Shared Space Housing - Motivational Barriers To Shared Housing The Importance of Meanings of Home in The Diffusion of Housing Innovations
Shared Space Housing - Motivational Barriers To Shared Housing The Importance of Meanings of Home in The Diffusion of Housing Innovations
To cite this article: Bart Put & Inge Pasteels (2022) Motivational Barriers to Shared Housing:
The Importance of Meanings of “Home” in the Diffusion of Housing Innovations, Housing,
Theory and Society, 39:3, 257-274, DOI: 10.1080/14036096.2021.1932580
Introduction
In recent years, Flanders has witnessed a notable upsurge in the public attention for
cohousing and other types of shared living arrangements (e.g. Jonckheere et al. 2010; Van
den Houte et al. 2015; Verstraete and De Decker 2017; Brusselmans et al. 2019). The
attention is sparked by discussions on substantial challenges currently faced by the
Flemish housing market. First, there is a growing concern about the long term environ
mental and societal costs of urban sprawl in Flanders (Vermeiren et al. 2019). A long
history of path dependent policy decisions has resulted in a landscape characterized by
the dispersal of large single family houses in low density areas and ribbon development,
putting an increasing amount of pressure on nature and mobility (De Decker 2011;
Bervoets and Heynen 2013). Second, like in many countries in the Western world, the
demographic set-up of Flanders is undergoing important changes. The ageing of society
and the shrinking size of households exacerbate the problem of an undercrowded
housing stock on the one hand, that of a growing need for mutual support and easy
access to care on the other hand (Bervoets and Heynen 2013; Bervoets, Vanneste, and
Ryckewaert 2014). Furthermore, the Flemish housing model seems ill-suited to accom
modate the increasing de-standardization of family life (Luyten et al. 2015). Third,
researchers have pointed to persistent problems pertaining to the quality and the
affordability of housing, especially on the lower end of the private rental market
(Depraetere et al. 2015; Heylen 2015; Verstraete and De Decker 2017). In all three respects,
shared housing or shared living arrangements have been thematized by researchers and
policy makers as one of the avenues for confronting such challenges. Flemish law has
been considered too inflexible to be able to support a more important role for collective
housing, however. This was one of the reasons why a decree was issued by the Flemish
Government in 2017, installing a test environment for experimental housing forms, the
results of which will be evaluated in 2023 (Vermeire 2017). As part of its “Vision 2050” the
Flemish Government also committed to stimulating a gradual shift towards “smart hous
ing and living” and strengthening public support for alternative, including collective, ways
of living (Wonen Vlaanderen 2017).
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More or less simultaneously, scholars have begun to probe people’s readiness to share
(part of) their living space (Bervoets, Vanneste, and Ryckewaert 2014; Gerards, Nuyts, and
Vanrie 2016; GfK Belgium 2017; Heylen and Vanderstraeten 2019). It is worthwhile to focus
a bit more in detail on the two most recent studies, given their nation-wide scale. Both are
large-scale surveys, generating results weighed to a representative sample of the Flemish
population. The first study finds that 55% of Flemish citizens are not prepared to share any
of their living spaces, whether interior or exterior (GfK Belgium 2017). Those who are
prepared to do so, would be more keen on sharing a functional space (work place, office
space, laundry area) than on sharing a more personal space, such as a kitchen or a living
room. Family privacy is reported to be the most important obstacle. Results from the most
recent survey (Heylen and Vanderstraeten 2019) are strongly in line with the earlier study.
Here, the willingness to share ranges from 2.7% for a living room or kitchen (when no
extra private living room or kitchen is available), over 27.5% for garden space, to 52.6% for
parking space and bicycle storage, leading the authors to conclude that the mindset of
Flemings is generally not collective in nature (Heylen and Vanderstraeten 2019).
Such statistics are very valuable for gaining a general overview, but still leave much to
the interpretation when it comes to the deeper meanings of these obstacles to the people
involved. Even a brief look at the notion of privacy (e.g. Margulis 2003), for example,
reveals a quite complex plurality of possible meanings. Therefore, qualitative inquiry can
provide more in-depth insights into the matter, complementing the findings from quan
titative research, and handing more concrete tools for policy makers to build upon in their
efforts to generate support for collective ways of living. The main focus of this study is to
explore the various factors that impede people from considering shared housing arrange
ments in the Flemish context. By doing so, we also aim to contribute to a fuller under
standing of obstacles from the point of view of “non-adopters” (Rogers 1983) more in
general, which proves to be a somewhat neglected perspective in existing research on
shared housing, as we will argue.
The working definition of “cohousing” used in our interviews, on the other hand, was
also broader than the classic definition by McCamant and Durrett (e.g. quoted in Williams
2008), and consequently, broader than most of the definitions or descriptions used in the
academic work on cohousing (e.g. Boyer and Leland 2018; Sanguinetti and Hibbert 2018;
Jakobsen and Larsen 2019). The focus of our working definition during the interviews was
mainly on the spatial outlay of such projects, and much less on the aspect of collaboration
and communal activities: “Cohousing is a housing form in which several households each
have their own housing units, but can make use of communal living areas as well.” This
description broadly follows the categorization of different types of communal living
elaborated by Samenhuizen vzw, an organization that actively supports communal
housing culture in Flanders, e.g. through the dissemination of knowledge about various
forms of communal housing and specific projects (Jonckheere et al. 2010).
secured vis-à-vis unwanted intrusion by noise, people, etc. In other words, the conceptual
merits of this approach lie in its capacity to link the diffusion of housing innovations
processes to the lived experience of dwellers on a societal micro-level. In the remainder of
this literature overview, we will outline two ways in which privacy and personal bound
aries have been conceptualized with regard to home and home making.
Firstly, the home can be observed in terms of Goffman’s (1990) distinction between
frontstage and backstage (see also Schwartz 1968; Rechavi 2009). Not only does the home
as such constitute an important instance of the societal “backstage”, allowing people to
relax from efforts of self-presentation in other domains of social life. Also, it is generally
accepted that some spaces within the home may (temporarily) have a more public
character (e.g. the living room, the garden, the kitchen), whereas other rooms are
considered to be private almost by default (e.g. bathrooms and bedrooms). The presence
of others may be experienced as being too intrusive when one is not granted control over
one’s self-presentation (e.g. when sleeping). In the vocabulary of Belk (1988, 2010), the
home can be seen as part of the “extended self”, in the sense that it helps to define the
boundary between self and others. Family relations, however, constitute an important
prototype of sharing according to Belk (1988, 2010), which also explains why they are
hardly ever explicitly discussed in the context of shared living (Clark et al. 2018). The
house, therefore, not only provides a backstage for individuals, but also for the family, in
that it often constitutes a “symbolic body for the family” (Belk 1988, 152).
Secondly, some scholars relate the concept of privacy to Giddens’ notion of ontological
security (Saunders 1989; Dupuis and Thorns 1998; Easthope et al. 2015; Nasreen and
Ruming 2020). Ontological security denotes “the confidence that most human beings
have in the continuity of their self-identity and the constancy of their social and material
environments. Basic to a feeling of ontological security is a sense of the reliability of
persons and things.” (Giddens, as quoted in Easthope et al. 2015, 153) Two aspects are
particularly noteworthy about this concept: the importance of routine activities, and the
importance of control. Through routines, a stable relationship with the world is built, the
experience of which in turn induces the expectation that people and things will be
familiar, allowing one to “go on” with one’s daily life. Control, on the other hand, refers
to the conditions of access to this state. Famously, Saunders (1989) has pointed to
homeownership as an important condition of ontological security, firmly tying feelings
of subjective wellbeing to the laws of individual property. To Easthope et al. (2015),
however, tenure is but one of the possible means of control over the dwelling, next to
control over the use of spaces and the power to make decisions regarding the dwelling
(see also Nasreen and Ruming 2020).
The broader issue of control over space, routines and decisions is a recurring theme in
empirical studies that have focused on the experiences of (ex-)residents of shared living
arrangements or cohousing projects (e.g. Kenyon and Heath 2001; Williams 2008;
Easthope et al. 2015; Clark et al. 2018; Nasreen and Ruming 2020). Respondents in such
studies openly speak about the difficulties in the process of finding the right balance
between privacy and communal living, between autonomy and dependency, and of the
conflicts ensuing from it. Common types of conflict reported in shared living among
young adults, for example, revolve around cleanliness, chores and the problem of free
loading (Clark et al. 2018). Similar obstacles, however, emerge in studies that focus on
people who neither necessarily have any experience with shared living nor have the
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immediate intention to make that choice (Bervoets and Heynen 2013; Bervoets, Vanneste,
and Ryckewaert 2014; Green and McCarthy 2015; GfK Belgium 2017). The wish to remain
independent, to be able to continue one’s own rhythm of life, and fear of conflict are all
reasons mentioned for not seriously considering sharing (part of) one’s house. Vulnerable
groups in housing need still have additional reasons to be wary of other people’s habits
and decisions; for them, the reluctance to share might also be out of self-protection and
safety reasons (Green and McCarthy 2015; Wilkinson and Ortega-Alcázar 2019; Nasreen
and Ruming 2020).
Methods
The data for this study were collected in the context of a broader interdisciplinary research
project on housing, the increasingly dynamic nature of contemporary family life, and
alternative housing solutions. A qualitative research design was used. In order to gain
a detailed understanding of people’s individual experiences and opinions about home
and housing, we decided to gather data through face-to-face in-depth interviews. Since
gender (male/female), age differences (20–35yo/36-55yo/56-80yo), family type (families
with children, couples and singles without children, single parent families, reconstituted
families) and socio-economic background (financially vulnerable/not financially vulner
able) were believed to potentially impact individual experiences and opinions on the
matter, a quota sample was designed, so as to make sure that various subgroups along
these axes were incorporated in the sample for analysis.
Respondents were recruited through personal networks of students, a process which
was simultaneously directed and monitored by the imperatives of the quota sample, so
that the various strata would be present in the sample (see below for information on the
final respondent group). After a primary reading, the data for this sample of 70 respon
dents were considered saturated with regard to the obstacles to shared housing; basic
arguments about obstacles were rehearsed multiple times, by respondents with various
profiles.
Data collection mainly focused on the province of Limburg, situated in the Eastern part
of Flanders. Some specific characteristics of the spatial outlay of the province have
informed our focus on this area for sampling purposes. When aiming to have an in-
depth insight into the obstacles to shared housing more in particular, these characteristics
are expected to be of added value. Limburg has a population of 872.9231 inhabitants,
representing 13.3% of the Flemish population. With 360 inhabitants per square kilometre,
population density is substantially below the Flemish average of 485 inhabitants per
square kilometre. The two largest urban centres in Limburg, Hasselt and Genk, have
a population of 77.709 and 66.159 inhabitants respectively. In terms of the current
housing stock, the share of single family houses is higher in Limburg (74.1%) than in
Flanders as a whole (68.7%). In the stock of single family houses, detached housing is
significantly more present in Limburg (57.3%) than in the whole of Flanders (41.3%).
A total of 70 persons were eventually interviewed in October and November 2018,
dispersed throughout the province. A detailed description of the realized sample in terms
of its socio-demographic composition is provided in Table 1.
The interviews were held using a semi-structured questionnaire, including topics such
as past and current housing situation, future housing plans, attitudes towards specific
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types of alternative housing forms (including cohousing), and willingness to share specific
areas of the house with people other than direct family members. All interviews were
transcribed and subsequently submitted to a thematic coding analysis.
Findings
Relevance
Out of the 70 participants in our study, only a minority showed actual interest in some
form of shared living. With regard to cohousing in particular, for instance, 10 respondents
reported they would consider it, albeit very conditionally in most cases. It is not so much
that respondents did not see the benefits, but there were obstacles that put more weight
into the balance. Quite often, respondents referred to some objective aspect of their life
circumstances to explain why it would not apply to them. The following quote contains
a combination of elements, each brought up separately by other respondents as well:
Probably it will never happen, but I think it’s an interesting form. I think if I were any younger,
I would have been more interested [. . .]. I think that if you are together with several young
families, than financially, ecologically . . . You have much more possibilities than when you
start to build a house by yourself, and when you’re younger it’s more difficult financially than
when you’re older, and maybe you see things differently. (R17, man, 45yo)
Although sympathetic to the idea of cohousing, this respondent shows reluctancy because
he links it with a younger age group, a group which can also benefit from creative housing
solutions given their limited financial resources. This can be taken to mean two different
things, both of which are confirmed by statements in other interviews. First, it may mean
that age, or one’s current life phase more in general, constitutes legitimate ground for not
having to seriously consider housing alternatives for oneself (e.g. R8, woman, 47yo; R33,
woman, 47yo). Homeownership plays a role for some: one already has a house one is
satisfied with (R4, woman, 74yo) or one would dread the prospect of having to go through
cumbersome administrative processes again (R17, man, 45yo). Secondly, and relatedly, it
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alludes to the existence of a normative housing career embedded in age categories or life
cycle stages. What constitutes an appropriate home is viewed as age-specific (see also
Meeus and De Decker 2015), and this in turn impacts to what extent shared spaces can
justifiably be part of one’s own “home”.
This rationalization in terms of “normal” age boundaries for shared housing solutions
surfaces in a number of other ways as well. Apart from clear benefits for a younger
generation, it is also hailed as a potentially valuable means to tackle loneliness in old
age (R17, man, 45yo), or to provide practical support in the face of decreasing physical
self-reliance. Like in the case of limited financial resourcefulness, however, sharing
appears as a choice on a “needs must” basis, as something you would resort to when
life does not leave you much other options (yet):
Furthermore, age-related family situations are mentioned. Having a partner or, even more
so, having children is sometimes seen as incompatible with shared housing. This is not
only because there is a fear of losing part of the intimate family experience (see below),
but also because there is a feeling that life will become too complicated once there are
family obligations. “I think it’s all OK when you’re single and you don’t have any obliga
tions, but from the moment you have a partner . . . maybe that would still be OK, but when
you have children, it’s not an option anymore.” (R6, woman, 35yo) The complexity of the
household required her to do things whenever she was able to, without having to take
into account schedules or rules about using the laundry room. “I wouldn’t want it for
myself, as a student maybe, but now with my family . . . I don’t live according to a fixed
schedule.” The persistent association with single status or (post-)student life, a life without
pressing responsibilities, reinforces the idea that shared housing is normally or preferably
a temporary thing (e.g. Bervoets, Vanneste, and Ryckewaert 2014; Green and McCarthy
2015). This may be due, at least in part, to the specific cultural cues one actually uses to
give meaning to shared housing. When asked about their familiarity with the idea of
cohousing, for example, some respondents took their own definitions automatically in the
direction of student life: “Is it like living together with someone else? And share every
thing? A bit like a student home?” (R46, woman, 22yo) “Yes, when friends all buy a house
together, but it more often occurs in Leuven [a university town near Brussels] I think, no?”
(R6, woman, 35yo) In other words, the strong cultural embeddedness of very specific
types of shared housing, such as student homes in the Belgian context, combined with
a relative lack of knowledge about (or relative lack of visibility of) other types of shared
housing, colours perceptions about “ideal” target audiences for shared housing more in
general.
Not all relevance issues were explicitly linked to age or life cycle stages, however. For
instance, a young man (R26, man, 24yo) pointed to the lack of financial problems as
a reason in and of itself for not having to be interested in shared housing at the moment.
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The perception of one’s place of residence can play a role as well. More in particular,
cohousing carries associations with an urban context. “I would never do it, I would not like
it at all. But I think in cities, where building plots are scarce, you can really cut costs by
doing it.” (R2, woman, 44yo) Lack of space was repeatedly mentioned as an urban
problem, implying that policy measures or development should focus on urban areas
and not on rural communities: “It’s more something for cities, but not for . . . I believe
everyone needs his own space and his own things.” (R20, woman, 39yo)
In what follows, we will discuss in more detail what it is exactly about the idea of
sharing space that people find problematic. There are three factors in particular which for
many respondents tilt the balance unequivocally towards the disadvantages of shared
living: privacy issues, routine activities and fear of conflict.
Privacy
By far the most frequently mentioned obstacle to sharing living space is the prospect of
having to give up “privacy”. Although the privacy argument might seem self-explanatory,
it came up in quite different meaning contexts. In all of the meanings, however, the
immediate presence of other people was described as potentially disturbing in some
respect.
One obvious consequence of the presence of other people is that it becomes busier
around the house, noisier, potentially threatening the feeling of quietness and peace of
mind that is often associated with home. “I like to be alone. You know, just by myself. Not
too many people around me. Just enjoy, you know.” (R7, woman, 51yo) This enjoyment is
often contrasted with the world of work, and its intensity of social contacts and
interactions:
I think when you’re at home, you like to have some peace. When I return home from
work, I very much like to be at ease. I think that’s possible when you’re by yourself, when
your children are present as well, family also, but with strange people . . . (R2, woman,
44yo)
Here and in similar comments (e.g. R12, man, 26yo; R15, man, 52yo), returning home
means entering a space where one can be at ease and be oneself, where no “strangers”
are present. Shared housing forms, for many interviewees, entail the risk of losing (part of)
the Goffmanian backstage, and, thereby, crucial opportunities to relax from social con
tacts and obligations. The presence of strangers brings extra work with regard to self-
presentation; the “peace of mind” associated with home depends on opportunities to
relax from such efforts.
In line with Goffman’s (1990) observations (see also Rechavi 2009), various types of
rooms or home spaces are also differentially positioned with regard to this frontstage/
backstage logic. Especially when aspects of bodily care are concerned, there is a great deal
of reluctancy, not only in view of keeping preparations for public performance backstage,
but also to protect oneself (or one’s family members) from the potentially indiscrete looks
of strangers. In that respect, most respondents declared bedrooms and bathrooms off
limits. Laundry rooms as well can be too intimate to share: “[. . .] it’s a piece of your private
life you put on display for other people to see, and I don’t like that.” (R40, woman, 42yo)
Being able to relax from self-presentation, of course, is also important in rooms or spaces
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that are specifically used for leisure and relaxation purposes, such as gardens (e.g. R17,
man, 45yo) and living rooms. Being able to let one’s guard down is a crucial reason for
some respondents to strictly limit access to such spaces:
For me, the living room is the moment [sic] when I can sink into the couch in my pyjamas
without having to worry about how I look like. Watching television under a blanket . . . this is
one of the rooms where I really need my privacy. (R6, woman, 35yo; see also R22, woman,
48yo)
Routines
Another category of reasons why people don’t consider shared living to be a feasible
option has to do with routines. It is not only about the sheer presence of strangers, but
also about how they do things, and how this impacts the way I (or we) do things. All types
of rooms are to some extent affected by and constitute an inherent part of day-to-day
routines. Whereas the preferred exclusivity of bedrooms, bathrooms, living rooms and
gardens to a great extent derives from concerns with securing a “backstage” space,
concerns with routines easily translate into a reluctancy to share more functional spaces
as well. There are two types of concerns with routines we would like to consider here:
what we would term “first order concerns” (1), or concerns about the intersection of
routines in terms of time and space, and “second order concerns” (2), concerns about the
organization of such routines.
1) First order concerns with regard to routines revolve around the more or less direct
incompatibility of routines of different people. Some respondents, for example, expressed
the concern that they would not be able to watch their preferred television programmes
when having to share a living room, or that they would feel bad forcing their own
preferences on someone else (e.g. R11, man, 68yo). Intersecting routines are also
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expected to be particularly annoying with regard to kitchen and bathroom use, causing
fears of bathrooms being overburdened (R9, man, 22yo) and kitchens with chaotic
circulation of residents (R16, man, 49yo). This impacts routines in a spatial sense as well,
leading to worries about orderliness and cleanliness standards, particularly in bathroom
and kitchen areas. For some, this type of concern is strong enough to prefer a shared
living room over a shared kitchen (e.g. R27, man, 34yo). The worry to be confronted with
other people’s spatial habits could go in two directions: either orderliness standards could
be too low (as is the case for R27), or they could be too high in the sense that co-residents
expect you to clean up right away (R7, woman, 51yo). By being used, spaces are left with
imprints of the presence of others, affecting one’s own feeling of orientation. Apart from
“less space for my own stuff” (R35, woman, 52yo), this might entail the risk of things being
misplaced, things getting lost (R16, man, 49yo) or things getting damaged. For that
reason, some would not be happy to share even a garage, storage space, or laundry
room, despite the fact that they are mostly meant for putting stuff.
2) Second order concerns, rather than flowing from direct disturbances caused by the
routines of others, have to do with a loss of autonomy in the organization of one’s own
routines. Above, we already quoted the woman (R6) who would not be prepared to
compromise on her laundry habits. Schedules would be an effective way to organize
routines of different people or households, but would, in her eyes, also hamper the
flexibility needed to meet the pressing demands of a busy household. Organizational
autonomy is valued because it is a guarantee for controlling the efficacy of one’s own
routines: “I don’t like others to move my stuff around. I kind of have my own . . . I am not
the kind of person that would easily adapt to someone else.” (R20, woman, 39yo) “The
laundry room is my area, because I’m using it practically every day. It would be chaos
when someone else would use it.” (R37, woman, 39yo) Such comments strongly attest to
the idea that being able to control one’s routines is considered to be an important
precondition of feeling at home somewhere and gaining a sense of ontological security
(Easthope et al. 2015; Nasreen and Ruming 2020).
Fear of Conflict
Given some of the above comments, it is not surprising that many respondents are wary
of sharing living space mainly because they fear conflicts with co-residents. The language
used sometimes refers to a kind of inescapability, of a law-like mechanism automatically
resulting in conflict: “For a short period of time, it will work just fine, but in the long run,
I foresee nothing but problems.” (R25, woman, 36yo) A home, for many interviewees,
should be kept free of problems, arguments, conflicts or tensions as much as possible. Any
factor that would add to such an environment should be avoided, because it would
undermine the feeling of ease and peace of mind that a home symbolizes. There are
several perceived sources of conflict.
The first source of conflict are straightforward differences in opinion. Different people
have different views and preferences, which can make decision processes difficult and
cumbersome. “Take ten residents, you’ll have ten opinions. [. . .] Ten captains on a ship:
that doesn’t work.” (R16, man, 49yo)
A second potential source of conflict has been suggested already in the previous
paragraph: discrepancies in routines can easily result in unsurmountable problems,
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both with regard to temporal intersections and with regard to the use of space and
orderliness standards. As described by this respondent, not only do intersecting habits
potentially lead to personal frustrations, but also to clashes between co-residents:
[E]veryone has a different biorhythm, a different time of arriving and leaving, you name it.
I think it’s a nice story on paper, but if it really was such a success story, we would all be living
together by now, and sharing costs. But because everyone likes to have his own privacy and
has his own way of doing things, it is bound to clash. (R16, man, 49yo)
A third potential source of conflict are discussions about the written or unwritten rules of
cohabitation, especially the rules pertaining to a fair division of tasks and responsibilities.
There’s always a risk of some residents not taking their responsibilities. “A disadvantage
[is] that everyone has to put in an equal amount of time. If not, people will start to accuse
each other of not wanting to cooperate.” (R25, woman, 36yo) For some respondents, this
would also complicate matters when they would have to share housing with people who
are financially less well off; they fear it would increase the likeliness that problems or
difficulties regarding financial contributions arise along the way. Assuming responsibil
ities is difficult, however, when the rules themselves are not clear:
You can never divide it entirely fairly. Question is: does it have to be? But you have so many
children, six and seven years old, and others have children of 20 years old, and you have to
divide the food, you know those teenagers can eat until you’re poor so to speak. Where do
you draw the line? Very difficult. (R16, man, 49yo)
I had the impression that things were presented very beautifully, but some questions were
left unanswered. For instance: what if one of my children would damage common property,
how would it be solved? (R25, woman, 36yo)
A fourth source of conflict, finally, are differences between personalities. Some personal
ities simply do not match, or are believed to be too difficult to make things work.
Although many respondents believed that clear agreements are able to prevent a good
deal of conflict, there is still the lingering uncertainty about people’s characters. “In every
cohousing project, there will always be a peacock, let’s be honest, someone that thinks he
knows better, which will lead to conflict. Even when you agree upon common rules, then
there will still be conflict.” (R16, man, 49yo) Other respondents equally fear the one anti-
social person that will spoil it (R17, man, 49yo), the people that meddle in someone else’s
business (R20, woman, 39yo) or the one “that always complains about ‘this is not good,
that is not good’” (R23, man, 51yo).
Keeping a safe distance to strangers is seen as a way to avoid serious issues: “You don’t
know what they are like, what their values and norms are. They can be annoying people,
bad people, or they might turn out to be good people.” (R35, woman, 50yo) In a worst case
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scenario, as a young ex-homeless man explains, they will “pull you back” (R47, man, 25yo)
and ruin your life. Therefore, most respondents would also prefer to share living arrange
ments with people who they already know sufficiently well, like family or friends. However,
some would opt for a different strategy and would avoid sharing with friends or family,
mainly because they fear the detrimental effects of conflicts on close relationships (R10,
man, 80yo; R20, woman, 39yo).
These findings are in line with previous studies that highlight some of the “bad
experiences” of ex-residents in shared housing contexts (e.g. Kenyon and Heath 2001;
Clark et al. 2018; Nasreen and Ruming 2020) as well as the fears voiced by “non-adopters”
when probed about their views on shared housing solutions (Bervoets and Heynen 2013;
Bervoets, Vanneste, and Ryckewaert 2014; Green and McCarthy 2015; GfK Belgium 2017).
From the point of view of the meaning of home, we can add, the prospect of conflict or
power imbalances paints a picture of an environment fraught with social friction and
permanent unease (see also Nasreen and Ruming 2020). It is perceived to cause disrup
tions in the relationship between self and home, potentially putting strain on personal
wellbeing.
I’ve bought a piece [of land] from my neighbours, to be able to rest easy. Because they
weren’t doing anything about it. It was full of poison ivy and thistles, and the seeds always
blew into my garden, and I constantly needed to spray [herbicides]. And because they really
didn’t do anything about it, I just bought it. (R1, man, 63yo)
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This comment makes clear that (home)ownership still provides an important cultural
backdrop against which new and alternative ideas of home are evaluated. Ownership in
terms of tenure may not represent the pinnacle of ontological security in any normative
sense, as argued by Saunders (1989), but it definitely circulates as an important cultural
and political standard (De Decker 2011; Meeus and De Decker 2015).
Note
1. Population statistics are based on National Registry data for 2018, housing stock statistics on
Land Registry data for the same year (Limburg in cijfers 2019).
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Acknowledgments
An earlier version of this article was presented at the 2019 Conference of the European Network for
Housing Research in Athens, Greece. We would like to thank the discussants and participants of the
“Collaborative Housing” session for their useful comments. We are also very grateful to all the
students and interviewees who have cooperated in the collection of the data. Finally, this article has
benefited greatly from the insightful feedback of the three anonymous reviewers.
Disclosure Statement
No potential conflict of interest was reported by the author(s).
Funding
This article resulted as part of a multidisciplinary research project entitled “Flexibel wonen voor
iedereen” (project number 1/DWO/2018/BE/P106), funded by PXL-Research.
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