Communication Skills
Communication Skills
COMMUNICATION
What is Communication?
Written communication
Any written messages that 2 or more people exchange.
Written signs or symbols are used.
Message can be transmitted via email, letter, report, memo etc.
Mostly used in business.
Non-verbal communication
Message
Elements of communication
Sender- who generate message and sends to the receiver. (Source of the message)
Message- It is the information that the sender wants to sends, in the form of data,
or statement, words, symbols, gestures etc.
Encoding- the process of converting ideas or thoughts into the message
Channel- the medium through which the message is transmitted.
Decoding- process of interpreting and understanding the message.
Receiver- who is the last chain of the process and receives the message.
Feedback- Once sending the message, receiver decodes the message and the
sender waits for a response. The examination or evaluation of the receiver’s
response is called feedback.
Noise- offers to any obstruction during the communication process or transmitting
information.
Feedback helps in
Collection of information
Measure the effectiveness of communication
Improves labor-management relationships
Measures effectiveness of media
Helps in taking proper decision and in solving problem
Helps in proper coordination
COMMUNICATION PROCESS
Types of barriers
• Physiological
• Physical
• Language
• Gender
• Cultural
• Interpersonal
• Psychological
• Emotional
Barriers of effective communication
Physiological barrier
- Related with the limitations of the human body and the human mind
(memory, attention).
-This may results from personnel discomfort, caused by ill-health, poor
eye sight or hearing difficulties.
-Examples: Anger, anxiety, frustrations
-How to overcome?
Calling for motivation
Paying attention
Giving assistance and sympathy
Increase Understanding
Stay educated and be literate
Barriers of effective communication
Emotional barrier
Your emotional state can affect your ability to you understand others
and how well you can understand yourself.
-includes emotions like fear, worry, anxiety, anger, excitement etc. which
effects speaker ability to deliver clear message.
Examples: fear, insecurity, mistrust and stress, anxiety
How to overcome?
Motivation
Commitment to change
Mentor support
Overcome fear and be confident
Barriers of effective communication
Interpersonal barrier
Inappropriate transactions of words between two or more people
Cause?
-Limited vocabulary and Poor listening skills
-Cultural variations, unwillingness
-Lack of desire of participation
-Noise in the channel
How to overcome?
Use feedback
Simplify language
Listen actively
Constrains or limit your emotions
Barriers of effective communication
Gender barrier
Relationships, respect, workplace authority and education are common ways
men and women pitted against each other.
Men and women have different way of thinking and communication which
may leads to barriers.
Causes: Fear and shy, Environment, Misunderstanding, Attitude and ego
How to overcome?
Keep patience
Focus on understanding
Focus on problem solving rather than creating new
Work hand in hand
Perspectives in communication
Perspectives in communication
PAST EXPERIENCE
PREJUDICE
FEELINGS
ENVIRONMENT
Other factors affecting our Perspectives in
communication
Past experiences: Our past experience greatly affects our way of
thinking.
It acts as a filter through which we see a particular situation.
Examples: your boss ignored your idea in the last meeting and thus
you do not bring up another idea that could have made an impact.
Our past experience can be positive or negative and affects our
perception.
Past experience greatly affects the decision making.
Other factors affecting our Perspectives in
communication
Prejudices : It is usually unfavorable feelings toward people or a
person because of their gender, values, age, religion, occupation,
language or any personal characteristics.
Generally occurs at the workplace.
Examples: when we take one experience with one type of individual
and assume all of them will have the same experience.
1. Physical communication
Non-verbal communication 2. Face to face communication
Verbal communication
Verbal communication is the use of languages and sounds to
transfer information through speaking or sign language.
It is one of the most common types, often used during
presentations, video conferences and phone calls, meetings and
one-on-one conversations.
Verbal communication depends upon non-verbal communication,
listening skills and clarification.
Clarity of speech, how to remain calm and focused being polite
will make the verbal communication effective.
Types of Verbal communication
1. Interpersonal communication- refers to a, two way exchange i.e. it
involves between two or more people
2. Public speaking
It involves one or more people delivering a message to a group.
Signs or symbols are the major elements of verbal communication
It can be used to inform, inquire, argue and discuss about any topic.
It is required for teaching and learning and for forming bonds and
for building relationships with other people.
Problems to be faced while verbal communication
Problems Solutions
better communication.
Face to Face communication
Advantages Disadvantages
Difficult to follow in big
Helps to communicate better
organizations
Best for general discussion
Ineffective in large gathering
Suitable for secure discussions Ineffective if the listener is non-
attentive
2. Physical communication
Physical communication is also termed as non verbal communication.
It is a type of communication where symbols, sign and gestures are used.
It compliments verbal communication and gives good result when
combined with it.
We can improve our physical communication by:-
1. Assertive
2. Aggressive
3. Passive – aggressive
4. Submissive
5. manipulative
•Assertive style- It’s the most effective way of communication and full of self
confidence. Expressing your opinion clearly and firmly so that people listen to you
or do what you want. It includes behavioral characteristics, non-verbal behaviors,
languages which are full of confidence and positivity.
•Aggressive style- is ineffective communication style as the content of the message
may get lost as people are too busy reacting to the way it was delivered. This style is
full of negative thoughts and useless.
•Passive- aggressive style-In this communicators appear passive or calm on the
surface but are acting out their feelings and anger behind. Communicators in this are
powerless and express their feelings by undetermining the real situations.
•Submissive style- This is about pleasing people and avoiding conflict. In this
communicators gives priorities to other people’s needs and thinks that other people
have more rights and more to contribute. These people are more frustrated, guilty
and even do not know what they want.
•Manipulative style- This is full of manipulations and calculations. These
communicators are skilled at controlling others to their own advantage. Their spoken
words hide an underlying message which the other person is totally not aware of.
Different style matrix
There are different models that describe the ways in which we
communicate.
Different models are also known as matrix of communication style.
Using this matrix we can identify the another persons communication
style.
The most used model in this is based on the work of Dr. Eileen Russo.
The matrix proposed by him shows that there are two dimensions in the
communication style.
One is level of expressiveness and the level of assertiveness.
High assertive communication style tend to tell others what to do and low
assertive style tend to ask others what should be done
Direct Spirited
style style
Tell
Ask
Systematic Consider
style ate style
1. Direct style: Low expressiveness + High assertiveness
• Brainstorming
• Meetings / Presentations
• Interview
• Explanation of complicated topics
• Conversation with diverse people
Listening During Brainstorming
• Divide into smaller groups
• Choose a representative
• Take the small group in a quiet room
• Avoid speaking together
• Check your understanding by asking
Don’t:
•Be afraid to blow your own trumpet a bit- after all, nobody else is going to blow it for you;
however do not lie or exaggerate.
• If you want the job, be enthusiastic and positive.
•Be over-familiar or share too much information. For example, the interviewers don‘t want to
know how you‘re going to manage your childcare
Giving Presentations, key points to be remembered
• To deal with your fear,
1.Calming your inner critic: Calming your inner critic Sometimes, in our desire to excel
and give of our best, we end up becoming our own worst critic. Instead of taking strength
from the many positive experiences of our lives, we remember and exaggerate the effect of
our mistakes. We brood over them, worry, and avoid future situations in which we may
make the same errors.
2.Making realistic improvements: At best, our fears challenge us. At worst, they
immobilize us. This is especially true for those who have a phobia of public speaking. So,
take tiny steps and keep your expectations realistic. Understand that you may continue to
feel nervous, but not overly scared. More important, you will slowly start to look calm and
confident, even if you don‘t feel that way yet. As you prepare and plan, you will feel more
in control of various elements of your presentation. At the beginning, you are unlikely to
feel confident or to enjoy the experience.
3.Changing your focus: As you progress in your career, and give more presentations, you
will find that your focus begins to change from yourself to your audience. This changed
attitude is an indication that you are no longer limited by the fear. A variety of strategies
can help you to calm yourself and reach this stage.
4.Conquering nervousness: Most people feel nervous when they give a presentation. The
key is to control the negative manifestations of your nervousness and to channel the extra
energy flow. Remember, many people feel nervous but not everyone shows their
nervousness. And that‘s what matters. Implementing useful strategies Once you identify the
ways you express your nervousness.
following techniques to steady your wobbly knees and calm your racing heartbeat:
•Mental Strategies
•Psychological Controls
•Physical Techniques