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Pagpaptuloy ng Edukasyon (Continuing Education) – Propesor sa Barangay, Adopt-a-School Program (MGA PARAAN NG PAPEPRESERBA NG PAGKAIN AT PAGGAWA NG YEMA)

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Lesson 3

Pagpaptuloy ng Edukasyon (Continuing Education) – Propesor sa Barangay, Adopt-a-School Program (MGA PARAAN NG PAPEPRESERBA NG PAGKAIN AT PAGGAWA NG YEMA)

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Lesson 3

Developing the Whole Person


PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT
NIMIKO JANINE KUSANAGI-BRAGA
Developing the Whole Person
Developing oneself holistically may be
the goal of everyone. However, there are
times that we lack awareness of our
doings and actions that leads to
misunderstanding with others especially
our parents. This can also potentially
lead to self-harm.
To know oneself is also quite
challenging. To start picking the
pieces of ourselves and
subsequently develop our
individuality completely to be like
an “ideal” person is not easy.
Since you have already obtained a clear
understanding of yourself as you have done all the
activities in the previous lesson, understanding
the competencies included in this module will be
easy for you. Thus, you will eventually use all the
skills developing the whole person within yourself.
So, get ready to unfold the reality by removing the
barriers toward understanding your true self.
Who would be responsible in developing
one’s personality?
Every individual undergoes different phases of
development that form his/her individuality. Our
personality is a product of genetic response that
we inherit from our parents and from the
influence of our environment. This environment
shaped by the people around us, culture and
practices that we are being raised in
continuously creates social interactions and
relationships.
This interaction contributes to who we
are today and how we choose and
decide for ourselves. Personality
development is complex administration
of thoughts, feelings, emotion and
behavior that influence personal
judgement.
As a child, you are dream of a good and satisfying life
when you grow up. Your family becomes your helping
hand in nurturing, guiding and educating yourself.
When you reach adolescence, you experience drastic
changes in your physical appearance, cognitive abilities,
social relationship, and emotional behavior. At this
stage, our environment becomes part of our development
from which we acquire knowledge and collect
information to organize and interpret different life
situations.
According to Erik Erikson, adolescence stage
of Psychosocial development, also known as
“identity vs. role confusion” is the stage
wherein teens need to develop the sense of
self and personal identity. At this point,
teenagers start to have circle of friends in
which they build their trust.
Teenagers also experience
adolescence cognitive empathy, known
as “theory of mind” which is described
as having high regards toward the
perspective of others and feeling
concern for others. Being adolescents,
they tend to foster social cooperation
that prevents problems and leads to
avoidance of conflicts with peers.
Teenagers are very careful in understanding
the emotions of their friends as they start to
create deep trust with them. Sometimes,
this leads to misunderstanding with their
family, abuse of prohibited drugs, pre-
marital sex, cigarette smoking and
alcohol intake. Based on research,
teenagers are commonly high risk-takers
and impulsive due to incomplete
development of frontal lobe during
adolescence.
The frontal lobe is responsible for
judgement, impulse control, and
planning. That is why they search for
their self-identify and independence
which requires guidance from their
parents, relatives and other people
like teachers with whom they can
share their struggles.
These experiences and challenges are part
of a process of personality development that
adolescents need to understand. It is
necessary for them to examine all the
circumstances and opportunities so that
they can deal with them calmly. They have
be to open-minded to the opinion and advise
of other people in order to shape their future
with broader perspective and self-
determination.
You cannot escape life challenges so you should
know how your thoughts, feelings and actions
in managing personal agency should be handled.
Being an adolescent, you should be accountable
for all your actions because these power triads
can either make or break your motivation to take
charge of life. It is up to you on how you will
handle it. Remember, your judgement is based on
your views in life and it is rooted on your
upbringing.
Thoughts are impression activated
by a stimulus in your mind that is
evident from the environment that
you are in. This conscious thought
occupies emotions that give life to
thoughts and it expressed through
feelings.
Sometimes when you are too
emotional, you could not think properly
because your emotions occupy your
thoughts, this means there is lesser
space to analyze the situation because
feelings occupy it. Behaviors are bodily
reaction made based on our feelings
that result to actions.
There are instances when feelings are
faster than emotion and thought. This
would result to fast reaction and
realizing the emotion and thought
afterwards. Either positive or negative,
feelings result to actions. Emotions
can direct and control thoughts that
sometimes affect your consciousness.
This can also lead to loss of focus. As
a teenager, it is very important to be
focused on your goals. A focused
thought will lead to high intelligence.
That is why if you are disturbed with
your emotion, try to figure out where
the emotion is coming from and it will
bring you back to reality.
Teenagers experience enjoyment and
daunting times but it is very important to
stay focused so that they will lead you to the
route of your goal. It is not easy to achieve
the goal but if you have self-regulation that
will control your emotions, thoughts and
behavior it will help you be to successful in
life. Learning from mistakes and facing
challenges with confidence and faith in God
will give you the power to be successful in
life.

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