Chapter 15 Personality
Chapter 15 Personality
PERSONALIT
Y
A. Meaning of Personality
B. Physical Condition
Good health is associated with a favorable personality. A sickly child
withdraws from the group and these makes the child maladjusted.
How markedly physical defects influence the child’s personality will defend
on how much he realizes that he is different.
C. Clothes
the style that is accepted by the group to which he belongs would help him
have a feeling of belongingness to the group.
D. The Child’s Name
F. Early Experiences
A child whose early experiences are favorable would have
a pleasant personality when he grows older. A child who was
happy in his childhood, would likely be happy in his
adulthood.
Family Influence
A. Family Life Pattern
Parents who feel insecure in the role of parenthood, because of
inexperienced (Kanner, 1951), who are emotionally unstable (Scott, 1945), who
are unfavorable attitudes toward their children (Wallin and Riley, 1950), or who
disagree about methods of child training (Koshuk, 1947), to produce far less
desirable home-life patterns than do more secure and more stable parents.
B. Home Setting
In general, rural children are more self-reliant, have a greater sense of
personal worth, of belonging, and greater freedom from nervous symptoms and
withdrawing the tendencies than do children from the cities.
C. Membership in Minority Groups
Membership in Minority Group has an unfavorable influence on the
personality of the child.
D. Influence of Parents
it has been pointed out that the child’s personality is the result of the impact
on him of all the conscious and unconscious expressions of the parents’
personalities as well as their conscious attitudes toward children and their bringing
up (Lerner and Murphy, 1941).
Children who perceives themselves as accepted have been found to show
greater ego aspirations, tenacity, and independence from parents than do children
who perceive themselves as rejected by their parents.
E. Sibling Influences
1. The relationships among siblings have the same influence and the
child’s personality development as thus his relationship with his parents.
2. The personality pattern in the small family is better in the large family.
3. In a large family, there are eight types of children
produced. These are:
a. responsible
b. popular
c. socially ambitious
d. studious
e. self-centered isolate
f. irresponsible
g. sickly
h. spoiled
School influences
The influence of the school in the personality development
of the child is very great because the school becomes a substitute
for the home and the teacher, a substitute for the mother .
B. Personality Maladjustments
1. Two types of Personality Maladjustments:
a. Behaviour which is satisfying to the child but socially unacceptable;
b. Behaviour which is socially acceptable but is a source of continuous,
excessive, and disturbing conflict to the child (Strang, 1938).
2. Causes of Personality Maladjustment:
a. Thwarting of impulses and desires which lead to a
feeling of inferiority, such as feeling of guilt because of sex
delinquencies or failures in school.
b. undue emotional stimulation, such as some terrible
emotional shock or continued over excitement during of
long period of time.
c. Bad home conditions caused by per-natal
disagreements, parental separation, or the child’s inability
to rise to the level of the families aspirations (Jordan,
1942).
C. Well-adjusted Personalities
2. Children who are well-adjusted come from homes that are happy
places, where discipline is used for more far-reaching purposes than
merely deterring wrong-doing, where responsibility is a part of a routine
of life, where there is religion, where the family enjoys recreation
together, and where the family relationships and attitudes toward the
children are wholesome (Stout and Langdon, 1951).
Happiness in Childhood