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“Love is the answer, and you know that for sure;
Love is a flower, you've got to let it grow.”
– John Lennon
MINDSET MATTERS
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UNIT STIMULUS
Who Is Your Ideal Person?
We all desire to have the best person as
our partner. This activity aims for us to
emphasize this standard for us.
4. Instruction
When the music stops, please stand and answer
the questions that will be given by the teacher.
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5. Curious Questions
1. Give me three characteristics of your ideal
partner. Explain why you want your partner to
be like that.
2. What could be some of a partner's worst
characteristics?
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9. Post It
Instructions:
1. On the sticky notes I will pass around, write the ways you
want to show love to your present or future partners.
2. After writing, post the sticky notes with your answers on the
board.
3. After everyone has posted their sticky notes, we will discuss
the questions on the next slide. You are welcome to add to
the list of questions for discussion.
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Focus Questions
● Was it difficult to write down how you
want to express love? Why or why
not?
● Are there any similarities between
your answers and your classmates’
answers? If there are, why do you
think so?
● Can you confidently say you are
engaging in love responsibly? If yes,
in what ways?
● Why do we need to express what we
feel?
12. Dear You
Instructions:
Using a pen and paper, write a letter to yourself containing the
things you want to remember when you get into a relationship.
You may read your letters whenever you need to tap into
yourselves.
It is up to you to decide if you want to show your letters to others
or not.
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Focus Questions
● Why is preparing for romantic
relationships important?
● How can we best prepare ourselves
for romantic relationships?
● Do you think romantic relationships
matter during this stage in your life?
● What would you like to tell yourself if
you have not had any romantic
relationships yet at this stage of your
life?
#11:Teacher’s script: “This activity aims to prepare you to enter relationships. One way you can do this is by talking to yourselves and promising yourselves the things you want to remember when you are already in a relationship.”
