Conversation Skills
Conversation Skills
Skills
TIPS TO IMPROVE YOUR
CONVERSATION
Introduction
Conversation skills refer to a collective
group of skills needed to communicate
effectively with another person. They
allow you to understand and be
understood by others. More than that,
though, conversation skills allow you to
connect with people and build strong
relationships. People who are strong
conversationalists appeared smooth and
charismatic when they talk and others
are often drawn to this behaviour.
Listening shows that we are interested in the other person and what they
have to say. Listening is as vital as speaking since a conversation should
consist of sharing information. Practice active listening by paying
attention, asking clarifying questions and repeating the message back to
the speaker.
2. Look for nonverbal signals
Put yourself in the other person’s shoes. Try to see their point of view.
Statements such as “I understand where you’re coming from” can help
build trust. Respect the other person, even when you disagree. Be polite
and professional. People may forget what you say, but they will not
forget how you made them feel. Be empathetic. Show them by your
words and actions that they matter.
5. Pay attention to details
People with strong conversation skills take notice of details that the
average person might not notice and bring attention to those details
during the conversation. For example, you may notice that the person
you’re speaking with has a slight accent or is wearing an interesting
ring. These are small details you could bring into your conversation to
show the other party that they have your undivided attention. Offer
compliments related to these small details.
6. Offer interesting insights
People with good conversation skills can frequently tell you things you
didn’t know and find interesting. Listen to podcasts. Read books and
industry magazines. Learn what you can about your industry so that
when you are in a situation where you’re discussing your organization,
you will offer in-depth knowledge on the industry and any new trends.
7. Talk slowly
People who are good conversationalists often act as though they have an
abundance of time and as though there is no place else they would
rather be. They take their time when they speak and often reflect on
what they will say before they speak. This makes them appear centered
and collected. Model this method of speaking to come off the same way.