Overcoming Listening Barriers
Overcoming Listening Barriers
listening
• Listening skill is generally judged as passive and
simple task and less important than other skills of
communication- speaking, reading and writing, but
it is not just the ability to absorb information from
someone else.
• It is the most fundamental and useful element in
the process of communication, hence, it should be
improved.
• Listening plays a crucial role when it comes to Oral
Communication. While a speaker communicates the
intended message orally, the listener plays an equally crucial
role to make the communication a successful one. Speaking
and Listening go hand in hand.
• The success of a Communicator lies mainly in the patience
level of a receiver. While good listeners elicit the maximum
value out of the speakers, bad listeners tend to spoil the very
intention of oral communication.
Common barriers to listening
While effective listening is an important soft skill to learn and practice, there are several barriers to listening in the workplace,
including:
General distractions
• Distractions can include things like background noise or colleagues interrupting.
Environmental factors
• Environmental factors like room lighting and temperature can impede listening.
Cognitive limits
• Inadequate sleep, feeling hungry, disorganization and a lack of preparation for your work can make it more difficult to focus
effectively.
1. Minimize distractions.
2. Prioritize listening over speaking.
3. Reduce outside noise.
4. Practice reflecting instead of deflecting.
5. Ask questions.
6. Listen fully before giving advice.
1. Minimize distractions
• To avoid getting distracted, make sure you are physically facing the
speaker and attempt to make frequent eye contact with them while
they are speaking.
• Make sure you are seated or standing comfortably but appropriately
so you can remain engaged.
• Put away your cell phone or any other pieces of technology that could
become a distraction.
• The speaker may also appreciate the gesture you’ve made to show
them that they have your undivided attention.
2. Prioritize listening over speaking
• However, a better approach typically involves merely listening and providing responses that focus on
the other person’s situation. This shows that you’re genuinely invested in their side of the conversation.
• To listen effectively, keep deflecting to a minimum and try reflecting instead. Reflecting
involves paraphrasing back to the speaker what they have said.
• To do so, you could use language like, “What I am hearing from you is...” or “It sounds frustrating that
that happened to you.” Reflecting could also involve asking a follow-up question based on what you
have heard, such as “What did you do after he said that?” or “How did that make you feel?”
• Reflecting assures your listener that you are paying close attention, but it can also help to
correct any possible misunderstandings.
• Reflecting allows the other person to correct what you may have misheard.
5. Ask questions
• If you want to share advice, think first about whether your colleague is truly
soliciting advice or just looking for a way to vent.
• Instead of advising, consider offering empathy with responses such as, “That sounds
frustrating,” or try reflecting instead.
7. Practicing active listening
Active listening is the practice of preparing to listen, observing what verbal and
non-verbal messages are being sent, and then providing appropriate feedback for
the sake of showing attentiveness to the message being presented.
• Active listening refers to a pattern of listening that keeps you engaged with your
conversation partner in a positive way. It is the process of listening attentively while
someone else speaks, paraphrasing and reflecting back what is said, and withholding
judgment and advice.
• When you practice active listening, you make the other person feel heard and valued. In
this way, active listening is the foundation for any successful conversation.
7. Practicing active listening
Methods for active listening !