both to yourself and to the people around you who matter -"This is a great opportunity...
You're gonna get it done today... We have a chance to do something great right now!'
"What if I know deep down that l haven't done what I should have done to prepare but I have
to go and play the game anyway?" Answer: go and play the game with the same 100 per cent
conviction that you'd have if you'd been training relentlessly all week.
Why this answer, when we all know that you can't expect great success without great
preparation? Because you never know how much you truly have in your "tank" until you go
out and empty it. Didn't prepare well enough? How do you know that for sure? Didn't
practice enough? How can you know that until you've gone out and played as confidently
and aggressively as possible? Just how much practice/preparation is "enough" anyway?
The trap is the belief that you can never do too much work or never get too much practice.
When you fall for this trap, you start doing extra training on the day, waking up early to do a little
bit extra, all in the hope that these last-minute practice reps will magically make up for the
deficits in your preparation. The guidance for anyone who might be tempted to wish that they
had practised more, before stepping onto the pitch is to acknowledge what you do have, what
you have done in terms of preparation, and declare to yourself, “I'm ready, I'm as prepared as I
can be, I'm enough! Let's see how well I do with What I've got.”
Are you ready to be enough? When you next walk onto the pitch, will you be so certain of
your abilities to the point where you can perform with the absolute minimum of interference
from your conscious, analytical mind?
MENTALITY
HOW YOU HAVE
BEEN
BRAINWASHED
FOOTBALLERSTRAIN
NEXT TIME
MENTALITY
BELIFS THAT HOW GOOD IS YOUR MENTALITY? ARE YOUR BELIEFS POSITIVE AND HELP YOU TO BECOME
TAKE YOU TO THE BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF? IF NOT LEARN HOW YOU HAVE BEEN BRAINWASHED TO
THE NEXT FIT IN WITH THE REST OF SOCIETY AND UNDERSTAND HOW YOU CAN CHANGE TO AVOID
LEVEL AND MEDIOCRITY.
LEVEL 3
BELIEFS THAT
LIMIT
POTENTIAL
003
How you have been brainwashed
01
THE BRAINWASHING
THE NATURE OF CONFIDENCE AND THE
UNAVOIDABLE FACT THAT THE
ULTIMATE SOURCE OF CONFIDENCE IS
THE WAY YOU THINK ABOUT YOURSELF,
YOUR LIFE, AND THE THINGS THAT
HAPPEN TO YOU IN YOUR LIFE.
THE NEED TO BE SELECTIVE IN YOUR
THINKING, AND THE PROCESS FOR
DOING SO—USING YOUR HUMAN FREE
WILL TO MENTALLY FILTER IN AND
EMPHASIZE THE THOUGHTS AND
MEMORIES THAT BUILD ENERGY,
OPTIMISM, AND ENTHUSIASM WHILE
DELIBERATELY RELEASING OR
MODERN SOCIETY IS VERY UNCERTAIN RESTRUCTURING THE THOUGHTS AND
WHEN IT COMES TO CONFIDENCE IT'S MEMORIES THAT DO ANYTHING ELSE.
PERSONALLY IMPORTANT TO HAVE SOME,
BUT SOCIALLY DEADLY TO HAVE TOO
MUCH, AND JUST HOW MUCH IS "JUST
RIGHT" IS NEVER MADE CLEAR IN THE
PROCESS OF "SOCIALISATION," DEFINED BY
THE OXFORD DICTIONARY OF ENGLISH AS
"THE PROCESS OF LEARNING TO BEHAVE IN
A WAY THAT IS ACCEPTABLE TO SOCIETY,"
IS A DOUBLE-EDGED SWORD. IT PROVIDES
SAFETY AND SECURITY, BUT IT DOESN'T
ALWAYS ENCOURAGE THE SEARCH FOR
YOUR PERSONAL EXCELLENCE.
Conformity.
Since those mistakes are inevitable, believing that "the player that makes the
fewest mistakes will be successful" puts you in a steady state of tension and
worry. These beliefs only have power if you choose to support them. You can
choose some alternative beliefs about the pursuit of success and satisfaction
that may be different from those that you grew up with but will help you
develop the sense of certainty that always gives you the best chance of
success. You can choose to think differently than most people and when you
do so, you give yourself a chance to perform differently than most people.
Having the mindset to be okay with mistakes is crucial
for a footballer. The reality is, you will make mistakes—
it's part of the game. But the best players excel at
moving on and not letting those moments define them.
They understand that their past actions don’t have to
dictate their future performance. They adopt a "next
time" mindset, believing that the next play will work out.
No matter what happened before, they maintain the
confidence that the next opportunity will be different.
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The best players in the world make mistakes, even
legends like Ronaldo. I watched one of his games from
his prime at Real Madrid. He ended with a goal and an
assist, but it wasn’t without several failed attempts. He
kept taking shots—many went wide or over the bar—
but that didn’t stop him from trying. Why? Because he
had the unwavering belief that the next shot would go
in, and eventually, it did, even if it took until the 90th
minute. He knew that if he kept playing, one of his
passes would lead to a goal, and it did.
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Limiting beliefs
02
Remember Your Failures And Mistakes To Help Motivate You
In reality, though, you're just buying into mediocrity by beating yourself up. If you criticise
yourself all the time in training and think about all the things you have to improve when
you're away from training, then you shouldn't be surprised when you don't feel any
confidence on game day. Save the self-judgment and the self-criticism for the right
moments when you are away from the action, the times when you can calmly and rationally
acknowledge your weaknesses without criticizing or belittling yourself.
Always Be Logical and Think Carefully About What You're Doing
Maybe the best way to take your football career to the next level is by looking inside instead.
Second, this belief encourages you to become more preoccupied with the mechanics and
technical instruction, too much of that can lead to overthinking and confusion. This belief can
trap you into destructive perfectionism where you feel you're never enough no matter how
much you know or how hard you've worked. The truth is that the fewer things you have in your
mind when you perform, the more efficiently your brain and nervous system will operate.
Become Really Good at Something Before You Become
Confident About It
They prevent you from believing in yourself now, and you may not have the luxury of more time
and the necessary training resources that your self-doubt keeps insisting you need. The forever
questioning brought on by this belief almost guarantees that you will never feel truly confident.
It will always frustrate you because there is always more that you could have done. An important
fact to realize here is that your state of mind, your sense of certainty, is a choice that you make
regardless of the situation you are in, and regardless of the level of preparation you have
achieved.
The Experts Know What's Best
Most people only develop their logical minds, missing out on the possibilities that they might
have experienced had they only allowed themselves to be a little more playful, a little more
creative, and a little less "realistic." Most people will never attempt anything unless their logical
analysis of the situation tells them that they have at least a 50/50 chance of succeeding. Be
creative. Go beyond expectations not just of yourself, but expectations of a human being, Go
beyond that. Use realism and logic when making the small, hour-by-hour decisions, but use
some creative fantasy, however "unrealistic" it might be when thinking about your long-term
projects
Always Look To Expand Your Toolkit
Use your imagination a little and think about what that person might look like as they shuffle into
their bathroom at 6 a.m., eyes still half closed, hair all over the place, yawning and grumbling.
What do they look like as they fumble to find their toothbrush or clumsily wash their face? Is
anyone impressed when they do that? If you think about what any person looks like as they
complete the full list of typical morning bathroom behaviours, you'll see them in their most
human, most vulnerable, and most beatable condition. This simple reality check illustrates a key
point: even the most hyped-up star is a person just like you, and just like you, they come with
their complete share of fears, doubts, and imperfections. So forget the "experts" who create the
rankings and the hype. Buying into those images and those stories does nothing for your
confidence. Every opponent is human and beatable.
The team (or player) who plays well despite
Play to Win making mistakes wins." The belief that the
team (or player) that makes the fewest
mistakes wins, leads you to worry about both
the mistakes you've made and those you
might make. That worry leads to tension in
the muscles, which in turn spoils your
performance. The positive belief leads to
thoughts about playing well and executing
the way you've trained and practised. Those
thoughts produce optimistic feelings," which
in turn excites the body while not over-
tensing it so that a great play has the best
chance of emerging. This alternative belief is
different from what socialization may have
taught you.
But let's remember that the purpose of socialisation is to encourage conformity and the
continued existence of the prevailing social order purpose is not to help you discover the
full extent of your talents and abilities. If you're a little hung up on thinking differently from
the crowd, the very thing that socialisation exists to support, you're likely to remain in the
crowd. You'll be "normal," but is that really what you want? You may feel a little
uncomfortable taking on these new beliefs, it seems a little weird and strange. However
remind yourself that the difference between special and wonderful and weird and strange
is entirely in your own minds, that it's a choice you are making about yourself each and
every minute. What choice are you making now? To go with the crowd or to think in ways
that help you be ever more special and wonderful?
ENTERING FLOW
WHAT IS FLOW
FOOTBALLERSTRAIN
ROUTINE TO
HELP ENTER
THE FLOW
STATE
YOU MAY HAVE ENTERED THIS REALM BEFORE BUT HAVE ALWAYS STRUGGLED TO GET
BACK INTO IT. YOU KNOW THAT THIS IS WHERE YOUR BEST PERFORMANCES HAPPEN, THE
ZONE. YOU'VE BEEN OUT OF IT FOR A WHILE NOW BUT LET'S HELP YOU TRY AND GET BACK
CONCLUSION IN.
LEVEL 4 004
What is flow?
01
IT WOULD BE A LITTLE
DISHONEST FOR ME TO
TELL YOU THAT SINCE
YOU HAVE STORED UP A
HUGE POOL OF
REASONS TO BELIEVE IN
YOURSELF AND GONE
WHAT IS THROUGH YOUR
FLOW? PREGAME ROUTINE SO
YOU ENTER THE PITCH
FEELING READY, YOUR
CONFIDENCE WILL
AUTOMATICALLY BE
ALL-TIME HIGH AS YOU
BEGIN AND IT'LL STAY
THAT WAY MINUTE BY
MINUTE AND PLAY BY
PLAY RIGHT TO THE END
OF THE GAME.
FOOTBALLERSTRAIN
WHAT IS
FLOW?
When a player says that they were "out of their mind," they
mean that they didn't analyse or judge what they were
doing while they were doing it; they weren't self-critical, and
they weren't, concerned about the outcome or the result.
Second, they describe being "clear... locked in ... absorbed,"
meaning their eyes, ears, and feelings, all their "senses,"
were fully engaged, maybe even turned up a few notches,
and that helped them perceive and react effectively to what
Lose your
was going on.
mind and come have enabled a surge of research into the neuroscience of
human performance, and that research supports the idea
that a "quiet mind," one that is relatively free of conscious-
THE ZONE
Every footballer wishes they could get into the flow every time they
perform, unfortunately, this can be difficult however they can get closer
to it and hit it more often if they take the right steps. You can do the
same if you first build up your memory of your successes, and then
decide that you are adequate enough to perform at your best, and
before the start of each game deliberately step away from a conscious,
analytical mind, make sure to carefully do it the right way of thinking
and open up your eyes, ears, and other senses.
The routine
02
This routine accomplishes
something very important and
stops you from thinking about the
past and the future and puts you
right into the present moment,
taking you away from overanalysis,
needless judgment, and dangerous
self-criticism into immediate
sensory engagement with what's
important now.
The
Routine
You can "lose your mind and
come to your senses" before
each moment of engagement
in your performance by
following this three-step
"C-B-A" routine.
1. Cue your Conviction
2. Breathe your Body
3. Attach your Attention
STEP
ONE
[ CUE YOUR CONVICTION ]
BY USING THIS TECHNIQUE YOU
ARE PROMPTING YOURSELF TO
ENTER A STATE OF TRUST AND
CONVICTION, TO BRING TO THE
SURFACE YOUR DETERMINATION
TO EXECUTE WELL RIGHT NOW.
001
Research suggests that your pre-engagement
routine should start with a short, impactful
statement. It needs to be brief, as game time
may not allow for lengthy reflections, and
powerful to summon the best version of
yourself. This is particularly crucial on Game
Day, when the "Statements Only Rule" applies
—a focus on clear, direct communication.
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Don't just take my word for it regarding the significance of
conscious breathing in sports. In this insightful video, world-
renowned tennis player Novak Djokovic shares his personal
experience with controlled breathing techniques. Listen as
Djokovic explains how mastering his breath has been a game-
changer for him, both on and off the court. He details how
focused breathing enhances his concentration, calms his
nerves during crucial points, and significantly improves his
overall athletic performance. This testimony from one of the top
athletes in the world highlights the powerful impact that
breathing control can have on your physical and mental game.
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STEP
THREE
[ ATTACH YOUR ATTENTION ]
ATTACHING YOUR ATTENTION TO
THIS
"TARGET" IS THE FINAL STEP OF
THE PRE-ENGAGEMENT ROUTINE
THAT ALLOWS YOU TO PERFORM
CONFIDENTLY.
003 Entering the flow state is simply about
letting yourself become completely
engrossed in what you are doing. It involves
cultivating a deep curiosity and interest in
the task at hand, the environment around
you, and the actions you are performing.
This intense fascination helps you transition
"out of your mind," anchoring you firmly in
the present moment of your performance.
Why is this the case? When you load yourself with pressure,
it monopolises your mental energy, making it difficult to
stay attuned to the game’s dynamics. This state of high alert
can lead to worry—thoughts like "What if I don't..."—and
ramps up your emotions, which often results in destructive
muscular tension. Remember, your autonomic nervous
system naturally generates all the energy and focus you
need. Staying within this natural success cycle is key.
What is
lack what you want, you may find yourself emitting emotions
like anxiety, stress, worry, and fear. These are not the
frequencies of heaven but rather of hell, which can hinder your
ability to enter a state of flow and perform well.
heaven?
To manifest what you desire physically, you must first
experience it vibrationally. Why would your desired reality
come to you if you are in a state of turmoil? True manifestation
involves an internal shift to a point where you are no longer
emotionally dependent on seeing changes in reality. When you
are content with having something and equally content
without it, you are truly in a state of "heaven."
For a deeper exploration of this topic, I recommend watching
this video from Nero Knowledge. He discusses this concept in
much greater detail and offers additional insightful content
worth exploring.
Video link
Watch this clip where Conor McGregor describes feeling in a
state of zen, a state of heaven. Unlike many athletes who
experience anxiety, fear, and stress before a big performance,
McGregor is internally settled. His calm demeanour indicates
that he is emitting a frequency of abundance rather than lack.
This mindset is crucial because desired outcomes manifest in
your reality only once you've emotionally shifted to a state
where you're no longer dependent on seeing changes in your
reality to feel content. This principle emphasises the
importance of achieving internal peace to optimize
performance.
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HOW TO ENTER
HEAVEN
How you enter this state of mind is entirely personal. Some
players might listen to music, others crack jokes, while some
prefer quiet reflection. It's crucial to develop a pregame routine
that cultivates feelings of peace, calm, serenity, and joy. For
instance, before leaving the house on game day, I engage in a
Wim Hof breathing technique (Video Link) to achieve
calmness. Then, I perform a visualization exercise that helps me
detach from the need to see changes in my physical reality.
Once I reach the changing room, I listen to my favourite music
which brings me peace and joy.
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IMPLEMENTATION
FOOTBALLERSTRAIN
6 WEEK
TRAINING
PROGRAM
LEVEL 5 005
6 week plan
As mentioned in the first few slides, mastering your mindset
requires an obsession with improvement. You've done the
studying; now it's time to fully commit to the implementation.
It's not enough to understand these concepts—you must live
them every day. This is where the real transformation begins.
Shift your focus to taking action, consistently applying what
you've learned until it becomes second nature. True growth
comes from daily practice, discipline, and relentless dedication
to evolving your mindset. Now is the time to put in the work, to
turn knowledge into progress, and to build the mental strength
that will set you apart.
Daily reflection
At the start of each day, take time to reflect and set clear
intentions. This practice allows you to structure your life in a
way that builds confidence and ensures you get the most out of
each day. While this is only a guide, with consistent study and
practice, you will discover what works best for you. By setting
daily intentions, you create a roadmap for success, helping you
stay focused, motivated, and in control of your progress. End
the day focusing on moments where you could have done
better and where you won. This further builds your confidence
1. Wake-Up and Energy Check
- Wake-up Time: ______
- Energy at Wake-Up (1-10): ______
- Time Went to Bed: ______
- Hours of Sleep: ______
2. Morning Reflection
- Sell Yourself: Why do I deserve success today? Why is success certain for me?
- Gratitude Check: What is going amazing in my life right now?
- Excitement: What am I excited for today?
- Top Priority: If I was 100% committed to reaching my top goal, what would I do today?
- Inspiration: What can I listen to or read that will keep me motivated?
1. Gratitude Reflection
- What am I grateful for today?
- Where and how did I act consistently with my ultimate self?
2. Winning Moments
- Where did I win today?
- What new belief can I adopt based on what I learned today?
3. Reflection on Obstacles
- Was there something in my way? If so, what was it?
- What can I do tomorrow to be more aggressive in reaching my goals?
Rest and reflect. Write down how you're feeling mentally and
Day 7 any improvements in confidence.
Week 2
GOAL - REINFORCE CONFIDENCE USING VISUALIZATION AND MINDSET TECHNIQUES.
Focus on key game moments during your visualization sessions. Imagine yourself
calmly responding to difficult situations (e.g., a high-pressure moment in a match).
Day 8- Implement the Immediate Progress Review (IPR) during training. After each drill, focus
10 on a moment where you performed well and mentally celebrate that.
Day 15 Rest and reflect. Review your ESP from the week, identifying
areas of improvement and growing confidence.
Week 3
GOAL- STRENGTHEN MENTAL REHEARSAL TECHNIQUES AND REINFORCE AUTOMATIC
CONFIDENCE.
Visualise challenging moments from your previous matches or training. Focus on
turning these moments into positive mental rehearsals where you succeed.
Day 16- Continue the Immediate Progress Review (IPR) technique during training.
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Rest and reflect on your mental state. Are you feeling more
certain in your abilities? If not, identify and address limiting
Day 22 beliefs.
Week 4
GOAL - STRENGTHEN AUTOMATIC CONFIDENCE AND MAINTAIN IT DURING PERFORMANCE.
Continue your daily visualisation and include more emotionally intense scenarios.
Picture moments where you’re celebrated by teammates and fans, feel the pride of
Day 23- your accomplishments. Spend more time focusing on confidence-building exercises
from the document. Start keeping a journal of daily victories and progress.
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Reflect on how your mindset has evolved over the last 5 weeks.
Is your mental filter letting in more positive thoughts? Are you
Day 37 responding better to challenges?
Week 6
GOAL- SOLIDIFY YOUR MENTAL MASTERY AND PREPARE FOR CONSISTENT CONFIDENCE
ON THE PITCH
Practice your visualisation routine every day, focusing on key moments where you see
yourself succeeding in every match.
Day 38- Refine your pre-game routine for game days, ensuring that you enter every match with
complete confidence.
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Final message
going to separate you from the rest? Concentrate
on improving every small detail that you can and
you may have a chance of getting there. Because
at the top it's the small details that count.