Temptation
Temptation
What Christ like character quality can I develop by defeating the most common temptation I face?
Who could I ask to be a spiritual partner to help me defeat a persistent temptation by praying for me?
A stepping-stone rather than a stumbling block Temptation simply provides the choice Satan's primary weapon to destroy you, God wants to use it to develop you Every time you choose to do good instead of sin, you are growing in the character of Christ
To understand this, you must first identify the character qualities of Jesus Galatians 5:22-23
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Fruits of the Spirit-love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self control (description of Jesus)
Fruit always matures and ripens slowly Character development always involves a choice, and temptation provides that opportunity.
E.g.. Love x Unlove Joy x Sorrow Patience x Angry Faithful x Unfaithful Self-control (Integrity) x Yielding Humility (Gentleness) x Pride
Every time you defeat a temptation, you become more like Jesus!
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John 8:44
d) Disobedience- Final act- idea into behaviour- fall into trap James 1:14-16 We think temptation lies around us, but God says it begins within us
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OVERCOMING TEMPTATION
a) Refuse to be intimidated. -Misunderstanding of maturity- Satan does not tempt whom???-temptation is sign that satan hates you, not a sign of weakness or worldliness I Cor 10:13
"You cannot keep birds from flying over your head but you can keep them from building a nest in your hair." Martin Luther E.g. People don't know the difference between physical attraction or sexual arousal, and lust -not the same
Attraction and arousal are the natural, spontaneous, God-given responses to physical beauty, while lust is a deliberate act of the will. The closer you grow to God, the more Satan will try to tempt you. Contract by satan-Gods child (enemy)
OVERCOMING TEMPTATION
b) Recognize your pattern of temptation and be prepared for it. -Situations that make you more vulnerable to temptation than others -. Peter warns I Peter 5:8. Paul warns Ephesians 4:27
Ask yourself, "When am I most tempted? What day of the week? What time of day?" "Where am I most tempted? At work? At home? At a neighbor's house? At a sports bar? In an airport or motel out of town?" "Who is with me when I'm most tempted? Friends? Coworkers? A crowd of strangers? When I'm alone?" Also ask, "How do I usually feel when I am most tempted?" It may be when you are tired or lonely or bored or depressed or under stress. It may be when you've been hurt or angry or worried, or after a big success or spiritual high. You should identify your typical pattern of temptation and then prepare to avoid those situations as much as possible.
OVERCOMING TEMPTATION
c) Request God's help. -God wants you to ask him for assistance in overcoming temptation Psalms 50:15, Heb 4:15
If God is waiting to help us defeat temptation, why don't we turn to him more often?
We're embarrassed to ask God for help because we keep giving in to the same temptation over and over. Heb 4:16 God's love is everlasting, and his patience endures forever
'When people are tempted and still continue strong, they should be happy. After then have proved their faith, God will reward them with life forever James 1:12
DEFEATING TEMPTATION
Run from anything that gives you the evil thoughts ... but stay close to anything that makes you want to do right. 2 Timothy' 2:22 Remember that the temptations that come into your life are no different from what others experience. And God is faithful. He will keep the temptation from becoming so strong that you can't stand up against it. When you are tempted, he will show you a way out so that you will not give in to it. 1 Corinthians 10:13
You may sometimes feel that a temptation is too overpowering for you to bear, but that's a lie from Satan. God has promised never to allow more on you than lie puts within you to handle it. He will not permit any temptation that you could not overcome.
The battle for sin is won or lost in your mind. Whatever gets your attention will get you.
Temptation begins by capturing your attention. What gets your attention arouses your emotions. Then your emotions activate your behavior, and you act on what you felt.
To avoid being stung, stay away from the bees- Principle of replacement Heb 3:1, 2 Timothy 2:8, Phil 4:8, Prov 4:23, II Cor 10:5 By resisting it, you actually reinforce it Since temptation always begins with a thought, the quickest way to neutralize its allure is to turn your attention to something else
Hiding your hurt only intensifies it. Problems grow in the dark and become bigger and bigger, but when exposed to the light of truth, they shrink. You are only as sick as your secrets. So take off your mask, stop pretending you're perfect, and walk into freedom.
I Cor 10:13, Rom 3:23 The reason we hide our faults is pride. We want others to think we have everything "under control." The Bible says, "God sets himself against the proud, but he shows favor to the humble. So humble yourselves before God.-James 4:6-7
Don't ever try to argue with the Devil. He's better at arguing than you are, having had thousands of years to practice. You can't bluff Satan with logic or your opinion, but you can use the weapon that makes him tremblethe truth of God. E.g.-Look at Jesus
Thank You