Principles of Counseling
Mr. Errol T. Lariza
Quick Review
What is Counseling?
Counseling is:
“The application of mental health, psychological or
human development principles, through cognitive,
affective, behavioral or systemic interventions,
strategies that address wellness, personal growth, or
career development, as well as pathology.”
Factors that Influence
Change
The counseling process
is influenced by several
characteristics that help
it become a productive
time for the client &
counselor.
Structure
Setting
Client Qualities
Counselor Qualities
Factors that Influence
Change
Physical Setting.
Counseling can happen
anywhere, but the
professional generally
works in a place that
provides -
Privacy,
Confidentiality,
Quiet and
Certain comfort
Some Basic Principles
 Each client must be accepted as an individual and dealt
with as such (the counselor does not necessarily
approve of all behavior, but still accepts the client as a
person).
 Counseling is basically a permissive relationship; that
is, the individual has permission to say what they please
without being reprimanded or judged.
 Counseling emphasizes thinking with; not for the
individual.
 All decision-making rests with the client.
Some Basic Principles
 Counseling is centered on the difficulties of the client.
 Counseling is a learning situation which eventually
results in a behavioral change.
 Effectiveness in counseling depends largely on the
readiness of the client to make changes and the
therapeutic relationship with the counselor.
 The counseling relationship is confidential.
The Initial Session
There is always an initial session. It is
during this time both the client and the
counselor are assessing one another to see
if the relationship will work. It is here
the subject of the subsequent sessions will
be discussed and determined.
There are several skills which are useful
during this phase of counseling.
Gathering Information
Types of Questions:
Open—allows the client to answer the
question in a free-flowing or narrative style.
Used when you want more detailed and
elaborate answers.
Tell me how this is working for you?
Closed—this type of question requires only a
one or two word response. Usually…Yes or
No.
Do you enjoy that type of work?
Some Non-Helpful Behaviors
There are several
lists of non-helpful
behaviors. Most
common among them
include:
 Advice Giving
 Lecturing
 Excessive Questioning
 Storytelling
 Asking “Why?”
A Word About Goals
Goals within counseling help to set the
tone and direction one travel’s with their
client.
Without goals, the sessions will wander
aimlessly.
Goal Guidelines
Goals are mutually agreed on by the client
and counselor.
Goals are specific.
Goals are relevant to behavior.
Goals are achievement & success oriented.
Goals are quantifiable & measurable.
Goals are behavioral & observable.
Goals are understandable & can be re-
stated clearly.
Important Skills/Tools for the
Counselor
There are several
important skills
which we will cover
briefly. Each is
considered a “micro-
skill” which you will
need to develop
during the clinical
sequence of the
counselor training
program.
Empathy
Leading
Responding
Self Disclosure
Immediacy
Humor
Confrontation
Empathy
You want to build
the relationship with
the client through all
the previously
mentioned skills. Yet
all these skills will be
hindered without the
use of empathy.
Empathy
According to Rogers (1961)…
This is the ability to enter the client’s
phenomenological world, to experience the
client’s world as if it were your own without
ever losing the ‘as if’ quality.
It involves two specific skills:
Perception/understanding of what is taking
place emotionally.
The ability to communicate your understanding
of that to your client.
Empathy
According to Martin (1983)…
Empathy is communicated understanding of the
other person’s intended emotional message. Every
word counts in this definition. It is not enough to
understand what the person said; you must also
hear what they meant to say; the intended message.
It is not enough to understand, even deeply; you
must communicate your understanding somehow.
It is absolutely essential the other person “feel”
understood—that your understanding is perceived.
Levels of Empathy
The counselor’s responses add significantly
to the feeling & meaning of the expressions
of the client in a way that accurately
expresses feeling levels below what the
client is able to express.
Moving the Client—Leading
There are several ways to “lead” the client
forward in a session. They include using
silence, acceptance, paraphrasing, etc…
Be aware of how you lead and where you
are going. You are working on the client’s
issues, not your issues, or what you think
the client should be working on.
Responding Styles
Affective Responding.
Focusing on feelings.
Behavioral Responses.
Focusing on actions and behaviors.
Cognitive Response.
Focusing on thoughts and cognitions.
You will balance these throughout the session with a client.
Self-Disclosure
Self-disclosure is making oneself known
to another person (the client) by revealing
personal information.
Counselors self-disclosure is only
necessary as it relates to the therapeutic
process. Too much self-disclosure
hinders the counseling process, while not
enough, may inhibit the client from
forming a bond with the counselor.
Humor
 Humor can have a
positive effect on the
counseling process when
used properly.
 It must be used with
sensitivity and timing. It
does not demean and is
supportive.
 A session is not a time to
try out a new joke heard
at lunch.
Transference & Counter-
transference
A concept as old as
Freud, transference and
countertranference are
issues that affect all
forms of counseling,
guidance, &
psychotherapy.
Transference & Counter-
transference
Transference.
This is the client’s projection of past or
present feelings, attitudes, or desires onto the
counselor. It can be direct or indirect and
will cause the client to react to you as they
would in the past or present relationship.
Transference & Counter-
transference
Counter-transference.
This is the counselor’s projected emotional
reaction to or behavior towards the client. It
can take on many forms, from a desire to
please the client, to wanting to develop a
social or sexual relationship with the client.
When this happens, supervision or
counseling for the counselor is called for.
Termination of a Session
There is no great secret to
ending sessions. There
are some guidelines:
Start and end on time.
Leave 5 minutes or so for a summary of the
session.
Introduce the end of the session normally (“Our
time is coming to a close.”).
Assign homework.
Set up next appointment.
Termination of the
Relationship
Termination is the end of the professional
relationship with the client when the session
goals have been met.
A formal termination serves three functions:
Counseling is finished and it is time for the client to
face their life challenges.
Changes which have taken place have generalized
into the normal behavior of the client.
The client has matured and thinks and acts more
effectively and independently.
Timing of Termination
There is no one answer when termination is to
take place. Questions you may wish to ask
yourself concerning termination include:
Have clients achieved behavioral, cognitive, or
affective goals?
? Can clients concretely show where they have made
progress in what they wanted to accomplish?
? Is the counseling relationship helpful?
? Has the context of the initial counseling
arrangements changed?
Resistance to Termination
Clients & Counselors may not want
counseling to end. In many cases this
may be the result of feelings about the
loss and grief or insecurities of losing the
relationship. For clients, this is
something to process. For counselors,
this is an issue for supervision.
Premature Termination
Client.
Many clients may end counseling before all
goals are completed. This can be seen by not
making appointments, resisting new
appointments, etc… It is a good idea to try
and schedule a termination/review session
with the client so closure may take place. At
this time a referral may be in order.
Premature Termination
Counselors.
At times, counselors have to end counseling
prematurely. Whatever the reason for the
termination, a summary session is in order
and referrals are made, if appropriate, to
another counselor.
Referrals
At times, a counselor needs to make a
referral. When this is done, specific
issues need to be addressed with the
client:
Reason for the referral.
Note specific behaviors or actions which
brought the need for a referral.
Have the names of several other counselors
ready for referral.
You cannot follow up with the new
counselor to see if the client followed
through (Confidentiality issue).
Follow-Up
At times, a follow-up may be scheduled
for various reasons including evaluation,
research, or checking-in with client.
Follow-ups need to be scheduled so as to
not take the responsibility of change
away from the client.
THE END

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LESSON 2.3 PRINCIPLES OF COUNSELING.ppt

  • 2. Quick Review What is Counseling? Counseling is: “The application of mental health, psychological or human development principles, through cognitive, affective, behavioral or systemic interventions, strategies that address wellness, personal growth, or career development, as well as pathology.”
  • 3. Factors that Influence Change The counseling process is influenced by several characteristics that help it become a productive time for the client & counselor. Structure Setting Client Qualities Counselor Qualities
  • 4. Factors that Influence Change Physical Setting. Counseling can happen anywhere, but the professional generally works in a place that provides - Privacy, Confidentiality, Quiet and Certain comfort
  • 5. Some Basic Principles  Each client must be accepted as an individual and dealt with as such (the counselor does not necessarily approve of all behavior, but still accepts the client as a person).  Counseling is basically a permissive relationship; that is, the individual has permission to say what they please without being reprimanded or judged.  Counseling emphasizes thinking with; not for the individual.  All decision-making rests with the client.
  • 6. Some Basic Principles  Counseling is centered on the difficulties of the client.  Counseling is a learning situation which eventually results in a behavioral change.  Effectiveness in counseling depends largely on the readiness of the client to make changes and the therapeutic relationship with the counselor.  The counseling relationship is confidential.
  • 7. The Initial Session There is always an initial session. It is during this time both the client and the counselor are assessing one another to see if the relationship will work. It is here the subject of the subsequent sessions will be discussed and determined. There are several skills which are useful during this phase of counseling.
  • 8. Gathering Information Types of Questions: Open—allows the client to answer the question in a free-flowing or narrative style. Used when you want more detailed and elaborate answers. Tell me how this is working for you? Closed—this type of question requires only a one or two word response. Usually…Yes or No. Do you enjoy that type of work?
  • 9. Some Non-Helpful Behaviors There are several lists of non-helpful behaviors. Most common among them include:  Advice Giving  Lecturing  Excessive Questioning  Storytelling  Asking “Why?”
  • 10. A Word About Goals Goals within counseling help to set the tone and direction one travel’s with their client. Without goals, the sessions will wander aimlessly.
  • 11. Goal Guidelines Goals are mutually agreed on by the client and counselor. Goals are specific. Goals are relevant to behavior. Goals are achievement & success oriented. Goals are quantifiable & measurable. Goals are behavioral & observable. Goals are understandable & can be re- stated clearly.
  • 12. Important Skills/Tools for the Counselor There are several important skills which we will cover briefly. Each is considered a “micro- skill” which you will need to develop during the clinical sequence of the counselor training program. Empathy Leading Responding Self Disclosure Immediacy Humor Confrontation
  • 13. Empathy You want to build the relationship with the client through all the previously mentioned skills. Yet all these skills will be hindered without the use of empathy.
  • 14. Empathy According to Rogers (1961)… This is the ability to enter the client’s phenomenological world, to experience the client’s world as if it were your own without ever losing the ‘as if’ quality. It involves two specific skills: Perception/understanding of what is taking place emotionally. The ability to communicate your understanding of that to your client.
  • 15. Empathy According to Martin (1983)… Empathy is communicated understanding of the other person’s intended emotional message. Every word counts in this definition. It is not enough to understand what the person said; you must also hear what they meant to say; the intended message. It is not enough to understand, even deeply; you must communicate your understanding somehow. It is absolutely essential the other person “feel” understood—that your understanding is perceived.
  • 16. Levels of Empathy The counselor’s responses add significantly to the feeling & meaning of the expressions of the client in a way that accurately expresses feeling levels below what the client is able to express.
  • 17. Moving the Client—Leading There are several ways to “lead” the client forward in a session. They include using silence, acceptance, paraphrasing, etc… Be aware of how you lead and where you are going. You are working on the client’s issues, not your issues, or what you think the client should be working on.
  • 18. Responding Styles Affective Responding. Focusing on feelings. Behavioral Responses. Focusing on actions and behaviors. Cognitive Response. Focusing on thoughts and cognitions. You will balance these throughout the session with a client.
  • 19. Self-Disclosure Self-disclosure is making oneself known to another person (the client) by revealing personal information. Counselors self-disclosure is only necessary as it relates to the therapeutic process. Too much self-disclosure hinders the counseling process, while not enough, may inhibit the client from forming a bond with the counselor.
  • 20. Humor  Humor can have a positive effect on the counseling process when used properly.  It must be used with sensitivity and timing. It does not demean and is supportive.  A session is not a time to try out a new joke heard at lunch.
  • 21. Transference & Counter- transference A concept as old as Freud, transference and countertranference are issues that affect all forms of counseling, guidance, & psychotherapy.
  • 22. Transference & Counter- transference Transference. This is the client’s projection of past or present feelings, attitudes, or desires onto the counselor. It can be direct or indirect and will cause the client to react to you as they would in the past or present relationship.
  • 23. Transference & Counter- transference Counter-transference. This is the counselor’s projected emotional reaction to or behavior towards the client. It can take on many forms, from a desire to please the client, to wanting to develop a social or sexual relationship with the client. When this happens, supervision or counseling for the counselor is called for.
  • 24. Termination of a Session There is no great secret to ending sessions. There are some guidelines: Start and end on time. Leave 5 minutes or so for a summary of the session. Introduce the end of the session normally (“Our time is coming to a close.”). Assign homework. Set up next appointment.
  • 25. Termination of the Relationship Termination is the end of the professional relationship with the client when the session goals have been met. A formal termination serves three functions: Counseling is finished and it is time for the client to face their life challenges. Changes which have taken place have generalized into the normal behavior of the client. The client has matured and thinks and acts more effectively and independently.
  • 26. Timing of Termination There is no one answer when termination is to take place. Questions you may wish to ask yourself concerning termination include: Have clients achieved behavioral, cognitive, or affective goals? ? Can clients concretely show where they have made progress in what they wanted to accomplish? ? Is the counseling relationship helpful? ? Has the context of the initial counseling arrangements changed?
  • 27. Resistance to Termination Clients & Counselors may not want counseling to end. In many cases this may be the result of feelings about the loss and grief or insecurities of losing the relationship. For clients, this is something to process. For counselors, this is an issue for supervision.
  • 28. Premature Termination Client. Many clients may end counseling before all goals are completed. This can be seen by not making appointments, resisting new appointments, etc… It is a good idea to try and schedule a termination/review session with the client so closure may take place. At this time a referral may be in order.
  • 29. Premature Termination Counselors. At times, counselors have to end counseling prematurely. Whatever the reason for the termination, a summary session is in order and referrals are made, if appropriate, to another counselor.
  • 30. Referrals At times, a counselor needs to make a referral. When this is done, specific issues need to be addressed with the client: Reason for the referral. Note specific behaviors or actions which brought the need for a referral. Have the names of several other counselors ready for referral. You cannot follow up with the new counselor to see if the client followed through (Confidentiality issue).
  • 31. Follow-Up At times, a follow-up may be scheduled for various reasons including evaluation, research, or checking-in with client. Follow-ups need to be scheduled so as to not take the responsibility of change away from the client.